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of small differences between words like

worry and concern and how do we react in

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today's lesson is going to cover worries

and concerns we're going to talk about

how to express your worries and concerns

then we're going to talk about asking

for advice and health

and giving advice and help okay so i

hope this is um a little bit a little

bit of review and a little bit of kind

of some details in these situations okay

let's get to the first one so first and

foremost the first one

expressing your worries and concerns

first i want to talk about the

difference between these vocabulary

words

worry

in the singular worry and concern

so

a worry a worry

so is something you are not sure about

so you're not sure about something in

the future and it's a negative feeling

you think something negative might

happen okay

so a worry is something that's emotional

yeah so when we are worried about

something i'm going to talk about this

later

uh can we please make sure not to spam

the youtube chat yeah so that everybody

can

ask questions and read

okay so

a worry is something that we feel

emotionally yeah we have an emotional

connection to it maybe it's our friend

or our family member or it's about a

personal goal we have yeah so we express

this feeling that feeling of not being

sure and feeling negative about

something with worry a worry

okay then a concern a concern is

something you're not sure about also

negative so i'm not sure about this one

we use concern

more in work

and in school or in situations

with less

emotional connection or in situations

with less emotional connection so i'm

not so close like my heart or my mind

maybe my mind maybe is close i'm

thinking about this situation a lot but

maybe like my emotions my feelings

aren't so closely connected

that's a concern so you hear concern

used in work situations maybe study

situations a lot too yeah okay

so

worry and concern so we can use these

words as nouns yeah a worry it's more

like your emotions your feelings and

concern concern something that's less of

an emotional connection

now let's compare these two

in a different use so not as a noun so

first let's look at worry as a verb to

worry

to worry means to think about the future

with fear and anxiety to think about the

future with fear and anxiety so we we

use this a lot i am worrying about

something something something

right

i am worrying about blah blah blah don't

worry right we use these a lot we use

worry a lot as a verb

then we can also use to be concerned to

be concerned too we're going to look at

a few different sentence patterns with

this today

okay so to be concerned means to be in a

state so your condition

your mental condition or your body's

condition

is negative you're in a state of

negativity

about a situation or about the future

that's to be concerned to be concerned

so let's look

at some example sentences let's look at

how we use these words we have worry

worrying worried

there are so many different ways to use

these words so let's take a look at some

example sentences you can send your

example sentences in the chat i will try

to check no hora wrote i'm worried about

julian's health okay

i hope if that's a real sentence julian

is okay okay

uh zach says i'm worried about the

upcoming test mandar says i'm worried

about my girlfriend nice good good

example sentences if you have more send

them along especially if you want to use

concern

okay

let's look at some example sentence

i'm really worried

about

my friend i'm really worried about my

friend

his health

is in poor condition

i'm really worried about my friend

his health is in poor condition so in

this sentence worried

is more natural than concerned so you

could say

i'm really concerned about my friend

but the reason

worried

sounds better here is because worried

has a stronger emotional connection than

concerned

yeah so i'm really worried about my

friend his health is in poor condition

okay let's look at a sentence that uses

concern so maybe a work situation yeah

she's concerned

about the tight schedule of your project

proposal

she's concerned about the tight schedule

of your project proposal what does this

mean tight schedule

a tight schedule means there are many

things in a short period of time like

many goals many tasks yeah and

she's concerned about the tight schedule

means

is it possible i don't know i'm not sure

about that so we can use concern

concerned sounds good here instead of

worried because this is a professional

situation yeah like a work situation

she's concerned about the tight schedule

of your project proposal okay

then let's look at how to use these as

nouns in a sentence

he's dealing with financial worries

he's dealing with financial worries

so we have he is right he is

dealing dealing with so to deal with

this is a phrasal verb which means to

handle to address to take care of

something

okay

then

he's dealing with financial so financial

means relating to money yeah he's

dealing with financial worries okay

all right

and then

finally

we have

some concerns about this

we have some concerns about this

this is again something you might hear

more in a business or other work related

situation we have some concerns about

this

so there's less emotional connection

okay there are a lot of example

sentences coming in some people i saw a

question earlier i think it was on

facebook kika yeah kika said i worry or

i am worried i am concerned or i concern

which is correct um well it's

your sentences sorry i just lost it so i

am worried

and i worry could be the beginning of a

sentence for example i worry that the

condition of the world might not improve

soon like i worry or i am worried so

depending on your sentence there are

different uh expressions you can use

it's hard to say just from two just from

two words yeah we need to make the

context

okay

lots of examples are coming in oh sushi

says i'm worried about not having hot

chocolate enough

okay

that's interesting very interesting i

hope everybody has not too serious

worries

on facebook says i'm concerned about my

future income yeah of course of course

we all think about our future income for

sure nice example sentence

um cesar says i'm really worried about

my job because my boss wants to fire me

is that true oh no good luck be careful

okay

um others

gabriel says i'm worried oh be careful

not i'm worried not i'm worried but

i'm

worried

sorry i didn't cover this in this part

here

uh i'm worried i am worried about my

country yeah okay

uh please use to be concerned and to

worry in sentences that's this part here

if you missed it yeah you can check this

later i'm worried about my friend she's

concerned about the project okay

cool okay so here is how we can express

our worries and our concerns

okay

um other ones luciana says i'm worried

about my worries mom

well maybe you should think about a goal

for your worrying

something to

think about some way to direct your

brain okay

uh

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okay

let's go to part two

let's talk about

asking for advice asking for advice

asking for help

so how do you

go from part one in part one

we talked about expressing your worry so

you a lot of you wrote comments yeah i'm

worried about my job i'm worried about

my country and so on

so

the next step

is to ask for advice to ask for advice

or to ask for help

so depending on your worry depending on

your concern you can choose one of these

one of these follow-up patterns so let's

take a look

first one

can we talk about it can we talk about

it this one is very open right so you

express i'm worried about my job or

maybe i'm worried about you or i'm

worried about my friend right

can we talk about it can we talk about

it

so this one usually we use this

expression

with a person we want to solve the

problem with like there's some issue

some concern and we want to talk

together with someone to find the

solution

yeah so this is a good one

to use to express you want to discuss

the issue with someone else can we talk

about it

and generally this sounds very friendly

like

don't be angry when you ask this

question

try to be calm yeah

okay

then

here's another one this one is very

indirect so

can we talk about it this is very direct

like let's solve the problem let's talk

about the issue

this one

is very indirect

uh i'm not sure what to do

i'm not sure what to do or you could say

i don't know what to do

okay

so

this one

is one you can use maybe when you feel

really frustrated like you're tired

you're really really worried you can't

think about

how to fix the situation

you just feel like it's too much right

everybody has that experience sometimes

right so

you can say uh i'm not sure what to do

i'm not sure what to do or i'm just not

sure what to do

yeah

okay

good

uh all right let's continue on some

points are coming up someone says the

link is not opening on facebook maybe

you can check the link on facebook it

should be okay

uh

all right others oh mandar has a good

one i think mandar you said earlier

you're worried about your girlfriend uh

your example can we talk about our

relationship very nice one yeah that's a

great one to use for romantic

relationships yeah can we talk about our

relationship

okay millery says can i say i am worried

or i worry uh check part one of this

live video after the broadcast yeah that

was part one

okay

let's talk about a request for help a

pattern you can use to request help

can you help me

infinitive verb so again infinitive verb

means the dictionary form of the verb so

no change the base form of the verb so

can you help me blah blah blah for

example can you help me review the

schedule

can you help me find a doctor

can you help me create a budget

so

a bunch of different patterns to ask

someone for help okay

chris on youtube thanks very much for

your support that's awesome okay

okay others

okay so you can use your own infinitive

verb here

to make a request can you help me with

this

or another good one one that i use a lot

like when i'm really confused about a

situation

i'm i want to understand the other

person's

thinking i want to understand the other

person's perspective

i use can you help me

understand something like can you help

me understand what happened or can you

help me understand what you're thinking

like when i don't know

like what's going on i'm really confused

i use this pattern with the verb

understand now like can you help me

understand what's going on like i don't

i don't understand please help me so

that one i feel i like to use that

pattern because like i really i really

need their help to understand i don't

know

so i like to use that can you help me

understand

luciano says is it okay to say to before

the infinitive verb ah like can you help

me to review the schedule can you help

me to find a doctor

uh i guess you could

um i would say we we don't because it's

more efficient like we don't have to so

it's more efficient it's faster to say

it without

okay

uh all right

someone real madrid barcelona says can

you help me with my homework okay good

um

yeah a couple homework examples are

coming in all right let's go to this

next one let's look at this one uh using

a conditional a conditional sentence we

haven't practiced conditionals in live

lessons for a while maybe we should

anyway

what would you do if you were in this

situation

what would you do if you were in this

situation

so

i put this part the if clause in

parentheses so this and this

this set

these are called parentheses parentheses

so

we don't have to use this

we can just say this what would you do

so i'm worried about my job what would

you do

so this what would you do

is usually enough we mean the meaning is

what would you do

if you

were in this situation or if you were me

what would you do so we typically this

is a very common question so typically

often we just say what would you do

what would you do

okay

all right sam's dog says can you help me

borrow money oh my that's a very that's

a very serious request

okay

uh others others i'm looking for this uh

harish says can you help me improve my

english i hope so i will do my best

every week most days of the week

actually okay

all right so what would you do if you

were in this situation ah and when you

reply to this you say i would

i would look for a new job or i would

talk to your friend

okay

here's one more

have you

ever been in a situation like this so

this uses a present perfect sentence

structure yeah have you ever been in a

situation like this

what did you do

was it helpful

yeah so this is a good example of using

present perfect and simple past tense

together yeah have you ever been in a

situation like this

what did you do simple past was it

helpful simple past

okay

have you ever been in a situation like

this

all right

uh

others

tu yet nuen says what would you do if

you were me on this situation very close

very close hard to see i'm the on this

make sure this preposition what would

you do if you were in

this preposition

in this situation in this situation yeah

what would you do if you were in this

situation then it's perfect

okay cool

okay last point here for part two is a

vocabulary point a vocabulary point i

want to introduce this vocabulary point

because this is really helpful i think

when you're talking with someone who is

worried or upset or when you are upset

the vocabulary word is vent

vent so to vent means to let off steam

to release emotions

so what what does let off steam mean you

know when you make when you cook you

cook uh like just water or soup or

something it gets really really hot and

the white vapor like the water gets so

hot the steam comes off right

imagine that is your emotions so to vent

means to release it so imagine here i'll

get a prop so imagine

like your emotions are in this bowl yeah

and you need to release them from the

top so like when you're cooking you take

the top off the pot yeah

and the steam comes out we call that

venting to vent your emotions or to vent

a room as well like to release something

from the room right so we use this verb

to talk about releasing

our emotions

for example i really need to vent about

today

you really need to vent about today so

that means i really need to release some

emotions about today like today was

super stressful for me today was really

hard today was really difficult i want

to just release

my emotions

so venting

to vent

often means i don't need advice

i don't need

i don't need

you to

help me fix it or give solutions i just

want to release

what happened today so this is called

venting venting okay

so you can sometimes say sorry just

venting like at the end of a stressful

day

oh sorry just venting i'm just venting

i'm just releasing my emotions okay

cool so this is a really good one

okay

awesome so that's the end of part two

oh my gosh time went really fast today

what happens my gosh it's okay let's go

straight to part three then so we've

asked for advice we've asked for help

how do we give advice how do we give

advice or give our help in some way okay

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okay let's go part three

giving advice and giving help

so as we did with part two part two we

started with can we talk about it

so you can respond yeah let's talk about

it okay so if someone wants to talk

about the topic with you you can say

let's talk about it let's talk about it

or if you can't

we'll cover it uh well

later i'll talk about one pattern if you

don't want to like maybe

some like someone mentioned in the chat

it's a relationship issue if you don't

feel ready you can say i need some time

like i need some time or i need some

space then let's talk about it so just

say something like that yeah like can we

talk about it yeah let's talk about it

but i'm not ready to talk about it now

that can really help a lot when you feel

really emotional or really uncomfortable

like okay yeah let's talk about it but

please give me some time that can be

really really helpful

okay cool

so you can say let's talk about it

or

sure i can help you so remember that can

you help me blah blah pattern you can

say sure i can help you sure

or

i can't help you right now but how about

this weekend

i can't help you right now but how about

this weekend

so if you're busy right now like you're

at work right now or this week is super

busy for you

but you want to help that person your

co-worker or your friend or whatever you

can say i can't help you right now

how about this weekend

okay

okay

then

here this is the follow-up

to

this question i introduced in part two

what would you do

excuse me what would you do if you were

in this situation

what would you do if you were in this

situation

if i were you

i would infinitive verb

okay

if i were you i would save money

if i were you i would save money here's

my infinitive verb if i were you i would

save money if i were you i would talk to

her oh sorry i erased it with my finger

if i were you

i would talk to her

or if i were you i'd take some time off

maybe you need a vacation if i were you

i'd take some time off okay

lolly lolly says how about and what

about do they have the same meaning

uh

no so how about

is used to begin a suggestion and well

what about can also be used to give a

suggestion so you can say how about

pasta for dinner tonight or what about

pasta for dinner tonight those can be

suggestions but what about is used to

ask a clarifying question like what

about that thing you were working on

what happened with that so we used that

to clarify something

okay

uh so this is how we can use the if i

were you response

to something okay let's continue on

to some support expression so your

friend is worried or someone is worried

or concerned

uh they have or they're experiencing a

challenge whatever

you can say

i'm here for you

i'm here for you so maybe your friend or

someone is really super stressed or

they are too busy to talk or they feel

upset

you just want to express support for

that person you can say i'm here for you

i'm here for you so here doesn't mean

physically it doesn't mean in the room

all the time it means emotionally i am

prepared to help you i will be there for

you i will be your friend or your family

member or

whatever yeah okay

okay then

this is another good one

so maybe someone is feeling very worried

or very stressed

you can say let me know

if you want to talk

let me know if you want to talk

yeah so maybe that person

doesn't want to discuss details but you

want to show support for that person you

can say let me know if you want to talk

cool yeah

okay

okay

then for solution okay so

you can use this one

maybe at work yeah maybe we can find a

solution together maybe we can find a

solution together yeah so at work or in

other relationships too in friendships

and romantic relationships if there's an

issue

you talk about it you can say yeah let's

talk about it maybe we can find a

solution together yeah so this maybe

shows maybe we can't it's possible

that's okay too

but maybe we can find a solution

together yeah

okay

and

this one is good too i've marked this

one with a star because i talked about

venting

at the end of part two venting and you

just want to release your emotions all

of us experience that right so

this one is a good question to ask maybe

if you think oh i think this person is

just venting right now i don't think

this person wants me to give advice

if you feel that way sometimes that

happens you can say do you want me to

tell you what i think like do you want

me to try to help you fix this

or just listen or just listen so

sometimes you just want someone to

listen right just listen you don't have

to tell me anything

so if you're not sure you can say

nicely very nicely do you want me to

tell you what i think or just listen

something like this can help

help you and help the other person

understand

what's the best thing to do in this

situation

okay cool so here is uh

some ways to give advice to give advice

to give help to give support okay

i am extremely late oh no okay so i have

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this week's lesson thank you very much

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all right so today we talked about how

to express worries and concerns how to

ask for advice and help and how to give

advice and help

so i hope this lesson

uh gave you some ideas to communicate

with your friends and family and

co-workers about problems and issues and

how to express support in a constructive

productive way yeah so i hope that it

was helpful for you

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youtube 也在这里 hello baptiste 和

来自海地的 museem and atta and lartigue

你好 leo 欢迎 很棒的每个人都

在这里 我将分享视频并

喜欢它

在今天的课程主题

今天的课程将涵盖担忧

和担忧我们将讨论

如何表达您的担忧和担忧

然后我们将讨论

寻求建议 和健康

，提供建议和帮助，好吧，所以我

希望这是

对这些情况的一些回顾和一些细节，好吧，

让我们进入第一个，所以

首先是第一个

表达你的

首先，我想谈谈

这些词汇之间的区别，

担心和担心，

所以担心，

担心所以是

你不确定的事情，所以你不确定

未来的事情，这是负面的 感觉

你认为可能会发生一些负面的

事情，

所以担心是情绪化的，

是的，所以当我们担心

某事时，我稍后会谈论这个，

呃，我们可以确保不要

在 youtube 聊天中发送垃圾邮件，是的，每个人都

可以

问 问题和阅读

好吧，

所以担心是

我们在情感上感受到

的东西 啊，所以我们表达了

这种感觉，即

对某事感到不确定和消极的

感觉，担心，担心，

然后担心，担心是

你不确定的事情，也是

消极的，所以我不确定这个

我们

更多地使用关注 在工作

和学校中，或者在情感

联系较少的

情况下，或者在

情感联系较少的情况下，所以我

不像我的心或我的思想那么接近

也许我的思想可能很接近我正在

考虑这种情况很多但

也许喜欢 我的情绪 我的

感受没有那么紧密的联系

那是一个担忧，所以你会听到

在工作情况下使用的担忧 也许也经常学习

情况 是的，好吧，

所以

担忧和担忧，所以我们可以将这些

词用作名词

感觉和

关注关注一些

没有情感联系的东西

现在让我们

在不同的用法中比较这两个所以不要作为名词所以

首先让我们把担心看做动词

担心担心的意思是思考 ab

带着恐惧和焦虑展望未来 带着恐惧和焦虑思考

未来 所以

我们经常使用这个

“担心很多”作为动词，

那么我们也可以用来

表示担心 或者你的身体

状况是负面的 你

对一种情况或未来

感到消极

让我们

看一些例句 让我们

看看我们如何使用这些词 我们担心

担心 担心

有 这么多不同的方式来使用

这些词所以让我们看一些

例句你可以

在聊天中发送你的例句我会

尝试检查没有 hora 写我很担心

朱利安的健康

我希望如果 at's a real sentence julian

is OK OK

uh zach says i'm crazy about the

接下来的考试 mandar 说我

很担心我的女朋友

在一些例句中

我真的很担心

我的朋友 我真的很担心我的

朋友

他的

健康状况不佳

我真的很担心我的朋友

他的健康状况很差 所以在

这句话中担心

比担心更自然 所以你

可以说

我真的很担心我的朋友，

但

担心

在这里听起来更好的原因是因为担心

比担心有更强烈的情感联系

是的所以我真的很担心我的

朋友他的健康状况不佳

好吧让我们看看 使用

关注的句子，所以可能是

工作情况 oes 这

意味着时间紧迫

时间紧迫意味着

在很短的时间内有很多事情 比如

很多目标 许多任务

可以

在这里使用关注关注听起来不错而不是

担心，因为这是一种职业

情况，是的，就像工作情况一样，

她担心

您的项目提案的时间紧迫

他正在处理财务问题，

所以我们认为他是对

的

处理财务问题 好吧

好吧 最后

我们对此

有些担忧

我们对此有些担忧

这又是你要考虑的事情 ht

在业务或其他与工作相关的

情况下听到更多我们对此有一些担忧，

因此情感联系较少

担心或

我担心 我担心或我担心

哪个是正确

的 尽快改善，

就像我担心或我担心一样，所以

根据你的句子，

你可以使用不同的呃表达方式

很难仅仅从两个单词中说出来，

是的，我们需要使

上下文

正常

很多例子都进来了哦，寿司

说 我担心没有

足够的热巧克力

好吧

这很有趣 很有趣 我

希望每个人都没有太严重的

担忧

在 facebook 上说我很担心

我未来的收入 是的 当然 o 当然，

我们都肯定会考虑我们未来的收入

很好的例句

um cesar 说我真的很担心

我的工作，因为我的老板想解雇我

是真的

哦小心点

不是我担心不是我担心但

我很

担心

抱歉我没有在这部分介绍这个

呃我担心我担心我的

国家是的好吧

呃请使用关心和

如果你错过了，这就是这部分的句子，是的，你可以稍后检查这个

我很担心我的朋友，她

担心这个项目，好吧，

很酷，好吧，所以这是我们如何表达

我们的担忧和担忧的方式，

好吧，

其他的 luciana 说 我很

担心我的担心，妈妈，

也许你应该

为你担心的

事情

想一个目标，想一些方法来引导你的

大脑，好吧，好吧，

我没有看到其他问题，所以

我们会在那里结束第一部分 我们会

去建议，是的，谈论

帮助呃部分所以如果您之前错过了它

，如果您

在 youtube 上观看，则可以从视频下方的链接为您提供免费的东西，

如果您在 facebook 上观看，

我会一直向您展示这些内容，但如果您

没有 最近没查过，你可以找到

很多不同的话题

，比如如何计划你的时间，或者如果你

这些天在机场旅行，可能在

机场一些你可以

个人使用的词汇我觉得

前面的喜欢经常很好 在

背面你可以找到一些 uh 短语和

喜欢使用的实际表达或

句子所以如果你还没有看过

这些关于食物和如何

评论食物的文章你可以查看这些下载

所有这些你可以下载所有

这些来自

facebook 或 youtube 上视频下方或上方的链接 好的

很酷 让我们进入第二部分

好吧

让 进入第二部分，

让我们谈谈

寻求建议 寻求建议

寻求帮助

所以你

如何从第一部分进入第一部分

我们谈到表达你的担忧，所以

你们很多人都写了评论是的，我很

担心我的 工作 我很担心

我的国家等等

所以下一步

是寻求建议 寻求建议

或寻求帮助

所以根据您的担心 根据

您的关注 您可以选择其中

之一 后续行动 模式 所以让我们先

看看

第一个

我们可以谈谈吗 我们可以谈谈

吗 这个很开放 对了 所以你

表达我很担心我的工作

或者我很担心你 或者我很

担心我的朋友 是的

，我们可以谈谈吗？我们可以谈谈吗？

所以这个通常我们用这个

表达方式

与一个我们想解决

问题的人一起使用，就像有一些问题

有些担心，我们想

和某人一起讨论以找到

解决

方案是的，所以这个 是一个很好的

用来表达你想讨论的

与其他人的问题我们可以谈谈吗？

通常这听起来很友好，

就像

当你问这个问题时不要生气，

尽量保持冷静，是的，是

的，这是另一个问题，这个问题非常

间接，所以

我们可以谈谈吗？ 非常直接

就像让我们解决问题 让我们

谈谈这个问题

这个

非常间接

呃 我不知道该怎么做

我不知道该怎么做 或者你可以说

我不知道该怎么做

好吧

所以

这个

是您可以使用的一种，也许当

您感到非常沮丧，例如疲倦时，

您真的很担心您无法

考虑

如何解决这种情况，

您只是觉得这太对了

每个人都有这种经验，有时是

对的，因此

您可以 说，嗯，我不知道该

怎么做 facebook 也许

你可以查看 facebook 上的链接

应该没问题

嗯，

好吧，其他人哦，曼达尔有一个很好

的我想曼达尔你之前说过

你担心你的女朋友，

你的例子我们可以谈谈我们的

关系吗非常好的一个是的，这是一个

很好的浪漫

关系是的，我们可以谈谈 关于我们的

关系，

好吧，米勒说，我能说我很担心

还是我很担心，

嗯，在播出后查看这个现场视频的第一部分是的，那

是第一部分，

好吧，

让我们谈谈请求帮助，

你可以用来请求帮助的模式，

你能帮忙吗？ me

不定式动词 so 不定式动词

表示动词的字典形式 so

不改变动词的基本形式 so

you can help me blah blah blah for

example you can you help me review the

schedule

you can you help me find a doctor

你能帮忙吗 我创建了一个预算，

所以

一堆不同的模式来向

某人寻求帮助 好的，

克里斯在 youtube 上非常感谢

您的支持，这太棒

了 提出请求你能帮我解决

这个

或另一个我经常使用的好问题吗？

比如当我对某种情况感到非常困惑时

我想了解

对方的

想法我想了解

对方的观点

我使用 你能帮我

理解类似的事情你能帮

我理解发生了什么吗？或者你

能帮我理解你在想

什么当我不知道

发生了什么我真的很困惑

我用这个模式和动词

现在理解 就像你能帮我

理解发生了什么

我不明白我不明白请帮助我，

这样我觉得我喜欢使用那种

模式因为就像我真的我真的

需要他们的帮助来理解我不

知道

所以 我喜欢用 that 你能帮我

理解

luciano 说的可以在

不定式动词

之前说吗 我们不这样做是因为它

更有效 l 就像我们不必这样做，所以

它更有效，更快地说

出来，

好吧，好吧，

一个真正的马德里巴塞罗那说，

你能帮我完成我的作业吗，好吧，

嗯，

是的，有几个家庭作业的例子

来了，好吧，让我们去这个

下一个让我们看看这个 uh

使用条件句

有一段时间没有在现场

课程中练习条件句 也许我们应该

无论如何

如果你在这种

情况下

你会怎么做 如果你在这种情况下你会怎么做

所以

我把这部分 if 子句放在

括号中所以这个和

这个集合

这些被称为括号括号

所以

我们不必使用这个

我们可以说这个你会做什么

所以我很担心我的工作你会

怎么做

这样做你会做

什么通常就足够了我们的意思是

如果

你在这种情况下你会怎么做或者如果你是我

你会怎么做所以我们通常这

是一个非常常见的问题所以

通常我们只是说w 帽子你会做

什么你会做什么

好吧好吧山姆的狗说你能帮我

借钱吗我的这是一个非常

非常严肃的要求

好吧

呃其他人我正在寻找这个呃

哈里什说你能帮我提高我的

英语吗 我希望所以我每周都会尽力而为

，一周中的大部分时间

实际上都很好，

所以如果

你处于这种情况，你会怎么做啊，当你

回复这个时，你说

我会找一份新工作，或者我 会

和你的朋友谈谈

好吧，

这里还有一个

你有没有

遇到过这样的情况，所以

这使用了现在完美的

句子结构 是的，你有没有遇到过这样的

情况，

你做了

什么有帮助

是的，所以这是一个很好的例子 一起使用

现在完成时和简单过去时

是的 你有没有遇到过这样的

情况

你做了什么 简单过去时有

帮助

吗

哟 如果

你是我 在这种情况下 你会做 非常接近

非常接近 很难看到我在这

确保这个介词

如果你在

这个介词

中 你会怎么做 在这种情况下 在这种情况下

你会怎么做 在这种

情况下，那就完美了

好吧 很酷

好吧 第二部分的最后一点

是词汇点 我

想介绍这个词汇点

因为这真的很有帮助 我认为

当你和一个

担心或不安的人交谈时 你不高兴

的词汇是发泄

发泄所以发泄意味着发泄

情绪以释放情绪

所以发泄是什么意思

你知道当你做饭的时候你

做饭就像水或汤之类的

东西 很热，

像水一样的白色蒸汽变得

很热，蒸汽消失了，正确的

想象那是你的情绪所以发泄

意味着释放它所以想象在这里我会

得到一个道具所以想象

你的情绪就像在这个碗里一样

你需要把它们从顶部释放出来，

就像你在做饭的时候

把顶部从锅里

拿出来，是的，蒸汽

出来了 房间对所以我们用这个动词

来谈论释放

我们的情绪

例如我真的需要发泄

今天

你真的需要发泄今天所以

这意味着我真的需要释放一些

关于今天的情绪就像今天

对我来说非常有压力今天是

今天真的很难 真的很难 我

只想释放

我的情绪

所以发泄

通常意味着我不需要建议

我不需要

我不需要

你

帮我解决它或提供解决方案 我

只想释放

什么 今天发生了所以这被称为

发泄发泄好的

所以你有时可以说对不起只是

在紧张的一天结束时

发泄哦抱歉只是发泄我只是在发泄

我只是在释放我的情绪好吧

很酷所以这是一个非常好的一个

好的

敬畏

哦，我的天哪，今天的时间过得真快

提供

建议或以某种方式提供我们的帮助 好吧

[音乐]

好吧，让我们开始第三部分

提供建议和

帮助，就像我们在第二部分开始时所做的那样，

我们可以谈谈它，

这样你就可以回应是的，让我们谈谈

它好吗 所以如果有人想

和你谈谈这个话题，你可以说

让我们谈谈，让我们谈谈，

或者如果你不能，

我们会讨论它，呃，

稍后我会讨论一个模式，如果你

不想

就像有人在聊天中提到的那样，

这是一个关系问题，如果你还没有

准备好，你可以说我需要一些时间，

比如我需要一些时间，或者我需要一些

空间，然后让我们谈谈吧，所以只要

说类似的话 我们可以

谈谈吗 是的 让我们谈谈

但我还没准备好谈论 w

当您感到

非常情绪化或非常不舒服

时，这

真的很有帮助 所以请记住，

你能帮我等等等等模式，你可以

说确定我可以帮助你，

或者

我现在不能帮助你，但是这个周末怎么样，

我现在不能帮你，但是这个周末怎么样，

所以如果你 现在很忙，就像你

现在在工作，或者这周

对你来说非常忙碌，

但你想帮助那个人你

的同事或你的朋友，或者你

能说的任何事情我现在帮不了你

这个怎么样 周末

好吧

好吧

那么

这是

我在第二部分中介绍的这个问题的后续行动

请问你会做什么

对不起如果你

在这种情况下

你会怎么做如果你在这种情况下你会怎么做

如果我是你

我

如果我是你我会省钱

如果我是你，我会省钱 这是

我的不定式动词 如果我是你，我会

省钱 如果我是你，我会和

她说话

你

我要请假 如果我是你，

我可能需要

请假 好吧，

what about 也可以用来

提出建议，这样你就可以说

今晚晚餐吃意大利面怎么样，或者今晚晚餐吃意大利面怎么样，

这些可以是

建议，但 what about 用于

问一个澄清的问题，比如

你以前的那个东西怎么样 正在研究

发生了什么，所以我们用它

来澄清一些事情，

好吧，这就是我们可以使用的方式

他们有或者他们是前任 无论

你能说什么，

我都在

为你而战

可以说我在这里是为了你

我在这里是为了你所以这里并不意味着

身体上它并不意味着一直在

房间里它意味着情感上我

准备好帮助你我会在

你身边我会在 您的朋友或您的

家人或

其他任何人，好吧

好吧，那么

这是另一个很好的人，

所以也许有人感到非常担心

或压力很大，

您可以说，

如果您想谈谈，请

告诉我，如果您想谈谈，请告诉我，

是的，也许那 这个人

不想讨论细节，但你

想表达对那个人的支持你

可以说让我知道如果你想说话

很酷，是的，

好吧，

然后解决问题，好吧，所以

你可以

在工作中使用这个，是的，也许我们可以找到

一起解决也许我们可以

一起找到解决办法 是的，所以在工作或

其他关系中也是如此 在友谊

和浪漫关系中 如果有

问题

你谈论它你可以说是的让我们

谈谈它也许我们可以

一起找到解决方案是的所以这可能

表明也许我们不能这可能

是 也可以，

但也许我们可以一起找到解决方案

体验一下，所以

这个问题是一个很好的问题，

如果你认为哦，我认为这个人

现在只是在发泄，我认为

这个人不希望我提供建议，

如果你有这种感觉，有时

会发生这种情况，你可以说做 你想让我

告诉你我的想法你想让

我试着帮你解决这个问题

还是只是听还是只是听所以

有时你只是想让别人

正确地听只要听你

不需要告诉我任何事情

所以如果你 '不确定 你可以说得

很好很好你想让我

告诉你我的想法还是只是听听

这样的事情可以

帮助你并帮助其他人

理解

在这种情况下最好的事情是什么

好酷所以这里是呃

一些方法 提供建议 提供

建议 提供帮助 提供支持 好吧

我迟到了 哦 不好吧 所以我

必须完成

本周的课程 非常感谢你

发送你很棒的

例句和问题，

如果你想参加，那真的很棒

今天的课板截图就到这里

了所以今天我们讲了

如何表达担忧和担忧如何

寻求建议和帮助以及如何提供

建议和帮助

所以我希望这

节课给你一些想法

与你的朋友交流 和家人和

同事讨论问题和问题以及

如何以建设性的

富有成效的方式表达支持是的所以我希望

它对你有所帮助

呃让我们看看我下周的课程

信息 很快完成，

所以下周的课程我会在

下周回来 9 月 8 日星期三 9 月 8 日星期三

晚上 10 点东部标准时间晚上 10 点

，这是纽约市时间 如果您

不知道您的当地时间，请使用

您的谷歌技能或设置通知

在 youtube 或 facebook 上，或者如果你

在 instagram 上关注我，我总是

在我的故事中发布链接和主题提醒

哦，你看不到我的衬衫是白色的

下周的主题将是

社交媒体的表达

我喜欢的社交媒体表达 做这些

课程，就像

我们在社交媒体中使用的俚语

单词 我们在互联网

上经常使用的动词 uh 词汇 我们将在下周讨论这个，

所以它应该很有趣所以

请加入我，嗯下一个 这个

非常有趣的现场课程的一周好吧，我会把

它包起来，确保你没有

检查

视频下方或上方的链接，以获取

你所有的免费

内容，嗯，

我还有很多东西没有 打印出团队

制作了一些新的 t

如果你有一段时间没有，请检查链接，好吧，

我现在就说再见，所以享受

你剩下的一周祝你周末

愉快，无论你在世界上的任何地方，祝你有一个美好的一天或晚上

，我会再次见到你

再见