THINK SPEAK IN ENGLISH About Relationships Episode 2

some students think that speaking

english fluently

means that a person is able to speak for

a long time in english

but that’s not true instead english

fluency is

all about your ability to organize your

thoughts

like a native english speaker that’s

right no matter what the topic is

you should be able to organize your

thoughts in an easy and

clear way so that the person listening

to you can understand

and also follow along so what about

relationships

when you want to speak about

relationships this topic

in english and you want to speak

fluently you need to talk about three

specific things so we’re going to talk

about these three things in today’s

lesson

i’m teacher tiffany let’s jump right in

alright so let’s get started step number

one

you need to describe the people or

person

again remember the topic is

relationships

in order to speak fluently about

relationships

you must first start by describing the

people

or the person so let’s say you want to

talk about

your best friend you need to give some

background information

some background information that will

give the listener

a better understanding of who your best

friend is

so for example my best friend i can tell

you a little bit about her

my best friend and i have been friends

since we were in elementary school

but if i were to describe her to you

i would say she’s a shy person but she

loves

people she also loves sports she

loves spending time with her family and

she also loves god

so what happened now you’re getting a

better picture

in your mind of my friend

that’s what you need to do start off the

conversation

start talking about the relationship by

giving the listener the ability to

create a mental picture

that’s what happens when you do step one

describe the person

tell a little bit more about the person

some details about them right

now you can do the same thing about a

group of people

let’s say for example you want to talk

about your

classmates or your co-workers right so

give

some details about your classmates or

your co-workers now

i’ll pick coworkers right at your job

maybe there are a lot of people but you

work with a specific

group maybe they’re all hard workers

maybe they love to laugh and maybe they

also

are very dedicated to their job so again

you’re giving background information to

describe those

people that’s step one now step two is

also very important

you need to give three characteristics

of your

current relationship now we’re

connecting you to those people

or that person so you start talking

about

your relationship with those individuals

so for example

i mentioned my best friend right so now

i need to tell you about

our connection right about our

friendship

currently so i can say we are really

uh focused on trust we’re focused on

dedication and we’re also focused on

having fun

like we’re very honest with each other

and we enjoy

having fun so i’m giving you some more

details about our relationship

and i can go into more detail by telling

you some stories about

how we laugh so hard we start crying or

how we spend time together playing

basketball even as

adults again what you want to do in step

two

is give some more information about your

connection

with this individual or with those

people and let’s say for example you

want to talk about your coworkers

now give three characteristics of your

relationship with your co-workers

so i can say ah my co-workers and i we

really get along well

we enjoy going out to lunch together and

the third thing we enjoy is spending

time together on the weekends so you can

see

oh even though they’re your co-workers

you’re

very close to them they have become your

close

friends and you can see that as a

listener because i’ve given you

three characteristics of our current

relationship right now step three is

also very important

in step three in order to speak fluently

about relationships

you need to talk about the future of

your relationship

how you think this relationship will

develop

as time goes on as time goes by

will you get closer will you kind of

stray away or drift apart

so for example i can talk about my best

friend now we’ve been friends since we

were in elementary school

but we’re still friends now and for the

future i can say

oh when i get married she’s going to be

in my wedding

she is so close to me i know that i want

her to be a part of that special day

so what’s happening by me telling you

about the future about

the wedding that i’m going to have and

how my best friend is going to be in the

wedding

you’re able to understand the level of

my relationship with my best friend

makes sense right so again the third

step is so important

now with your colleagues again i told

you in the middle that

we hang out after work we have lunch

together we’re very diligent and

dedicated to our assignments

i can say in the future even if we

work at different companies and we leave

our current company

we will still stay in contact and what

am i showing you

i’m showing you that i want to keep this

relationship

strong with my coworkers it makes sense

right

so again speaking english fluently about

a relationship

it’s not about the length of time that

you’re speaking for instead it’s about

including

these three parts first describe the

people or the person

second describe your current

relationship by giving

three characteristics and third talk

about the future of your relationship

now again when you do these three things

the person listening to you

will feel that you are fluent in english

because you were able to

explain and describe the relationship

in such a very clear and concise way

the person the people describing them

second

your current relationship and finally

the future of your relationship

this is what you need to do to speak

english fluently

and confidently about your relationships

now

everything i taught you today came from

my ebook how to pass the ielts speaking

exam so

if you want to learn more you can also

check out the ebook

how to pass the ielts speaking exam

thank you so much for joining me i’m so

honored to be your teacher

i will talk to you next time but as

always remember to speak

english

you still there you know what time it is

it’s story time

hey i said a story time

all right guys so today i want to tell

you about one of my most

treasured relationships that’s right one

of my closest friends i met her when i

was living

in south korea now she and i have been

friends for a long time but

let me kind of tell you about her

personality let me describe her

you got that right so her name is

catherine uh her english name is

katherine and catherine

is an extremely hard worker she’s very

intelligent

and she also loves her students so when

we were at the same

institute i always heard about how much

her students loved her they would follow

her no matter what class she taught

they would register because they wanted

to study with her she was such an

amazing teacher and she’s still

a really good teacher now for us

we became friends during a teacher’s

retreat

and she and i we had been working

together prior to the retreat

but i say we became friends at the

retreat because something happened

during that time so

prior to that again we were co-workers

you know we’d have a good time together

go out to eat with other coworkers

but we didn’t necessarily have a close

like one-on-one relationship

during the retreat though um it was

myself

catherine and another one of my friends

named rebecca she’s also korean

and we were all staying in the same room

so it was a saturday night and we were

just talking about

live and different things and it was a

great conversation

but i just remember us talking about

something and then

we both started laughing at the same

thing now

i’m a very fun person i love to laugh i

love to spend time with my friends and

my family

but when we started laughing it’s like i

saw the the what is the word not the

real side but i saw a different side of

her that’s what happened

it went from being co-worker to hey

you’re a cool person like i could see

myself hanging out with you

and honestly we laughed so much that

night now me and rebecca were already

close and we’re still close to this day

like i was i helped her in her wedding

like i was the translator in rebecca’s

wedding so

me and rebecca were already close but

then at this point in time

me and catherine suddenly started to get

closer and

fast forward literally catherine is one

of my closest friends and when i get

married i’d like her to be in my wedding

too and of course rebecca you know

so here’s the thing that one situation

we went on that retreat

where i actually saw hey she’s not just

a co-worker

she’s a good friend like we can have a

good time together

that was kind of the start of our

friendship because we were able to

relate

to each other and since that time

literally i spent time with her husband

her daughter i went to their house when

i was in korea

and even when i failed my exam you guys

remember i told you about failing my

korean exam for my master’s degree

two times in a row how difficult that

was and the second time

i failed i it was very

i was distraught i didn’t know what to

do i felt bad but

i didn’t show my emotions when i went to

work i just kind of kept teaching

and she approached me and she said hey

tiff how are you so i’m fine

everything’s okay

and i remember i literally remember this

like it was yesterday sitting at the

desk and i was typing in some grades for

my students

and she said tiff what happened with the

test

and it was like a floodgate open tears

just streamed down my face

and i was telling her how bad i felt and

she just listened put a hand on my she

put her hand on my shoulder and she said

it’s okay it’s okay

and i really needed that at that moment

because i was in korea

away from my family i had a lot of close

friends

but i didn’t necessarily want to cry and

say hey

i can’t believe i didn’t pass and i felt

bad but i was able to open up to her

when she asked me what happened and i

realized

how special she was to me that i was

able to

release that showed me that oh this

person is super super important to me so

yes catherine and i developed our

friendship over time and

right now our current relationship um we

both live in different

countries of course and we talk to each

other every once in a while because

she’s busy and i’m busy but our

relationship is still very close so

when she messages me she’ll send me

maybe a nice

um piece of art to look at that she

likes art as well or

i’ll call her on the phone and we’ll

talk about her family and what’s going

on and

we talk also about um you know god too

because we both love god so

our relationship is really good and in

the future again i told you i do want

her to be in my wedding

i really love her and her family and i’m

really blessed to have her as a friend

so

again i hope you guys enjoy this story

about how our relationship developed

i’m sure you guys have stories about

your own friends and how you guys became

friends

please feel free to share your stories

with us in the comment

section guys thank you so much for

watching again if you want to join my

family

our family and become a part of the

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have an amazing

day all right

一些学生认为说

流利的英语

意味着一个人能够说

很长时间的英语,

但这不是真的

你应该能够

以一种简单

明了的方式组织你的想法,这样听你的人

就可以理解

并跟随你,那么

当你想用英语谈论

关系这个话题

并且你想

流利地说你需要的时候,关系呢? 谈论三件

具体的事情,所以我们将

在今天的课程中谈论这三件事情

关系 为了流利地谈论

关系,

您必须首先从描述

或人开始,所以假设您想

交谈 关于

你最好的朋友 你需要提供一些

背景信息

一些背景信息可以

听众更好地了解你最好的朋友是谁

所以例如我最好的朋友 我可以告诉

你一些关于她

我最好的朋友和我曾经

自从我们上小学以来就成为朋友,

但如果我要向你描述她,

我会说她是一个害羞的人,但她

爱人,

她也喜欢运动,她

喜欢与家人共度时光,

她也爱上帝,

所以现在发生了什么事

在你的脑海中更好地了解我的朋友

这就是你需要做的开始

谈话

开始谈论这种关系,

让听众能够

创造一个心理画面

,这就是当你做第一步描述这个人时会发生的事情。

更多关于这个人的

一些关于他们的细节

现在你可以对一群人做同样的事情

比如说你想谈谈你的

同学 s 或您的同事,所以请

提供

有关您的同学或同事的一些详细信息,

现在我会在您的工作中挑选同事,

也许有很多人,但您

与特定的小组一起工作,

也许他们都是努力工作的人

也许他们喜欢笑,也许他们

非常专注于自己的工作,所以

你再次提供背景信息来

描述

那些现在是第一步的人 第二步

也很重要

你现在需要给出

当前关系的三个特征我们' 重新

将您与那些人

或那个人联系起来,以便您开始谈论

您与这些人的关系,

例如,

我提到了我最好的朋友,所以现在

我需要告诉您

我们的联系,就我们目前的

友谊而言,

所以我可以说我们真的

嗯,专注于信任,我们专注于

奉献,我们也专注于

玩得开心,

因为我们彼此非常诚实

,我们喜欢

玩得开心,所以我给你一些更多的

细节 ab 说出我们的关系

,我可以通过告诉你一些故事来更详细地

介绍我们是如何笑得如此厉害以至于开始哭泣的,或者

我们如何花时间一起打

篮球,即使是

成年人,你在第二步中想要做的

是提供更多关于 你

与这个人或那些

人的联系,比如说你

想谈谈你的同事,

现在给出你

与同事关系的三个特征,

所以我可以说啊,我的同事和我,

我们相处得很好,

我们 喜欢一起出去吃午饭,

我们喜欢的第三件事是

周末在一起,这样你就可以

看到

哦,即使他们是你的同事,

和他们很亲近,他们已经成为你的

亲密

朋友,你可以看到 作为一个

听众,因为我已经给了你

我们目前关系的三个特征第三步在第三步中

也非常重要

,以便流利地

谈论

你需要谈论的关系 k 关于你们关系的未来

你认为这种关系将如何

发展 从

我们上小学时

就成为朋友,但我们现在和未来仍然是朋友,

我可以说

哦,当我结婚时,她将

参加我的婚礼

那个特殊的日子,

所以我告诉你发生了

什么事关于

我将要举行的婚礼

以及我最好的朋友将如何参加

婚礼,

你能够理解

我与我最好的朋友的关系水平

有道理,所以再次第三

步非常重要,

现在和你的同事再次在一起我

在中间告诉你,

我们下班后一起出去吃午饭

,我们非常勤奋,

致力于我们的任务,

我可以说将来即使 我们

在不同的地方工作 公司,我们离开

了我们现在的公司,

我们仍然会保持联系

,我在向你

展示什么 你说话的时间长度

而不是

包括

这三个部分首先描述

人或人

其次通过给出三个特征描述你当前的

关系

第三

当你做这三件事时再次谈论你的关系的未来

听你说话的人

会觉得你的英语很流利,

因为你能够

以非常清晰简洁的方式解释和描述这段关系

描述他们的人

第二次是

你现在的关系,最后

是你的关系的未来

你需要做什么才能

流利地说英语

并自信地谈论你的人际关系

现在

一切我都知道了 嗯,你今天来自

我的电子书如何通过雅思口语

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查看电子书

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非常感谢你加入我我很

荣幸成为你的 老师,

我下次会和你说话,但

一如既往记得说

英语

你还在那儿你知道现在

是故事时间

嘿,我说了故事

时间好了,伙计们所以今天我想告诉

你我最

珍惜的关系之一 没错

,我最亲密的朋友之一,我在韩国生活时认识她,

现在她和我已经是

很长时间的朋友了,但

让我来告诉你她的

性格,让我描述一下她,

你说得对,所以她的名字是

凯瑟琳 呃,她的英文名字是

凯瑟琳,凯瑟琳

是一个非常努力的人,她非常

聪明

,她也爱她的学生,所以当

我们在同一个

学院时,我总是听说

她的学生有多爱她,他们会

跟随她。 r 她教的课

他们会注册,因为他们想

和她

一起学习 撤退,

但我说我们在撤退时成为了朋友,

因为在那段时间发生了一些事情

,所以

在那之前我们又是同事,

你知道我们会一起度过愉快的时光

,和其他同事一起出去吃饭,

但我们不一定有 在撤退期间有一种亲密

的一对一关系

,虽然是

我自己

凯瑟琳和我的另一个朋友

丽贝卡,她也是韩国人

,我们都住在同一个房间里,

所以这是一个星期六晚上,我们

只是在谈论

生活和不同的事情,这是一次

很棒的谈话,

但我只记得我们谈论了

一些事情,然后

我们都开始嘲笑同样的

事情现在

我是一个非常有趣的人我喜欢笑我

喜欢sp 结束与我的朋友和家人的时光,

但当我们开始笑时,就像我

看到了这个词不是

真实的一面,但我看到了她的另一面,

这就是发生的事情

,从成为同事到嘿

你是 像我这样一个很酷的人,可以看到

自己和你一起出去

玩,老实说,那天晚上我们笑得很

开心,现在我和丽贝卡已经很

亲近了,我们仍然接近这一天,

就像我一样我在她的婚礼上帮助她,

就像我是翻译一样 在丽贝卡的

婚礼上,所以

我和丽贝卡已经很亲近了,

但是在这个时候,

我和凯瑟琳突然开始

走得更近了,而且

快进了,从字面上看,凯瑟琳

是我最亲密的朋友之一,当我

结婚时,我希望她能在我的 婚礼

也是,当然,丽贝卡,你知道,

所以这是

我们在静修

中进行的一种情况,我实际上看到了嘿,她不仅仅是

一个同事,

她是一个好朋友,就像我们可以

一起度过愉快的时光,

这是一个开始 我们的

朋友 dship,因为我们能够相互

联系

,从那以后

我真的和她的丈夫

她的女儿在一起,我在韩国的时候去了他们家

,即使我考试不及格,你们

还记得我告诉过你我的韩国语不及格

连续两次硕士学位考试那是多么困难

,第二次

我失败了

我非常心烦意乱我不知道该怎么

办我感觉很糟糕但

我去的时候没有表现出我的情绪

工作我只是继续教书

,她走近我,她说嘿,

tiff,你好吗,我很好,

一切都很好

,我记得我真的记得这

就像昨天坐在

办公桌前一样,我正在为我的成绩输入一些成绩

学生

和她说考试发生了什么事

,就像闸门打开了,眼泪

从我脸上流下来

,我告诉她我感觉有多糟糕,

她只是听了把手放在我

身上,把手放在我的肩膀上,她 说

没关系

没关系 那一刻我真的很需要那个,

因为我在韩国,

远离我的家人,我有很多亲密的

朋友,

但我不一定想哭着

说嘿,

我不敢相信我没有通过,我感觉很

糟糕,但是

当她问我发生了什么事时,我能够向她敞开心扉,我

意识到

她对我来说是多么特别,我

能够

释放这向我表明,哦,这个

人对我来说超级超级重要,所以

是的,凯瑟琳和我发展了我们的

友谊 随着时间的推移和

现在我们目前的关系,嗯,我们

当然都住在不同的国家,我们偶尔会互相交谈

,因为

她很忙,我很忙,但我们的

关系仍然非常密切,所以

当她给我发信息时,她'

可能会寄给我一件不错

的艺术品来看看她也

喜欢艺术

因为我们都爱上帝,所以

我们的关系非常好,而且

在 未来再次我告诉你我真的希望

她参加我的婚礼

我真的很爱她和她的家人我

真的很幸运能有她作为朋友

所以

我再次希望你们喜欢这个

关于我们关系如何发展的故事

我 我相信你们有关于

自己朋友的故事以及你们是如何成为

朋友的,

请随时

在评论部分与我们分享

你们的故事

如果你们想加入我的

家人,

我们的家人并成为其中的一员,非常感谢你们再次观看

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