Full English Class Advanced English Conversation Tips And Techniques
here we go everyone getting ready for
our class
tonight now our focus this evening this
afternoon
is day 79 starting off from week 12.
and the topic was small talk
versus deep conversation now i want to
say something real quick but
john kempel hello good to see you good
to see you
all right so again we’re talking about
conversations tonight
mastering english conversations and
again remember you all can go over
these lessons review them they all come
from the 365 day lesson plan
but small talk versus deep conversation
you know this is something that when i
was in
korea i tried to teach my students
because
once you master the art of english
conversation
you’ll watch your confidence take off
so let’s see the difference between
small talk
and deep conversation so small
talk is basically meant to be light
and fun it is a way for two
or more people to talk to each other
without really getting to know the other
so now i’m gonna give you guys some
example topics but again i want you to
interact so
tell me what are some topics that you
think
are common for small talk what are some
common
small talk conversation topics remember
small
talk is very light and fun nothing too
serious so what do you think are some
common
small talk questions or small talk
topics i’m very curious to see if you
guys have any ideas
here we go luis hello hello i’m doing
great thank you it’s good to see you
good to see you
here we go blanca hello good to see you
all right so the question i asked
everyone on the screen
you see that we’re first looking at the
difference between
small talk and deep conversation
and i want you all to let me know in the
chat box or in the comment section
what are some questions or some topics
that you think are perfect for small
talk
not for a deep conversation but for
small talk all right
here we go nana good to see you hello
all right ben bendo says the weather
great one yes
usually for small talk even benvendo
when i’m on the street
walking somewhere and let’s say it’s a
beautiful day
i can say to someone that i don’t even
know who
isn’t the weather amazing today and
they’ll respond
small talk very good answer ben vindo
marthaleen hello
good to see you kiss says netflix tv
shows
good answer yes small talk hey have you
seen the new netflix show
i actually watched a netflix program it
was pretty good it’s called the baker
and the beauty
it was good for those that want a new
show to watch the baker and the beauty
so yes
small talk good one kiss zakara says
zakaria says
when you talk about the weather yes
marcellus says
weather fashion sports good marto says
small talk about the weather good i
think some of you guys
studied before a class excellent
patricia says weather or sports javier
yes weather miriam says tip how was your
day oh
for an example excellent now small talk
yes hey how was your day
yes and the person can say oh it was
pretty good thanks so like just small
talk all right gigi says sports can be
small talk yes
here we go marcella sports yes
and let me see oh social events excuse
me zahn
hello good to see you marceline says
small talk greeting someone and
appreciating his or her
outfit yes or the way they dress javier
it’s a sunny day yes all right gigi
the cinema or movies true louis
introducing yourself
hey where are you from oh really i’m
from and you go back and forth
good marcella the movies good
jasmine hobbies and sports hey i like
art what about you
small talk good peterson hello good to
see you man good to see you
and andres small talk about your day all
right so
you guys have a good idea of what small
talk
usually includes now what about deep
conversations all right so again we’re
getting the foundation for our lesson
today
someone came in let’s see oh zakaria
when you first meet with your co-worker
okay yes you can say hey
how are you and ask them about their day
deborah hello deborah good to see you
and yes deborah the weather is a good
topic
for small talk very good now deep
conversations
let’s look at the definition of a deep
conversation
deep conversation is meant to be
deep and thought provoking
it is a way for two or more people
to talk to each other and truly
understand how the other thinks
now this is when it gets very
interesting
with small talk we say it’s a very
surface level
conversation but with deep conversation
you are really interested in the
other person’s opinions ideas
or their philosophy so tell me
what are some topics that can lead to
really deep conversations for example
politics right if i ask someone
hey what do you think about the new
president immediately
they’re going to give me their ideas
their opinions
about the new president so what are some
topics that you think are good for deep
conversation topics that will lead you
to
understand the other person’s thoughts
and ideas
pop them in the comments section guys
here we go ruth says oh
for small talk appreciating somebody
okay
my c says the news again these are still
responses to small
talk jasmine also in speaking about
small talk
family friends common interests food
culture or travel all right uh someone
says program
oh okay yes iconic hey gracia um
media gossip confession now confession
would be
for deep conversation right kiss
yes religion yes religion is a topic
that leads to a deep
conversation great example javier yes
your inner feelings
for example hey how are you feeling
today
you see that was a little bit different
than you know you all come on at the
beginning
hey teacher how are you right and i’m
like hey i’m feeling good
now sometimes when you’re in person
someone may say hey no no really tell me
how you’re really feeling how are you
really doing
that will lead to a deep conversation so
great example
marceline talking about the organization
in your company
next event in the company all right next
events could be small talk
but then how the organization is working
and how you feel about it could lead to
a deep conversation
paula says family dreams and plans about
your future
very good examples muriel education
the importance of vaccines i like how
you’re connecting it to what’s actually
going on right now
in our society in our world miriam very
good human rights
democracy very good marcella religion
yes true dennis religion yes
gracia politics yes louis
your feelings and then questions about
your feelings very true
gracias says debate very true good
answer
andres ah yes deep conversations about
politics excellent angel heated debates
true but debates about what what are you
debating give me some more specifics
zakaria when you talk with someone about
climate changes
and their consequences and how they will
affect our planet
good example yes all of these things
lead to deep conversations then
mardo says politics religion or the
latest news
marcella personal experiences yes
jasmine asks deep conversation
personal questions for example how do
you think you will die
exactly immediately marcel excuse me
jasmine
you go into thinking about hey how will
i die
and it leads the person to start giving
their opinions a good example
deborah uh polemic topics i think maybe
politics um maybe
all right um or problem okay javier
relationships
peterson soccer okay you can say who’s
the best team but that kind of usually
is small talk
depending on how deep the question is
all right
oh peterson excuse me jasmine life and
death future emotions
great examples everyone zan says how
about books and films based on these
films yes
good patricia says economy in the world
of the world economy
um basketball okay deep conversations
about the players
what’s going on in their lives okay and
sergio talking about god yes
tapping into what we said earlier about
religion so you all understand the
differences between
small talk and deep conversation when we
think of different topics oh some more
came through
gigi says discrimination racism can both
lead to deep a deep conversation very
true
marcella styles of raising children
excellent examples you all
angel voting for a new president yes
marcella
controversial topics yes and dennis
talking with your loved ones
about their life goals excellent one
more
merchant says the news latest mobile
phones and technology all right so you
can have deep conversations depending on
the questions you ask oh and last one
culture very good example so again we’re
seeing that
small talk and deep conversation they
are
different so i want to give you some
examples
in small talk in this type of
conversation
no personal questions are usually asked
and i want you all to pay attention as i
give you the tips because again
speaking english fluently is not just
about memorizing words and expressions
it’s about understanding things like
this if you can be a
master of conversation english
conversation
you will seem fluent already and this is
something that even as americans
we have to learn how to go back and
forth naturally in a conversation so
with small talk you don’t ask personal
questions
usually the only emotions involved
are happy or neutral and let me tell you
all this
think about this for example i’ve had
good days and i’ve had bad days
but if someone asks me hey tiff how are
you i say hey you know i’m okay i’m
doing all right
why because it’s small talk i don’t go
into any deep conversation i keep it
neutral
now i may have had a bad day but it’s
small talk it’s not the time for me to
get into a deep
conversation so i keep the emotion
neutral
i’m okay everything’s all right i’ll
keep it going
now my friends that know me really well
they can tell
when something really is wrong and
they’ll say
uh what’s really going on how do you
really feel
and then it leads to a deeper
conversation which can be about
feelings of uh maybe if i’m sad or
something happened or if i’m mad
i can go into those but you don’t go
into those emotions
for small talk here’s another thing i
want you to remember
for small talk it does not lead to the
truly getting to know each other it’s
really surface level like
hey how are you great nice to see you
have a wonderful day
and then it’s over you don’t really get
close to a person
through small talk now deep
conversations
let me give you these tips everyone
these
enable the individuals to truly
get to know each other on a deeper
level next it usually requires
deep thought and a certain opinion to be
expressed
so think about this family when we meet
once a month for our zoom call right
we come together it’s exciting and then
i
always put you all into breakout rooms
why because i want you all to have
deep conversations you start off with
small
talk but then you go to answer the
questions that i’ve assigned
and what happens you start to understand
how the other individuals think
you start to see hey we may live in
different countries but we have a lot in
common
so the deep conversations allow you to
express your opinions
so our monthly meetings involve deep
conversations
the other thing is right here deep
conversations
allow a person to express their
true feelings about a certain
topic so you’ll see again this common
thing
opinions ideas talk about your
experiences
all during deep conversation
a comment came through mardo says in my
country of france
it is not appropriate to have deep
conversations
about politics or religion in the
professional or workplace
for me deep conversations are only with
close friends
very interesting you know i experienced
that as well when i was in korea
my friends told me don’t talk about
politics because people get too upset
it’s kind of a taboo topic now in
america
you can have a serious conversation
about
politics religion sometimes can be a
little bit tricky now
in america even though we’re a christian
country but yes depending on where you
live
certain conversations are okay and
certain conversations are not okay so
thank you so much for sharing that marto
tuni
hey we are so happy to see you we hope
that you are doing better
and again we’re still praying for you
and your family good to see you here
with us
this evening all right so let’s continue
family
so we understand better the differences
between small
talk and deep conversations
now here are some examples all right in
this type of conversation
again i said no personal questions no
emotions beside happy or neutral
and it does not lead to you truly
getting to know each other
so here we go some example topics and
you all gave some great ones
you guys actually gave everything that i
had in my notes right here
because you said movies for
entertainment so look here we go some
examples
about the weather you can say how’s the
weather
for current news hey did you hear about
the earthquake
for sports you can say did you watch the
game
last night and then for entertainment
you can say hey
did you see the oscars alright so here’s
what i want to do i want to give you an
opportunity to practice
i’m going gonna give you a topic and i
want you to give me
a question that would be perfect for
small talk
for example for sports an individual
said did you watch the game
last night right very simple question
it’s not about the person’s feelings or
their opinion
just very basic hey did you watch the
game last night
what’s another simple question
used for small talk not about emotions
that you can ask someone about sports
give me a small talk question about
sports i want to see how good you guys
are again here’s the example
right here did you watch the game last
night
if someone’s walking up to you and they
want to have a conversation
small talk about sports what could you
ask them now as you guys are typing i’m
going to keep moving forward to give you
some examples
for the deep conversation all right now
for deep conversation
here are the examples remember there are
three things we have to remember
here are the examples for a deep
conversation about the weather
what’s your view on climate change
you see how the topic is the same but i
changed the question
because now i’m curious to know that
individual’s
opinion or idea about the weather
now an example question came through
from paola
for small talk paula says do you like to
watch the olympics
all right so here’s the thing as long as
you don’t say
why remember small talk is really not
about the person’s
feelings or opinions you got to keep it
basic
hey did you watch the game yes or no do
you like the olympics
that leads to a deep conversation so
it’s a little bit different we want to
keep at at
not their opinion not their feelings all
right so try again
all right uh gigi says hey what’s your
favorite player or who’s your favorite
player all right so as long as these
don’t go
too deep it’s okay um jahil what do you
think about the game
last night all right so again these kind
of
lead to a deep conversation so we got to
be careful
uh do you ever play soccer all right
good open-ended question
do you ever play soccer yeah i play on
the weekends
okay not about emotions it’s very simple
all right
who’s your favorite basketball team all
right this again can kind of lead to a
deeper conversation
but if you keep it there it’s okay
business business is actually kind of a
deep conversation
all right marcela did you hear that the
tournament was called off all right
basic question
good do you like working out all right
it can be basic or a small talk but what
happens is it leads to a deep
question oh you do why do you like
working out and then you see
automatically it leads to a deeper
conversation so you want to try to keep
them
basic here we go um do you like to play
sports all right do you like baseball
what is your favorite game all right
do you know where the match is taking
place all right basic question
can we join to watch the super bowl all
right good geraldine do you know which
was the who was the
best player last night again their
opinion
so it kind of remember it leads to a
deeper conversation so if i’m asking you
hey
who’s your favorite player me too i
really like him man he’s good what’s
your favorite player okay what’s your
favorite play he did
yes it leads to a deep conversation me
getting to know the person so it’s not
really small talk
here we go uh did you have an
opportunity to watch the olympic game
very good paola very good andres did you
see michael jordan yesterday
good all right nana hi how did the game
go all right okay
amina do you like this food do you like
this okay again as long as it stays
basic so
you guys see it’s kind of tricky right
small
talk and deep conversations are very
different again
i want to show you all now really
quickly how we can have the same topics
but the question changes and turns to a
deep
conversation question look at the
weather what’s your
view on climate change i’m asking to
know their opinion
current news who do you think will win
this election
what’s happening exactly family
i want to know the person’s opinion i
want to know their viewpoint
i’m getting to understand and know how
they
think that is the definition of a deep
conversation all right
here’s another one for sports which is
more important
winning or participating
and then finally entertainment should
young children
watch television you see what’s
happening right
again getting down deep means
getting into the mind of the person
you’re speaking to
you want to ask them hey what do you
think
what is your view on this if i just say
how’s the weather
it’s just a fact it’s sunny outside it’s
raining outside
or did you watch the olympic game yes or
no
small talk keeping it very basic not
asking any opinion
but deep conversation all right so i
think everyone kind of gets it right
the difference between deep conversation
and small talk
now i want us to keep going all right
there are some things you have to
remember as it relates to mastering
english conversations let me show you
all these things that i want you to
remember
don’t dominate now let me explain this
word dominate all right everyone after
me
dominate good again
dominate good
last time dominate
excellent now dominate means to take
over
right to to take over and to not let
anybody else participate
for example my live english classes
right
when we have these classes every week
i’m not the only one speaking
yes you can only hear my voice but you
all are in the chat
room chat box right in the comment
section and i pop your comments on the
screen
because it’s an interaction back and
forth now if i said
no more comments only i’m gonna talk
i would be dominating the conversation
or dominating the class
so one rule related to conversations is
don’t dominate now let me explain oh
somebody joined us
hey infra no worries we are happy to see
you welcome welcome
all right so let me give you this advice
everyone the first thing to remember
is to never dominate the conversation
it is important to make sure there is a
balance between
you and the person you are speaking to
it needs to be this
back and forth back and forth not here
i’m talking i’m talking i’m talking back
and forth needs to happen now
here are some reasons and better
explanations for you one
dominating shows that you don’t
care about the other person’s opinion
so think about it family when we have
our monthly meeting right and i put you
all in breakout rooms
and there are four people in one room if
for 10 minutes
one person talks the other three people
will feel like
this person really doesn’t care about us
this person
only thinks about his or her ideas so
you have to be very careful
not to dominate the conversation and
this is very important for english
learners to understand because
sometimes when you get nervous you start
talking a lot
i do the same thing when i was studying
korean sometimes i would get nervous and
i just start talking talking talking
but conversation mastering english
conversation is not always about
talking you have two ears and one mouth
it’s about
listening well and knowing when to speak
so again telling you all not to dominate
all right
people don’t want to have conversations
with people who dominate the
conversation
and finally it also shows that
your listening skills are not good
so you see now why i emphasize
the importance of mastering english
conversations
it’s not just about the words you use
it’s about the
art of conversation mastering english
conversation
knowing when to listen knowing when to
speak
knowing when to comment on someone
else’s opinion
and then ask a question so again number
one
don’t dominate another thing i want you
all to remember is right here
listen attentively uh real quick for
pronunciation practice everyone
attentively
good i want you to look at the word
while we say it again after me
attentively
good last time attentively
excellent now listening attentively
means you have to
pay attention is the second thing to
remember is that listening skill
our skills are an important part of
effective communication
in other words listening attentively
will actually help you to master english
conversations so
listening attentively will help you to
understand
people better pay attention to what
they’re saying
don’t think about many different things
in your mind at the same time
let me see another comment came through
hold on one second
uh what do you think about donald trump
yes a good question for advanced or
deep conversation uh you don’t want to
steal the conversation exactly don’t
dominate or steal the conversation
yes jasmine ask their opinion get them
involved
very good zakaria says usually
korean teachers have to dominate their
classroom because apart it’s a part of
their culture
very good exactly in korean culture the
teachers
speak for the entire time and i’ve told
some stories on my youtube channel
about my first korean class in graduate
school
the teacher talked for four hours four
hours
and we didn’t say anything she was
extremely smart and she ended up being
my favorite teacher
because her personality was great but it
really
surprised me that she could talk for
that long and there was no interaction
so yes
very good example zakaria very good
point all right so here we go again
as you listen you actually improve your
english ability because you are taking
in
new information all right and finally
if you listen well the other person will
also want to listen to you again
family conversations mastering english
conversation
it’s all of this so when you are
listening um
really wow to a person speaking
they’ll want to listen to you when it’s
your turn
but if while they’re talking you’re
looking at your phone you’re not paying
attention
they’re not going to want to listen to
you so it’s very important to listen
attentively all right the next thing is
don’t interrupt the third thing is to
remember
is to never interrupt this is because
interrupting
someone or suddenly stopping them is
rude and can stop a conversation
people don’t want to talk to someone who
constantly interrupts them
next interrupting someone shows that you
are not
listening to them and finally it also
hinders the flow of conversation because
it shows that you think your words are
more important
now family once again what you’re
learning
these are tips that even native english
speakers have to learn and understand
it’s tempting when you’re having a
conversation
you want to say something but it’s
better to be patient
to listen and wait for your turn to come
that makes the conversation flow better
so be careful
not to interrupt all right so you guys
are getting the real good
gems for how to master english
conversation
now this is interesting how to
end a conversation this is something
that can be a little tricky sometimes
not knowing how to stop a conversation
when you’re in the midst of a
conversation with someone right
all right so i’m going to give you guys
some examples we’re going to talk about
it a little bit okay
here we go so type or experience for
example
say the name of the person you are
speaking with all right now let me pause
really quickly
there are three types of conversations
and ways to end the conversation right
so if you’re having a conversation and
the focus
of your conversation was an experience
right let’s say maybe you were actually
at a seminar that i gave and you walked
up to me
and we started talking about one of my
story
times right we started talking about my
experience
and then you told me about your
experience and we went back and forth
how do you end that type of conversation
well one way is you say the name
of the person you are speaking with for
example
well brian it was so great speaking with
you
so you can say again well teacher
tiffany
well tiffany it was such a great
experience
or it was so great speaking with you
you can memorize this actual pattern
it was so great speaking with you again
you’re just saying man it was really
nice speaking with you you’re letting
them know you appreciated it
now the second one is right here briefly
mention the experience they told you
about again
i really enjoyed hearing about
your trip to paris and then relate it to
yourself and
something about the future very quickly
all right
so these are three steps if you’re
talking about an experience
there are three steps to ending it now
i’m going to put it all together watch
this family
step one say the name of the person
well brian it was so great speaking with
you
step two tell about the experience i
really enjoyed hearing about your trip
to paris and step three related to
yourself and something about the future
hopefully i will be able to visit there
in the future
as well so again step one
say the name of the person you’re
speaking with
step two briefly mention the experience
they talked about
ah well teacher tiffany it was so nice
speaking with you
i really enjoyed your story time today
step three relate it to yourself and
something about the future
man i really hope i’ll be able to go
bowling like you did
one day in the future so all right again
if the conversation
is about an experience you end the
conversation
smoothly like a native english speaker
by following these three steps
step number one say the person’s name
step number two mention the experience
they told you about
and step number three related to
yourself
and your future now this one may be a
little tricky but i
really want you all to practice in the
comment section
i want you to give me an example ending
imagine i just told you a story i’ll
give you an example oh hold on a
question came through
hold on one second um
hey tiff we talked about how to start
and end the conversation but how can we
keep it going
now i actually taught that during the
week
but i didn’t put it in today’s class
because i wanted to focus on
how to start a conversation the
differences between the conversation
small talk and deep conversation and how
to end if you want to find out how to
keep a conversation going
again just go to week 12 in the 365 day
plan
and i have all the lessons there i’m
just doing a review here but great
question
good catch all right so we’ve gotten to
the end again you guys can practice and
review the lessons by going i have the
links over there
um give me an example if i just finished
telling you a story again
story time right i just told you a story
about how my sister and i used to like
to
rap and sing together right imagine i
just told you that story
and we’re talking back and forth and i’m
like yeah my sister and i
man when we were growing up it was great
we used to sing we used to rap and had a
good time
i finished telling my story i finished
talking about my experience
how would you end the conversation using
the three steps i want you guys to try
again three steps say the person’s name
that you’re speaking with right which
would be me
step number two again mention the
experience
and step number three related to
yourself and your future i’ll show you
again
i’ll take a few but i think you guys can
do it
use these three steps step one
name the person you’re speaking with
step two mention the experience remember
the experiences
i said when i was growing up my sister
and i true story
would sing and rap together and step
three
relate the experience to yourself and
your future
how would you end that conversation
again it can seem tricky but when you
have a formula
that you can follow you will definitely
start speaking fluently if you just
follow
the formula so again step one state the
person’s name
which is me step two state the
experience that was mentioned
and step number three tell how it
relates to you
and your future now i’m gonna let you
all type i know it’s gonna be a little
bit longer and i’m gonna keep going all
right here we go
typing in the comment section keep it
coming all right here we go
now imagine if the topic is about
your feelings if the topic of the
conversation is
feelings you can do something different
all right here we go
jahil says well tiffany that sounds
really fun
i would like to rap someday with you
guys okay
good very good now the only thing is
this
in the middle you forgot to tell the
experience
you did the first step well tiffany that
sounds really fun
good what was the experience remember
you gotta summarize
it sounds like you and your sister had a
great time together
then i would like to wrap someday with
you guys that would have been a great
wrap up alright
here we go gracias says hey sya i had
really enjoyed your company and i
enjoyed listening to your rap
hope we can talk more soon okay all
right all right
zakaria teacher tiffany i enjoyed a lot
your interview with joseon
and it gave me a desire to visit new
york okay all right so you used another
experience all right
here we go yes erka story time
hey marcela well tiff
it has been amazing speaking with you i
can imagine how
much fun you had with your sister maybe
when my sister comes back we will try
rapping together
excellent that was excellent exactly
what i just taught
you follow the instructions you answered
based on those three steps and you
talked about the experience i explained
excellent job here we go oh
i’m confused what does rap mean i’ll rap
for you guys really quickly all right
um all right this is from a tv show
called fresh prince
from the 90s some of you may know it um
here we go
in west philadelphia born and raised on
the playground is where i spent most of
my days
chilling out relaxing all cool and all
shooting some b-ball outside of the
school winning a couple of guys so
i’m rapping right now so that is
dennis what rapping actually is so my
sister and i would rap
and sing and i would like kind of like
beat like
like i would kind of beat she would do
some rapping or singing and then we’d go
into my parents room so
we liked music a lot when we were
growing up so yes
that is what rapping is all right so
again
marcella gave an excellent example
of following the instructions of what i
taught about how to end a conversation
that is based on an experience now what
if the conversation is based on
someone’s feelings or someone’s emotions
so
here are the steps i want to show you
right here
first thing say the name
of the person you are speaking with
wow mary i truly enjoyed speaking with
you
step one is the same you don’t have to
memorize a new step oh hold on one
second
jasmine says this topic is very helpful
even in our language
how to speak properly i’m so happy to
hear that jasmine that is really good
news
all right gracia hey tiff i really
enjoyed listening to your rap
you were really good at it wow i’m
impressed well i would love to come hear
you guys rap more someday
excellent very good what happened you
said
my name of course the experience
listening to my rap right and then in
the future you’d love to come and hear
us rap some more
good very good lewis says well tiff
it’s nice to talk to you about i get you
amazing when you sing and rap i’ll be
happy to sing with you soon
okay i get that you are amazing or you
were amazing
an amazing rapper or singer alright
dennis
i’m glad you enjoyed it kiss
well tiff it’s been a pleasure speaking
with you maybe someday we can rap
together okay
almost perfect kiss remember three steps
you said my name that was good
but you gotta say the experience you
gotta mention that i talked about i
rapped with my sister
and then come back with maybe someday we
can rap
together so good but you missed step two
all right
ruth tiffany i’ve enjoyed speaking with
you step one
i would like to sing with you and your
sister that’s step
three never forget step two guys because
step two is
summarizing and showing that you
listened
closely to my experience all right here
we go
mardo says the fresh prince of bel air i
love this show so much yes
the fresh prince of bel-air yes exactly
all right so now you all understand how
to end a conversation that’s about
experiences
now we’re going to feelings and we say
the first step
is the same again say the name of the
person
now the second step is briefly
mention the feelings they told you about
again
for example it was very interesting
listening to how you felt about dot dot
again i want to remind you all that
step two shows the person
that you actually were listening because
you’re just
restating you’re just summarizing what
they said
so in the last one i gave an experience
you said tiff it’s interesting that you
and your sister sang together ah
you were listening good now with the
feelings
same thing briefly mention the
feelings they talked about and then
finally right here we have this right
here
mention the importance of that feeling
and lead into another future
conversation
i also believe it is very important
hopefully we can talk more about it soon
so you see three steps here mention
their name
mention the feelings they addressed and
finally talk about the importance
acknowledge the importance
and the future hey i’d like to keep
talking about this
more all right the three steps for
ending a conversation about feelings
now some more comments came through gigi
says well tiffany i’m glad to learn that
you were a rapper when you were young
that reminds me of my childhood i wish i
was there to hear you rapping that’s
good
now if you’re saying i want to come in
the future too
that’s good all right third step
peterson
thank you very much all right here we go
here we go
um oh you already said that marceline
well angelica
it was nice seeing okay remember we’re
focusing on the example which was the
one i gave all right
now again so with feelings step one
you’re gonna say the person’s name step
two you’re going to mention the feelings
they talked about and step three
you want to mention the importance of
that
feeling and lead into another
conversation so for example
i will act for you all i’m gonna tell
you
about my feelings so again just acting
you know i really and truly love my
husband
i’m not married but i’m giving you guys
an example there’s something that he
just does for me
when i come home from work he’s so
excited to see me and it makes me feel
so
loved and it makes me want to love him
more
and i realize the beauty of marriage
there are there are good days and bad
days but
my husband just makes me feel like the
greatest woman
in the world so i really love him now
we just had a conversation imagine we
were going back and forth about marriage
and love
and i explained how i feel about my
husband how would you end
the conversation again
three steps we talked about feelings
step number one
say the name of the person well tiff i
really enjoyed speaking to you
as speaking with you about love step one
the person’s name step two it was really
interesting to see and
hear how much you love your husband we
talked about the emotion
i love my husband and step three the
importance of that feeling
i also think that love is important
i hope we can talk about this subject a
little bit more in the future
you see what happened right i wrapped up
that conversation
very naturally step one well tiffany
thank you so much
for telling me more about your
relationship i really like the way you
talked about how much you love your
husband
i think love is important too hopefully
we can talk more in the future
three steps so again i want you all to
try i’m looking at the time
few examples for a feeling step one
say the person’s name step two briefly
mention the feelings that were discussed
and step three mention the importance of
that feeling and
lead into another future conversation
all right
i want you guys to try you guys did a
good job with the experience portion
try for this one as well hold on one
second
um tiff i really andre i really enjoy
your class today it will help me have to
have a deep conversation
i’m so happy to hear that yes again guys
remember
these are all from the 365 day lesson
plan
this is why i encourage everyone follow
the plan
i’m just reviewing the lessons that are
already in the academy
trust me family if you follow my 365 day
lesson plan
you will be fluent in english you will
master english and it’s not just about
vocabulary
i teach you so many different things so
i’m so happy
to hear that you’re enjoying this class
alright
let’s see javier well tiff you rock i’ll
be waiting to see you again soon thanks
xavier
dennis well tiffany i was for the rap
okay hold on
let’s see well tiffany i it’s really
nice to learn about your story with your
sister i really hope i can have a good
story like that to say
i look forward to talking to you in the
future good all three steps
all right now we’re talking about
feelings everyone here we go
wow tiffany i really love to talk with
you it was very interesting listening to
how you felt about your amazing
marriage good here’s the here’s the wrap
up
i also believe it is very important to
create a great relationship with love
respect and communication hopefully we
can talk more in the future
jasmine yes
good job jasmine all three steps very
well stated and again
being that i’m a native english speaker
when you wrap up a conversation like
this
i feel like whoa this person can really
speak english it’s not about any grammar
mistakes you may have made
it’s all about how you organized your
thoughts and how you followed the steps
so great job jasmine
here we go amina wow joanna okay
remember we want to stay on the topic so
i want to show
examples i need you guys to pay
attention this is also another thing
i didn’t ask for any examples about
other people i want you guys to focus on
the fact that
i just had a conversation with you about
my husband and the love i have for my
husband
i want you to wrap up this conversation
using the three steps step one say the
name of the person which is me
step two mention the feelings that we
talked about
love and how much i care about him step
three
mention the importance of that feeling
and lead into another future
conversation
here we go marcella hey tiff i really
enjoy our conversation
you are right feeling loved is amazing
undoubtedly love is so important in any
marriage i am looking forward to sharing
more with you
good job marcela good job all right
here we go john hi tiff you’re amazing
in all you are doing you are a good
example for our generation
excuse me hope one day i meet you
personally to share ideas friendly
all right that was a good wrap up it
wasn’t for this conversation but that
was a great wrap up thank you
all right i’ll take let me see one or
two more people one or two more
individuals because then we have to wrap
up everyone give me one or two more
individuals again
remember i talked about my husband our
marriage and how much i love and care
about him
so wrap up the conversation about that
all right
let’s see let’s see all right here we go
wow tiffany it was nice to hear about
your relationship i’m so happy to hear
about how your husband loves you
i think that this intentions contributes
to a lot
a lot in a relationship i hope we can
talk more about relationship and love in
the future
will marie yes
very very good job you follow the steps
again the steps are simple family learn
the steps and you will be a master at
english conversations all right great
great job
very proud of you again now again
everyone we we do it live
weekly right and we have a different
topic every week but don’t forget
you can always review what i’m teaching
you today
is already available you can go right
back to week number 12
and review those lessons and you can
watch this class after it’s over i’ll
put the recording up okay
all right here we go another one kiss
says
well tiff i really enjoyed speaking with
you about your marriage it seems like
you both love each other
i believe love is important too
hopefully we can talk
more about love in the future my man
kiss yes
good job excellent job you wrapped it up
so well again you ought to understand
how excited i get
because i am a native english speaker
and when you all answer
following the simple steps it really
feels like you are already fluent and
i’m your teacher
but when you speak like this i feel like
yes
excellent job all right last one here we
go
louis weltiff i enjoyed you and your
husband
are so loving love and kindness
contribute a lot to building a good home
i hope i’ll be able to see you next time
in love
good job excellent again it’s not about
the little grammar errors
it’s all about the information lewis
excellent job
very very very good i’m very proud of
you excellent job
now family unfortunately class is coming
to an end
up but i gotta get paula our wonderful
admin paola says oh
tiffany how great to hear how happy your
marriage is going
and how loved he makes you feel i hope
to find someone who makes me talk like
that someday
and then i can also tell you about it
paula
paula excellent job all right we got
another one good job paola
michelle says hey tiffany i understand
you have a true love
with your husband love is a distinctive
characteristic to
us as human beings i hope one of our
next live lessons will be exclusively
related to true love
good job excellent excellent job you
guys are amazing and i love how you put
into practice
what you learned today now our class for
today is coming to an end
um but you guys do have a homework
excitement i do want to again commend
you all for all the practice
and your interaction today you did a
great job and i want you guys to start
putting into practice what you learned
today
now
you