DONT Get These Words Mixed Up Confusingly Similar Words
An enemy, anemone. What? Okay, these
English words are confusing. Stick with me,
you’re going to improve your
pronunciation and learn some new words.
Today we’re going over words that are confusingly
similar in English. This video is dedicated to my
English language learners but everyone is welcome.
Yesterday, I was reading a book
with my son. It was this book
and in it, we were reading about sea creatures.
Specifically this sea creature. And I read “The
sea anemone looks like a flower.”
He stopped me and said, “An enemy?”
You see, and anemone and an enemy are very
similar. Just one switch sound. An enemy is
bad, someone who’s hostile. Opposed to someone or
something. So my son was kind of concerned that
enemies were in this book. I hope in your life
you only have friends and allies, no enemies.
Anemone on the other hand is this thing. And
I got to see some once of the coast of Oregon.
This is my husband. I’m behind the camera.
Hey! He grabbed me a little bit.
He did?
He thought I was food.
Oh wow. Weird.
Let’s make a little tongue twister. An enemy,
anemone. An enemy, anemone. An enemy, anemone. An
enemy, anemone. An enemy, anemone. Slow it down
if you need to but this will be a great way to
practice relaxation with the N sound. See, N is
made just with the front part of the tongue. N.
And some of my students use the
back of their tongue which makes it
sound more like and NG. Ng, ng. They put
tension there. We want the back relaxed,
the tongue nice and wide, n, nananana.
Anemone, an enemy, anemone. Okay. Moving on.
Now this one, my niece messed up in a
job interview. She was pretty embarrassed.
I asked her about it.
Emily, tell me about your job interview.
I was in a job interview and they asked me,
“When you encounter a problem that you can’t fix,
what do you do?” And I said, “Sometimes you just
need to twerk it until you find a solution.”
(Laughing)
And you meant
And I meant sometimes you just need
to tweak it until you find a solution.
And they looked at me like
“What is she talking about?”
So did you not feel totally solid on either of
those words or you did and just
was like oops, it just happened?
I knew I shouldn’t say tweak,
I knew I shouldn’t say twerk but tweak
and twerk got confused in my brain.
Yeah.
I knew that twerk was wrong but it just
came out and I mixed them up at
that moment under the stress.
Did they say anything?
They sort of looked at each other but,
sort of, just kept on going and ignored it.
Did you get the job?
I did get a job offer but I said no to it.
Okay. So even though you said twerk it in
the job interview you still got the job?
I still got the job.
Tweak versus twerk. Tweak means to improve
something by making an adjustment to it. For
example, if I’m in my studio trying to get
a shot and the lighting isn’t quite right,
I might say, “We need to tweak the lighting.”
Make minor adjustments. Turn this one up,
move this one a little bit. It’s not a major
change. Just a little something. A tweak!
Twerk on the other hand is a dance
that involves jiggling your butt.
I’m going to put a link right here to a video
that has a lot of good examples of twerking.
It’s explicit and you will see a lot of
butts in it. Behind, rear-ends. But you can
see why you wouldn’t want to talk about
twerking something in a job interview.
Hopefully, they understood what my niece meant
when she said twerk understood that she meant
tweak. Make a little change. Nothing to do
with your behind. By the way, if you’ve ever
mixed up a word or you find two words really
confusing, put them in the comments below.
Have you ever wondered about the difference
between wonder and wander? Wonder with an o
has the uh as in butter vowel. Wonder, wonder. It
means to think. To speculate, to be curious. Hmm,
I wonder what David is going to make for dinner.
To wander means to go aimlessly, casually.
We wandered around the farmer’s market for a
while. It can also be something you do with
your mind. Rachel, are you paying attention?
Sorry, I let my thoughts wander. This means
I let my thoughts aimlessly take their own
path. My mind wandered. I wasn’t focused.
If I wonder what David is making for dinner, I
might wander downstairs to see what he’s cooking.
I’m going to wander down. I’m not going to rush
down. If I see one of the boys playing in their
room or the living room, I might stop and play
a while. Remember, wandering is to go somewhere
without rushing, without great purpose. I want to
see what David is cooking but I’m open to being
distracted along the way. Wander spelled with
an A, the ah as in father vowel.
Wander, wonder.
Some example sentences with wander and wonder.
I wonder if she saw my email.
It’s now wonder you’re hungry, you haven’t eaten all day.
Do you have any plans today? No, I’m just
going to wander about and explore the town.
I wonder if you can pass this 5-question quiz.
It’s a lot easier than the quiz that’s coming
later in this video. I’m going to play some
clips. Tell me based on the pronunciation and
the context if you’re hearing wonder or wander.
Do you w*nder what your opponent might be wearing?
Do you speculate about it? Think about it? Are
you curious about it? That’s wonder with an O.
Ed Koch used to w*nder around New York City.
W*nder around.
Now, that’s a clue. If the next word is around,
this is probably going to be wander with an A.
Walk around without a clear direction.
Which made me w*nder, how
often do I really rest at home?
Made me w*nder. Made me think about this.
Wonder with an O.
Visitors can w*nder through
the centuries-old temples.
W*nder through. Walk through slowly,
experience, move about casually, not rushing.
Wander with an a.
Relax and let your mind w*nder gives your
subconscious mind time to take up ideas.
Mind. But we’re not talking about thinking.
We’re talking about letting your mind move
without direction or objective.
Just letting your mind w*nder.
That’s wander with an a.
Okay, this next one, I messed
up recently in writing. Oops.
I mixed up imminent and eminent.
And there’s also immanent pronounced just
like imminent but with a different spelling
and a totally different meaning. How cruel is
that? Pronounced the same, spelled differently,
totally different meanings.
First, let’s talk about the first two.
Imminent with the letter I. Starts with
an ih as in sit vowel. Ih, imminent.
And everything else about the
pronunciation is the same as
eminent with an e. Imminent means
lightly to occur at any moment.
I haven’t gotten the Covid vaccine yet, but Philly
has opened it up to anybody, so it’s imminent.
I think I’ll be getting my phone
call saying it’s my turn any day now.
We haven’t quite finished the project yet but
the delivery is imminent. It’s almost done.
Imminent. About to happen.
Eminent with an e, totally different
meaning. We have the e as in bed vowel.
Eminent. It means distinguished, prominent,
high in station, in other words, important.
She’s an eminent local artist.
People around town know her. Know her
work. She’s important and respected.
Okay now, Immanent. Spelled differently than
our first word but pronounced the same. I admit,
the first two words I’ve used. This one, I’ve
never used. It’s pretty advanced vocabulary.
It means inherent. Existing within something.
Respect is immanent in my marriage. Respect
lives within that relationship.
This is a sentence I got online.
The protection of liberties
is imminent in constitutional
arrangements. Protection of liberties.
Rights exist within the constitution.
Okay, this quiz is going to be a lot
harder than the wander, wonder quiz.
I feel very honored to be with _______
panelists to talk about South Korea.
An ________ panelists will be
discussing South Korea.
If it’s a person, it can’t be this imminent, that
means about to happen. That doesn’t really work
with people. But this person is someone respected
and known for his or her knowledge of South Korea.
Eminent with an e.
You can’t separate _________ and transcendent
nor can you separate mundane and divine.
Okay, this is the third word, immanent and
its most common use is like this. Related to
religion and philosophy. You can’t separate
something that lives within something else.
And instead of the _________ destruction of the
planet, it’s a gradual warming over decades.
Comparing ___________ destruction,
something’s that about to happen
with something that will happen slowly over time.
This is our first word. Imminent.
Two more questions.
Pre-emptive meaning that you see that an attack
is in the works. It’s __________ it’s mobilized
and you try to strike before
your enemy can strike you.
If something is in the works,
that means it’s a process that
started. The first steps of
the process are already done.
Therefore, the attack is imminent. It’s about
to happen. This is our first word again.
Robert Cialdini, a great _________
researcher from Arizona state University.
Describing a person here. Important in his
field of study. This one is our second word,
eminent with an e. Let’s go over
our three pronunciations again.
Imminent, eminent, immanent. Say them with me now.
Imminent.
Eminent.
Immanent.
Preeminent is word related to our second
word. It means surpassing all others
very distinguished in some way.
He is the preeminent demographer for Florida.
No one in the world knows more about
the population of Florida than he does.
Okay. I wonder if your mind wandered in that
last quiz. If something is hard to understand
or you find it boring, we sometimes tune
out, stop listening and let our minds wonder.
If your pronunciation of these words isn’t
perfect, just twerk them.
Wait, I mean tweak them.
Goodness!
These words are confusing.
What word pairs confuse you?
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