Top 10 Phrases to Never Use in a Relationship in English
hi everyone my name is Seamus say hi to everyone hi everyone
my name is Bridgette and welcome to
today’s lesson the topic for this lesson
is top 10 phrases to never use in a
relationship let’s get started the first
phrase you should never use in a
relationship is I told you so I told you
so when someone says I told you so it’s
a very know-it-all thing to say it means
you know you were right and you want to
rub it in that person’s face so for
example if you tell someone don’t touch
that dog that dog bites and that person
touches that dog anyway and the dog
bites you would say I told you so I told
you so it’s not very nice because it’s
it’s boastful it means that you’re
bragging you’re making them feel bad for
not having listened to you oh I’ll do it
myself I’ll do it myself when you tell
someone oh I’ll do it myself
it means that you are not happy with the
way the other person did something it
means you think you can probably do it
better it’s not something you want to
use in a relationship because it makes
the other person feel bad like they
didn’t do a good job that they did
something poorly and it doesn’t make
them feel good you never listen to me
you never listen to me when you tell
someone you never listened to me it’s
implying that the other person doesn’t
really pay attention to what you say it
means that whatever you’re talking about
they aren’t paying attention if you tell
your girlfriend or boyfriend or a wife
or husband
you never listen to me that means two
things it means one that you feel that
what you have to say is very important
so if you say you never listen to me
you’re implying that what you have to
say has great consequence that the other
person should be listening at all times
but what it could also mean is that the
other person just isn’t listening to you
and listening is a very important part
of a relationship your significant other
should always be able to listen to you
and hear what you have to say and pay
attention to your feelings
we should talk we should talk when you
tell someone we should talk or we need
to talk it’s usually going to scare the
other person when you say we should talk
or we need to talk it means you want to
sit down with the other person and have
a serious conversation a lot of times
that might mean you’re going to break up
it means that you have something
important to tell the other person but
you want to do it in person never mind
when you say never mind it means forget
it stop paying attention think about
something else I don’t want to talk
anymore
so if you start to tell your boyfriend
or girlfriend something it could be your
feelings and you say you know lately
I’ve been feeling and then you stop and
you say nevermind that is telling the
other person just to stop paying
attention to stop listening just don’t
think about it never mind when you tell
the other person to never mind
it makes it seem like you’re belittling
your own feelings it makes it seem like
you don’t want to share your own
feelings with your significant other
which isn’t a good thing because in a
relationship you always want to be able
to talk to one another it’s all your
fault it’s all your fault this is
thing you never want to say in a
relationship it means that if you get
into a fight and you say it’s all your
fault that’s putting the blame entirely
on the other person and a lot of times
in a relationship if you fight or if
something happens a lot of times both of
you are probably a little bit at fault
it means you both are to blame if you
tell someone it’s all your fault it
makes it seem like you think you are
perfect it makes it seem like you think
that you are totally free of all fault
you’re not culpable it has nothing to do
with you you’re an angel the other
person is at fault so if you tell your
boyfriend your girlfriend your husband
your wife if you tell them it’s all your
fault
it’s not a nice thing to say especially
because it probably isn’t only their
fault it takes two to tango you
overreact too much you overreact
too much this is something for you men
out there that you do not want to tell
your significant other you never want to
tell a girl you’re overreacting or calm
down or you overreact too much when you
tell someone they’re overreacting it
means that their reaction was so far
above what should be normal for this
situation but a lot of times it’s not up
to you to decide if you tell someone you
overreact too much that’s telling
someone else how they should be feeling
and how they should be reacting to a
situation which is not your place
you’ve changed you’ve changed if you
tell someone you’ve changed
you’ve changed since I first met you it
implies that the person has become
different
that may be parts of his or her
personality have begun to change a bit
which might be a bad thing in some cases
if the person is
mean or angry but a lot of times in a
relationship you do want to change you
want to change together you want to grow
together so telling someone you’ve
changed in a negative way isn’t
something that someone wants to hear
you’ve gained a lot of weight you’ve
gained a lot of weight never ever ever
say this to someone in a relationship
you never want to tell your girlfriend
or boyfriend that they’ve gained weight
if you tell someone you’ve gained weight
it means you’re telling them that they
look heavier they look fatter they look
bigger and that’s not something anyone
wants to hear from the person that they
care about or they love so even if you
think your girlfriend or boyfriend has
gained weight you don’t want to tell
them this way because it’s not very nice
and it’s only going to hurt their
feelings
whatever whatever this is something I am
guilty of to say whatever whatever it’s
it’s a word that you use in a
conversation to imply that you do not
care anymore if you say whatever
whatever
it’s very dismissive it’s not very nice
to hear especially if your boyfriend or
girlfriend is saying something that they
believe is important or that they want
you to listen to if you react by saying
whatever it means that you don’t really
care what they have to say that brings
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