Full English Class Advanced English Conversation Tips And Techniques

here we go everyone getting ready for

our class

tonight now our focus this evening this

afternoon

is day 79 starting off from week 12.

and the topic was small talk

versus deep conversation now i want to

say something real quick but

john kempel hello good to see you good

to see you

all right so again we’re talking about

conversations tonight

mastering english conversations and

again remember you all can go over

these lessons review them they all come

from the 365 day lesson plan

but small talk versus deep conversation

you know this is something that when i

was in

korea i tried to teach my students

because

once you master the art of english

conversation

you’ll watch your confidence take off

so let’s see the difference between

small talk

and deep conversation so small

talk is basically meant to be light

and fun it is a way for two

or more people to talk to each other

without really getting to know the other

so now i’m gonna give you guys some

example topics but again i want you to

interact so

tell me what are some topics that you

think

are common for small talk what are some

common

small talk conversation topics remember

small

talk is very light and fun nothing too

serious so what do you think are some

common

small talk questions or small talk

topics i’m very curious to see if you

guys have any ideas

here we go luis hello hello i’m doing

great thank you it’s good to see you

good to see you

here we go blanca hello good to see you

all right so the question i asked

everyone on the screen

you see that we’re first looking at the

difference between

small talk and deep conversation

and i want you all to let me know in the

chat box or in the comment section

what are some questions or some topics

that you think are perfect for small

talk

not for a deep conversation but for

small talk all right

here we go nana good to see you hello

all right ben bendo says the weather

great one yes

usually for small talk even benvendo

when i’m on the street

walking somewhere and let’s say it’s a

beautiful day

i can say to someone that i don’t even

know who

isn’t the weather amazing today and

they’ll respond

small talk very good answer ben vindo

marthaleen hello

good to see you kiss says netflix tv

shows

good answer yes small talk hey have you

seen the new netflix show

i actually watched a netflix program it

was pretty good it’s called the baker

and the beauty

it was good for those that want a new

show to watch the baker and the beauty

so yes

small talk good one kiss zakara says

zakaria says

when you talk about the weather yes

marcellus says

weather fashion sports good marto says

small talk about the weather good i

think some of you guys

studied before a class excellent

patricia says weather or sports javier

yes weather miriam says tip how was your

day oh

for an example excellent now small talk

yes hey how was your day

yes and the person can say oh it was

pretty good thanks so like just small

talk all right gigi says sports can be

small talk yes

here we go marcella sports yes

and let me see oh social events excuse

me zahn

hello good to see you marceline says

small talk greeting someone and

appreciating his or her

outfit yes or the way they dress javier

it’s a sunny day yes all right gigi

the cinema or movies true louis

introducing yourself

hey where are you from oh really i’m

from and you go back and forth

good marcella the movies good

jasmine hobbies and sports hey i like

art what about you

small talk good peterson hello good to

see you man good to see you

and andres small talk about your day all

right so

you guys have a good idea of what small

talk

usually includes now what about deep

conversations all right so again we’re

getting the foundation for our lesson

today

someone came in let’s see oh zakaria

when you first meet with your co-worker

okay yes you can say hey

how are you and ask them about their day

deborah hello deborah good to see you

and yes deborah the weather is a good

topic

for small talk very good now deep

conversations

let’s look at the definition of a deep

conversation

deep conversation is meant to be

deep and thought provoking

it is a way for two or more people

to talk to each other and truly

understand how the other thinks

now this is when it gets very

interesting

with small talk we say it’s a very

surface level

conversation but with deep conversation

you are really interested in the

other person’s opinions ideas

or their philosophy so tell me

what are some topics that can lead to

really deep conversations for example

politics right if i ask someone

hey what do you think about the new

president immediately

they’re going to give me their ideas

their opinions

about the new president so what are some

topics that you think are good for deep

conversation topics that will lead you

to

understand the other person’s thoughts

and ideas

pop them in the comments section guys

here we go ruth says oh

for small talk appreciating somebody

okay

my c says the news again these are still

responses to small

talk jasmine also in speaking about

small talk

family friends common interests food

culture or travel all right uh someone

says program

oh okay yes iconic hey gracia um

media gossip confession now confession

would be

for deep conversation right kiss

yes religion yes religion is a topic

that leads to a deep

conversation great example javier yes

your inner feelings

for example hey how are you feeling

today

you see that was a little bit different

than you know you all come on at the

beginning

hey teacher how are you right and i’m

like hey i’m feeling good

now sometimes when you’re in person

someone may say hey no no really tell me

how you’re really feeling how are you

really doing

that will lead to a deep conversation so

great example

marceline talking about the organization

in your company

next event in the company all right next

events could be small talk

but then how the organization is working

and how you feel about it could lead to

a deep conversation

paula says family dreams and plans about

your future

very good examples muriel education

the importance of vaccines i like how

you’re connecting it to what’s actually

going on right now

in our society in our world miriam very

good human rights

democracy very good marcella religion

yes true dennis religion yes

gracia politics yes louis

your feelings and then questions about

your feelings very true

gracias says debate very true good

answer

andres ah yes deep conversations about

politics excellent angel heated debates

true but debates about what what are you

debating give me some more specifics

zakaria when you talk with someone about

climate changes

and their consequences and how they will

affect our planet

good example yes all of these things

lead to deep conversations then

mardo says politics religion or the

latest news

marcella personal experiences yes

jasmine asks deep conversation

personal questions for example how do

you think you will die

exactly immediately marcel excuse me

jasmine

you go into thinking about hey how will

i die

and it leads the person to start giving

their opinions a good example

deborah uh polemic topics i think maybe

politics um maybe

all right um or problem okay javier

relationships

peterson soccer okay you can say who’s

the best team but that kind of usually

is small talk

depending on how deep the question is

all right

oh peterson excuse me jasmine life and

death future emotions

great examples everyone zan says how

about books and films based on these

films yes

good patricia says economy in the world

of the world economy

um basketball okay deep conversations

about the players

what’s going on in their lives okay and

sergio talking about god yes

tapping into what we said earlier about

religion so you all understand the

differences between

small talk and deep conversation when we

think of different topics oh some more

came through

gigi says discrimination racism can both

lead to deep a deep conversation very

true

marcella styles of raising children

excellent examples you all

angel voting for a new president yes

marcella

controversial topics yes and dennis

talking with your loved ones

about their life goals excellent one

more

merchant says the news latest mobile

phones and technology all right so you

can have deep conversations depending on

the questions you ask oh and last one

culture very good example so again we’re

seeing that

small talk and deep conversation they

are

different so i want to give you some

examples

in small talk in this type of

conversation

no personal questions are usually asked

and i want you all to pay attention as i

give you the tips because again

speaking english fluently is not just

about memorizing words and expressions

it’s about understanding things like

this if you can be a

master of conversation english

conversation

you will seem fluent already and this is

something that even as americans

we have to learn how to go back and

forth naturally in a conversation so

with small talk you don’t ask personal

questions

usually the only emotions involved

are happy or neutral and let me tell you

all this

think about this for example i’ve had

good days and i’ve had bad days

but if someone asks me hey tiff how are

you i say hey you know i’m okay i’m

doing all right

why because it’s small talk i don’t go

into any deep conversation i keep it

neutral

now i may have had a bad day but it’s

small talk it’s not the time for me to

get into a deep

conversation so i keep the emotion

neutral

i’m okay everything’s all right i’ll

keep it going

now my friends that know me really well

they can tell

when something really is wrong and

they’ll say

uh what’s really going on how do you

really feel

and then it leads to a deeper

conversation which can be about

feelings of uh maybe if i’m sad or

something happened or if i’m mad

i can go into those but you don’t go

into those emotions

for small talk here’s another thing i

want you to remember

for small talk it does not lead to the

truly getting to know each other it’s

really surface level like

hey how are you great nice to see you

have a wonderful day

and then it’s over you don’t really get

close to a person

through small talk now deep

conversations

let me give you these tips everyone

these

enable the individuals to truly

get to know each other on a deeper

level next it usually requires

deep thought and a certain opinion to be

expressed

so think about this family when we meet

once a month for our zoom call right

we come together it’s exciting and then

i

always put you all into breakout rooms

why because i want you all to have

deep conversations you start off with

small

talk but then you go to answer the

questions that i’ve assigned

and what happens you start to understand

how the other individuals think

you start to see hey we may live in

different countries but we have a lot in

common

so the deep conversations allow you to

express your opinions

so our monthly meetings involve deep

conversations

the other thing is right here deep

conversations

allow a person to express their

true feelings about a certain

topic so you’ll see again this common

thing

opinions ideas talk about your

experiences

all during deep conversation

a comment came through mardo says in my

country of france

it is not appropriate to have deep

conversations

about politics or religion in the

professional or workplace

for me deep conversations are only with

close friends

very interesting you know i experienced

that as well when i was in korea

my friends told me don’t talk about

politics because people get too upset

it’s kind of a taboo topic now in

america

you can have a serious conversation

about

politics religion sometimes can be a

little bit tricky now

in america even though we’re a christian

country but yes depending on where you

live

certain conversations are okay and

certain conversations are not okay so

thank you so much for sharing that marto

tuni

hey we are so happy to see you we hope

that you are doing better

and again we’re still praying for you

and your family good to see you here

with us

this evening all right so let’s continue

family

so we understand better the differences

between small

talk and deep conversations

now here are some examples all right in

this type of conversation

again i said no personal questions no

emotions beside happy or neutral

and it does not lead to you truly

getting to know each other

so here we go some example topics and

you all gave some great ones

you guys actually gave everything that i

had in my notes right here

because you said movies for

entertainment so look here we go some

examples

about the weather you can say how’s the

weather

for current news hey did you hear about

the earthquake

for sports you can say did you watch the

game

last night and then for entertainment

you can say hey

did you see the oscars alright so here’s

what i want to do i want to give you an

opportunity to practice

i’m going gonna give you a topic and i

want you to give me

a question that would be perfect for

small talk

for example for sports an individual

said did you watch the game

last night right very simple question

it’s not about the person’s feelings or

their opinion

just very basic hey did you watch the

game last night

what’s another simple question

used for small talk not about emotions

that you can ask someone about sports

give me a small talk question about

sports i want to see how good you guys

are again here’s the example

right here did you watch the game last

night

if someone’s walking up to you and they

want to have a conversation

small talk about sports what could you

ask them now as you guys are typing i’m

going to keep moving forward to give you

some examples

for the deep conversation all right now

for deep conversation

here are the examples remember there are

three things we have to remember

here are the examples for a deep

conversation about the weather

what’s your view on climate change

you see how the topic is the same but i

changed the question

because now i’m curious to know that

individual’s

opinion or idea about the weather

now an example question came through

from paola

for small talk paula says do you like to

watch the olympics

all right so here’s the thing as long as

you don’t say

why remember small talk is really not

about the person’s

feelings or opinions you got to keep it

basic

hey did you watch the game yes or no do

you like the olympics

that leads to a deep conversation so

it’s a little bit different we want to

keep at at

not their opinion not their feelings all

right so try again

all right uh gigi says hey what’s your

favorite player or who’s your favorite

player all right so as long as these

don’t go

too deep it’s okay um jahil what do you

think about the game

last night all right so again these kind

of

lead to a deep conversation so we got to

be careful

uh do you ever play soccer all right

good open-ended question

do you ever play soccer yeah i play on

the weekends

okay not about emotions it’s very simple

all right

who’s your favorite basketball team all

right this again can kind of lead to a

deeper conversation

but if you keep it there it’s okay

business business is actually kind of a

deep conversation

all right marcela did you hear that the

tournament was called off all right

basic question

good do you like working out all right

it can be basic or a small talk but what

happens is it leads to a deep

question oh you do why do you like

working out and then you see

automatically it leads to a deeper

conversation so you want to try to keep

them

basic here we go um do you like to play

sports all right do you like baseball

what is your favorite game all right

do you know where the match is taking

place all right basic question

can we join to watch the super bowl all

right good geraldine do you know which

was the who was the

best player last night again their

opinion

so it kind of remember it leads to a

deeper conversation so if i’m asking you

hey

who’s your favorite player me too i

really like him man he’s good what’s

your favorite player okay what’s your

favorite play he did

yes it leads to a deep conversation me

getting to know the person so it’s not

really small talk

here we go uh did you have an

opportunity to watch the olympic game

very good paola very good andres did you

see michael jordan yesterday

good all right nana hi how did the game

go all right okay

amina do you like this food do you like

this okay again as long as it stays

basic so

you guys see it’s kind of tricky right

small

talk and deep conversations are very

different again

i want to show you all now really

quickly how we can have the same topics

but the question changes and turns to a

deep

conversation question look at the

weather what’s your

view on climate change i’m asking to

know their opinion

current news who do you think will win

this election

what’s happening exactly family

i want to know the person’s opinion i

want to know their viewpoint

i’m getting to understand and know how

they

think that is the definition of a deep

conversation all right

here’s another one for sports which is

more important

winning or participating

and then finally entertainment should

young children

watch television you see what’s

happening right

again getting down deep means

getting into the mind of the person

you’re speaking to

you want to ask them hey what do you

think

what is your view on this if i just say

how’s the weather

it’s just a fact it’s sunny outside it’s

raining outside

or did you watch the olympic game yes or

no

small talk keeping it very basic not

asking any opinion

but deep conversation all right so i

think everyone kind of gets it right

the difference between deep conversation

and small talk

now i want us to keep going all right

there are some things you have to

remember as it relates to mastering

english conversations let me show you

all these things that i want you to

remember

don’t dominate now let me explain this

word dominate all right everyone after

me

dominate good again

dominate good

last time dominate

excellent now dominate means to take

over

right to to take over and to not let

anybody else participate

for example my live english classes

right

when we have these classes every week

i’m not the only one speaking

yes you can only hear my voice but you

all are in the chat

room chat box right in the comment

section and i pop your comments on the

screen

because it’s an interaction back and

forth now if i said

no more comments only i’m gonna talk

i would be dominating the conversation

or dominating the class

so one rule related to conversations is

don’t dominate now let me explain oh

somebody joined us

hey infra no worries we are happy to see

you welcome welcome

all right so let me give you this advice

everyone the first thing to remember

is to never dominate the conversation

it is important to make sure there is a

balance between

you and the person you are speaking to

it needs to be this

back and forth back and forth not here

i’m talking i’m talking i’m talking back

and forth needs to happen now

here are some reasons and better

explanations for you one

dominating shows that you don’t

care about the other person’s opinion

so think about it family when we have

our monthly meeting right and i put you

all in breakout rooms

and there are four people in one room if

for 10 minutes

one person talks the other three people

will feel like

this person really doesn’t care about us

this person

only thinks about his or her ideas so

you have to be very careful

not to dominate the conversation and

this is very important for english

learners to understand because

sometimes when you get nervous you start

talking a lot

i do the same thing when i was studying

korean sometimes i would get nervous and

i just start talking talking talking

but conversation mastering english

conversation is not always about

talking you have two ears and one mouth

it’s about

listening well and knowing when to speak

so again telling you all not to dominate

all right

people don’t want to have conversations

with people who dominate the

conversation

and finally it also shows that

your listening skills are not good

so you see now why i emphasize

the importance of mastering english

conversations

it’s not just about the words you use

it’s about the

art of conversation mastering english

conversation

knowing when to listen knowing when to

speak

knowing when to comment on someone

else’s opinion

and then ask a question so again number

one

don’t dominate another thing i want you

all to remember is right here

listen attentively uh real quick for

pronunciation practice everyone

attentively

good i want you to look at the word

while we say it again after me

attentively

good last time attentively

excellent now listening attentively

means you have to

pay attention is the second thing to

remember is that listening skill

our skills are an important part of

effective communication

in other words listening attentively

will actually help you to master english

conversations so

listening attentively will help you to

understand

people better pay attention to what

they’re saying

don’t think about many different things

in your mind at the same time

let me see another comment came through

hold on one second

uh what do you think about donald trump

yes a good question for advanced or

deep conversation uh you don’t want to

steal the conversation exactly don’t

dominate or steal the conversation

yes jasmine ask their opinion get them

involved

very good zakaria says usually

korean teachers have to dominate their

classroom because apart it’s a part of

their culture

very good exactly in korean culture the

teachers

speak for the entire time and i’ve told

some stories on my youtube channel

about my first korean class in graduate

school

the teacher talked for four hours four

hours

and we didn’t say anything she was

extremely smart and she ended up being

my favorite teacher

because her personality was great but it

really

surprised me that she could talk for

that long and there was no interaction

so yes

very good example zakaria very good

point all right so here we go again

as you listen you actually improve your

english ability because you are taking

in

new information all right and finally

if you listen well the other person will

also want to listen to you again

family conversations mastering english

conversation

it’s all of this so when you are

listening um

really wow to a person speaking

they’ll want to listen to you when it’s

your turn

but if while they’re talking you’re

looking at your phone you’re not paying

attention

they’re not going to want to listen to

you so it’s very important to listen

attentively all right the next thing is

don’t interrupt the third thing is to

remember

is to never interrupt this is because

interrupting

someone or suddenly stopping them is

rude and can stop a conversation

people don’t want to talk to someone who

constantly interrupts them

next interrupting someone shows that you

are not

listening to them and finally it also

hinders the flow of conversation because

it shows that you think your words are

more important

now family once again what you’re

learning

these are tips that even native english

speakers have to learn and understand

it’s tempting when you’re having a

conversation

you want to say something but it’s

better to be patient

to listen and wait for your turn to come

that makes the conversation flow better

so be careful

not to interrupt all right so you guys

are getting the real good

gems for how to master english

conversation

now this is interesting how to

end a conversation this is something

that can be a little tricky sometimes

not knowing how to stop a conversation

when you’re in the midst of a

conversation with someone right

all right so i’m going to give you guys

some examples we’re going to talk about

it a little bit okay

here we go so type or experience for

example

say the name of the person you are

speaking with all right now let me pause

really quickly

there are three types of conversations

and ways to end the conversation right

so if you’re having a conversation and

the focus

of your conversation was an experience

right let’s say maybe you were actually

at a seminar that i gave and you walked

up to me

and we started talking about one of my

story

times right we started talking about my

experience

and then you told me about your

experience and we went back and forth

how do you end that type of conversation

well one way is you say the name

of the person you are speaking with for

example

well brian it was so great speaking with

you

so you can say again well teacher

tiffany

well tiffany it was such a great

experience

or it was so great speaking with you

you can memorize this actual pattern

it was so great speaking with you again

you’re just saying man it was really

nice speaking with you you’re letting

them know you appreciated it

now the second one is right here briefly

mention the experience they told you

about again

i really enjoyed hearing about

your trip to paris and then relate it to

yourself and

something about the future very quickly

all right

so these are three steps if you’re

talking about an experience

there are three steps to ending it now

i’m going to put it all together watch

this family

step one say the name of the person

well brian it was so great speaking with

you

step two tell about the experience i

really enjoyed hearing about your trip

to paris and step three related to

yourself and something about the future

hopefully i will be able to visit there

in the future

as well so again step one

say the name of the person you’re

speaking with

step two briefly mention the experience

they talked about

ah well teacher tiffany it was so nice

speaking with you

i really enjoyed your story time today

step three relate it to yourself and

something about the future

man i really hope i’ll be able to go

bowling like you did

one day in the future so all right again

if the conversation

is about an experience you end the

conversation

smoothly like a native english speaker

by following these three steps

step number one say the person’s name

step number two mention the experience

they told you about

and step number three related to

yourself

and your future now this one may be a

little tricky but i

really want you all to practice in the

comment section

i want you to give me an example ending

imagine i just told you a story i’ll

give you an example oh hold on a

question came through

hold on one second um

hey tiff we talked about how to start

and end the conversation but how can we

keep it going

now i actually taught that during the

week

but i didn’t put it in today’s class

because i wanted to focus on

how to start a conversation the

differences between the conversation

small talk and deep conversation and how

to end if you want to find out how to

keep a conversation going

again just go to week 12 in the 365 day

plan

and i have all the lessons there i’m

just doing a review here but great

question

good catch all right so we’ve gotten to

the end again you guys can practice and

review the lessons by going i have the

links over there

um give me an example if i just finished

telling you a story again

story time right i just told you a story

about how my sister and i used to like

to

rap and sing together right imagine i

just told you that story

and we’re talking back and forth and i’m

like yeah my sister and i

man when we were growing up it was great

we used to sing we used to rap and had a

good time

i finished telling my story i finished

talking about my experience

how would you end the conversation using

the three steps i want you guys to try

again three steps say the person’s name

that you’re speaking with right which

would be me

step number two again mention the

experience

and step number three related to

yourself and your future i’ll show you

again

i’ll take a few but i think you guys can

do it

use these three steps step one

name the person you’re speaking with

step two mention the experience remember

the experiences

i said when i was growing up my sister

and i true story

would sing and rap together and step

three

relate the experience to yourself and

your future

how would you end that conversation

again it can seem tricky but when you

have a formula

that you can follow you will definitely

start speaking fluently if you just

follow

the formula so again step one state the

person’s name

which is me step two state the

experience that was mentioned

and step number three tell how it

relates to you

and your future now i’m gonna let you

all type i know it’s gonna be a little

bit longer and i’m gonna keep going all

right here we go

typing in the comment section keep it

coming all right here we go

now imagine if the topic is about

your feelings if the topic of the

conversation is

feelings you can do something different

all right here we go

jahil says well tiffany that sounds

really fun

i would like to rap someday with you

guys okay

good very good now the only thing is

this

in the middle you forgot to tell the

experience

you did the first step well tiffany that

sounds really fun

good what was the experience remember

you gotta summarize

it sounds like you and your sister had a

great time together

then i would like to wrap someday with

you guys that would have been a great

wrap up alright

here we go gracias says hey sya i had

really enjoyed your company and i

enjoyed listening to your rap

hope we can talk more soon okay all

right all right

zakaria teacher tiffany i enjoyed a lot

your interview with joseon

and it gave me a desire to visit new

york okay all right so you used another

experience all right

here we go yes erka story time

hey marcela well tiff

it has been amazing speaking with you i

can imagine how

much fun you had with your sister maybe

when my sister comes back we will try

rapping together

excellent that was excellent exactly

what i just taught

you follow the instructions you answered

based on those three steps and you

talked about the experience i explained

excellent job here we go oh

i’m confused what does rap mean i’ll rap

for you guys really quickly all right

um all right this is from a tv show

called fresh prince

from the 90s some of you may know it um

here we go

in west philadelphia born and raised on

the playground is where i spent most of

my days

chilling out relaxing all cool and all

shooting some b-ball outside of the

school winning a couple of guys so

i’m rapping right now so that is

dennis what rapping actually is so my

sister and i would rap

and sing and i would like kind of like

beat like

like i would kind of beat she would do

some rapping or singing and then we’d go

into my parents room so

we liked music a lot when we were

growing up so yes

that is what rapping is all right so

again

marcella gave an excellent example

of following the instructions of what i

taught about how to end a conversation

that is based on an experience now what

if the conversation is based on

someone’s feelings or someone’s emotions

so

here are the steps i want to show you

right here

first thing say the name

of the person you are speaking with

wow mary i truly enjoyed speaking with

you

step one is the same you don’t have to

memorize a new step oh hold on one

second

jasmine says this topic is very helpful

even in our language

how to speak properly i’m so happy to

hear that jasmine that is really good

news

all right gracia hey tiff i really

enjoyed listening to your rap

you were really good at it wow i’m

impressed well i would love to come hear

you guys rap more someday

excellent very good what happened you

said

my name of course the experience

listening to my rap right and then in

the future you’d love to come and hear

us rap some more

good very good lewis says well tiff

it’s nice to talk to you about i get you

amazing when you sing and rap i’ll be

happy to sing with you soon

okay i get that you are amazing or you

were amazing

an amazing rapper or singer alright

dennis

i’m glad you enjoyed it kiss

well tiff it’s been a pleasure speaking

with you maybe someday we can rap

together okay

almost perfect kiss remember three steps

you said my name that was good

but you gotta say the experience you

gotta mention that i talked about i

rapped with my sister

and then come back with maybe someday we

can rap

together so good but you missed step two

all right

ruth tiffany i’ve enjoyed speaking with

you step one

i would like to sing with you and your

sister that’s step

three never forget step two guys because

step two is

summarizing and showing that you

listened

closely to my experience all right here

we go

mardo says the fresh prince of bel air i

love this show so much yes

the fresh prince of bel-air yes exactly

all right so now you all understand how

to end a conversation that’s about

experiences

now we’re going to feelings and we say

the first step

is the same again say the name of the

person

now the second step is briefly

mention the feelings they told you about

again

for example it was very interesting

listening to how you felt about dot dot

again i want to remind you all that

step two shows the person

that you actually were listening because

you’re just

restating you’re just summarizing what

they said

so in the last one i gave an experience

you said tiff it’s interesting that you

and your sister sang together ah

you were listening good now with the

feelings

same thing briefly mention the

feelings they talked about and then

finally right here we have this right

here

mention the importance of that feeling

and lead into another future

conversation

i also believe it is very important

hopefully we can talk more about it soon

so you see three steps here mention

their name

mention the feelings they addressed and

finally talk about the importance

acknowledge the importance

and the future hey i’d like to keep

talking about this

more all right the three steps for

ending a conversation about feelings

now some more comments came through gigi

says well tiffany i’m glad to learn that

you were a rapper when you were young

that reminds me of my childhood i wish i

was there to hear you rapping that’s

good

now if you’re saying i want to come in

the future too

that’s good all right third step

peterson

thank you very much all right here we go

here we go

um oh you already said that marceline

well angelica

it was nice seeing okay remember we’re

focusing on the example which was the

one i gave all right

now again so with feelings step one

you’re gonna say the person’s name step

two you’re going to mention the feelings

they talked about and step three

you want to mention the importance of

that

feeling and lead into another

conversation so for example

i will act for you all i’m gonna tell

you

about my feelings so again just acting

you know i really and truly love my

husband

i’m not married but i’m giving you guys

an example there’s something that he

just does for me

when i come home from work he’s so

excited to see me and it makes me feel

so

loved and it makes me want to love him

more

and i realize the beauty of marriage

there are there are good days and bad

days but

my husband just makes me feel like the

greatest woman

in the world so i really love him now

we just had a conversation imagine we

were going back and forth about marriage

and love

and i explained how i feel about my

husband how would you end

the conversation again

three steps we talked about feelings

step number one

say the name of the person well tiff i

really enjoyed speaking to you

as speaking with you about love step one

the person’s name step two it was really

interesting to see and

hear how much you love your husband we

talked about the emotion

i love my husband and step three the

importance of that feeling

i also think that love is important

i hope we can talk about this subject a

little bit more in the future

you see what happened right i wrapped up

that conversation

very naturally step one well tiffany

thank you so much

for telling me more about your

relationship i really like the way you

talked about how much you love your

husband

i think love is important too hopefully

we can talk more in the future

three steps so again i want you all to

try i’m looking at the time

few examples for a feeling step one

say the person’s name step two briefly

mention the feelings that were discussed

and step three mention the importance of

that feeling and

lead into another future conversation

all right

i want you guys to try you guys did a

good job with the experience portion

try for this one as well hold on one

second

um tiff i really andre i really enjoy

your class today it will help me have to

have a deep conversation

i’m so happy to hear that yes again guys

remember

these are all from the 365 day lesson

plan

this is why i encourage everyone follow

the plan

i’m just reviewing the lessons that are

already in the academy

trust me family if you follow my 365 day

lesson plan

you will be fluent in english you will

master english and it’s not just about

vocabulary

i teach you so many different things so

i’m so happy

to hear that you’re enjoying this class

alright

let’s see javier well tiff you rock i’ll

be waiting to see you again soon thanks

xavier

dennis well tiffany i was for the rap

okay hold on

let’s see well tiffany i it’s really

nice to learn about your story with your

sister i really hope i can have a good

story like that to say

i look forward to talking to you in the

future good all three steps

all right now we’re talking about

feelings everyone here we go

wow tiffany i really love to talk with

you it was very interesting listening to

how you felt about your amazing

marriage good here’s the here’s the wrap

up

i also believe it is very important to

create a great relationship with love

respect and communication hopefully we

can talk more in the future

jasmine yes

good job jasmine all three steps very

well stated and again

being that i’m a native english speaker

when you wrap up a conversation like

this

i feel like whoa this person can really

speak english it’s not about any grammar

mistakes you may have made

it’s all about how you organized your

thoughts and how you followed the steps

so great job jasmine

here we go amina wow joanna okay

remember we want to stay on the topic so

i want to show

examples i need you guys to pay

attention this is also another thing

i didn’t ask for any examples about

other people i want you guys to focus on

the fact that

i just had a conversation with you about

my husband and the love i have for my

husband

i want you to wrap up this conversation

using the three steps step one say the

name of the person which is me

step two mention the feelings that we

talked about

love and how much i care about him step

three

mention the importance of that feeling

and lead into another future

conversation

here we go marcella hey tiff i really

enjoy our conversation

you are right feeling loved is amazing

undoubtedly love is so important in any

marriage i am looking forward to sharing

more with you

good job marcela good job all right

here we go john hi tiff you’re amazing

in all you are doing you are a good

example for our generation

excuse me hope one day i meet you

personally to share ideas friendly

all right that was a good wrap up it

wasn’t for this conversation but that

was a great wrap up thank you

all right i’ll take let me see one or

two more people one or two more

individuals because then we have to wrap

up everyone give me one or two more

individuals again

remember i talked about my husband our

marriage and how much i love and care

about him

so wrap up the conversation about that

all right

let’s see let’s see all right here we go

wow tiffany it was nice to hear about

your relationship i’m so happy to hear

about how your husband loves you

i think that this intentions contributes

to a lot

a lot in a relationship i hope we can

talk more about relationship and love in

the future

will marie yes

very very good job you follow the steps

again the steps are simple family learn

the steps and you will be a master at

english conversations all right great

great job

very proud of you again now again

everyone we we do it live

weekly right and we have a different

topic every week but don’t forget

you can always review what i’m teaching

you today

is already available you can go right

back to week number 12

and review those lessons and you can

watch this class after it’s over i’ll

put the recording up okay

all right here we go another one kiss

says

well tiff i really enjoyed speaking with

you about your marriage it seems like

you both love each other

i believe love is important too

hopefully we can talk

more about love in the future my man

kiss yes

good job excellent job you wrapped it up

so well again you ought to understand

how excited i get

because i am a native english speaker

and when you all answer

following the simple steps it really

feels like you are already fluent and

i’m your teacher

but when you speak like this i feel like

yes

excellent job all right last one here we

go

louis weltiff i enjoyed you and your

husband

are so loving love and kindness

contribute a lot to building a good home

i hope i’ll be able to see you next time

in love

good job excellent again it’s not about

the little grammar errors

it’s all about the information lewis

excellent job

very very very good i’m very proud of

you excellent job

now family unfortunately class is coming

to an end

up but i gotta get paula our wonderful

admin paola says oh

tiffany how great to hear how happy your

marriage is going

and how loved he makes you feel i hope

to find someone who makes me talk like

that someday

and then i can also tell you about it

paula

paula excellent job all right we got

another one good job paola

michelle says hey tiffany i understand

you have a true love

with your husband love is a distinctive

characteristic to

us as human beings i hope one of our

next live lessons will be exclusively

related to true love

good job excellent excellent job you

guys are amazing and i love how you put

into practice

what you learned today now our class for

today is coming to an end

um but you guys do have a homework

excitement i do want to again commend

you all for all the practice

and your interaction today you did a

great job and i want you guys to start

putting into practice what you learned

today

now

you