How to Prepare for a Job Interview Common Interview Questions Job Interview Tips

Interviewers know if you’ve prepared for a job interview or not –

and if you haven’t prepared, you probably won’t get the job.

One of the most important things to do before a job interview is to practice answering interview questions.

You’ll have better answers and you’ll be more relaxed,

opening the door to a greater connection with the person interviewing you.

Today we’re going to sit down with three experts who will talk you though common interview questions,

how to answer them, body language, and some Do’s an Don’ts of interviewing.

This is a long video because there’s a lot to cover.

You’ll learn how to talk about transitions between jobs, what to say if you’ve been fired,

what to say when you’re not sure how to answer a question,

the right way to follow up, the right body language, and much more.

Being prepared WILL get you the job.

At the end of the video, there will be a lesson for my non-native English speaking students on vocal tone.

You may be absolutely wonderful at what you do, and have a great cover letter and resume.

But interviewing is its own separate skill.

Cindy has hired hundreds of people for the non-profits she ran in New York City.

Now she works as a recruiter and she interviews people all day.

She says, before your interview, it is
extremely important.

To practice your interviewing skills.

Do mock interviews because it makes you more comfortable,

and the more comfortable you are in an interview, the more likely you are to have a connection with somebody.

If you walk in nervous, and you’re not yourself,

then the interview doesn’t get to see who you are, which means that they may miss something.

You don’t want the interviewer to miss anything about how fabulous you are.

Everyone I spoke to stressed practicing.

Laura is a career advisor at a prestigious American college.

The most important thing is to prepare as much as possible.

Practising your interview ahead of time in front of a mirror with a friend.

Steve is a small business owner who does a lot of hiring.

I asked him what makes a good first impression at the beginning of an interview.

They are anticipating that they’re going to be asked some questions.

Some standard questions across the board or during an interview process.

And if they have good answers for those, what I mean by good is that they’re they’ve thought about these,

they know how to answer them, then to me, that feels like, okay this person’s, this person’s been aware,

and is prepared for… prepared for this interview.

Employers CAN tell when you’ve prepared: your answers are clearer, more interesting, more thorough.

And they appreciate that.

If you haven’t prepared for the interview, they’re probably going to question if you’re really prepared for the job.

In the next three videos that follow this one, we’ll study mock interviews

and discuss how you can put together you own best answers for common interview questions.

For the rest of this video, we’ll continue to hear from Cindy, Laura and Steve.

They’re giving you insider information: what does an employer want to see in an interview?

First, it’s common for employers to ask you to share a little bit about yourself outside of your work life.

Why do they do this, and what are they looking for?

Does it matter if you prepare an answer to this one?

Yes. Listen to what Steve says.

We usually ask what other things do you do outside of work?

We’re looking for what kind of well-roundedness are you.

Of a person are you, and even what other activities are you involved with?

What might you be involved with within your community?

And more of that giving back to the community kind of a way.

But oftentimes, that’ll lead to additional questions where, okay, we’ve got maybe a common interest,

and all of a sudden, you’re going down a path of asking a whole bunch of different other questions.

Have you ever asked someone this
question and they really

didn’t have anything else that felt like their thing that they could talk about ?

Definitely.

Had situations where they were the reply was: well, I sit on my couch, and watch tv, you know.

It’s something that’s….It’s some… That’s another activity, all right, but it’s,

for me, it’s not, doesn’t feel like it’s a real one, exciting one, or one that, if I were in that interview position,

I would say that. That would be my response.

So yeah, we’ve had…We’ve had people that are just like: well, I…

I don’t know and I just I just kind of work. I work all day.

And those people probably would have had an answer if they thought about it ahead of time.

Yeah, that’s true.

So it’s all about being prepared.

Right. Right. If you had thought about that beforehand I’m sure those applicants wouldn’t have said:

I just kind of sit…I sit at my sit on my couch and watch tv.

There’s nothing wrong with loving TV, but think of a more exciting way to say it. “I’m a huge TV buff”, for example.

DO have an answer for ‘tell me about yourself’, but DON’T get too personal.

Many interviews start with two general questions.

One being: tell me about yourself, a lot of people hate that question, but a lot of people use it.

And be prepared for that.

Tell a little bit about yourself. And what usually they’re asking for is not to tell your resume,

they’re asking for you to say a little bit about yourself, personally.

Like what, what would be, I mean, personally, there are so many things.

Oh I have two kids, or I love opera.

Like, is there any one thing that you think stay away from that? Or…How would you answer that?

I mean, yeah, I would stay away from anything that’s like

super personal, that would be weird to say to somebody that you don’t know very well.

But I think personal is good and so I think the things you just said are really interesting.

Like, I live in…I live in richmond, I have two little girls, and we moved down, I used to work in a non-profit,

I’ve just now switched careers, like, whatever.

I mean, just something about yourself that gives them a little bit of context of who you are.

So like something that you would feel comfortable saying to somebody that you’re sitting next to on the bus

or something?

Yeah. Yeah. Or that you’ve just met at a dinner party, or you know, something like that.

Short.

They’re not asking you for a long answer.

The other thing that a lot of interviews will start with is that you do a walk-through of your resume.

Now we’re moving onto a major topic you need to prepare for an interview: walking through your resume.

Both Steve and Cindy said this is something they ask interviewees to do.

Bring several copies of the same resume you submitted for the job.

Keep one for your own reference and hand the rest out to the people interviewing you.

What does an employer want to hear in a walk-through of your resume?

So I would say: I would love you to walk me through your resume.

Talk, start at the beginning.

Talk through the roles that you’ve held, key responsibilities at those roles,

would love for you to highlight your key successes in each role,

one of the things I really want to understand is your transition, so as you move from role to role,

would love to understand what prompted you to leave one place and go to the other.

And then, you know, if your career was long, I would love for you to spend more time on your more recent stuff,

but start at the beginning because I want to get a sense of your full career arc.

I want to get a sense of how it all connects, how you got from, you know, at the beginning to where you are now.

And then depending on the role,
sometimes I will also say,

you know, when you start getting to the place of your career where you are managing teams,

or supervising staff, let me know how many people, the construct of your team,

and if you’re managing budgets, what size of a budget? So I can capture that information.

I’m happy to like, you know, stop you as you go along if you forget anything but that’s what I’m looking for.

And do that in about 15 or 20 minutes.

And that’s awesome because that is something that anyone can practice ahead of time,

and can really, you know, time themselves, make sure they’re not rambling on too much with any one thing.

And something that people will often do, I mean, there’s errors on both sides,

some people go so quickly and don’t actually note the information that I asked,

that I have to go back and ask questions all the way through. That’s sort of annoying.

And then the rambly is also really annoying.

So some people will start and they’ll…

They’ll pause after their first job and say like: am I giving you the right level of detail?

I love that because I don’t want to interrupt people.

It’s not, you know, it doesn’t always feel good to do that especially when people are nervous,

and they’re interviewing.

So it’s always good to check in and say like: is that the detail that you want?

And somebody asks me, I may very well say: actually, you know, feel free to go a little more quickly,

or you didn’t know XYZ.

Talking through your resume in this kind of detail

is something you’re going to be able to do a lot more clearly if you’ve thought about it

and practiced it ahead of time.

One part of your resume that matters a lot to employers is timing.

Be prepared to talk about gaps in your work history, short tenures at jobs, and transitioning between jobs.

One of the things in particular that I’m looking for is is gaps in your work history.

If you’re giving me dates of when you worked, and you have a one-year gap, I want to know why.

What’s going on? What happened? Or didn’t happen? Or why did, why is there a year off or six-month period off

on your work history? That’s probably one of the bigger things that I’m looking at.

Transitions between jobs.

This is a really important piece.

A lot of workers they just care a lot about it

because they want to understand if you were asked to leave, you were fired,

if your very short job tenures on your resume, that’s a red flag for a lot of organizations,

and actually could be a reason why you didn’t get an interview.

But be prepared to talk about your transitions.

If you do get fired, figure out how do you want to talk about that.

And if you didn’t, then talk about what was it that made you leave one organization and go to another.

And while you’re doing that,

you want to make sure that you’re never speaking badly about one of your jobs or organizations.

It’s another flag that happens in a job interview.

And you know it’s okay to talk about a rough transition, or a rough year,

but you want to do it very carefully,

in a way that you would feel comfortable that if somebody from that organization were there,

would, you know, generally understand and feel comfortable here.

If you are bad-mouthing an organization, or a previous boss, or anybody really, in a job interview,

that’s gonna make people think it’s possible that you would do the same about them, about the, you know, job.

Do prepare to talk through your resume, do prepare to talk about gaps in work or transitions between jobs,

but don’t ever talk badly about an organization or an employer you worked with in the past.

How can you gracefully talk about being fired?

Let’s say I was fired from a job.

From your experience, what is a way that I can talk about that, that you feel okay about it?

I guess it depends on why I was fired, right?

It really does.

It does depend on the situation.

I mean ultimately, what hopefully you can talk about is a situation where there was just not a good fit

with an organization.

And to be able to explain why something wasn’t a good fit,

and how that transition was done in a way that was really respectful on your side, if you were able to.

So, in other words, you know, we realized that that it wasn’t the right fit,

at which point, I worked another two weeks, you know, to make sure that I helped with the transition.

And somebody’s gonna dig into that.

What was it that wasn’t a good fit for you?

Well, it wasn’t a good fit because I…

You know, I just had my first baby,

this was a culture that required, you know, a lot of overtime.

I wasn’t able to give it. Ultimately, my boss and I were able to sit down and have a conversation

about that, and we decided to, you know, part ways, sooner rather than later.

Okay. That’s helpful.

If they don’t ask you the direct question: did you get fired? Or they didn’t ask you about your transitions, right?

Like, I wouldn’t say you should offer it, if it’s not being asked for.

If somebody says why did you leave that organization, then you need to be honest.

Talking about being fired without bad mouthing the organization or lying could be hard,

but if you work on it beforehand, you’ll likely be able to come up with a way to discuss this

that you’re comfortable with that’s also truthful.

Both Cindy and Steve talked about the balance of talking about your accomplishments without sounding arrogant.

So if someone would come in with confidence and humility,

that would maybe endear me a little more to that person and say, boy,

I think this person could probably fit in our organization.

So I feel like I understand how someone can present themselves with confidence.

Can you think of anything of that a person says or does that makes you sense humility in them?

I mean, that’s sort of a tricky, tricky one.
It really is.

I think not over promoting yourself,

listening, truly listening to the people that are you’re interviewing with,

not going on and on, talking on and on about yourself ,about your compliment, accomplishments,

about everything that you’ve done,

how wonderful you are, but still being able to talk about these these accomplishments, and…

Yeah. It’s a fine line. It’s a little tricky. You have to be able to speak well about what you’ve done,

but then also know at what point it’s gotten to be too much.

Yeah. Yep. Absolutely.

Cindy agrees.

She has a great tip on how to do this.

I think one of the most, like, noted

characteristics about somebody on the turnout side is somebody who is just a know-it-all,

overly confident, speaks very highly of themselves.

and again, like, it’s tricky because part of the job interview process is talking about what you’ve done,

but being able to do so in a way that exhibits humility, super-important.

I have interviewed people who have amazing resumes, who, you know, have done amazing work,

who are more than qualified for a role, and I’ve decided not to advance them in the process

because culturally, they are not going to be a fit in an organization where humility is valued…

which is a lot of organizations.

Not all. But a lot.

Wow. So how can someone talk about their achievements in a way that feels humble and not cocky?

One of the ways I think people can do that is in truth, when we think about our accomplishments,

rarely, I might even say, never.

Are they actually solely our accomplishments?

So one of the ways that you can talk about that is to highlight the team that you

accomplished something with, and certainly, it’s also important to note your role on that, you know, so

example I use earlier was raising a million dollars.

It is very unlikely that any one person raised a million dollars by themselves.

They had support in different ways.

So being able to say, you know, my role on the team was actually to be the one out, you know, doing the meetings,

etcetera, I had a great staff that supported me in doing that, did the research, you know,

we worked so hard all together, and that allowed us to accomplish this amazing goal.

That’s a great point. And then it also highlights perhaps that you work well in a group,

and that you’re team oriented, which is often qualities that someone’s looking for.

Both Steve and Cindy mentioned humility.

It is a characteristic that many employers
will care about.

Do be prepared to talk about your accomplishments,

but know how to frame them in a way so that doesn’t sound arrogant.

I aside from ‘tell me about yourself’ and the resume walk-through,

I asked Steve what other questions he asks in interviews.

A couple of the regular questions are: how do you fit in within an organization?

What type of personality do you have?

So I’m asking that, I’m trying to get an idea of how they would fit into our culture, into our organization.

It can be helpful to know how to talk about yourself and your personality in an interview.

Laura actually suggested that some of her students take a personality test like the Meyers Briggs test.

This can give you something concrete that you can say about yourself,

and you can think ahead of time of how you might relate that to the job you’re interested in

or the organization you’re interviewing for.

She also talked about another test.

So the other assessments that we offer are the strengths quest

which generates your top five strengths out of 24 strengths.

And that’s a great assessment for learning about what you have to offer,

in terms and language that you may not have used before,

which will be very helpful when talking to employers, or thinking about certain careers that might be a fit for you.

Okay, so even just knowing how to describe your strengths from this exam from this test,

would be useful in any job interview because it gives you the language to do that articulately.

That’s right.

Especially if you’re new to interviewing, taking a test like Meyers Briggs or the Strength Quest test

can give you the language you can use to describe yourself in an interview.

Steve mentioned a lot of what he’s looking for to learn in an interview is process.

He asks:

How do you deal with an upset customer?

And that can be asked in multiple ways, but how do you how do you handle conflict is kind of what I’m getting to,

but in our environment we’re constantly dealing with customers,

so how do you deal with them when one customer may not, you know, feel like they haven’t been treated fairly?

So I want to hear that process.

To me, that it’s the same process over and over again with anyone,

and does that person know that process of how do you talk with them, how do you…

How do you not know when to not talk with them.

So that’s, that’s another big one that we ask.

There are lots of common interview questions you can find online.

As you think about how you’ll answer them, focus on specifics, on telling stories from your work history.

you want to be prepared with very specific examples from your past work history to answer.

if somebody says give me an example of when, what they want is a very specific example of when.

and when you say, well, you know like I manage people by doing X Y Z and like,

in this job, I did this, in this job, I did this, like, they want a very specific example.

it’s competency-based, meaning, what you’ve done in the past is likely to be what you will do in the future,

and it’s the best demonstration you can have of how you will act.

And so they don’t want…

very few interviews these days are about what you will do, very few people will say:

how would you manage X Y Z?

Now, they may, toward the end, right, to get a sense of the way that you think strategically,

like there are things like that that happened, but but initially, they want to know what you’ve done in the past.

So you want to prepare ahead of time

to think about the questions that people ask and what is this specific example that you can talk about,

and practice those. And so if somebody says: tell me about a time that you got feedback from a boss.

What was the feedback, you know, what did you do with it?

How did you respond to it? And what was the results after?

Okay. So be very specific about all thing.

So what you’re saying then is there was… So at this job, my… I was doing a performance review,

um, you know, annual performance, and the feedback that I got was that in my emails that I was sending,

I wasn’t very clear in my subject line.

And so it wasn’t easy for my boss to understand what it was that I was sending emails about.

This is actual feedback I got at one point in my career.

And my boss was like: I really need you to be more clear in your subject line, and so that was an easy one,

like I was more clear with my subject line, but they want that, like, specific feedback.

Laura also stresses having stories to go with common interview questions.

Predict what they might ask you.

And then come up with examples, or stories to go with your response.

Stories stick much more than just answering a question. So for example, if they tell you, or if they ask you:

tell me about a time you failed, or even tell me your greatest weaknesses,

instead of just saying: these are my weaknesses, having a story to go along with it, and then being able to say:

but here’s how I’ve overcome those weaknesses, and so that there is a sort of happy outcome to that question.

So stories really stick and general vague answers really don’t.

Do look up common interview questions and DO come up with specific examples

and detailed stories for your answers.

DON’T give vague or generic answers.

What should you do in an interview when you don’t know the answer to a question?

The interviewer thought of one you didn’t prepare.

Okay so what happens if someone asks you a question like that, or any question

and you’re not sure how to answer it. Either you just can’t think of one on the spot, you haven’t prepared for that,

or it’s something technical, and for whatever reason, you’re not familiar enough to know how to answer it.

Are there ways people can say something like “I’m not sure” in a way that doesn’t turn you off as an interviewer?

Actually, I don’t mind at all when somebody says “I’m not sure.”

what it says to me is you have confidence

in your ability to admit what you don’t know,

and that is a really important characteristic for anybody that you want to have working with you.

So, of course, if they say “I don’t know” the entire interview, they’re not qualified for the job.

But I prefer somebody to say “I don’t know”, I’m gonna be able to tell anyway, likely,

that you’re making something up, and you could say is, you know, I don’t… I don’t have an example for that,

or I haven’t done that before, would it be helpful if I tell you, you know, what I think I would do?

Or like, actually, I don’t have experience with that.

I would love to–
and leave it. And be done, right?

Like, like, if it’s something very technical and you haven’t done its, just say “I don’t have an experience with that”

And that’s okay. Like, yeah, I would love to learn. That would be something I’m really interested in.

But I wouldn’t then ramble on making something up because that’s kind of annoying and…

But I think saying “I don’t know” is actually a…

It is helpful to know that you have the ability to do that.

I asked Laura what she tells students to say when they don’t know the answer to a question.

That’s a really good question. Let me take a minute to think about it.

That’s what you say?

That’s one thing that you can answer is: let me just take a second to think about it…

And then you really have to take a second, you can’t take 30 seconds or it starts to get really awkward.

But you can take a pause, and I often hear people doing that.

Another thing that you can say is: I can’t think of that the answer right now,

but could we come back to that at the end of the interview?

At that point, you might be more relaxed, you might have thought of it,

something else that you’ve been asked might bring it up for you, and then if you really can’t think of an answer,

what I would say is to focus on how you would go, how you would think about the response.

So a lot of employers are interested in not only what you say but how you’re thinking about a problem,

and and they want to see your thought process.

So you could say: well, I don’t know the answer to that, but here’s the first thing I would do as I started thinking

about it, or here’s the research that I would do in order to look into this.

And so you have an answer, though you really haven’t answered the question.

You are showing them how your mind works and that you are willing to

think through something when you actually don’t have the answer right off the bat.

Right, which is very valuable, of course.
Exactly.

So you have options.

And if you haven’t prepared an answer to a question that comes up and you’re not sure how to answer it,

you can still impress an employer with your response.

At the end of an interview, interviewers will often give you a chance to ask questions.

DO prepare one or two questions to ask at the interview, but DON’T make them only about logistics,

and DON’T make it something generic that you could on the website.

Asking the right kinds of questions can show your interest and engagement

and makes you more interesting and memorable.

Some of the best questions that I’ve heard, or one of the best questions that I’ve heard is: what would…

What do you think would allow me to be successful in this position?

And giving us a chance then or the interviewers a chance to talk about

how you could be successful in an organization.

Really what we’re looking for and it gives us ability to talk about…

A little more about the culture that we’re, that were in in our organization

and that, there’s some pieces to that that make me feel like this person is really starting to engage with us,

and really asking some of these questions like: I think I’d like to work here, I’d be a good fit.

So I like….I like when they ask me why I work at the place that I’m working at.

I think it, it shows that they’re trying to get to know me in a way that is connected to the work and the mission,

and it is a question I ask them, right?

So I think there’s a good reciprocal conversation there.

Other than that, I want people to ask about the role and about the organization.

I want them to ask questions that are strategic and high-level, generally,

about the organization and then it’s fine to ask very detailed questions about the role.

I do not want somebody to ask me about
salary early on, um

at the end of the interview, I think that’s totally fine.

Most places are gonna bring that up, but I think you want to wait until the end.

I think it’s also fine to wait till a second interview.

But you shouldn’t wait too long.

But I certainly shouldn’t be a leading, and I wouldn’t lead with anything else logistic, in other words,

you don’t want to ask “What’s the work-life balance here?”

is your first question, right?

Vacation time.
Vacation time.

Benefits. All of that stuff all, of that stuff you have to ask about, and you will at some point,

and if you need to ask it in the first interview, that’s also fine, wait till the very end of the interview.

Usually that is something that the organization will also broach.

So it’s okay to ask about logistics, but don’t do it at the beginning of the interview,

and don’t make it the first question you ask.

What about what you say without words?

Body language, vocal tone, eye contact?

So you want to be sitting up straight, you don’t really want to be, if you’re a woman,

you want to cross your ankles,

women and men, you wanna cross your ankles, you don’t want to cross your legs.

Why is that?

Um, I think it’s a more open posture.

And so if you’re if you’re crossing your leg you’re kind of cutting off okay the connection with the person.

You don’t tap your fingers, you don’t want to have too much eye contact, you don’t want to have too

little eye contact.

So it’s not like there’s a one-size-fits-all, there’s no perfect body language, no perfect vocal tone.

But there are some best practices I guess you could say.

With vocal tone, I have worked with students who are very monotone.

And so trying to introduce some variation
into your tone can

help you connect a lot more especially by telling a story.

When you’re practicing your interview, practice these things too, not just your answers.

I do think it’s important to exude confidence. I think it’s important to have a good handshake.

I think eye contact is very very important.

I think it’s important to look relaxed, also.

But I think all of those are like those are things that you should practice in your mock interview,

and try not to make them, though all of those things can go overboard, so it’s

this I think it’s this balance where like if you’re practicing eye contact,it can sort of get awkward at some point

because you’re staring, something like this.

So you want to like

figure out that balance and I think the best way to do this is to practice

with somebody who’s willing to give you feedback,

which we should have mentioned when we talked about the mock interview.

Like you don’t want to practice with somebody who’s just gonna say: great job!

You want somebody who’s gonna say: that answer could have been better, try it again,

you’re not looking at me, you’re looking at me too much, like, whatever those things are.

And then there’s the general body language things like you’re not sitting in an interview like this, you know?

I would even say like, sometimes, like crossing can be, you know, can come across as not being very open.

Okay, sort of like crossing your arms?

Sort of like crossing your arms, although it’s a little bit certainly more acceptable.`

DO mock interviews, DON’T do them with someone who will give you no feedback.

Cindy’s husband told me when he was last looking for a job, that they did a mock interview together,

and every question in the interview, is one they had practiced.

And I bet you can guess what happened – he got the job.

Now let’s talk about following up after an interview.

It’s one last way you can make a positive impression.

Do you expect people to follow up from their interview with you? And if so, what’s the right way to do that

with timing and how they follow up?

I expect this somebody is going to write a “thank you” note.

If you want to really show your initiative, then do a hand-written one.

Handwritten one is not necessary but you should at least do it, and email to follow up, and email “thank you”.

Follow up is I think based a little bit outside of that, right? So you’ve done your thank you.

How long should that thank you be by the way?

It can be super short.

I mean, they do not….as a matter of fact, I prefer shorter ones.

Sometimes people send me like a whole, you know, email of

more information or I want to clarify or whatever.

I find that slightly annoying.

Recently, someone sent me a follow-up that actually was helpful, I asked for an example

and she couldn’t think of one and struggled with a little bit, and which was fine, and then she

sent me a follow up and said: you know I’ve thought of an example and I thought it would be helpful.

And in fact, in that case, it was helpful.

Because it was a key piece of information, it was a key

competency that I needed to understand more about in order to recommend her to advance.

So it was actually… that was a helpful case.

Cause it was a really specific thing and she knew that I was giving her more time to sort of

get there and she couldn’t get there on the phone.

And that was okay.

So I think short is fine.

And something meaningful about the interview is always nice. Like,

I’m super excited because by X,

it was really interesting to learn about the organization’s future trajectory, like

whatever the thing is, but I would keep it a little paragraph.

And then beyond that, is there anything that you expect or that you’d hope they don’t do?

I hope they don’t follow up incessantly.

Cindy went on to say that after a few weeks, if you haven’t heard anything,

it’s okay to follow up and check in once.

But that’s it.

Anything more than that could leave a negative impression.

And if the employer reaches out to you to schedule a second interview, or even offer you a job,

it’s important to acknowledge that, even if you’ve decided against the job.

What if you’re not sure, or if you’re waiting to hear from another job?

Don’t ghost your potential employer, and what I mean by that is don’t…

If… If you are scheduled for a second interview, show up.

If you are, you get past the second interview, for us, we do two interviews,

and an offer of employment has been sent out to you, you sign that, make sure you come to work.

If you’re not, if you’re not sure about it, tell us that, talk to us, communicate,

but don’t allow us to get all geared up and ready for that new employee, and then not show up.

So let’s say you’ve given me an offer but there’s an another job, you’re saying it would be appropriate to say:

can I have just a few more days?

Absolutely, absolutely.

And tell me that, too, for that matter.

Tell me that: hey, I’ve got another I’ve got another job out there that I’m waiting to hear back from,

might even give me the chance to maybe offer something more.

If I’m really interested in that person, and I really want them on board,

I might be talking to them a whole lot more to say: look, what can I do to get you here,

to get you in our organization?

And if someone decides ultimately they are going to go with the other job by keeping you as informed as

possible along the way, they’ve left the door open for potential future work with you.

Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah.

To me, that honesty and that integrity is huge, and when people do that, or aren’t treating people with respect

enough to even tell them: you know, I’ve got another position, or I’m not sure yet, that’s a huge piece for me.

Even if you don’t want the job, it is important to let the employer know and be honest.

You never know when a connection with that person or organization might be important in your career.

In the next three videos in this course, we’ll see four people, a teacher, a doctor, a social worker,

and a marketing expert interview for a job.

We’ll take some standard interview questions and study how they answer them.

As we see what really works, and what doesn’t, we’ll discuss how you can form your own compelling answers.

For my non-native students, we’re going to get your English lesson in just a minute.

If you haven’t already, be sure to click the subscribe button and the bell for notifications.

I make new videos on the English language and American culture every Tuesday

and to date, I have over 600 videos that focus on listening comprehension and accent reduction.

While you’re waiting for next week’s video, a great next step would be to check out this “get started playlist.”

And now, for my non-native English-speaking students, I want to come back to something Laura and I discussed,

vocal tone.

I actually work with a lot of my students on something related to vocal tone as well, which is

you know when we have a stress worried the voice kind of goes up in pitch and down, and it’s the higher pitch

that helps the person who’s listening identify them as important words, which helps

understand ability increase, and so definitely a vocal tone is something that I talked about,

I haven’t used those terms, I usually talk about pitch and stress, but just to

define it for someone who might not know, if someone’s speaking in a monotone,

then that means there’s not very much change in pitch, and it can be a little boring and uninteresting to listen to.

No matter what the person is saying.

Right.

I’m going to say that sentence fragment twice, one’s with monotone and one’s with more pitch variation.

“monotone is when your speaking is on more or less the same pitch”,

“monotone is when all your speaking is on more or less the same pitch”.

The first one is not very engaging at all.

It’s very boring to listen to.

And if you’re a non-native speaker, it can make you even harder to understand you.

I work with my students a lot on varying their pitch when they speak.

Our pitch is higher and peaks on stressed syllables,

and this structure helps listeners follow and understand what’s being said.

The contrast between stressed and unstressed syllables really does matter, just as much as accurate sounds.

As you practice your mock interviews, record yourself.

Go back and listen.

Can you hear changes in pitch?

Does it sound like you’re speaking like this?

Or does it sound like you’re speaking more like this?

If you’re used to speaking in a monotone, or your native language has less pitch variation,

then it will likely feel very silly to vary your pitch more.

Commit yourself to it.

Recognize that it doesn’t sound silly to the listener and in fact makes you easier to understand.

Speaking with very little pitch variation will likely leave a bad impression in an interview.

I hope this helps you think about how to use your voice when speaking English.

That’s it, and thanks so much for using Rachel’s English.

面试官知道你是否为面试做好了准备

——如果你还没有准备好,你可能不会得到这份工作。

在求职面试之前要做的最重要的事情之一就是练习回答面试问题。

你会得到更好的答案,你会更放松,

打开大门,与面试你的人建立更紧密的联系。

今天我们将与三位专家坐下来讨论常见的面试问题,

如何回答这些问题,肢体语言以及一些面试中的注意事项。

这是一个很长的视频,因为要涵盖的内容很多。

您将学习如何谈论工作之间的过渡,如果您被解雇

该说什么,当您不确定如何回答问题时该说什么,

正确的跟进方式,正确的肢体语言,以及 多得多。

做好准备会让你得到这份工作。

在视频的最后,将为我的非英语母语学生上一堂关于声调的课程。

您可能对自己的工作非常出色,并且拥有出色的求职信和简历。

但面试是它自己的独立技能。

辛迪为她在纽约市经营的非营利组织雇佣了数百人。

现在她是一名招聘人员,她整天都在面试别人。

她说,在你面试之前,这
非常重要。

练习你的面试技巧。

进行模拟面试,因为它让你更舒服,

而且你在面试中越舒服,你就越有可能与某人建立联系。

如果你紧张地走进来,而你不是你自己,

那么面试就不会看到你是谁,这意味着他们可能会错过一些东西。

你不想让面试官错过任何关于你有多棒的事情。

与我交谈的每个人都强调练习。

Laura 是美国一所著名大学的职业顾问。

最重要的是尽可能多地准备。

与朋友在镜子前提前练习面试。

史蒂夫是一个做大量招聘的小企业主。

我问他在面试开始时什么会给人留下好的第一印象。

他们预计会被问到一些问题。

全面或面试过程中的一些标准问题。

如果他们对这些有很好的答案,我的意思是他们已经考虑过这些,

他们知道如何回答,然后对我来说,感觉就像,好吧,这个人,这个人已经意识到,

并准备……为这次采访做好准备。

雇主可以告诉你什么时候准备好:你的答案更清晰、更有趣、更彻底。

他们对此表示赞赏。

如果你还没有为面试做好准备,他们可能会质疑你是否真的为这份工作做好了准备。

在接下来的三个视频中,我们将研究模拟面试,

并讨论如何将常见面试问题的最佳答案组合在一起。

在本视频的其余部分,我们将继续听到 Cindy、Laura 和 Steve 的来信。

他们在给你内幕消息:雇主想在面试中看到什么?

首先,雇主通常会要求您在工作生活之外分享一些关于您自己的信息。

他们为什么这样做,他们在寻找什么?

如果你准备一个答案,这有关系吗?

是的。 听听史蒂夫怎么说。

我们通常会问你在工作之外还做什么?

我们正在寻找您的全面性。

你属于一个人,你还参与了哪些其他活动?

你可能会在你的社区内参与什么?

更多的是回馈社区的一种方式。

但通常情况下,这会导致额外的问题,好吧,我们可能有共同的兴趣

,突然之间,你会走上一条问一大堆不同其他问题的道路。

您是否曾经问过某人这个

问题,而他们真的没有其他可以谈论的话题?

确实。

有他们的回答是:嗯,我坐在沙发上,看电视,你知道的。

这是一些……这是一些……那是另一项活动,好吧,但

对我来说,这不是,感觉不像是真实的,令人兴奋的,或者如果我参与其中的话 面试职位,

我会这么说。 那将是我的回应。

所以,是的,我们有过……我们有过这样的人:嗯,我……

我不知道,我只是有点工作。 我整天工作。

如果他们提前考虑一下,这些人可能会有答案。

对,是真的。

所以一切都是为了做好准备。

对。 对。 如果您事先考虑到这一点,我敢肯定那些申请人不会说:

我只是坐在……我坐在沙发上看电视。

爱看电视并没有错,但想一个更令人兴奋的方式来表达它。 例如,“我是个电视迷”。

“告诉我关于你自己”的答案是肯定的,但不要太私人化。

许多面试从两个一般性问题开始。

一个是:告诉我你自己,很多人讨厌这个问题,但很多人使用它。

并为此做好准备。

简单介绍一下你自己。 他们通常要求的不是告诉你的简历,

而是要求你对自己说一点,就个人而言。

就像什么,会是什么,我的意思是,就个人而言,有很多事情。

哦,我有两个孩子,或者我喜欢歌剧。

比如,有没有什么你认为远离它的事情? 或者……你会怎么回答?

我的意思是,是的,我会远离任何

超级私人的事情,对你不太了解的人说这会很奇怪。

但我觉得个人很好,所以我觉得你刚才说的话很有趣。

就像,我住在…我住在里士满,我有两个小女孩,我们搬了下来,我曾经在一家非营利组织工作,

我刚刚换了职业,比如,随便什么。

我的意思是,只是一些关于你自己的事情,让他们了解你是谁。

就像你在公共汽车上对坐在旁边的人说的舒服的

事情之类的?

是的。 是的。 或者你刚刚在一次晚宴上认识,或者你知道,类似的事情。

短的。

他们不会要求你给出一个很长的答案。

很多面试会开始的另一件事是你对你的简历做一个演练。

现在我们要讨论一个你需要为面试做准备的主要话题:浏览你的简历。

史蒂夫和辛迪都说这是他们要求受访者做的事情。

带上您为该工作提交的相同简历的几份副本。

保留一份供你自己参考,其余的交给面试你的人。

雇主想在你的简历中听到什么?

所以我会说:我希望你能带我浏览你的简历。

说话,从头说起。

谈论你所担任的角色,这些角色的关键职责,

希望你能突出你在每个角色中的关键成功,

我真正想了解的一件事是你的过渡,所以当你从一个角色转移到另一个角色时 ,

很想了解是什么促使您离开一个地方去另一个地方。

然后,你知道,如果你的职业生涯很长,我希望你能花更多的时间在你最近的事情上,

但从头开始,因为我想了解你的整个职业生涯。

我想了解这一切是如何联系在一起的,你是如何从一开始的,你知道的,到现在的位置。

然后根据角色,
有时我还会说,

你知道,当你开始从事管理团队

或监督员工的职业生涯时,让我知道有多少人,你的团队的结构,

以及 如果你在管理预算,预算是多少? 所以我可以捕捉到这些信息。

我很高兴,你知道,如果你忘记任何事情,在你前进的时候阻止你,但这就是我正在寻找的。

并在大约 15 或 20 分钟内完成。

这太棒了,因为这是任何人都可以提前练习的东西,

而且真的可以,你知道,给自己计时,确保他们不会在任何事情上胡思乱想。

人们经常会做的事情,我的意思是,双方都有错误,

有些人走得太快,实际上并没有注意到我问的信息

,我不得不回去一直问问题。 这有点烦人。

然后乱七八糟的也很烦人。

所以有些人会开始,他们会……

他们会在第一份工作后停下来说:我给你的细节水平是否正确?

我喜欢这样,因为我不想打扰别人。

不是,你知道,这样做并不总是感觉很好,尤其是当人们紧张时

,他们正在面试。

所以检查并说这样总是好的:这是你想要的细节吗?

有人问我,我很可能会说:实际上,你知道的,可以快一点,

或者你不知道 XYZ。 如果你提前考虑过并练习

过,这样详细地讨论你的简历

是你能够做得更清楚的

事情。

你的简历中对雇主很重要的一部分是时间安排。

准备好谈论你工作经历中的差距、工作中的短期任期以及工作之间的过渡。

我特别要寻找的一件事是您的工作经历中的空白。

如果你告诉我你工作的日期,而你有一年的差距,我想知道为什么。

这是怎么回事? 发生了什么? 还是没有发生? 或者为什么,为什么你的工作历史上有一年或六个月的休息

时间? 这可能是我正在研究的更大的事情之一。

工作之间的过渡。

这是一个非常重要的部分。

很多工人他们只是非常关心它,

因为他们想了解如果你被要求离开,你被解雇了,

如果你的简历上的工作任期很短,这对很多组织来说都是一个危险信号

,实际上可以 成为你没有得到面试的原因。

但要准备好谈论你的过渡。

如果您确实被解雇了,请弄清楚您想如何谈论它。

如果你没有,那么谈谈是什么让你离开了一个组织并去另一个组织。

当你这样做的时候,

你要确保你永远不会对你的某个工作或组织说坏话。

这是在工作面试中出现的另一个标志。

而且您知道谈论艰难的过渡或艰难的一年是可以的,

但是您想非常谨慎地这样做,

以一种您会感到自在的方式,如果该组织的某人在那里

,您知道,通常会理解 并在这里感到舒适。

如果你在工作面试中说一个组织、前任老板或任何人的坏话,

那会让人们认为你可能会对他们做同样的事情,关于你知道的工作。

准备好谈论你的简历,准备谈论工作中的差距或工作之间的过渡,

但不要说你过去合作过的组织或雇主的坏话。

你怎么能优雅地谈论被解雇?

假设我被解雇了。

根据你的经验,我可以用什么方式来谈论这个,你觉得还可以吗?

我想这取决于我被解雇的原因,对吧?

确实如此。

这取决于情况。

我的意思是最终,希望你能谈论的是一种与组织不符的情况

并且能够解释为什么有些事情不合适,

以及如何以一种对你来说非常尊重的方式完成过渡,如果你能的话。

所以,换句话说,你知道,我们意识到这并不合适,

此时,我又工作了两周,你知道,以确保我帮助过渡。

有人会深入研究。

是什么不适合你?

嗯,这不太合适,因为我…

你知道,我刚生了第一个孩子,

这是一种需要,你知道,大量加班的文化。

我不能给它。 最终,我的老板和我能够坐下来就这件事进行

交谈,我们决定,你知道,分道扬镳,宜早不宜迟。

好的。 这很有帮助。

如果他们不问你直接的问题:你被解雇了吗? 或者他们没有问你关于你的过渡,对吧?

就像,我不会说你应该提供它,如果它没有被要求。

如果有人说你为什么离开那个组织,那么你需要诚实。

谈论在没有对组织说坏话或撒谎的情况下被解雇可能很难,

但如果你事先努力,你可能会想出一种你觉得舒服的方式来讨论这个问题

,这也是真实的。

辛迪和史蒂夫都谈到了谈论你的成就而不显得傲慢的平衡。

所以如果有人带着自信和谦逊的态度进来,

那可能会让我更喜欢那个人,然后说,男孩,

我认为这个人可能适合我们的组织。

所以我觉得我理解一个人如何自信地展示自己。

你能想到一个人所说或所做的任何事情让你感受到他们的谦卑吗?

我的意思是,这有点棘手,棘手。
确实如此。

我认为不要过度推销自己,

倾听,真正倾听你正在采访的人,

不要不停地谈论你自己,关于你的赞美,成就,

关于你所做的一切,

如何 你很棒,但仍然能够谈论这些成就,而且……

是的。 这是一条细线。 这有点棘手。 你必须能够很好地谈论你所做的事情,

但也要知道在什么时候它变得太多了。

是的。 是的。 绝对地。

辛迪同意。

她对如何做到这一点有一个很好的建议。

我认为投票率方面最引人注目的

特征之一就是一个无所不知、

过于自信、对自己评价很高的人。

再说一次,这很棘手,因为工作面试过程的一部分是谈论你所做的事情,

但能够以一种表现出谦逊的方式做到这一点,非常重要。

我采访过的人拥有出色的履历,你知道,他们做了出色的工作

,胜任某个职位,我决定不在此过程中提升他们,

因为从文化上讲,他们不会成为 适合一个重视谦逊的组织……

这是很多组织。

不是全部。 但是很多。

哇。 那么,如何才能以一种谦虚而不自大的方式谈论他们的成就呢?

我认为人们可以做到这一点的一种方式实际上是,当我们考虑我们的成就时,

很少,我什至可以说,永远不会。

它们实际上仅仅是我们的成就吗?

因此,您可以谈论的一种方式是突出您

完成某事的团队,当然,注意您在其中的角色也很重要,您知道,所以

我之前使用的示例是筹集一百万美元。

任何人自己筹集一百万美元的可能性很小。

他们以不同的方式获得支持。

所以可以说,你知道,我在团队中的角色实际上是一个出局者,你知道,开会

等等,我有一个很棒的员工支持我这样做,做研究,你知道,

我们一起努力工作,这使我们能够实现这个惊人的目标。

这是一个很好的观点。 然后它还可能强调你在团队中工作得很好,

并且你以团队为导向,这通常是某人正在寻找的品质。

史蒂夫和辛迪都提到了谦逊。

这是许多雇主
会关心的特征。

准备好谈论你的成就,

但要知道如何以一种听起来不傲慢的方式来描述它们。

除了“告诉我关于你自己”和简历演练之外,

我还问史蒂夫他在面试中还问了哪些其他问题。

几个常见的问题是:你如何适应一个组织?

你有什么样的性格?

所以我问这个问题,我试图了解他们将如何融入我们的文化,融入我们的组织。

知道如何在面试中谈论自己和你的个性会很有帮助。

劳拉实际上建议她的一些学生参加像迈耶斯布里格斯测试这样的性格测试。

这可以给你一些关于你自己的具体信息

,你可以提前考虑如何将它与你感兴趣的工作

或你正在面试的组织联系起来。

她还谈到了另一项测试。

因此,我们提供的其他评估是优势探索

,它会在 24 种优势中产生您的前五种优势。

这是一个很好的评估,可以帮助您了解您必须提供的内容,

包括您以前可能没有使用过的术语和语言,

这在与雇主交谈或考虑可能适合您的某些职业时非常有帮助。

好的,所以即使只是知道如何从这次考试中描述你在这次考试中的优势,

在任何工作面试中都会很有用,因为它为你提供了清晰地做到这一点的语言。

那就对了。

尤其是如果您不熟悉面试,参加 Meyers Briggs 或力量探索测试等测试

可以为您提供在面试中用来描述自己的语言。

史蒂夫提到了很多他在面试中想要学习的东西是过程。

他问:

你如何处理心烦意乱的顾客?

这可以通过多种方式提出,但是你如何处理冲突是我所要解决的问题,

但在我们的环境中,我们一直在与客户打交道,

所以当一个客户时,你如何处理他们 可能不会,你知道,觉得他们没有得到公平对待?

所以我想听听这个过程。

对我来说,这对任何人来说都是一遍又一遍的相同过程

,那个人是否知道你如何与他们交谈的过程,你如何……

你怎么不知道何时不与他们交谈。

所以那是我们要求的另一个大问题。

您可以在网上找到很多常见的面试问题。

当您考虑如何回答这些问题时,请专注于细节,讲述您工作经历中的故事。

您希望准备好过去工作历史中非常具体的例子来回答。

如果有人说给我一个什么时候的例子,他们想要的是一个非常具体的例子。

当你说,嗯,你知道我通过 X Y Z 来管理人员,就像

在这份工作中,我这样做了,在这份工作中,我这样做了,比如,他们想要一个非常具体的例子。

它是基于能力的,意思是,你过去所做的很可能是你将来会做的

,这是你能做的最好的示范。

所以他们不想要……

这些天很少有采访是关于你会做什么,很少有人会说:

你将如何管理 X Y Z?

现在,他们可能会在接近尾声时了解您的战略思维方式,

就像发生过类似的事情一样,但最初,他们想知道您过去做过什么。

因此,您需要提前准备好

思考人们提出的问题,以及您可以谈论的具体示例是什么,

然后进行练习。 所以如果有人说:告诉我你从老板那里得到反馈的时间。

反馈是什么,你知道,你用它做了什么?

你是如何回应的? 之后的结果如何?

好的。 所以对所有事情都要非常具体。

所以你说的是……所以在这份工作中,我的……我正在做绩效评估,

嗯,你知道,年度绩效,我得到的反馈是在我的电子邮件中,我 正在发送,

我的主题行不是很清楚。

因此,我的老板很难理解我发送电子邮件的内容。

这是我在职业生涯中得到的实际反馈。

我的老板就像:我真的需要你更清楚你的主题行,所以这很容易,

就像我对我的主题行更清楚一样,但他们想要这样,比如,具体的反馈。

劳拉还强调让故事与常见的面试问题相结合。

预测他们可能会问你什么。

然后想出例子或故事来配合你的回应。

故事不仅仅只是回答一个问题。 例如,如果他们告诉你,或者如果他们问你:

告诉我你失败的一次经历,或者甚至告诉我你最大的弱点,

而不是仅仅说:这些是我的弱点,有一个故事与之相伴, 然后可以说:

但这就是我克服这些弱点的方法,因此这个问题有一种令人高兴的结果。

所以故事真的很重要,而一般模糊的答案真的没有。

一定要查找常见的面试问题,并为你的答案提供具体的例子

和详细的故事。

不要给出模糊或笼统的答案。

当你不知道问题的答案时,你应该在面试中做什么?

面试官想到了一个你没有准备的。

好的,如果有人问你这样的问题,或者任何问题

,你不知道如何回答,会发生什么。 要么是你当场想不出一个,你还没有准备好,

要么是技术问题,无论出于什么原因,你还不够熟悉,不知道如何回答。

有没有办法让人们说“我不确定”之类的话,而不会让你作为面试官感到厌烦?

实际上,当有人说“我不确定”时,我一点也不介意。

它对我说的是,你有

信心承认你不知道的事情,

这对于任何你想和你一起工作的人来说都是一个非常重要的特征。

所以,当然,如果他们在整个面试过程中都说“我不知道”,那么他们就没有资格胜任这份工作。

但我更喜欢有人说“我不知道”,无论如何我都能说出来,很可能

,你在编造一些东西,你可以说是,你知道,我不… 我没有这方面的例子,

或者我以前没有做过,如果我告诉你,你知道,我想我会做什么会有帮助吗?

或者,实际上,我没有这方面的经验。

我愿意–
并离开它。 完成,对吧?

就像,如果它是非常技术性的东西,而你还没有做过,就说“我没有这方面的经验

”,没关系。 就像,是的,我很想学习。 那将是我真正感兴趣的事情。

但我不会再胡说八道,因为这有点烦人而且……

但我认为说“我不知道”实际上是

…… 知道您有能力这样做会很有帮助。

我问劳拉,当学生不知道问题的答案时,她会告诉他们什么。

这是一个非常好的问题。 让我花点时间考虑一下。

这就是你说的?

你可以回答的一件事是:让我花点时间考虑一下

……然后你真的必须花点时间,你不能花 30 秒,否则它开始变得非常尴尬。

但是你可以暂停一下,我经常听到人们这样做。

你可以说的另一件事是:我现在想不出那个答案,

但我们可以在采访结束时回到这个问题吗?

那个时候,你可能会比较放松,你可能已经想到了,

别人问你的事情可能会帮你提出来,然后如果你实在想不出答案,

我想说的是 专注于你将如何去,你会如何看待回应。

所以很多雇主不仅对你说的话感兴趣,而且对你如何思考问题感兴趣

,他们希望看到你的思考过程。

所以你可以说:好吧,我不知道这个问题的答案,但这是我开始思考时要做的第一

件事,或者这是我为了调查这个问题而要做的研究。

所以你有一个答案,虽然你真的没有回答这个问题。

你正在向他们展示你的思维是如何运作的,并且

当你实际上并没有马上得到答案时,你愿意思考一些事情。

对,这当然很有价值。
没错。

所以你有选择。

如果您还没有准备好对出现的问题的答案并且您不确定如何回答,

您仍然可以通过您的回答给雇主留下深刻印象。

在面试结束时,面试官通常会给你一个提问的机会。

一定要准备一两个面试时要问的问题,但不要只提出关于物流的问题,也不

要把它变成你可以在网站上看到的通用问题。

提出正确的问题可以显示您的兴趣和参与度

,并使您更加有趣和难忘。

我听到的一些最好的问题,或者我听到的最好的问题之一是:什么会……

你认为什么能让我在这个职位上取得成功?

然后给我们一个机会,或者给面试官一个机会来谈论

你如何在一个组织中取得成功。

真的是我们正在寻找的东西,它让我们有能力谈论

……更多关于我们的文化,在我们的

组织中,还有一些让我感觉像这个人的部分 真的开始与我们互动,

并且真的问了其中一些问题,例如:我想我想在这里工作,我很适合。

所以我喜欢……当他们问我为什么在我工作的地方工作时,我喜欢。

我认为,这表明他们试图以一种与工作和使命相关的方式了解我

,这是我问他们的一个问题,对吧?

所以我认为那里有很好的互惠对话。

除此之外,我希望人们询问角色和组织。

我希望他们提出关于组织的战略性和高层次的问题,一般来说,

可以提出关于角色的非常详细的问题。

我不希望有人在早期问我
关于工资的问题,嗯

在面试结束时,我认为这完全可以。

大多数地方都会提到这一点,但我认为你想等到最后。

我认为等到第二次面试也不错。

但你不应该等太久。

但我当然不应该成为领导者,我不会以其他任何逻辑来领导,换句话说,

你不想问“这里的工作与生活平衡是什么?”

是你的第一个问题,对吧?

放假时间。
放假时间。

好处。 所有这些,所有你必须问的东西,你会在某个时候

问,如果你需要在第一次面试时问,那也没关系,等到面试结束。

通常,这也是组织也会提出的问题。

所以问物流是可以的,但不要在面试开始的时候就问

,也不要把它作为你问的第一个问题。

你说什么不说话呢?

肢体语言、声调、眼神交流?

所以你想坐直,你不想坐直,如果你是女人,

你想交叉脚踝,

女人和男人,你想交叉你的脚踝,你不想交叉你的脚踝 腿。

这是为什么?

嗯,我认为这是一个更开放的姿势。

因此,如果你是交叉腿,那么你就相当于切断了与这个人的联系。

你不敲你的手指,你不想有太多的目光接触,你不想有太少的

目光接触。

所以这不像是一刀切,没有完美的肢体语言,没有完美的声调。

但是我想你可以说一些最佳实践。

在声调方面,我曾与非常单调的学生一起工作。

因此,尝试在
您的语气中引入一些变化可以

帮助您建立更多联系,尤其是通过讲故事。

当你练习面试时,也要练习这些事情,而不仅仅是你的答案。

我确实认为散发出自信很重要。 我认为良好的握手很重要。

我认为眼神交流非常重要。

我认为看起来放松也很重要。

但我认为所有这些都是你应该在模拟面试中练习的东西

,尽量不要去做,尽管所有这些东西都可能过火,所以

我认为这就是这种平衡,如果你是 练习眼神交流,有时会

因为你在凝视而变得尴尬,就像这样。

所以你想

弄清楚这种平衡,我认为最好的方法是

与愿意给你反馈的人一起练习

,我们在谈论模拟面试时应该提到这一点。

就像你不想和只会说:干得好!

你想要有人会说:那个答案本来可以更好,再试一次,

你没有看着我,你看着我太多,就像,不管那些事情是什么。

然后是一般的肢体语言,比如你没有参加这样的面试,你知道吗?

我什至会说,有时,就像穿越可能,你知道的,可能会让人觉得不是很开放。

好吧,有点像交叉双臂?

有点像交叉双臂,虽然它肯定更容易接受

。` 进行模拟面试,不要与不会给你任何反馈的人一起做。

辛迪的丈夫告诉我,他上次找工作的时候,他们一起做了一个模拟面试,

面试中的每一个问题,都是他们练习过的。

我敢打赌,你可以猜到发生了什么——他得到了这份工作。

现在让我们谈谈面试后的跟进。

这是您给人留下积极印象的最后一种方式。

你希望人们从他们对你的采访中跟进吗? 如果是这样,那么

在时间安排上以及他们如何跟进的正确方法是什么?

我希望有人会写一个“谢谢你”的便条。

如果你想真正表现出你的主动性,那就做一个手写的。

手写的不是必需的,但您至少应该这样做,并通过电子邮件跟进,并通过电子邮件发送“谢谢”。

我认为跟进是基于一点点之外的,对吧? 所以你已经完成了你的感谢。

顺便说一句,谢谢你应该多久?

它可以非常短。

我的意思是,他们没有……事实上,我更喜欢较短的。

有时人们会像一个整体一样给我发送

更多信息的电子邮件,或者我想澄清或其他什么。

我觉得这有点烦人。

最近有人给我发了一个follow up,其实很有帮助,我要了一个例子

,她想不出一个,有点挣扎,这很好,然后她

给我发了一个following说: 你知道我想到了一个例子,我认为它会有所帮助。

事实上,在那种情况下,它是有帮助的。

因为这是一条关键信息,

所以我需要更多地了解这一关键能力,以便推荐她晋级。

所以实际上……这是一个有用的案例。

因为这是一件非常具体的事情,她知道我给了她更多的时间来

到达那里,而她无法通过电话到达那里。

那没关系。

所以我认为短线很好。

面试中有意义的事情总是很好的。 就像,

我非常兴奋,因为通过 X,

了解组织的未来发展轨迹真的很有趣,

不管事情是什么,但我会保留一小段。

然后除此之外,有什么是您期望的或您希望他们不做的事情吗?

我希望他们不要无休止地跟进。

Cindy 继续说,几周后,如果您还没有听到任何消息,

可以跟进并检查一次。

但就是这样。

除此之外的任何事情都会留下负面印象。

如果雇主联系你安排第二次面试,甚至为你提供工作,

承认这一点很重要,即使你已经决定不接受这份工作。

如果您不确定,或者您正在等待收到另一份工作的消息怎么办?

不要给你的潜在雇主鬼鬼祟祟,我的意思是不要……

如果……如果你被安排进行第二次面试,请出现。

如果你是,你通过了第二次面试,对我们来说,我们会进行两次面试,

并且已经向你发送了一份工作邀请,你签字,确保你来工作。

如果您不是,如果您不确定,请告诉我们,与我们交谈,沟通,

但不要让我们为新员工做好一切准备,然后不露面。

所以假设你给了我一份工作,但还有另一份工作,你说应该说:

我可以再给我几天时间吗?

绝对,绝对。

并告诉我,同样,就此而言。

告诉我:嘿,我还有另一份工作,我正在等待回音,

甚至可能给我机会提供更多的东西。

如果我真的对那个人感兴趣,并且我真的希望他们加入,

我可能会和他们谈得更多:看,我能做些什么才能让你在这里

,让你加入我们的组织?

如果有人最终决定通过尽可能让你了解情况来从事另一份工作

,那么他们就为未来与你合作的可能性敞开了大门。

是的。 绝对地。 是的。

对我来说,这种诚实和正直是巨大的,当人们这样做时,或者没有足够尊重地对待人们

甚至告诉他们:你知道,我有另一个职位,或者我还不确定,那就是 对我来说是一大块。

即使您不想要这份工作,重要的是让雇主知道并诚实。

你永远不知道什么时候与那个人或组织的联系对你的职业生涯很重要。

在本课程接下来的三个视频中,我们将看到四个人,一名教师、一名医生、一名社会工作者

和一名营销专家面试工作。

我们将采取一些标准的面试问题并研究他们如何回答这些问题。

当我们看到什么真正有效,什么无效时,我们将讨论如何形成自己令人信服的答案。

对于我的非母语学生,我们将在一分钟内上完你的英语课。

如果您还没有,请务必单击订阅按钮和通知铃。

我每周二都会制作关于英语和美国文化的新视频

,迄今为止,我有超过 600 个视频,专注于听力理解和口音减少。

在等待下周的视频时,下一步要做的就是查看这个“开始播放列表”。

现在,对于我的非英语母语学生,我想回到我和劳拉讨论过的东西,

声调。

实际上,我也和我的很多学生一起研究与声调相关的事情,

你知道当我们有压力时担心声音会在音高和低音上上升,而更高的音调

可以帮助正在倾听的人 将它们识别为重要的词,这有助于

理解能力的提高,所以我谈到的肯定是声调,

我没有使用这些术语,我通常谈论音高和压力,但只是为

可能的人定义它 不知道,如果一个人说话单调,

那说明音调变化不大,听起来可能有点乏味无趣。

不管那个人在说什么。

对。

我要说那个句子片段两次,一个是单调的,一个是音高变化更大的。

“单调是当你的讲话或多或少是相同的音调时”,

“单调是当你的所有讲话都在或多或少相同的音调上”。

第一个根本不是很吸引人。

听着很无聊。

如果你是一个非母语人士,它会让你更难理解你。

我和我的学生一起工作,在他们说话时改变他们的音调。

我们的音高更高,重音音节达到峰值

,这种结构有助于听众跟随和理解所说的内容。

重读音节和非重读音节之间的对比确实很重要,就像准确的声音一样。

当你练习模拟面试时,记录下你自己。

回去听听。

你能听到音高的变化吗?

听起来像你这样说话吗?

或者听起来你说话更像这样?

如果您习惯于单调说话,或者您的母语音调变化较少,

那么更多地改变您的音调可能会感觉非常愚蠢。

致力于它。

认识到这对听众来说听起来并不傻,实际上让你更容易理解。

说话时音调变化很小,很可能会在面试中留下不好的印象。

我希望这能帮助你思考在说英语时如何使用你的声音。

就是这样,非常感谢您使用 Rachel 的英语。