How to Compliment Someone in English Spoken English Lesson
Hi, I’m Gina.
Welcome to Oxford Online English!
In this lesson, you’ll learn how to compliment
someone in English.
If you like someone’s clothes, or you’re
invited to someone’s home and want to tell
them how nice it is, would you know what to
say?
Compliments—when you say something nice
to someone—are important if you want to
seem friendly.
However, the tone of compliments is important.
You can sound strange if you get it wrong.
In this class, you’ll see how to compliment
people in a natural way in English!
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But now, let’s start by looking at how you
can compliment someone’s appearance in English.
Is that a new top?
It looks really nice!
Thanks!
Where did you get it?
That colour suits you.
Actually, I got it from a market.
I have no idea where it came from originally.
Did you get your hair cut?
Yeah!
I like it.
Shorter hair looks good on you!
Thanks!
A common way to compliment someone’s appearance
is to notice something new about them.
For example: ‘Is that a new top?’
‘Did you get your hair cut?’
You heard these in the dialogue, but you could
also say: ‘Are those shoes new?’
‘You look nice.
Have you lost weight?’
Of course, you should be careful when you
comment on someone’s weight or body shape.
It’s safer to avoid such comments with people
you don’t know well.
You can also say that someone looks good with
phrases like these: ‘It looks really nice.’
‘That colour suits you.’
‘Shorter hair looks good on you.’
You can use these phrases
in different ways.
For example: ‘Your shoes look really nice.’
‘That jacket suits you.’
‘Green looks good on you.’
You can use a colour like this to refer to
clothing.
So, you can say ‘red looks good on you,’
meaning that red clothes look good when you
wear them.
Of course, appearance isn’t everything!
Maybe you want to compliment others on their
personalities, too.
Let’s see how you can do this.
Wow!
Look at this.
You’re so organised.
How do you keep everything so tidy?
I don’t know.
I’ve always been tidy, I think.
I wish I was like that.
My office is always in a mess.
I like how patient you are.
It’s important for someone in your position.
Well, thanks for saying so.
I don’t know how you do it sometimes.
The way I see it is: you don’t gain anything
by getting angry or stressed.
I appreciate that you were so honest about
this.
Not everybody would have handled things the
same way.
It just seemed like the right thing to do.
Sure, but I still think it was brave of you
to speak out.
You can compliment someone’s personality
in a very simple way.
You heard: ‘You’re so organised.’
You can use this with other adjectives; for
example: ‘You’re so generous!’
‘You’re so hard-working.’
You can also use other phrases, such as: ‘I
like how patient you are.’
‘I appreciate that you were so honest about
this.’
‘It was brave of you to speak out.’
Again, you can use these in different ways,
like this: ‘I like how cheerful you are.’
‘I appreciate that you always listen carefully
to everyone’s ideas.’
‘It was nice of you to bring a gift.’
OK, at this point, you’ve learned some language
to compliment someone’s appearance and personality.
We have an exercise for you!
Think of someone you know well.
This person could be your friend, family member,
or colleague.
Imagine you want to compliment this person
on his or her appearance and personality.
Can you make two sentences?
Pause the video, and say your sentences out
loud.
Could you remember what to say?
Remember, you can always go back and check
if you’ve forgotten something.
Next, let’s imagine that someone has invited
you to their home for the first time.
It’s good manners to compliment your host
on their home; lets see how you can do that.
Wow!
I love your living room.
It’s so cosy!
Thanks!
It didn’t look like this when we moved in,
but we’ve done a lot of work on it.
I especially like that lamp.
Did it come with the place?
No, it was a wedding present.
I don’t know where it came from.
It’s really colourful.
You have a very nice place.
Thank you!
I like how spacious it is.
I live in the centre, and my apartment is
a shoebox.
Yeah, I guess that’s the plus of living
in the suburbs.
It’s much further away, though.
True.
If you want to compliment someone on their
home, you could make a general comment, like:
‘You have a very nice place.’
‘I like how spacious it is.’
You heard these in the dialogue, but you could
also say:
‘You have a very beautiful home.’
‘I like how bright your apartment is.’
You could also compliment specific things
about someone’s home.
In the dialogue, you heard: ‘I love your
living room.
It’s so cosy!’
‘I especially like that lamp.’
Here’s a question for you: what other adjectives
could you use to compliment someone’s home?
There are many possible answers, but you could
use words like ‘warm’, ‘modern’, ‘beautiful’,
‘airy’ or ‘stylish’.
So, you might say: ‘I love your terrace!
It’s beautiful.’
‘I especially like your sofa.
It’s so stylish.’
If you’re at someone’s home, there’s
a good chance they’ll serve you food.
For our next topic, let’s see how you can
compliment someone’s cooking!
This soup is amazing!
What’s in it?
It’s a Caribbean recipe, with vegetables,
beef stock, coconut and thyme.
It’s so tasty!
Quite spicy, though.
Mmm, well…
It does have a couple of habanero peppers
in, too.
Maybe I should have warned you…
Mmm!
The pizza is delicious!
Did you make it from scratch?
I did!
Glad you like it.
You even make the dough yourself?
Yep.
It’s not so difficult, actually, and I think
the end result is better.
Do you want more?
Yes, please!
To compliment someone’s cooking, you can
use words like ‘tasty’ or delicious’.
You can also use more general adjectives,
like ‘amazing’, ‘great’ or ‘fantastic’.
For example, you could say: ‘This soup is
amazing.’
‘The pasta is really tasty.’
‘I love the pie.
It’s fantastic!’
‘The potatoes are delicious.’
As you heard before, part of complimenting
something is showing an interest.
So, you can ask questions like: ‘What’s
in it?’
‘Did you make it from scratch?’
‘You even make the dough yourself?’
If you make something from scratch, you don’t
use any pre-made ingredients.
For example, if you make a pizza from scratch,
then you make everything yourself: you mix
flour and water to make the dough, you make
the tomato sauce yourself, and so on.
Now, you should know several ways to compliment
someone in English.
For homework, go out and say something nice
to someone!
Thanks for watching!
See you next time!