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talking about
becoming a dad
bob asked his dad jay for advice
since he will become a dad for the first
time
next month
dad are you free now yeah
i'm just reading a newspaper
to be honest i'm quite nervous now
why can you tell me
well my wife is pregnant in the 34th
week
and the due date is coming soon
i'm so excited to meet my baby in person
not by frame but i'm not sure how to be
a good father
um i got it i understand your feeling
actually i used to be too how did you
take care of sarah and me
well first of all you have to accept the
truth
that a new special person will live with
you you should get used to it
having a baby makes your life ups and
downs continuously
you have to sacrifice your time for your
children
you can't hang out with your friends
every weekend
you can't go to the gym once a day you
need to stay home
and help your wife because the schedule
of a baby is
different from an adult how is that
different
it depends on each stage of their life
generally they eat at least
five times per day until over two years
old
and they can't go to the toilet by
themselves until four
you're scaring me dad it's fine not to
hang out with my friends
but i must go to the gym and i'm sure my
wife's ability to feed our boy five
times per day alone
you know your mom and i almost got
divorced when you were born
i used to think like you that the wives
can take care of children by themselves
because
they directly gave birth i made many
excuses to go out for not having to hear
you cry
then your mother was depressed and we
couldn't stop arguing
how did you overcome that period
your grandfather helped me to realize
how selfish i was
you know after giving birth women's
health is not as good as before
they have to sacrifice all their time to
be my children's side
they still do all the housework while
our life has no change
we need to take responsibility to take
care of the child
you're right since my wife was pregnant
she's been tired at night and recently
she can't tie up her shoelaces it's just
the beginning somehow we can't help them
smoke much
but they need someone to share their
difficulties to know they're not alone
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jenny and tom talked about the first
time
tom met jenny's children and how he
became their beloved stepfather
tom tomorrow is our fifth wedding
anniversary
do you want to travel what about you
jenny
what do you want to do i have no idea
that's why i asked you well
i just want to stay at home i need to
help layla
with her math her exam is coming
you're so nice tom i still remember the
first time she met you
she said nothing then slammed her
bedroom door
i was so angry but you just smiled
she was nine at that time jen it wasn't
easy for a kid to call someone
dad when her real dad just passed away a
few months ago
mark's behavior was even more
unacceptable
thank god you were so patient to wait
for them until they opened their heart
they need time you see now they're so
good to me
yeah the last time we argued they even
protected you
unbelievable i play soccer with mark
every afternoon and
go to the market with layla on the
weekends
thanks to them i started to learn how to
be a dad
actually it's not that difficult when we
love someone from the bottom of our
hearts
and i do love them as much as i love you
oh sweetheart you are so wonderful
back in the day you asked me about my
favorite things about
layla and mark you even wrote it down
carefully
then you learned to cook sashimi for
mark and kit a woolen scarf for
layla at first
they didn't care at all but i know if i
keep taking care of them sincerely
they will love me back indeed they do
you are always willing to listen to them
for hours talking about their friends
their teachers their feelings with their
lovers
i'm too busy to talk to them frequently
like you
you know i want to become a person who
feels comfortable sharing everything in
their life
so they don't feel lonely after their
father's death
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james visits lucas's house because his
wife cara has given birth to the second
child
lucas talks to james about his joys of
becoming a dad
hey james come in
i miss you so much bro i haven't seen
you for a while
me too i need to come back home to
support kara
our baby is still small
hello kara how are you doing
i'm good the baby is still sleeping
please don't talk loudly
i'll go to the bedroom i'm sorry we will
stay in the living room
if you need anything just call me honey
james where is stefan uh he went camping
with his classmates
he'll be back tomorrow morning so
how do you feel when you finally have a
girl as you wished
oh i'm still over the moon bro she's so
adorable
yeah she is she takes after you
especially your nose
is there any difference when you take
care of stefan and her
she seems to be more gentle when we took
care of stefan he used to cry at night
until he's
one year old but rosie rarely cries
she just gives us some signals when
she's unhappy with the food
what do you do to help kara well i
cradle rosie to let kara sleep you know
our baby needs to drink milk once at
night and
sometimes she also rolls we need someone
awake to look after her
so are you awake the whole night
not really kara sleeps from 11 30 pm
until 4
then i sleep until 6 30.
what how can you be conscious to go to
work
it was hard at the beginning but anytime
i see our baby sleep deeply
i seem to be re-energized i love looking
at her for hours
she will be so beautiful when she grows
up
i know you love her so much you're
delightful all the time you talk about
her
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谈论
成为爸爸
bob 向他爸爸 jay 征求意见，
因为他将在下个月第一次成为爸爸
爸爸你现在有空吗是的
我只是在看
报纸说实话我现在很紧张
你能告诉我吗
我的妻子在第 34 周怀孕了
，预产期快到了
我很高兴能亲自见到我的宝宝，
但我不知道如何成为
一个好父亲，
嗯，我明白了 我理解你的感受
其实我曾经也是
连续跌宕起伏
你不得不为孩子牺牲时间
你不能每个周末都和你的朋友一起出去玩
你不能每天去一次健身房 你
需要待在
家里帮助你的妻子 因为婴儿的日程安排
与成人不同 有
什么不同取决于每个阶段 他们一生中
通常每天至少吃
五次，直到
两岁多
，
他们直到四岁才能自己上厕所
健身房，我敢肯定我
妻子有能力每天单独喂我们的男孩五次
你认识你妈妈，我
在你出生时差点离婚
我曾经像你一样认为妻子
可以自己照顾孩子，
因为
他们 直接生了 找了很多
借口出去 没听到
你哭
然后你妈
很郁闷 吵架
你是怎么熬过那段时期
你爷爷让我明白
我是多么自私
生完孩子你就知道了 女人的
身体不如从前
她们不得不牺牲所有的时间来陪
在我的孩子身边
她们仍然做所有的家务而
我们的生活没有改变
我们需要承担起
照顾孩子的责任
你是对的，因为我的妻子 w 怀孕的时候，
她晚上很累，最近
她不能系鞋带，这
只是一个开始，不知何故我们无法帮助他们
抽很多烟，
但他们需要有人分享他们的
困难，以知道他们并不孤单
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jenny and 汤姆谈到了汤姆第
一次
见到珍妮的孩子以及他如何
成为他们心爱的继父
汤姆明天是我们的五
周年结婚纪念日
你想去旅行吗
珍妮
你想做什么我不知道
这就是为什么我问
你好 只想待在家里 我要
帮莱拉
做数学 她考试快到了
你真好汤姆 我还记得
她第一次见到你
她什么也没说 然后砰地关上
卧室门
我很生气 但你只是笑了
她 那个时候九岁 jen 几个月前
她真正的父亲刚刚去世，一个孩子叫爸爸不容易
他们需要时间你现在看到他们
对我很好
当一个爸爸
实际上当
我们从心底爱一个人时并不难
，我爱他们就像我爱你一样，
哦，亲爱的
，当你问我关于莱拉和马克的最喜欢的事情的那天，你真是太棒了
你甚至仔细地写下来
然后你学会了为马克做生鱼片
并为莱拉准备一条羊毛围巾
起初
他们一点也不在乎但我知道如果我
继续真诚地照顾他们
他们会爱我他们确实是
你 总是愿意听他们
几个小时谈论他们的朋友
他们的老师他们对他们的爱人的感受
我太忙了，不能
像你一样经常和他们交谈
你知道我想成为一个
愿意分享一切的人 ng 在
他们的生活中，
所以他们在父亲去世后不会感到孤独
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詹姆斯访问卢卡斯的家，因为他的
妻子卡拉生了第二个
孩子
卢卡斯和詹姆斯谈论他
成为父亲的快乐
嘿詹姆斯进来
我想念 你这么多兄弟我有
一段时间没见你
我也是我需要回家
支持卡拉
我们的孩子还小
你好卡拉你好吗
我很好宝宝还在睡觉
请不要大声说话
我去卧室 很抱歉 我们会
留在客厅
如果你需要什么就叫我亲爱的
詹姆斯 斯特凡在哪里 他
和他的同学一起去露营
他明天早上会回来 所以
你什么时候感觉如何 你终于有一个
如你所愿的女孩了
哦，我仍然在月球上，她太
可爱了，
是的，她很喜欢你，
尤其是你的
鼻子，当你
照顾斯特凡和她时，
她似乎更温柔
照顾他过去常常在晚上哭泣的 stefan，
直到他
一岁，但 rosie 很少哭
她只是在她对食物不满意时给我们一些信号
你做什么来帮助 kara 好我
摇篮 rosie 让 kara 睡觉 你知道
我们的宝宝晚上需要喝一次牛奶
，
有时她也会滚动 我们需要一个
醒着的人来照顾她
所以你整晚都醒着
不是真的 kara 从晚上 11 点 30 点
睡到 4 点
然后我睡到 6 点 30 点。
你怎么能有意识去
上班
一开始很难，但任何时候
我看到我们的宝宝睡得很沉
我似乎重新焕发了活力 我喜欢
看她几个小时
她长大后会如此美丽
我知道你非常爱她
你谈论她的时候总是令人愉快
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