here we go everyone getting ready for

our class

tonight now our focus this evening this

afternoon

is day 79 starting off from week 12.

and the topic was small talk

versus deep conversation now i want to

say something real quick but

john kempel hello good to see you good

to see you

all right so again we're talking about

conversations tonight

mastering english conversations and

again remember you all can go over

these lessons review them they all come

from the 365 day lesson plan

but small talk versus deep conversation

you know this is something that when i

was in

korea i tried to teach my students

because

once you master the art of english

conversation

you'll watch your confidence take off

so let's see the difference between

small talk

and deep conversation so small

talk is basically meant to be light

and fun it is a way for two

or more people to talk to each other

without really getting to know the other

so now i'm gonna give you guys some

example topics but again i want you to

interact so

tell me what are some topics that you

think

are common for small talk what are some

common

small talk conversation topics remember

small

talk is very light and fun nothing too

serious so what do you think are some

common

small talk questions or small talk

topics i'm very curious to see if you

guys have any ideas

here we go luis hello hello i'm doing

great thank you it's good to see you

good to see you

here we go blanca hello good to see you

all right so the question i asked

everyone on the screen

you see that we're first looking at the

difference between

small talk and deep conversation

and i want you all to let me know in the

chat box or in the comment section

what are some questions or some topics

that you think are perfect for small

talk

not for a deep conversation but for

small talk all right

here we go nana good to see you hello

all right ben bendo says the weather

great one yes

usually for small talk even benvendo

when i'm on the street

walking somewhere and let's say it's a

beautiful day

i can say to someone that i don't even

know who

isn't the weather amazing today and

they'll respond

small talk very good answer ben vindo

marthaleen hello

good to see you kiss says netflix tv

shows

good answer yes small talk hey have you

seen the new netflix show

i actually watched a netflix program it

was pretty good it's called the baker

and the beauty

it was good for those that want a new

show to watch the baker and the beauty

so yes

small talk good one kiss zakara says

zakaria says

when you talk about the weather yes

marcellus says

weather fashion sports good marto says

small talk about the weather good i

think some of you guys

studied before a class excellent

patricia says weather or sports javier

yes weather miriam says tip how was your

day oh

for an example excellent now small talk

yes hey how was your day

yes and the person can say oh it was

pretty good thanks so like just small

talk all right gigi says sports can be

small talk yes

here we go marcella sports yes

and let me see oh social events excuse

me zahn

hello good to see you marceline says

small talk greeting someone and

appreciating his or her

outfit yes or the way they dress javier

it's a sunny day yes all right gigi

the cinema or movies true louis

introducing yourself

hey where are you from oh really i'm

from and you go back and forth

good marcella the movies good

jasmine hobbies and sports hey i like

art what about you

small talk good peterson hello good to

see you man good to see you

and andres small talk about your day all

right so

you guys have a good idea of what small

talk

usually includes now what about deep

conversations all right so again we're

getting the foundation for our lesson

today

someone came in let's see oh zakaria

when you first meet with your co-worker

okay yes you can say hey

how are you and ask them about their day

deborah hello deborah good to see you

and yes deborah the weather is a good

topic

for small talk very good now deep

conversations

let's look at the definition of a deep

conversation

deep conversation is meant to be

deep and thought provoking

it is a way for two or more people

to talk to each other and truly

understand how the other thinks

now this is when it gets very

interesting

with small talk we say it's a very

surface level

conversation but with deep conversation

you are really interested in the

other person's opinions ideas

or their philosophy so tell me

what are some topics that can lead to

really deep conversations for example

politics right if i ask someone

hey what do you think about the new

president immediately

they're going to give me their ideas

their opinions

about the new president so what are some

topics that you think are good for deep

conversation topics that will lead you

to

understand the other person's thoughts

and ideas

pop them in the comments section guys

here we go ruth says oh

for small talk appreciating somebody

okay

my c says the news again these are still

responses to small

talk jasmine also in speaking about

small talk

family friends common interests food

culture or travel all right uh someone

says program

oh okay yes iconic hey gracia um

media gossip confession now confession

would be

for deep conversation right kiss

yes religion yes religion is a topic

that leads to a deep

conversation great example javier yes

your inner feelings

for example hey how are you feeling

today

you see that was a little bit different

than you know you all come on at the

beginning

hey teacher how are you right and i'm

like hey i'm feeling good

now sometimes when you're in person

someone may say hey no no really tell me

how you're really feeling how are you

really doing

that will lead to a deep conversation so

great example

marceline talking about the organization

in your company

next event in the company all right next

events could be small talk

but then how the organization is working

and how you feel about it could lead to

a deep conversation

paula says family dreams and plans about

your future

very good examples muriel education

the importance of vaccines i like how

you're connecting it to what's actually

going on right now

in our society in our world miriam very

good human rights

democracy very good marcella religion

yes true dennis religion yes

gracia politics yes louis

your feelings and then questions about

your feelings very true

gracias says debate very true good

answer

andres ah yes deep conversations about

politics excellent angel heated debates

true but debates about what what are you

debating give me some more specifics

zakaria when you talk with someone about

climate changes

and their consequences and how they will

affect our planet

good example yes all of these things

lead to deep conversations then

mardo says politics religion or the

latest news

marcella personal experiences yes

jasmine asks deep conversation

personal questions for example how do

you think you will die

exactly immediately marcel excuse me

jasmine

you go into thinking about hey how will

i die

and it leads the person to start giving

their opinions a good example

deborah uh polemic topics i think maybe

politics um maybe

all right um or problem okay javier

relationships

peterson soccer okay you can say who's

the best team but that kind of usually

is small talk

depending on how deep the question is

all right

oh peterson excuse me jasmine life and

death future emotions

great examples everyone zan says how

about books and films based on these

films yes

good patricia says economy in the world

of the world economy

um basketball okay deep conversations

about the players

what's going on in their lives okay and

sergio talking about god yes

tapping into what we said earlier about

religion so you all understand the

differences between

small talk and deep conversation when we

think of different topics oh some more

came through

gigi says discrimination racism can both

lead to deep a deep conversation very

true

marcella styles of raising children

excellent examples you all

angel voting for a new president yes

marcella

controversial topics yes and dennis

talking with your loved ones

about their life goals excellent one

more

merchant says the news latest mobile

phones and technology all right so you

can have deep conversations depending on

the questions you ask oh and last one

culture very good example so again we're

seeing that

small talk and deep conversation they

are

different so i want to give you some

examples

in small talk in this type of

conversation

no personal questions are usually asked

and i want you all to pay attention as i

give you the tips because again

speaking english fluently is not just

about memorizing words and expressions

it's about understanding things like

this if you can be a

master of conversation english

conversation

you will seem fluent already and this is

something that even as americans

we have to learn how to go back and

forth naturally in a conversation so

with small talk you don't ask personal

questions

usually the only emotions involved

are happy or neutral and let me tell you

all this

think about this for example i've had

good days and i've had bad days

but if someone asks me hey tiff how are

you i say hey you know i'm okay i'm

doing all right

why because it's small talk i don't go

into any deep conversation i keep it

neutral

now i may have had a bad day but it's

small talk it's not the time for me to

get into a deep

conversation so i keep the emotion

neutral

i'm okay everything's all right i'll

keep it going

now my friends that know me really well

they can tell

when something really is wrong and

they'll say

uh what's really going on how do you

really feel

and then it leads to a deeper

conversation which can be about

feelings of uh maybe if i'm sad or

something happened or if i'm mad

i can go into those but you don't go

into those emotions

for small talk here's another thing i

want you to remember

for small talk it does not lead to the

truly getting to know each other it's

really surface level like

hey how are you great nice to see you

have a wonderful day

and then it's over you don't really get

close to a person

through small talk now deep

conversations

let me give you these tips everyone

these

enable the individuals to truly

get to know each other on a deeper

level next it usually requires

deep thought and a certain opinion to be

expressed

so think about this family when we meet

once a month for our zoom call right

we come together it's exciting and then

i

always put you all into breakout rooms

why because i want you all to have

deep conversations you start off with

small

talk but then you go to answer the

questions that i've assigned

and what happens you start to understand

how the other individuals think

you start to see hey we may live in

different countries but we have a lot in

common

so the deep conversations allow you to

express your opinions

so our monthly meetings involve deep

conversations

the other thing is right here deep

conversations

allow a person to express their

true feelings about a certain

topic so you'll see again this common

thing

opinions ideas talk about your

experiences

all during deep conversation

a comment came through mardo says in my

country of france

it is not appropriate to have deep

conversations

about politics or religion in the

professional or workplace

for me deep conversations are only with

close friends

very interesting you know i experienced

that as well when i was in korea

my friends told me don't talk about

politics because people get too upset

it's kind of a taboo topic now in

america

you can have a serious conversation

about

politics religion sometimes can be a

little bit tricky now

in america even though we're a christian

country but yes depending on where you

live

certain conversations are okay and

certain conversations are not okay so

thank you so much for sharing that marto

tuni

hey we are so happy to see you we hope

that you are doing better

and again we're still praying for you

and your family good to see you here

with us

this evening all right so let's continue

family

so we understand better the differences

between small

talk and deep conversations

now here are some examples all right in

this type of conversation

again i said no personal questions no

emotions beside happy or neutral

and it does not lead to you truly

getting to know each other

so here we go some example topics and

you all gave some great ones

you guys actually gave everything that i

had in my notes right here

because you said movies for

entertainment so look here we go some

examples

about the weather you can say how's the

weather

for current news hey did you hear about

the earthquake

for sports you can say did you watch the

game

last night and then for entertainment

you can say hey

did you see the oscars alright so here's

what i want to do i want to give you an

opportunity to practice

i'm going gonna give you a topic and i

want you to give me

a question that would be perfect for

small talk

for example for sports an individual

said did you watch the game

last night right very simple question

it's not about the person's feelings or

their opinion

just very basic hey did you watch the

game last night

what's another simple question

used for small talk not about emotions

that you can ask someone about sports

give me a small talk question about

sports i want to see how good you guys

are again here's the example

right here did you watch the game last

night

if someone's walking up to you and they

want to have a conversation

small talk about sports what could you

ask them now as you guys are typing i'm

going to keep moving forward to give you

some examples

for the deep conversation all right now

for deep conversation

here are the examples remember there are

three things we have to remember

here are the examples for a deep

conversation about the weather

what's your view on climate change

you see how the topic is the same but i

changed the question

because now i'm curious to know that

individual's

opinion or idea about the weather

now an example question came through

from paola

for small talk paula says do you like to

watch the olympics

all right so here's the thing as long as

you don't say

why remember small talk is really not

about the person's

feelings or opinions you got to keep it

basic

hey did you watch the game yes or no do

you like the olympics

that leads to a deep conversation so

it's a little bit different we want to

keep at at

not their opinion not their feelings all

right so try again

all right uh gigi says hey what's your

favorite player or who's your favorite

player all right so as long as these

don't go

too deep it's okay um jahil what do you

think about the game

last night all right so again these kind

of

lead to a deep conversation so we got to

be careful

uh do you ever play soccer all right

good open-ended question

do you ever play soccer yeah i play on

the weekends

okay not about emotions it's very simple

all right

who's your favorite basketball team all

right this again can kind of lead to a

deeper conversation

but if you keep it there it's okay

business business is actually kind of a

deep conversation

all right marcela did you hear that the

tournament was called off all right

basic question

good do you like working out all right

it can be basic or a small talk but what

happens is it leads to a deep

question oh you do why do you like

working out and then you see

automatically it leads to a deeper

conversation so you want to try to keep

them

basic here we go um do you like to play

sports all right do you like baseball

what is your favorite game all right

do you know where the match is taking

place all right basic question

can we join to watch the super bowl all

right good geraldine do you know which

was the who was the

best player last night again their

opinion

so it kind of remember it leads to a

deeper conversation so if i'm asking you

hey

who's your favorite player me too i

really like him man he's good what's

your favorite player okay what's your

favorite play he did

yes it leads to a deep conversation me

getting to know the person so it's not

really small talk

here we go uh did you have an

opportunity to watch the olympic game

very good paola very good andres did you

see michael jordan yesterday

good all right nana hi how did the game

go all right okay

amina do you like this food do you like

this okay again as long as it stays

basic so

you guys see it's kind of tricky right

small

talk and deep conversations are very

different again

i want to show you all now really

quickly how we can have the same topics

but the question changes and turns to a

deep

conversation question look at the

weather what's your

view on climate change i'm asking to

know their opinion

current news who do you think will win

this election

what's happening exactly family

i want to know the person's opinion i

want to know their viewpoint

i'm getting to understand and know how

they

think that is the definition of a deep

conversation all right

here's another one for sports which is

more important

winning or participating

and then finally entertainment should

young children

watch television you see what's

happening right

again getting down deep means

getting into the mind of the person

you're speaking to

you want to ask them hey what do you

think

what is your view on this if i just say

how's the weather

it's just a fact it's sunny outside it's

raining outside

or did you watch the olympic game yes or

no

small talk keeping it very basic not

asking any opinion

but deep conversation all right so i

think everyone kind of gets it right

the difference between deep conversation

and small talk

now i want us to keep going all right

there are some things you have to

remember as it relates to mastering

english conversations let me show you

all these things that i want you to

remember

don't dominate now let me explain this

word dominate all right everyone after

me

dominate good again

dominate good

last time dominate

excellent now dominate means to take

over

right to to take over and to not let

anybody else participate

for example my live english classes

right

when we have these classes every week

i'm not the only one speaking

yes you can only hear my voice but you

all are in the chat

room chat box right in the comment

section and i pop your comments on the

screen

because it's an interaction back and

forth now if i said

no more comments only i'm gonna talk

i would be dominating the conversation

or dominating the class

so one rule related to conversations is

don't dominate now let me explain oh

somebody joined us

hey infra no worries we are happy to see

you welcome welcome

all right so let me give you this advice

everyone the first thing to remember

is to never dominate the conversation

it is important to make sure there is a

balance between

you and the person you are speaking to

it needs to be this

back and forth back and forth not here

i'm talking i'm talking i'm talking back

and forth needs to happen now

here are some reasons and better

explanations for you one

dominating shows that you don't

care about the other person's opinion

so think about it family when we have

our monthly meeting right and i put you

all in breakout rooms

and there are four people in one room if

for 10 minutes

one person talks the other three people

will feel like

this person really doesn't care about us

this person

only thinks about his or her ideas so

you have to be very careful

not to dominate the conversation and

this is very important for english

learners to understand because

sometimes when you get nervous you start

talking a lot

i do the same thing when i was studying

korean sometimes i would get nervous and

i just start talking talking talking

but conversation mastering english

conversation is not always about

talking you have two ears and one mouth

it's about

listening well and knowing when to speak

so again telling you all not to dominate

all right

people don't want to have conversations

with people who dominate the

conversation

and finally it also shows that

your listening skills are not good

so you see now why i emphasize

the importance of mastering english

conversations

it's not just about the words you use

it's about the

art of conversation mastering english

conversation

knowing when to listen knowing when to

speak

knowing when to comment on someone

else's opinion

and then ask a question so again number

one

don't dominate another thing i want you

all to remember is right here

listen attentively uh real quick for

pronunciation practice everyone

attentively

good i want you to look at the word

while we say it again after me

attentively

good last time attentively

excellent now listening attentively

means you have to

pay attention is the second thing to

remember is that listening skill

our skills are an important part of

effective communication

in other words listening attentively

will actually help you to master english

conversations so

listening attentively will help you to

understand

people better pay attention to what

they're saying

don't think about many different things

in your mind at the same time

let me see another comment came through

hold on one second

uh what do you think about donald trump

yes a good question for advanced or

deep conversation uh you don't want to

steal the conversation exactly don't

dominate or steal the conversation

yes jasmine ask their opinion get them

involved

very good zakaria says usually

korean teachers have to dominate their

classroom because apart it's a part of

their culture

very good exactly in korean culture the

teachers

speak for the entire time and i've told

some stories on my youtube channel

about my first korean class in graduate

school

the teacher talked for four hours four

hours

and we didn't say anything she was

extremely smart and she ended up being

my favorite teacher

because her personality was great but it

really

surprised me that she could talk for

that long and there was no interaction

so yes

very good example zakaria very good

point all right so here we go again

as you listen you actually improve your

english ability because you are taking

in

new information all right and finally

if you listen well the other person will

also want to listen to you again

family conversations mastering english

conversation

it's all of this so when you are

listening um

really wow to a person speaking

they'll want to listen to you when it's

your turn

but if while they're talking you're

looking at your phone you're not paying

attention

they're not going to want to listen to

you so it's very important to listen

attentively all right the next thing is

don't interrupt the third thing is to

remember

is to never interrupt this is because

interrupting

someone or suddenly stopping them is

rude and can stop a conversation

people don't want to talk to someone who

constantly interrupts them

next interrupting someone shows that you

are not

listening to them and finally it also

hinders the flow of conversation because

it shows that you think your words are

more important

now family once again what you're

learning

these are tips that even native english

speakers have to learn and understand

it's tempting when you're having a

conversation

you want to say something but it's

better to be patient

to listen and wait for your turn to come

that makes the conversation flow better

so be careful

not to interrupt all right so you guys

are getting the real good

gems for how to master english

conversation

now this is interesting how to

end a conversation this is something

that can be a little tricky sometimes

not knowing how to stop a conversation

when you're in the midst of a

conversation with someone right

all right so i'm going to give you guys

some examples we're going to talk about

it a little bit okay

here we go so type or experience for

example

say the name of the person you are

speaking with all right now let me pause

really quickly

there are three types of conversations

and ways to end the conversation right

so if you're having a conversation and

the focus

of your conversation was an experience

right let's say maybe you were actually

at a seminar that i gave and you walked

up to me

and we started talking about one of my

story

times right we started talking about my

experience

and then you told me about your

experience and we went back and forth

how do you end that type of conversation

well one way is you say the name

of the person you are speaking with for

example

well brian it was so great speaking with

you

so you can say again well teacher

tiffany

well tiffany it was such a great

experience

or it was so great speaking with you

you can memorize this actual pattern

it was so great speaking with you again

you're just saying man it was really

nice speaking with you you're letting

them know you appreciated it

now the second one is right here briefly

mention the experience they told you

about again

i really enjoyed hearing about

your trip to paris and then relate it to

yourself and

something about the future very quickly

all right

so these are three steps if you're

talking about an experience

there are three steps to ending it now

i'm going to put it all together watch

this family

step one say the name of the person

well brian it was so great speaking with

you

step two tell about the experience i

really enjoyed hearing about your trip

to paris and step three related to

yourself and something about the future

hopefully i will be able to visit there

in the future

as well so again step one

say the name of the person you're

speaking with

step two briefly mention the experience

they talked about

ah well teacher tiffany it was so nice

speaking with you

i really enjoyed your story time today

step three relate it to yourself and

something about the future

man i really hope i'll be able to go

bowling like you did

one day in the future so all right again

if the conversation

is about an experience you end the

conversation

smoothly like a native english speaker

by following these three steps

step number one say the person's name

step number two mention the experience

they told you about

and step number three related to

yourself

and your future now this one may be a

little tricky but i

really want you all to practice in the

comment section

i want you to give me an example ending

imagine i just told you a story i'll

give you an example oh hold on a

question came through

hold on one second um

hey tiff we talked about how to start

and end the conversation but how can we

keep it going

now i actually taught that during the

week

but i didn't put it in today's class

because i wanted to focus on

how to start a conversation the

differences between the conversation

small talk and deep conversation and how

to end if you want to find out how to

keep a conversation going

again just go to week 12 in the 365 day

plan

and i have all the lessons there i'm

just doing a review here but great

question

good catch all right so we've gotten to

the end again you guys can practice and

review the lessons by going i have the

links over there

um give me an example if i just finished

telling you a story again

story time right i just told you a story

about how my sister and i used to like

to

rap and sing together right imagine i

just told you that story

and we're talking back and forth and i'm

like yeah my sister and i

man when we were growing up it was great

we used to sing we used to rap and had a

good time

i finished telling my story i finished

talking about my experience

how would you end the conversation using

the three steps i want you guys to try

again three steps say the person's name

that you're speaking with right which

would be me

step number two again mention the

experience

and step number three related to

yourself and your future i'll show you

again

i'll take a few but i think you guys can

do it

use these three steps step one

name the person you're speaking with

step two mention the experience remember

the experiences

i said when i was growing up my sister

and i true story

would sing and rap together and step

three

relate the experience to yourself and

your future

how would you end that conversation

again it can seem tricky but when you

have a formula

that you can follow you will definitely

start speaking fluently if you just

follow

the formula so again step one state the

person's name

which is me step two state the

experience that was mentioned

and step number three tell how it

relates to you

and your future now i'm gonna let you

all type i know it's gonna be a little

bit longer and i'm gonna keep going all

right here we go

typing in the comment section keep it

coming all right here we go

now imagine if the topic is about

your feelings if the topic of the

conversation is

feelings you can do something different

all right here we go

jahil says well tiffany that sounds

really fun

i would like to rap someday with you

guys okay

good very good now the only thing is

this

in the middle you forgot to tell the

experience

you did the first step well tiffany that

sounds really fun

good what was the experience remember

you gotta summarize

it sounds like you and your sister had a

great time together

then i would like to wrap someday with

you guys that would have been a great

wrap up alright

here we go gracias says hey sya i had

really enjoyed your company and i

enjoyed listening to your rap

hope we can talk more soon okay all

right all right

zakaria teacher tiffany i enjoyed a lot

your interview with joseon

and it gave me a desire to visit new

york okay all right so you used another

experience all right

here we go yes erka story time

hey marcela well tiff

it has been amazing speaking with you i

can imagine how

much fun you had with your sister maybe

when my sister comes back we will try

rapping together

excellent that was excellent exactly

what i just taught

you follow the instructions you answered

based on those three steps and you

talked about the experience i explained

excellent job here we go oh

i'm confused what does rap mean i'll rap

for you guys really quickly all right

um all right this is from a tv show

called fresh prince

from the 90s some of you may know it um

here we go

in west philadelphia born and raised on

the playground is where i spent most of

my days

chilling out relaxing all cool and all

shooting some b-ball outside of the

school winning a couple of guys so

i'm rapping right now so that is

dennis what rapping actually is so my

sister and i would rap

and sing and i would like kind of like

beat like

like i would kind of beat she would do

some rapping or singing and then we'd go

into my parents room so

we liked music a lot when we were

growing up so yes

that is what rapping is all right so

again

marcella gave an excellent example

of following the instructions of what i

taught about how to end a conversation

that is based on an experience now what

if the conversation is based on

someone's feelings or someone's emotions

so

here are the steps i want to show you

right here

first thing say the name

of the person you are speaking with

wow mary i truly enjoyed speaking with

you

step one is the same you don't have to

memorize a new step oh hold on one

second

jasmine says this topic is very helpful

even in our language

how to speak properly i'm so happy to

hear that jasmine that is really good

news

all right gracia hey tiff i really

enjoyed listening to your rap

you were really good at it wow i'm

impressed well i would love to come hear

you guys rap more someday

excellent very good what happened you

said

my name of course the experience

listening to my rap right and then in

the future you'd love to come and hear

us rap some more

good very good lewis says well tiff

it's nice to talk to you about i get you

amazing when you sing and rap i'll be

happy to sing with you soon

okay i get that you are amazing or you

were amazing

an amazing rapper or singer alright

dennis

i'm glad you enjoyed it kiss

well tiff it's been a pleasure speaking

with you maybe someday we can rap

together okay

almost perfect kiss remember three steps

you said my name that was good

but you gotta say the experience you

gotta mention that i talked about i

rapped with my sister

and then come back with maybe someday we

can rap

together so good but you missed step two

all right

ruth tiffany i've enjoyed speaking with

you step one

i would like to sing with you and your

sister that's step

three never forget step two guys because

step two is

summarizing and showing that you

listened

closely to my experience all right here

we go

mardo says the fresh prince of bel air i

love this show so much yes

the fresh prince of bel-air yes exactly

all right so now you all understand how

to end a conversation that's about

experiences

now we're going to feelings and we say

the first step

is the same again say the name of the

person

now the second step is briefly

mention the feelings they told you about

again

for example it was very interesting

listening to how you felt about dot dot

again i want to remind you all that

step two shows the person

that you actually were listening because

you're just

restating you're just summarizing what

they said

so in the last one i gave an experience

you said tiff it's interesting that you

and your sister sang together ah

you were listening good now with the

feelings

same thing briefly mention the

feelings they talked about and then

finally right here we have this right

here

mention the importance of that feeling

and lead into another future

conversation

i also believe it is very important

hopefully we can talk more about it soon

so you see three steps here mention

their name

mention the feelings they addressed and

finally talk about the importance

acknowledge the importance

and the future hey i'd like to keep

talking about this

more all right the three steps for

ending a conversation about feelings

now some more comments came through gigi

says well tiffany i'm glad to learn that

you were a rapper when you were young

that reminds me of my childhood i wish i

was there to hear you rapping that's

good

now if you're saying i want to come in

the future too

that's good all right third step

peterson

thank you very much all right here we go

here we go

um oh you already said that marceline

well angelica

it was nice seeing okay remember we're

focusing on the example which was the

one i gave all right

now again so with feelings step one

you're gonna say the person's name step

two you're going to mention the feelings

they talked about and step three

you want to mention the importance of

that

feeling and lead into another

conversation so for example

i will act for you all i'm gonna tell

you

about my feelings so again just acting

you know i really and truly love my

husband

i'm not married but i'm giving you guys

an example there's something that he

just does for me

when i come home from work he's so

excited to see me and it makes me feel

so

loved and it makes me want to love him

more

and i realize the beauty of marriage

there are there are good days and bad

days but

my husband just makes me feel like the

greatest woman

in the world so i really love him now

we just had a conversation imagine we

were going back and forth about marriage

and love

and i explained how i feel about my

husband how would you end

the conversation again

three steps we talked about feelings

step number one

say the name of the person well tiff i

really enjoyed speaking to you

as speaking with you about love step one

the person's name step two it was really

interesting to see and

hear how much you love your husband we

talked about the emotion

i love my husband and step three the

importance of that feeling

i also think that love is important

i hope we can talk about this subject a

little bit more in the future

you see what happened right i wrapped up

that conversation

very naturally step one well tiffany

thank you so much

for telling me more about your

relationship i really like the way you

talked about how much you love your

husband

i think love is important too hopefully

we can talk more in the future

three steps so again i want you all to

try i'm looking at the time

few examples for a feeling step one

say the person's name step two briefly

mention the feelings that were discussed

and step three mention the importance of

that feeling and

lead into another future conversation

all right

i want you guys to try you guys did a

good job with the experience portion

try for this one as well hold on one

second

um tiff i really andre i really enjoy

your class today it will help me have to

have a deep conversation

i'm so happy to hear that yes again guys

remember

these are all from the 365 day lesson

plan

this is why i encourage everyone follow

the plan

i'm just reviewing the lessons that are

already in the academy

trust me family if you follow my 365 day

lesson plan

you will be fluent in english you will

master english and it's not just about

vocabulary

i teach you so many different things so

i'm so happy

to hear that you're enjoying this class

alright

let's see javier well tiff you rock i'll

be waiting to see you again soon thanks

xavier

dennis well tiffany i was for the rap

okay hold on

let's see well tiffany i it's really

nice to learn about your story with your

sister i really hope i can have a good

story like that to say

i look forward to talking to you in the

future good all three steps

all right now we're talking about

feelings everyone here we go

wow tiffany i really love to talk with

you it was very interesting listening to

how you felt about your amazing

marriage good here's the here's the wrap

up

i also believe it is very important to

create a great relationship with love

respect and communication hopefully we

can talk more in the future

jasmine yes

good job jasmine all three steps very

well stated and again

being that i'm a native english speaker

when you wrap up a conversation like

this

i feel like whoa this person can really

speak english it's not about any grammar

mistakes you may have made

it's all about how you organized your

thoughts and how you followed the steps

so great job jasmine

here we go amina wow joanna okay

remember we want to stay on the topic so

i want to show

examples i need you guys to pay

attention this is also another thing

i didn't ask for any examples about

other people i want you guys to focus on

the fact that

i just had a conversation with you about

my husband and the love i have for my

husband

i want you to wrap up this conversation

using the three steps step one say the

name of the person which is me

step two mention the feelings that we

talked about

love and how much i care about him step

three

mention the importance of that feeling

and lead into another future

conversation

here we go marcella hey tiff i really

enjoy our conversation

you are right feeling loved is amazing

undoubtedly love is so important in any

marriage i am looking forward to sharing

more with you

good job marcela good job all right

here we go john hi tiff you're amazing

in all you are doing you are a good

example for our generation

excuse me hope one day i meet you

personally to share ideas friendly

all right that was a good wrap up it

wasn't for this conversation but that

was a great wrap up thank you

all right i'll take let me see one or

two more people one or two more

individuals because then we have to wrap

up everyone give me one or two more

individuals again

remember i talked about my husband our

marriage and how much i love and care

about him

so wrap up the conversation about that

all right

let's see let's see all right here we go

wow tiffany it was nice to hear about

your relationship i'm so happy to hear

about how your husband loves you

i think that this intentions contributes

to a lot

a lot in a relationship i hope we can

talk more about relationship and love in

the future

will marie yes

very very good job you follow the steps

again the steps are simple family learn

the steps and you will be a master at

english conversations all right great

great job

very proud of you again now again

everyone we we do it live

weekly right and we have a different

topic every week but don't forget

you can always review what i'm teaching

you today

is already available you can go right

back to week number 12

and review those lessons and you can

watch this class after it's over i'll

put the recording up okay

all right here we go another one kiss

says

well tiff i really enjoyed speaking with

you about your marriage it seems like

you both love each other

i believe love is important too

hopefully we can talk

more about love in the future my man

kiss yes

good job excellent job you wrapped it up

so well again you ought to understand

how excited i get

because i am a native english speaker

and when you all answer

following the simple steps it really

feels like you are already fluent and

i'm your teacher

but when you speak like this i feel like

yes

excellent job all right last one here we

go

louis weltiff i enjoyed you and your

husband

are so loving love and kindness

contribute a lot to building a good home

i hope i'll be able to see you next time

in love

good job excellent again it's not about

the little grammar errors

it's all about the information lewis

excellent job

very very very good i'm very proud of

you excellent job

now family unfortunately class is coming

to an end

up but i gotta get paula our wonderful

admin paola says oh

tiffany how great to hear how happy your

marriage is going

and how loved he makes you feel i hope

to find someone who makes me talk like

that someday

and then i can also tell you about it

paula

paula excellent job all right we got

another one good job paola

michelle says hey tiffany i understand

you have a true love

with your husband love is a distinctive

characteristic to

us as human beings i hope one of our

next live lessons will be exclusively

related to true love

good job excellent excellent job you

guys are amazing and i love how you put

into practice

what you learned today now our class for

today is coming to an end

um but you guys do have a homework

excitement i do want to again commend

you all for all the practice

and your interaction today you did a

great job and i want you guys to start

putting into practice what you learned

today

now

you

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我们开始吧，每个人都在为今晚的课程做好准备

现在我们今天下午的重点

是从第 12 周开始的第 79 天。

主题是闲聊

与深入交谈，现在我

想说点真正的快点，但

约翰肯佩尔你好，很高兴看到 很

高兴见到你，

所以今晚我们再次谈论

对话

掌握英语对话，并

再次记住你们都可以复习

这些课程 回顾它们，它们都

来自 365 天的课程计划，

但闲聊与深度对话，

你知道这是 当

我在

韩国时，我试图教我的学生，

因为

一旦你掌握了英语会话的艺术，

你就会看到你的信心起飞，

所以让我们看看

闲聊

和深入交谈之间的区别，所以

闲聊基本上意味着轻松

有趣的是，这是两个

或更多人在

不真正了解对方的情况下相互交谈的一种方式，

所以现在我会给你们一些

示例主题 但是我希望你再次

互动所以

告诉我你

认为闲聊常见的

话题是

什么？

谈话问题或闲聊

话题我很好奇

你们有什么想法

在这里我们去路易斯你好你好我做得

很好谢谢很

高兴见到你很高兴在这里见到你

我们去布兰卡你好很高兴见到你

好的，所以我

在屏幕上问每个人的问题

你看到我们首先看看

闲聊和深度对话之间的区别

，我希望大家在

聊天框或评论部分让我

知道有哪些问题 或者一些

你认为适合

闲聊的话题，

不是深入的谈话，而是

闲聊 ndo

当我在街上

走在某个地方，让我们说这是

美好的一天

你好

很高兴看到你 亲吻说 netflix 电视

节目

很好的回答

看面包师和美女

所以是

的 闲聊很好 一个吻

zakara 说 zakaria 说

当你谈论天气时 是的

marcellus 说

天气 时尚 运动好 marto

说闲聊天气很好 我

想你们中的一些人

在上课前学习得很好

帕特里夏说天气或运动哈维尔

是的天气米里亚姆说小费你

今天过得怎么样

哦举个例子很好现在闲聊

是的嘿你过得怎么样

是的而且这个人可以说哦这

很好谢谢所以李 ke just

little talk 好吧 gigi 说体育可以是

闲聊

他们的穿着方式 哈维尔

这是一个阳光明媚的日子 是的 好的

吉吉 电影院或电影 真正的路易斯

自我介绍

嘿，你从哪里来 哦，我真的

来自，你来回走

好马塞拉 电影 好

茉莉花 爱好和运动 嘿，我喜欢

艺术 你的闲聊怎么样

彼得森 你好 很

高兴见到你

为今天的课程打下基础

h 很高兴见到你

，是的，deborah 天气是闲聊的好

话题 非常好 现在 深度

对话

让我们看看深度

对话

的定义

互相交谈并真正

了解对方现在的想法

这是

闲聊变得非常有趣的时候

我有

哪些话题可以引发

真正深入的对话，例如

政治，如果我问某人，

嘿，你对新总统有什么看法，

他们马上会给我他们的想法，

他们

对新总统的看法，那么有哪些

话题？ 你认为有利于深入

对话的话题，这些话题会引导你

理解对方的想法

和想法

，在评论区弹出它们 n伙计们

，我们走了，露丝说哦，

为了闲聊欣赏某人，

好吧，

我的c再次说新闻这些仍然是

对

闲聊茉莉花的回应，也在

谈论闲聊

家庭朋友共同兴趣饮食

文化或旅行，好吧，有人

说节目

哦，好吧 是的，标志性的嘿，格雷西亚，嗯，

媒体八卦告白，现在告白

将

用于深入交谈，正确的吻

是的，宗教是的，宗教是一个

引发深度

交谈的话题，很好的例子哈维尔是的，

你的内心感受

，例如嘿，你今天感觉如何，

你看到那是一个 有点

不同，你一开始就知道你们都来了

嘿老师，你好吗，我

觉得嘿，我现在感觉很好，

有时当你面对面时，

有人可能会说嘿不，真的告诉我

你怎么样 真的感觉你是怎么

做的

，这将导致深入的对话，这样

很好的例子

marceline 谈论

你公司的组织

公司的下一个活动 好吧 接下来的

活动可能是闲聊，

但随后组织的运作方式

以及您对它的感受可能会

引发深入的对话

Paula 说家庭梦想和对

您未来的计划

非常好的例子 muriel 教育

疫苗的重要性 我喜欢

你的样子 将它与

我们这个世界的社会现在实际发生的事情联系起来 miriam

很好 人权

民主 很好 marcella 宗教

是的 真的 dennis 宗教 是

gracia 政治 是 louis

你的感受，然后询问

你的感受 非常真实

gracias 说辩论 非常真实 很好

回答

安德烈斯啊是的关于

政治的深入对话优秀的天使激烈的辩论是

正确的，但是

当你与某人谈论

气候变化

及其后果以及它们将如何

影响我们的星球时，关于你在辩论什么的辩论给了我更多的细节扎卡里亚

很好的例子是的所有 这些事情

引发了深入的对话，然后

马尔多说政治宗教或

最新消息

arcella 个人经历 是的

jasmine 进行深入的交谈

个人问题，例如，

你认为你会

如何立即死去 marcel 对不起，

jasmine

你开始思考嘿，我会

怎么死

，这导致人们开始给出

他们的意见 一个很好的例子

deborah uh 争论的话题 我想也许是

政治 嗯 也许

好吧 嗯或问题 好吧 哈维尔

关系

彼得森足球 好吧 你可以说谁

是最好的球队 但这种通常

是闲聊

取决于问题有多深

好吧

彼得森 对不起 茉莉花生活和

死亡 未来 情绪

很好的例子 每个人都说

基于这些电影的书籍和电影

怎么样

利用我们之前所说的关于

宗教的内容，以便大家了解

小t之间的差异 当我们想到不同的话题时，进行深入的交谈

哦，还有更多

来自

gigi 说歧视 种族主义都可以

导致深入的交谈 非常

真实的

marcella 抚养孩子的方式

很好的例子 你们都

天使投票给新总统 是的

marcella

有争议的话题 是的 丹尼斯

与你所爱的人

谈论他们的生活目标 优秀的另一个

商人说新闻 最新的

手机和技术很好，所以你

可以根据你提出的问题进行深入的对话

哦，最后一种

文化很好的例子，所以我们又

看到了

闲聊和深入交谈它们

是

不同的，所以我想

在这种类型的谈话中给你一些闲聊的例子，

通常不会问任何个人问题

，我希望你们都注意我

给你们的提示，因为再次

说流利的英语

不仅仅是记住单词和表达，如果可以的话，

它是关于理解这样的事情

成为会话大师 英语

会话

你看起来已经流利

了，即使作为美国人，

我们也必须学习如何

在谈话中自然地来回走动，所以

在闲聊时你不会问个人

问题，

通常只涉及情绪

是快乐的还是中立的，让我告诉你

这一切，

想想这个，例如我有过

美好的日子，也有过糟糕的日子，

但如果有人问我嘿，tiff，

你好吗，我说嘿，你知道我很好，我'

我做得很好为什么因为这是闲聊我不

进行任何深入的交谈我保持

中立

现在我可能度过了糟糕的一天但这

是闲聊现在不是我

进行深入

交谈的时候所以我保持 情绪

中性

我很好 一切都很好 我会

继续坚持

下去 我的朋友们非常了解我

他们可以告诉我什么

时候真的出了问题

他们会说

呃 到底发生了什么 你真的感觉如何

然后它会导致 进行更深入的

对话，这可以 是

关于呃的感觉，也许如果我很伤心，或者

发生了什么事情，或者我很生气，

我可以进入那些，但你不要为了闲聊而

进入那些情绪

这里是我

希望你在

闲聊时记住的另一件事它确实 不会导致

真正互相了解 它

真的是表面上的

嘿 你好吗 很高兴看到

你度过了美好的一天

然后就结束了 你并没有真正通过闲聊

来接近一个人

现在深入的

谈话

让我 给你这些提示每个人

这些

使个人能够

在更深层次上真正了解彼此

接下来通常需要

深思熟虑和表达一定的意见

所以当我们

每月见面一次我们的变焦电话时想想这个家庭对

我们 聚在一起很令人兴奋 然后

我

总是把你们都安排在分组讨论室

为什么因为我希望你们都进行

深入的对话 你们从闲聊开始

但然后你们去

回答我分配的问题

以及你们发生了什么 开始

了解其他人如何看待

您开始看到嘿，我们可能生活在

不同的国家，但我们有很多

共同点，

因此深入的对话可以让您

表达您的意见，

因此我们的每月会议涉及深入的

对话另一件事就在这里

对话

可以让一个人表达他们

对某个话题的真实感受，

这样你就会再次看到这个常见的

东西

意见 想法 谈论你的

经历 在深入的对话中

来自马尔多的评论说在我

的法国国家

不适合深入

对我来说，在专业或工作场所谈论政治或宗教 只与亲密的朋友进行深入的谈话

非常有趣 你知道

我在韩国时也经历过

我的朋友告诉我不要谈论

政治 因为人们太沮丧了

这很友善 现在在美国是一个禁忌话题，

你可以就政治进行严肃的谈话

宗教有时可能是一个

现在

在美国有点棘手，即使我们是一个基督教

国家，但是是的，取决于你

住在哪里，

某些对话是好的，

某些对话是不好的，

所以非常感谢你分享那个 marto

tuni

嘿，我们很高兴见到你，我们

希望你做得更好

，我们仍然为你

和你的家人祈祷，很高兴今晚能

和我们在一起，

所以让我们继续

家人，

这样我们就能更好地理解

闲聊和深入交谈之间的区别

现在这里有一些例子 好吧，在

这种类型的谈话中

，我再次说没有个人问题，

除了快乐或中性之外没有任何情绪

，这不会让你们真正

了解彼此，

所以这里我们举一些示例话题，

你们都给出了一些

你们实际上给出的很棒的话题

我在笔记中的所有内容都在这里

因为你说电影是为了

娱乐所以看这里我们

举

了一些关于天气的例子你可以说现在的

天气怎么样 出租新闻嘿，你听说过

地震吗？体育运动你可以说你昨晚看比赛了吗

，然后娱乐

你可以说

嘿，你看到奥斯卡

了吗？这就是我想做的，我想给你一个

机会 练习

我要给你一个话题，我

希望你给

我一个非常

适合闲聊的问题

，例如体育 一个人

说你昨晚看比赛了

吗 非常简单的

问题 不是关于这个人的感受 或者

他们的意见

只是非常基本的 嘿，你

昨晚看比赛了

吗 另一个简单的问题是

用于闲聊而不是关于

情绪 你可以问别人关于体育的问题

给我一个关于体育的闲聊问题

我想看看你们有多好

这是这里的例子，

如果有人走到你面前，他们

想

谈谈体育，

你昨晚看比赛了吗？ g 我

将继续前进，为您提供

一些

深入对话的示例，现在

进行深入对话，

这里是示例，请记住

我们必须记住的三件事

这里是关于天气的深入对话的示例，

你是什么 关于气候变化的观点

你看到这个话题是一样的，但我

改变了问题，

因为现在我很想知道这个

人

对天气的看法或想法

现在一个示例问题

来自 paola

用于闲聊 paula 说你喜欢

看奥运会没

问题 所以这就是事情只要

你不说

为什么记住闲聊真的不是

关于人的

感受或意见你必须保持

基本

嘿你看比赛是或不是

你喜欢奥运会吗

这导致了深入的对话，所以

这有点不同，我们想

保持在

不是他们的意见，不是他们的感受，

好吧，所以再试一次

好吧，呃，gigi说嘿，你

最喜欢的解放军是什么 你或者谁是你最喜欢的

球员 好吧 只要这些

不要

太深入 没关系 嗯 jahil

你对昨晚的比赛有什么看法

嗯，你踢过足球

好吗？ 很好的开放式问题

，你踢过足球吗？是的，我周末踢球，

不是关于情绪，这很简单，

好吧，你最喜欢的篮球队是谁？

这又可以引发

更深入的对话

但是如果你把它留在那里没关系

商业实际上是一种

深入的对话

好吧 marcela 你听说过

比赛被取消了吗 好吧

基本

问题 你喜欢锻炼吗

好吧 可以是基本的或闲聊但是

发生的事情是它会导致一个深刻的

问题哦，你为什么喜欢

锻炼，然后你会

自动看到它会导致更深入的

对话，所以你想尝试让它们保持

基本在这里我们去嗯你喜欢p 休闲

运动 你喜欢棒球

吗 你最喜欢

的比赛是什么 你知道比赛在哪里

进行吗

昨晚的球员再次发表了他们的

意见，

所以记住这会导致

更深入的对话，所以如果我问你，

嘿

，你最喜欢的球员是谁，我也

很喜欢他，他很好，

你最喜欢的球员是什么？好吧，你

最喜欢的比赛

是什么？ 它引发了深入的交谈 我

开始了解这个人 所以这

不是闲聊

游戏一切顺利吗，

阿米娜，你喜欢这个食物吗，你还喜欢

这个吗

再次出租

我现在想很快向大家

展示我们如何拥有相同的主题，

但问题会发生变化并转向

深入的

对话问题看看

天气你

对气候变化的看法我想

知道他们的意见

当前新闻谁 你认为会赢得

这次选举

吗 到底发生了什么 家庭

我想知道这个人的意见 我

想知道他们的观点

我正在理解并知道

他们

是如何认为这是深度对话的定义

好吧

这是另一个关于体育的 赢得或参与哪个

更重要

，最后是娱乐 如果

孩子们

看电视，你会看到正在发生的

事情 深入了解意味着

进入

你正在与之交谈的人的思想

你想问他们嘿，你

认为

什么是 你对此的看法 如果我只是说

天气怎么样

这只是一个事实 外面阳光明媚 外面正在

下雨

或者你是否看过奥运会 是或

否

闲聊 保持非常基本 不

问任何意见，

但可以进行深入的交谈，所以我

认为每个人都理解正确

深入的交谈和闲聊之间的区别

现在我希望我们继续进行下去

有一些事情你必须

记住 它与掌握

英语对话有关 让我向你展示

我希望你记住的所有这些事情

现在不要支配 让我解释这个

词 支配一切 好吧

支配好 再次

支配好 上次支配好

支配

优秀 现在支配意味着接管

接管和不让

其他人参加的权利

，例如我的现场英语课程，

当我们每周都有这些课程时，

我不是唯一一个说话的人

是的，你只能听到我的声音，但你们

都在聊天

室聊天 在评论

部分的右侧框，我会在屏幕上弹出您的评论，

因为它现在是一个来回的交互

如果我说

没有更多的评论只有我会说话

我会 d 主导谈话

或主导课堂，

所以与谈话有关的一条规则是

不要主导现在让我解释一下哦，

有人加入了我们，

嘿，不用担心，我们很高兴看到

你，欢迎欢迎，

所以让我给你这个建议

大家 首先要记住的

是永远不要主导

谈话重要的是要确保

你和你正在与之交谈的人之间保持平衡

它需要这样

来回来回而不是在这里

我在说我在 说话我在来回说话

现在需要发生

这里有一些原因和更好的

解释给你一个

主导表明你

不在乎对方的意见

所以当我们有

我们的每月会议时想想它家人我把 你们

都在分组讨论

室里，一个房间里有四个人，如果

一个人说话 10 分钟，其他三个人

会觉得

这个人真的不在乎我们

这个人

只考虑他的 o r 她的想法，所以

你必须非常小心

不要主导谈话，

这对于英语学习者来说非常重要，

因为

有时当你紧张时你会开始

说很多

我在学习韩语时会做同样的事情

有时我会得到 紧张，

我刚开始说话，说话，

但会话掌握英语

会话并不总是关于

说话你有两只耳朵和一张嘴，

它是关于

好好听，知道什么时候说话，

所以再次告诉你们所有人不要支配

所有正确的

人不想

与主导对话的人进行

对话

，最后这也表明

你的听力技巧不好，

所以你现在明白为什么我

强调掌握英语对话的重要性

这不仅仅是你使用的单词

而是关于

对话的艺术掌握英语对话

知道什么时候听 知道什么时候

说

知道什么时候评论

别人的意见

然后 问一个问题，所以再次

第一

不要支配另一件事我希望你们

都记住就在这里，

专心听，嗯，

发音练习很快，每个人都

专心地

好我希望你看这个词

，我们在我之后再说一遍，

好 上次专心

听好 现在专心聆听

意味着您

必须专心第二要

记住的是听力技巧

我们的技能是有效沟通的重要组成部分

换句话说，专心聆听

实际上会帮助您掌握英语

对话，因此

专心聆听会有所帮助 你要

更好地理解人们注意

他们在说

什么不要同时在你的脑海里想很多不同的事情

让我看到另一条评论通过

等待一秒钟

呃你怎么看唐纳德特朗普

是的好 高级或

深度对话的问题 呃，你不想

窃取对话 完全不要

主宰或窃取 al 谈话

是的 jasmine 询问他们的意见 让他们

参与

非常好 zakaria 说通常

韩国老师必须主导他们的

课堂，因为除此之外，这是

他们文化的

一部分 我的 youtube 频道上

关于我在研究生院的第一堂韩语课的故事

老师讲了四个小时四个

小时

，我们什么

都没说 她可以说

那么久而且没有互动

所以是的

很好的例子 zakaria 很好的

点 好的 所以我们再来一次

你听你实际上提高了你的

英语能力 因为你正在接受

新的信息 最后

如果你 好好听 对方

也会想再听你的

家庭对话 掌握英语

对话 就是这样 所以当你在

听一个人说话的时候，

他们真的会在轮到你的时候听你

说话，但是如果他们说话的时候你正在

看你的手机，你没有注意

他们就不会 想听

你的，所以仔细听很重要，

接下来就是

不要打断第三件事是要

记住

永远不要打断这是因为

打断

某人或突然阻止他们是

粗鲁的，并且可以阻止

人们不进行的对话 不想和

经常打断他们的

人说话 下一次打断别人表明

你没有在

听他们说话，最后这也

阻碍了谈话的进行，因为

这表明你认为你的话现在

更重要

了家庭再次你是什么

学习

这些技巧，即使是以英语为

母语的人也必须学习并理解

当你在

交谈时，

你想说些什么很诱人，但

最好耐心

听 然后等待轮到你

，这会使对话变得更好，

所以要小心

不要打断，这样你们就

可以掌握如何掌握英语对话的真正好方法了，

这很有趣，如何

结束对话，这

是可以的 有时会有点棘手，

当你在

和某人谈话时不知道如何停止谈话，

好吧，所以我会给你们

一些例子，我们会稍微谈谈

在这里，我们开始输入或体验，

例如

说你正在

与之交谈的人的名字现在让我很快暂停

一下，有三种类型的对话

和结束对话的方法，

所以如果你正在进行对话并且

你谈话的重点是一种体验

对

吧 关于我的

经历

，然后你告诉我你的

经历，我们来来回回，

你如何结束这种类型的对话，

一种方法是你说出

你正在与之交谈的人的名字，

例如布莱恩，和它交谈真是太好了

你

所以你可以再说一遍 tiffany 老师

tiffany 这是一次很棒的

经历，

或者和你说话太棒了，

你可以记住这个实际的模式

，再次和你说话真是太棒了

你只是在说，伙计，

说话真的很好 和你在一起，你让

他们知道你现在很感激

第二个就在这里简要

提及他们再次告诉你的经历

我真的很高兴听到

你的巴黎之旅，然后很快将它与

你自己以及

关于未来的一些事情联系

起来 对，

所以这是三个步骤，如果你在

谈论一种体验，

现在有三个步骤来结束它，

我要把它放在一起看

这个家庭，

第一步，说出他们的名字

很好，布赖恩，与你交谈真是太好了

第二步讲述我

非常喜欢听到你

去巴黎旅行的经历，第三步与

你自己有关，还有一些关于未来的事情

希望我将来也能去那里

再次第一步，

说出你正在与之交谈的人的名字

第二步简要提到他们谈论的经历

啊，蒂芙尼老师，

和你交谈

真是太好了我今天真的很喜欢你的故事时间

第三步把它和你自己联系

起来 未来的

人，我真的希望将来有一天我能

像你一样打保龄球

，所以

如果谈话

是关于一种体验，你可以按照以下三个步骤顺利结束

谈话，

就像一个以英语为母语的人一样

一个说这个人的

名字 第二个提到

他们告诉你

的经历 第三个与

你自己

和你的未来有关 现在这个可能

有点小 有点棘手，但我

真的希望你们都在

评论部分练习

我希望你们给我一个例子结尾

想象我刚刚告诉你一个故事我

会给你一个例子哦，等一下，一个

问题通过

等一秒钟来解决，嗯，

嘿 tiff 我们讨论了如何开始

和结束对话，但是现在我们如何才能

继续进行下去

谈话

小谈话和深入谈话以及

如何结束如果你想知道如何继续

谈话只需转到 365 天计划中的第 12 周

我有所有的课程我

只是在这里做一个回顾但是 很好的

问题

很好，很好，所以我们

又到了最后，你们可以练习和

复习课程，我有

链接在那里，

如果我刚刚给你讲完

一个故事，请给我一个例子，

故事时间对了，我只是 给你讲了一个故事

关于我姐姐和我过去喜欢

说唱和唱歌的方式，想象一下我

刚刚告诉你那个故事

，我们来回交谈，我

喜欢是的，我姐姐和我

在我们成长的过程中很棒，

我们 曾经唱歌 我们曾经说唱过 玩

得很开心

我讲完了我的故事 我讲完

了我的经历

你会如何

用三个步骤结束对话 我希望你们再试

一次 三个步骤 说出那个人的

名字 你是 说对了，这

将是我的

第二步再次提及

与

你自己和你的未来有关的经验和第三步我会再次向你展示

我会采取一些但我认为你们可以

使用这三个步骤第一步

说出与你交谈的人的名字

第二步 提及经历 记住

我小时候说过的经历

我和姐姐真实的故事

会一起唱歌和说唱

第三步

将经历与你自己和

你的未来联系起来 你

会如何结束 再次交谈

时，这似乎很棘手，但是当您

有一个可以遵循的公式时

，如果您只遵循公式，您肯定会

开始流利地说

，所以再次第一步说明这个

人的名字

，即我，第二步

说明所提到的经验，

然后步骤 第三个告诉你它

与你

和你的未来有什么关系现在我要让你们

都打字我知道它会

更长一点我会继续

下去我们继续

在评论部分输入

就在这里，我们

现在开始想象一下，如果话题是关于

你的感受，如果谈话的主题是

感受，你可以做一些不同的

事情，我们去吧，

贾希尔说得好，蒂芙尼，听起来

很有趣，

我想有一天和你们一起说唱

好 很好，现在唯一的事情

是中间你忘了告诉

你第一步做得很好的经历蒂芙尼

听起来真的很有趣

很好什么是经验记住

你必须总结

一下 听起来你和你姐姐在一起度过了

愉快的时光，

那么我想有一天和

你们一起结束，这将是一个很好的

结束，好吧

，我们走了，谢谢，嘿，sya，我

真的很喜欢你的陪伴，我

很喜欢听你的说唱

希望我们能尽快谈谈 好的 好的 好的

zakaria tiffany 老师 我很喜欢

你对 joseon 的采访

，这让我很想去

纽约

marcela well tiff

和你说话真是太棒了我

可以想象

你和你姐姐玩得多么开心也许

当我姐姐回来时，我们会尝试

一起说唱，

非常棒，非常棒，

正是我刚刚教给

你的，按照你根据这些回答的说明进行操作

三个步骤，你

谈到了经验，我解释了

出色的工作，我们走了哦，

我很困惑说唱是什么意思，我会

很快为你们说唱，好吧，

好吧，这 来自一个

名为

90 年代新鲜王子的电视节目，你们中的一些人可能知道，嗯

，我们

去西费城，在操场上出生

长大 在

校外赢得了几个人，

所以我现在正在说唱，所以

丹尼斯说唱实际上是什么所以我

姐姐和我会说唱

和唱歌，我想有点像

节拍，

就像我会击败她一样 做

一些说唱或唱歌，然后我们会

去我父母的房间，

所以我们在

成长过程中非常喜欢音乐，所以是的

，说唱是可以的，所以

马塞拉再次举了一个很好的例子

，说明了我教的东西

关于现在如何结束

基于体验

的对话 如果对话是基于

某人的感受或情绪怎么办

所以

这里是我想在这里向你展示的步骤

首先说

你正在说话的人的名字

哇，玛丽，我真的很喜欢和你说话

第一步是一样的，你不必

记住一个新的步骤哦，等一下，

茉莉说这个话题

即使在我们的语言中也很有帮助

如何正确说话我很高兴

听到那个茉莉花真是个好

消息，

好吧，嘿，蒂夫，我真的很

喜欢听你的说唱，

你真的很擅长哇，我

印象深刻，我很想来听

你们说唱，有朝一日，

非常好，很好，你说发生了什么

我的名字当然是

听我说唱的经历，然后

在未来你很想来听

我们说唱一些更好的

非常好的刘易斯说很好tiff

很高兴和你谈谈我让你

在你唱歌和 说唱 我很快就会很

高兴和你一起唱歌

好吧 我知道你很了不起 或者你

很了不起

一个了不起的说唱歌手或歌手 好吧

丹尼斯

我很高兴你喜欢它 吻得

很好 tiff 很高兴

与你交谈 也许有一天我们可以 一起说唱

还好 完美的吻记住三个步骤

你说我的名字很好

但你必须说你

必须提到我谈到的经历我

和我姐姐一起说唱

然后回来也许有一天我们

可以

一起说唱那么好但是你错过了第二步

好吧

ruth tiffany 我很高兴与

你交谈 第一步

我想和你和你姐姐一起唱歌

这是

第三步 永远不要忘记第二步 伙计们，因为

第二步是

总结并表明你

仔细听了我的经历

新鲜的贝莱尔王子 我

非常喜欢这个节目

是一样的 再次说出这个

人的名字 第二步是简短地

提到他们再次告诉你的感受

例如再次

听听你对点点的感受非常有趣

我想提醒大家，

第二步显示了

你实际上在听的人，因为

你只是在

重申你只是在总结

他们所说的

所以在最后一个我提供了一个

你说的经历，你

和你姐姐很有趣 一起唱啊，

你现在听得很好，带着

感情

同样的事情简短地提到

他们谈论的感情，然后

最后在这里我们有这个

在这里

提到那种感觉的重要性

并引导到另一个未来的

谈话

我也相信这很重要

希望 我们可以很快谈论它，

所以你看到这里的三个步骤提到

他们的名字

提到他们所表达的感受，

最后谈论重要性

承认重要性

和未来嘿，我想继续

谈论这个，

好吧，这三个步骤

结束关于感情的对话

现在有更多评论来自 gigi

说很好 tiffany 我很高兴得知

你是一名说唱歌手 小时候

让我想起了我的童年 我希望我

在那里听你说唱

如果你说我

将来也

想来那

很好 我们去，

哦，哦，你已经说过玛瑟琳

好了，当归

，很高兴看到好吧，记住我们

正在关注我现在再次给出的那个例子，

所以第一步

你会说这个人的名字

第二步你 '要提到

他们谈论的感受，第三步

你想提到那种感觉的重要性

，

并引导到另一个

对话中，例如，

我会为你表演，我会告诉

你我的感受，所以再次扮演

你 知道我真的很爱我的

丈夫

我还没有结婚，但我给你们

举个例子，当我下班回家时，他

为我做了一些事情，

他很

高兴见到我，这让我感到

如此

被爱和 它让我想要 更爱他

，我意识到婚姻的美好，

有好日子也有坏

日子，但

我的丈夫让我觉得自己是世界上

最伟大的女人

，所以我真的很爱他，现在

我们只是聊了聊，想象

我们要回去了 关于婚姻

和爱情

，我解释了我对我

丈夫的感受，你将如何

再次结束谈话

我们谈到了感受的三个

步骤 第一步

，很好地说出这个人的名字 tiff 我

真的很喜欢和

你说话，就像和你说话一样 爱 第一步

这个人的名字 第二步

看到和

听到你有多爱你的丈夫真的很有趣 我们

谈到了

我爱我丈夫的情感 第三步

这种感觉的重要性

我也认为爱很重要

我希望我们可以 以后多谈谈这个话题

你明白发生了什么我

很自然地结束了谈话第一步很好蒂芙尼

非常感谢你

告诉我更多关于 你的

关系我真的很喜欢你

谈论你有多爱你

丈夫的方式

我认为爱也很重要希望

我们在未来可以多谈

三步所以我再次希望你们都

尝试一下我正在看时间的

几个例子 一种感觉 第一步

说出这个人的名字 第二步简要

提到讨论过的感受

第三步提到

那种感觉的重要性 并

引导到另一个未来的谈话

好吧

我希望你们试试 你们

在体验部分做得很好

试试这个，也

等一下，嗯，tiff，我真的安德烈，我今天真的很喜欢

你的课，这将有助于

我进行深入的交谈，

我很高兴听到，是的，再次，伙计们

记住

这些都是来自 365 天 课程

计划

这就是为什么我鼓励每个人都遵循

该计划

我只是在复习

已经在学院中的课程

相信我的家人如果你遵循我的 365 天

课程计划

你会说流利的英语你会

掌握英语，这不仅仅是关于

词汇

我教你很多不同的东西所以

我很

高兴听到你喜欢这门课

好吧

让我们看看哈维尔很好tiff你摇滚我

会等着很快再见到你谢谢

xavier

dennis well tiffany 我是说唱的

好 等等

让我们看看 tiffany 我 很

高兴了解你和你姐姐的故事

我真的希望我能有一个这样的好

故事 说

我期待在未来与你交谈

好的所有三个步骤

现在我们正在谈论

感受每个人都在这里我们走了

哇蒂芙尼我真的很喜欢和

你说话听

你对你美好

婚姻的感受非常有趣很好这就是这里的总结

我也相信它

与爱尊重和沟通建立良好的关系非常重要

希望我们

以后可以多谈

茉莉 是的 茉莉

干得好 茉莉 三个步骤都说得

很好，

再次说明我是一个母语为英语的人

当你结束这样的对话时，

我觉得哇哦，这个人真的

会说英语，这与你可能犯的任何语法错误无关，而是关于

你

如何组织你的

想法以及你如何遵循这些步骤

，太棒了，茉莉花

，我们走了 amina wow joanna 好的，

记住我们想继续讨论这个话题，所以

我想展示

一些例子，我需要你们

注意这也是另一件事，

我没有要求任何关于

其他人的例子，我希望你们专注

于事实

我刚和你谈过

我丈夫和我对丈夫的爱

我希望你用三个步骤结束这次谈话

第一步 说出我的

名字

第二步 提到我们谈过的感受

关于

爱以及我对他的关心程度

第三步

提到那种感觉的重要性，

并引导到另一个未来的

谈话中

，我们去吧，马塞拉，嘿，蒂夫，我真的很

喜欢我们的谈话，

你是对的，感觉被爱 真是太棒了，

毫无疑问，爱在任何婚姻中都非常重要，

我期待

与您分享更多

好工作，马塞拉，好工作

，我们去吧，约翰，嗨，蒂夫，

您所做的一切都令人惊叹，您是

我们这一代人的好榜样

借口 我希望有一天我能亲自见到你

，友好地分享想法

，这是一个很好的总结

，不是为了这次谈话，但这

是一个很好的总结，谢谢你，

好吧，我会让我再见一

两个人 再多一两个

人，因为那时我们必须

结束每个人再给我一两个

人

记得我谈到了我的丈夫我们的

婚姻以及我

对他的爱和

关心所以结束谈话

好吧

让我们看看让我们 好吧，我们走了

哇蒂芙尼很高兴听到

你的关系我很高兴听到

你丈夫如何爱你

我认为这种意图

在一段关系中贡献了很多我希望我们可以

多谈谈 未来的关系和爱情

会玛丽，是的，

非常非常好，你再次遵循这些步骤

，步骤很简单，家庭学习

这些步骤，你将成为

英语对话的高手，很好，

很棒的工作

，现在再次为你感到骄傲，

大家我们 我们每周都直播，

每周都有不同的

主题，但不要忘记，

您可以随时复习我今天教

给您的

内容已经可用您可以直接

回到第 12 周

并复习这些课程，您可以

观看 这节课结束后我

会把录音放好

以后多谈恋爱 我的男人

吻 是的

干得好 干得好 你又把它包得

这么好 你应该

明白我有多兴奋

因为我是一个母语为英语的

人 当你们都回答 r

按照简单的步骤，真的

感觉你已经流利了，

我是你的老师，

但是当你这样说话时，我觉得

是的，

干得好，最后一个，我们

走，

路易斯·韦尔蒂夫，我很喜欢你，你的

丈夫

是如此的爱 和善良

为建立一个美好的家做出了很大贡献

我希望下次我能看到你

的爱

为

你的出色

工作感到非常自豪，不幸的是，家庭即将

结束，但我必须得到宝拉，我们出色的

管理员宝拉说，哦，

蒂芙尼，听到你的

婚姻进展

得多么幸福，他让你感到多么被爱，我希望

能找到一个人 谁让我

总有一天会那样说

，然后我也可以告诉你

paula paula 干得好，好吧，我们又得到

了一份好工作 paola

michelle 说，嘿，蒂芙尼，我明白

你对你的丈夫有

真爱 爱是我们人类的一个显着

特征

我希望我们

接下来的现场课程之一将完全

与真爱有关

今天

就要结束了

今天

现在

你