English Conversation Training Pronunciation Workout 3
Well hey there this is Emma from mmmEnglish.
Things have been getting pretty physical over here
at mmmEnglish lately. Have you seen
any of my conversation workouts yet?
Today’s lesson is another workout
and we’re going to focus on some common and some
natural ways to respond to everyday greetings.
So we’re going to revisit some of the expressions
that we practised in the first conversation workout
but instead of practising how to ask questions,
we’re going to practise how you can respond to them
and if you have any friends in English-speaking
countries, this lesson is going to be particularly helpful
for them to help them sound more natural as they’re
speaking with native speakers.
So be a good friend and share it with them, alright?
So I hope you’re ready to practise out loud with me.
It’s workout time!
Alright guys we’re back! Welcome to your next English
conversation workout.
In case you missed the last one, you can go back
and check it out later up here
or look for this thumbnail in the playlist.
Once again this workout is an intensive ‘repeat after me’
style lesson designed to help you work those
conversation muscles, we’re going to strengthen
your speaking skills and your listening skills
at the same time. And by the time you’re finished,
you’re going to look, you’re going to sound,
you’re going to feel more natural,
more casual just like a native English speaker
which I know is what so many of you really want.
The most important part of these workouts is not
getting everything technically and grammatically correct
it’s about feeling relaxed, finding your rhythm
and letting the words roll off your tongue.
Don’t worry about being perfect,
let’s just have some fun.
I’m your English coach
and you’re about to start your daily workout.
This workout is going to follow a very similar pattern
as the last one, you’ll do four sets of five similar
phrases and we’re going to practise each phrase
three times. You’ll listen to me first
and then try it yourself. You’ve got to join in okay?
Make sure you’re somewhere quiet and be ready
to speak out loud at normal volume.
No whispering okay? Best not to use headphones,
use the speaker on your phone or on your computer
so that you can hear me and you can hear yourself
clearly as well. This is not a passive lesson.
This is a workout. Get ready!
When English conversations first start,
there’s a lot of back and forth short answers, and
we’re using this time to get to know each other,
helping each other to feel a little more comfortable.
So the answers are usually quite brief.
It’s a little bit like tennis, you know? Back and forth,
back and forth. The conversations often start with
“How are you?”. Because it’s so common,
there are just so many different ways to respond.
Sometimes the expressions are a little
weird and kind of confusing and the tone is also
really important. The tone does most of the
communicating when you’re introducing yourself.
There’s a really big difference between
“Yeah, good thanks” and “Yeah, good thanks”
The words give you hardly any information at all.
It’s all in the tone. Now in these first few short
exchanges, it’s really important that you reflect
the tone of the person who’s speaking
rather than speaking in full meaningful sentences.
That’s more important. The tone.
So if they’re a little understated then you should be too.
Or if they’re filled with excitement,
well you can reflect that right back at them
to help them feel comfortable and relaxed.
It’s really weird if you come at each other
with different tones.
Hello.
Oh my god hi!
Hello!
Hello.
Shall we begin?
So let’s say someone asked you “How are you?”
There’s nothing particularly exciting about their
tone of voice so you might say:
“Yeah good.”
That’s a conversation killer.
If someone asks you, you’ve got to return the question,
right? So we say “Yeah, good and you?”
Now don’t ask me what ‘yeah’ is doing there.
This is extremely common in Australian and British
culture.
Yeah, good and you?
Now notice how I’m not using anywhere
near the full sentence.
Yes, I am good and how are you?
I’m simply saying “Yeah, good and you?”
You try it!
Yeah, good thanks and you?
Or an alternative could be:
Yeah, pretty good. How about you?
Cool!
Yeah, pretty good. How about you?
That’s it!
So like this, ‘pretty’ means quite, quite good.
So make sure you reduce down that question
to help you sound a bit more natural and relaxed.
Great! Let’s do the next one!
Hi Brooke! How are you?
Notice that there’s more excitement in my voice there?
So let’s match that with our answer.
Really good, thanks!
That’s it! Yes! Both words are stressed equally.
Really good!
So if R and L sounds are a little challenging for you
I want you to go back and practise this
a few more times.
Really good, thanks!
But we’re not always great and amazing, right?
Well usually we don’t want to dive into all of our
problems so early in a conversation right?
Even if we’re not feeling our best.
Mostly we just want to move past this part of the
conversation so I want to give you a few responses
to help you to say
So try:
“Not too bad.”
“Not too bad.”
So there’s a little trick with this response. “Not too bad”
actually means good, strange as that sounds.
And “not too good” actually means that you’re
not doing well so you’ve got to be careful here.
Now I wouldn’t use “not too good” unless
you knew the person well and you really wanted to share
the problems that you’ve been having with them,
usually we don’t, we just want to move on
through that part of the conversation.
So “not too bad” can help you to do that.
Not too bad. How about you?
Excellent! Very, very casual.
Yeah, I’m okay.
So the tone here is really important.
It’s telling the real message, right?
Nothing exciting is happening.
I’m okay. Can’t complain!
So in English, we use this expression “Can’t complain”
to show that we’re really grateful for what we have
although nothing particularly exciting is happening
at the moment, you’re kind of happy about it.
You know? You have nothing to complain about.
Yeah, I’m okay. Can’t complain!
Yeah, I’m okay. Can’t complain!
How are things with you?
Fantastic! This is fun! Let’s keep going.
So after these first few exchanges, our attention
usually turns to what else is going on right?
Perhaps in the near future.
So you might get asked “What are you doing?”
“What are you up to?”
So like the last set this is still small talk,
we’re just exchanging short answers for now
and perhaps later in the conversation as it unfolds,
we’ll go into more detail.
So when someone asks you
“So what are you up to tomorrow?”
you might just say
“Not much.”
Good! Really casual right? You can’t hear that
sound in ‘not’.
In fact, saying ‘not much’ usually lets the other person
know that you’re open for ideas about doing something.
Not much.
Not much. What about you?
Great! Of course, sometimes you might not actually
want to do anything. You might want to do nothing.
We all have days like that, right?
So in that case then using ‘just’ at the start is a really
good way to signal to the other person that you’re
limiting yourself to that activity.
You’re probably not going to do anything else.
Just taking it easy.
Listen again.
Just taking it easy.
So ‘just’ is unstressed, you just hear the schwa.
And hear how the two words actually come together.
That T sound is only pronounced once.
And actually, that sound at the end
can even reduce down to the
sound.
Just taking it easy.
Just taking it easy.
Good! One more time.
Just taking it easy, probably just chilling out at home.
Nice! Very relaxed.
So let’s practise what you might say if you actually
do have plans though
maybe they’re not quite confirmed yet.
So we’re going to practise using the word ‘hopefully’.
So if someone asks you “So what are you doing later?”
You can say
“Going out for dinner hopefully.”
So notice how I drop the subject there because I is not
necessary, the question was directed at me
so I don’t need to say that it’s me in the answer.
Going to the movies with my boyfriend, hopefully!
Good! And you can also switch it to the front as well.
Hopefully, heading into the city with some friends!
Awesome! In the next one, we’re going to replace
‘hopefully’ with ‘actually’.
So your plans are confirmed now okay?
You’re not hoping that it’s going to happen, you know
it’s going to happen okay? So,
“Going out for dinner, actually.”
Can you feel the difference
between those two sentences?
Going to the movies with my boyfriend, actually!
Actually, I’m heading to the city with some friends!
Perfect! Okay one more in this set. Perhaps
you’ve got a lot of things to do, right?
A lot of places to be, people to see,
you’re very, very busy.
So when someone asks
“So what are you up to at the moment?”
Or “What are you doing later?”
You can use the word ‘on’ okay?
So without going into too much detail, in English
we use the word ‘on’ to refer to what we have
on our schedule or on our list of things to do.
It’s really, really common to hear native speakers
use this all the time so try this.
I’ve got so much on.
That’s it! Saying this means that you’re really, really busy.
You’ve got a lot on your plate, okay?
There’s lots of things on your list to do, so much on.
I’ve got so much on at the moment.
One last time.
I’ve got so much on at the moment.
I’m flat out with work!
These first two interactions are ones that I want you to
practise as much as you possibly can.
They happen almost every time you start an English
conversation. In fact, if you can think of some other
answers to those questions then please add them
to the comments. Remember to listen for the tone
of the other person’s voice and try and reflect it
back on them in a positive way.
A great place to practise this is in classes with
native teachers in online language schools like Lingoda.
Every class starts like this, right? Whether it’s private
or a group class, a few minutes of casual chitchat
before the main lesson starts. Anyway
let’s keep moving.
The weather!
Don’t we just love chatting about the weather?
Well, imagine if you could sound just a little bit
more relaxed when you do it.
Let’s try it.
What’s the weather doing?
A little bit of rain this morning
but it’s starting to clear up.
So the tone that I’m using suggests that this is
quite normal, nothing too exciting, right?
A little bit of rain this morning
but it’s starting to clear up.
Well it was quite sunny this morning,
but the clouds have started to roll in now.
Nice one!
Now what if the weather is really, really nice?
So you want to use some stronger adjectives
to express this.
Oh, stunning!
Oh it was stunning yesterday!
Did you hear that really soft ‘oh’ there?
And with an adjective like this, I’m using stress
to emphasise the meaning.
Oh, it’s going to be stunning tomorrow.
We do the same with other adjectives too.
Oh it was beautiful this morning!
Push down on that adjective.
It’s perfect outside today.
One of the questions in this video was
“What’s the weather like on the weekend? Any good?”
Now this is another example of native speakers
reducing the number of words that they use in
really common expressions so it just means
is the weather nice?
So the answer is yes or no
but just saying yes or no is definitely
a conversation killer. You want to give some more detail
to help the other person to react
and respond to you.
Alright let’s emphasise the weather in a really
natural sounding way, the way that native speakers
use all the time. They start the sentence with
‘pretty’ and finish it with ‘actually’.
And this has the effect of showing that we’re
somehow surprised at how the weather is
but we’re also confirming that it’s true.
Pretty hot, actually!
Good! Now cloudy.
Pretty cloudy, actually!
Pretty miserable, actually!
Yes you can use this adjective to describe the weather.
‘Miserable’ just means rain, cloud, cold, drizzly,
you know when you’re talking about the weather.
That’s miserable. Now what if the weather is
just the same as it always is, whatever that may be.
So you could say
The usual. Sunny with a few clouds.
The usual. Absolutely freezing.
So notice how much my tone and my body language
was communicating there?
The usual. Freezing this morning but
it’s been warm this afternoon.
Okay the last one now. Do you live somewhere
where the weather is constantly changing?
Like four seasons in one day?
What’s the weather like on the weekend? Any good?
It’s been all over the place today.
It’s been all over the place this week.
Rain, hail, sunshine, everything!
It’s been all over the place lately.
Hot one day, cold the next!
Awesome! So for your last set we’re going to
push your skills a little harder by bringing
everything together. You’re going to answer the question
and then pass the conversation back
to the other person with a question of your own right?
Just like you would in a normal regular conversation.
Are you ready?
So let’s go back to our first question, how are you?
Yeah good! How about you? What have you been up to?
Excellent! Very casual, not too excitable.
Yeah good! How about you? What have you been up to?
Excellent, one more time.
Yeah I’m okay. How about you?
What have you been up to?
Yes! Next one. Again, how are you?
Hi Brooke! How are you?
So you can hear just how much more interested I am
in your answer, right?
Because of the tone I used so let’s try and reflect that
in our response.
Really good! I’ve got so much on at the moment!
How about you?
Really good! I’ve got so much on at the moment!
How about you?
Yes! One more time!
Yeah, really good actually!
So much on at the moment! You?
Yes! Well done! Next question.
So what are you doing later on?
Going out for dinner, hopefully.
What are you guys doing?
Yes! So let’s stress the subject now.
Going out for dinner, hopefully. What are you guys up to?
And now let’s firm up our plans
and use ‘actually’ instead.
Going out for dinner actually. What are you guys up to?
Got any plans?
That was a mouthful! If you got that, awesome!
So what’s the weather doing?
Pretty sunny, actually! What’s it like at your end?
It’s pretty cold, actually! Nice day where you are?
Perfect! Notice that we’re using intonation only
to signal what our questions are.
Yeah, it’s a bit chilly, actually!
What about where you are? Any good today?
So natural, so good! Well done!
Okay our last phrase for our last set, okay?
Now you’re actually going to be answering a two-part
question so someone asks “Hey how’s it going?
What’s been happening?”
Hey! I’m going okay. Can’t complain really.
Not too much news to report. How about you?
Yeah… Really good, just taking it easy at the moment!
What about you?
Yes! Okay last one now.
Yeah really good, actually! I’ve got so much
going on at the moment. How are you going?
You are absolutely amazing!
That last one was a bit of a mouthful, wasn’t it?
So phew, how are you feeling after your workout?
Exhausted?
Well keep in mind that it’s perfectly normal
to feel exhausted after a workout right? In fact,
that’s when you know that you’ve really been making
progress. Even though they’re really simple and super
common, it’s so good to practise these phrases
and expressions often. You are guaranteed
to put them into practice because they’re the type of
questions that come up all the time.
The more you practise, the easier it’s going to be
to help these expressions roll off your tongue naturally.
So make sure you save this video
and come back to workout with me regularly, okay?
Here are a few other workout lessons to help you
practise your natural pronunciation and expression.
I’ll see you in there!