DO NOT SAY I think... say THIS instead 21 more advanced alternative phrases

hello everyone and welcome back to

english with Lucy today I am going to

give you 21

advanced alternatives for I think I

think that I think is very boring

overused and it’s just repetitive in

debates in English classes in

conversation we are always asked to give

our opinion and more often than not I

hear my students saying I think I think

that I don’t think they were a rough if

you really want to show that you have an

incredible and profound and advanced

vocabulary then you need to find some

other ways of saying I think so I have

got 21 advanced alternatives ranging

from formal to informal so this video is

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get started with the lesson number one

is an informal one it’s I’m not going to

lie or I’m not gonna lie I’ve got a

video on water and gunner it’s very

helpful well actually I’m not gonna lie

sometimes just shorten down to not gonna

lie or abbreviated to n GL so if we’re

texting ng L and then our opinion an

example I’m not going to lie I was

pretty insulted to not be invited to my

ex-boyfriends wedding I’m not going to

lie I was pretty insulted to not be

invited to my ex-boyfriends wedding

number two is in all honesty in all

honesty this is very commonly used to

nowadays

and I would say it’s leaning towards

informal an example in all honesty I had

every right to be there in all honesty I

had every right to be there number three

is in my view in my view and this one is

slightly more formal actually another

example in my view I should have been

invited so it was totally fair for me to

turn up on the day in my view I should

have been invited so it was totally fair

for me to turn up on the day a lot of

these examples will use should have

would have and could have I’ve recently

made a video about shoulda woulda coulda

so I’ve shared that link in the

description box and up here on a card

number four is if you ask me if you ask

me an example if you ask me the church

service was wonderful but it was a shame

I had to stand at the back if you ask me

the church service was wonderful but it

was a shame I had to stand at the back

number five is as far as I can tell as

far as I can tell these past two have

been fairly neutral neither informal nor

formal as far as I can tell an example

as far as I can tell the bride wasn’t

really expecting me as far as I can tell

the bride wasn’t really expecting me

number six is to my mind to my mind and

this just means to me but we’re talking

about our brain rather

our selves and it is more formal an

example to my mind she should have been

happier to see me and receive my support

to my mind she should have been happier

to see me and receive my support number

seven

again slightly more formal as far as I’m

concerned as far as I’m concerned an

example as far as I’m concerned she

totally overreacted and shouldn’t have

cried as far as I’m concerned she

totally overreacted and shouldn’t have

cried again more info on should have

would have and could have in the

description box it’s a really important

lesson number eight the way I see things

or the way I see it you can use either

or an example the way I see things

I made the family photographs a lot more

interesting the way I see things

I made the family photographs a lot more

interesting an alternative as I see

things or as I see it an example as I

see it they obviously didn’t take me

into consideration when drawing up the

seating plans as I see it they obviously

didn’t take me into consideration when

drawing up seating plans now you might

have noticed there’s a bit of a story

going on through the examples which I

think is quite fun and but you might

need a little bit more explanation about

British weddings we always have a

seating plan so we’ll have a list of all

the table names for the meal and it’s

called the seating plan and everyone is

put in a certain spot and we have our

name on the table and we use drawing up

because of the phrasal verb to draw up

normally a plan or a document it means

to write and prepare a document or plan

now number 10 is it seems to me that it

seems to me that quite a neutral one may

be leaning on formal an example it seems

to me that everyone overreacted when I

tried to sit at the top table it seems

to me that everyone overreacted when I

tried to sit at the top table now

another bit of info for you on British

weddings there is often a top table most

weddings have round tables and all the

guests will sit on round tables but

there is a big long table a bit higher

up overlooking all of the other guests

where the bride the groom two people

getting married and their families sit

so it’s the most important people and

the bride’s men and the groomsmen as

well number 11 I believe I believe this

is just a really good alternative for I

think if you’re in a pinch and you want

to say I think and you don’t know what

else to say just say I believe an

example I believe they should have just

made space for me in the first place I

believe that they should have just made

space for me in the first place number

12 is I would say or shortened down to

I’d say I’d say an example I’d say the

food was very good but it was a shame I

had to share it with my neighbor I’d say

the food was very good but it was a

shame I had to share it with my neighbor

now you might know the word neighbor as

someone who lives next to you if you are

sitting at a table then you might also

say the word neighbor your teacher might

say it when you’re sitting at a desk

swap your answers with your neighbor

swap your answers with the person next

to you number 13 I consider I consider

normally followed by something then to

be I consider something to be an example

I consider it to be very rude that I was

forced to sit down when I stood up to

make a speech I consider it to be very

rude that I was forced to sit down when

I stood up to make a speech number 14 is

to me to me just another way of saying

in my opinion an example to me no one

knows my ex better than I do so I should

have been able to tell all of his funny

stories to me no one knows my ex better

than I do so I should have been able to

tell all of his funny stories my god can

you imagine can you imagine if this

happened at your wedding my weddings

coming up I’m a-thinkin I don’t think we

have any crazy exes yet what do I mean

by yet

carry on this carry on number 15 is from

my point of view from my point of view

this again is slightly more formal but

can be used in both informal and formal

situations an example from my point of

view the first dance was cringeworthy so

I did everyone a favor by joining in

from my point of view the first dance

was cringeworthy so I did everyone a

favor by joining in part of our wedding

culture is to have a first dance

together and everyone watches and then

after that everyone can join in but

after they have finished or if they have

said come in you do not button the first

number 16 is it is my view that or it is

my belief that both are more or less the

same an example it is my view that the

open bar made everything worse it is my

view that the open bar made everything

worse now a bit of extra info an open

bar is something that you really hope is

that a wedding that you’re attending its

when the bar is already paid for you

don’t have to pay anything at that bar

I’d say it’s probably thirty seventy at

weddings in the UK you’re most likely to

have an open bar but it just depends on

the couple’s financial situation it’s

typical for the parents of the bride of

the lady getting married to pay for the

wedding but if they’re not in a good

financial situation or maybe the bride

and groom are funding it themselves they

might not be in a position to offer an

open bar number 17 is a very slang one

it’s I reckon I reckon and I think that

this is a very British word if any

Americans are watching can you let me

know

do you use reckon I reckon I think in

your dialect an example I reckon the 6th

gin and tonic tipped me over the edge I

reckon the 6th gin and tonic tipped me

over the edge to tip someone over the

edge is to make someone either really

sad or a bit crazy or to lose the plot

to be crazy so I might have been you

know tipsy well merry up until the 6th a

gin and tonic and then it was that sixth

one that tipped me

and made me downright CRAZY number 18 is

I honestly believe that I honestly

believe that an example I honestly

believe that if I hadn’t started cutting

the cake

no one would have I honestly believe

that if I hadn’t started cutting the

cake no one would have in your culture

does the bride and groom have the first

cut of the wedding cake together

quite an important part of the day 19 is

honestly speaking honestly speaking and

this one is informal an example honestly

speaking I probably shouldn’t have

thrown my slice at the bride honestly

speaking I probably shouldn’t have

thrown my slice at the bride number 20

is I feel that I feel and that’s another

good one word alternative for think just

like believe I feel I think I believe an

example I feel that my ex could have

found a more welcoming bride with a

better sense of humor I feel that my ex

could have found a more welcoming bride

with a better sense of humor and number

21 the last one this is again quite

neutral it’s personally speaking

personally speaking an example

personally speaking calling the police

was a bit OTT personally speaking

calling the police was a bit OTT OTT

means over-the-top too much over-the-top

we often shorten it down to OTT right

that is it for today’s lesson this is a

new format it just came to me whilst I

was looking at all of these words and

phrases and I just thought it would be

really really fun if we could follow a

ridiculous story through all of the

examples did you enjoy it did it make

you stay to the end well if you’re

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of fun writing it especially though that

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