ENGLISH SPEECH JORDAN PETERSON Freedom to Be Yourself English Subtitles

Okay, so here is the problem.

There is a big problem here.

The problem is: It’s true!

You’re oppressed.

You’re oppressed.

You’re oppressed.

You’re oppressed.

God only knows why…

Maybe you’re too short or you’re not as beautiful
as you could be, or… you know, your parent…

your grandparent was a serf…

Likely!

Because almost everybody’s grand great grandparent
was… it’s like,

you know, and you’re not as smart as you could
be, and you have a sick relative, and you

have your own physical problems
And it’s like: frankly, you’re a mess and

you’re oppressed in every possible way…

Including your ancestry, and your biology,
and the entire sum of human history has conspired

to produce
victimized “you”, with all your individual

pathological problems.

It’s like: YES!

True!

Okay, but the problem is… is that, it is
true!

And so, if you take the oppressed, you have
to fractionate them, and fractionate them…

It’s like: you’re a woman.

Yeah, okay
well, I’m a black woman.

Well, I’m a black woman who has two children.

Well, I’m a black woman who has two children
and one of them isn’t very healthy.

And then well, I’m uh…

I’m a Hispanic woman and I have a genius son
who doesn’t have any money, so that he can’t

go to university…

And you know, I had a hell of a time getting
across the border

It was really hard on me to get my citizenship;
my husband is an alcoholic brute.

It’s like:
well, yeah, that sucks too, and so… well,

so let’s fix all your oppressive…
oppression, and we’ll take every single thing

into account.

And then we’ll fix yours too.

We’ll, take every single thing into account…

It’s like ‘No, you won’t’, because you can’t,
you can’t, it is technically impossible.

First of all, you can’t even list all the
ways that you’re oppressed.

Second, how are you going to weight them?

Third, who’s going to decide?

And that’s the bloody thing: who’s going to
decide?

That’s the thing!

Well
What’s the answer in the West?

It’s like in free markets.

Oh yeah Christ, we’ll never be able to solve
this problem

No one can solve it.

What are we going to do about that?

We’re going to outsource it to the marketplace
You’re going to take your sorry

pathetic being, and you’re going to try to
offer me something that maybe I want, and

I’m going to take my sorry
pathetic being and I’m going to say ‘Well,

all things considered,
as well as I can understand them…

Maybe I could give you this much money.’

(which is actually a promise for that thing)
And you’ve packed all of your damn oppression

into the price; and
I’ve packed all my oppression into the willingness

to pay it.

And that solution sucks!

It’s a bad solution!

But compared to every other solution, man.

It’s why 10% of us have freedom.

And so…

There’s a tremendous illogic at the bottom
of this, it’s like

You have to fractionate the oppressed all
the way down to the level of the individual!

“Oh, that’s what the West figured out!”

You know, there’s a couple of figures, who
at the mythological

roots of our culture, and you know people
get upset with me, because I bring in religious

themes
But I understand some things about mythology

and religion, and it’s not an accident, that
the axiomatic Western individual is someone

who is unfairly nailed to a cross and tortured

  • It’s like YES!

Right!

Exactly!

So what do you do about that?

Well…

I thought about that for a long time too.

It’s like… well, you don’t get together
in a damn mob!

Because all that does is allow you to be as
horrible as you could possibly imagine, and

suffer from none of the consequences.

And that’s a bad idea!

So how about we don’t do that?

Well, there’s a deep idea in the West too.

It’s like ‘Pick up your damned suffering…
and bear it!’

And try to be a good person, so you don’t
make it worse!

Well, that’s a truth.

You know?

I read a lot about…
the terrible things that people have done

to each other.

You just cannot even imagine it.

It’s so awful…

So, you don’t want to be someone like that.

Now, do you have a reason to be?

YES!

You have LOTS OF reasons to be!

God, there’s reasons to be resentful about
your existence.

Everyone you know is gonna die…

You know, you TOO!

And there’s going to be a fair bit of pain
along the way, and lot of it’s going to be

unfair,
It’s like: yeah, no wonder you’re resentful!

It’s like: Act it out, and see what happens;
You make everything you’re complaining about

infinitely worse!

There’s this idea that hell is a bottomless
pit, and that’s because no matter

how bad it is, some stupid son-of-a-bitch
like you could figure out a way to make it

a lot worse!

So you think: well, what do you do about that?

Well, you accept it!

That’s what life is like!

It’s suffering!

That’s what the religious people have ALWAYS
said, ‘Life is suffering’.

Yes!

Well, who wants to admit that?

Well, just think about it!

Well, so what do you do in the face of that
suffering?

Try to reduce it!

Start with yourself!

What good are you?

Get yourself together, for Christ’s sake!

So that when your father dies, you’re not
whining away in a corner

and you can help plan the funeral.

And you can stand up solidly, so that people
can rely on you!

That’s better!

Don’t be a damn victim!

Of course you’re a victim!

Jesus!

Obviously!

Put yourself together!

And then maybe if you put yourself together…you
know how to do that!

You know what’s wrong with you (if you’ll
admit it), you know

there’s a few things you could like, polish
up a little bit, that you might even be able

to manage in your
insufficient present condition.

and so you might shine yourself up a little
bit, and then your eyes will be a little more

open, then you can shine
yourself up a little bit more, and then maybe

you could bring your family together,
instead of having them be the hateful, spiteful,

neurotic, infighting-batch that you’re like,
“doomed to spend Christmas with!”

So then you fix yourself up a little bit…
kind of humbly… because you know, God!

You’re a fixer-upper if there ever was one…
and then you got to figure out, well.

Can you figure out how to make peace with
your idiot brother? (and probably not because

he’s just as dumb as you)
So, how the hell are you going to manage that?

And so then you maybe you get somewhere that
way, and your family’s sort of functioning

And you find out “well, that kind of relieved
a little bit of suffering”.

Although it reduce the opportunities for spiteful
revenge…

and that’s kind of a pain in the neck.

And so…

Then you get your family together, a little
bit

and you’re a little clued in then.

At least a bit, because you’ve done something
difficult, that’s

actually difficult.

You are wiser, and so then maybe you could
put a

tentative finger out beyond the family, and
try to change some little thing without wrecking

it
It’s like, our society is complex, and we

teach our students that they could just fix
it

It’s like: go fix a military helicopter, and
see how far you get with that.

It’s like you’re going to get to do… you’re
like a chimp with a wrench:

Whack!

“Oh look!

It’s better!”

It’s like: NO!
it’s not better…

Things are complicated and to fix things is
really hard!

And you have to be like a…
a golden tool to fix things.

And you’re not!

So, and that’s the other message of the West,
It’s like, how do you overcome the suffering

of life?

And I’m not saying it’s only the message of
the West,

How do you overcome the suffering of life
is: BE A BETTER PERSON!!!

That’s how you do it!

Well, that’s hard!

It takes responsibility!

And I think, you know, if you said to someone:
Do you want to have a meaningful life?

Everything you do matters!
(that’s the definition of a meaningful life)

But everything you do matters!

You’re gonna have to carry that with you
or, do you want to just forget about the whole

meaning thing, and…
then you don’t have any responsibility…

Because, who the hell cares?

And you can wander through life, doing whatever
you want

gratifying impulsive desires, for how useful
that’s going to be?

And…

You’re stuck in meaninglessness, but you don’t
have any responsibility!

Which one do you want?

Well…

Ask yourself: ‘Which one are you pursuing?’

And you’ll find very rapidly, that it isn’t
the majority of your soul

that’s pursuing the whole “meaning” thing.

Because, well look what you have to do, to
do that!

You have to take on the fact that life is
suffering.

You have to put yourself together, in the
face of that!

Well, that’s hard!

Christ, it’s amazing people can even do it!

I’m stunned every day when I go outside…
and it isn’t a riot, with everything burning!

It can…

Really!

God, you talk to people…

It’s like…

I knew this guy…

He’d been in a motorcycle accident,
and it really ruined him.

And…

He was like a linesman, you know, working
on the power.

And…

He was working with someone who had Parkinson’s
disease, and…

They had complementary…
…inadequacies.

And so…

Two of them could do the job of one person,
and so they’re out there fixing power lines

in the freezing cold,
despite the fact that one was 3/4 wrecked

with a
motorcycle accident and the other one had

Parkinson’s.

It’s like…

That’s how our civilization works.

It’s like…

There’s all these ruined people out there.

They’ve got problems like you can’t believe…

Off they go to work, and do things they don’t
even like!

And look, the lights are on!

My God!

It’s unbelievable!

It’s a miracle, It’s a miracle!

And we’re so ungrateful!

College students, the postmodern types…

They’re so ungrateful.

You know, they don’t know that they’re surrounded
by just a bloody miracle!

It’s a miracle, that all this stuff works…

But all you crazy chimpanzees who don’t know
each other, can sit in the same room for two

hours sweltering away
without tearing each other apart.

Because that’s what chimps do!

So
Anyways, so

What happened?

Well, I made some videos and…

I got to the bottom of some things (at least,
as far as I can tell).

So I told you what the bottom is, and then
I got this idea about what you might do about

it…

Which isn’t my idea… it’s like, it’s not
my idea…

It’s an old, old, old, old idea.

It’s far older than Christianity.

It’s old, it’s the oldest story of mankind!

Get yourself together.

Transcend your suffering, see if you can be
some kind of hero,

make the suffering in the world less!

Well, that’s the way forward, as far as I
can tell - if there is any way forward.

And that’s what’s under assault by the postmodernists
So look out, because they know exactly what

they’re doing, and they know exactly why they’re
doing it.

And that’s what it looks like to me.

So
That’s it.

好的,问题就在这里。

这里有一个大问题。

问题是:这是真的!

你被压迫了。

你被压迫了。

你被压迫了。

你被压迫了。

天知道为什么……

也许你太矮了,或者
你不够漂亮,或者……你知道,你的父母……

你的祖父母是农奴……

可能!

因为几乎每个人的
曾祖父母都是……就像,

你知道的,你没有你想象的那么聪明
,你有一个生病的亲戚,你

有自己的身体
问题,就像:坦率地说,你 一团糟,

你受到各种可能的压迫……

包括你的祖先,你的生物学,
以及整个人类历史的总和,

共同产生了
受害的“你”,以及你所有的个人

病理问题。

就像:是的!

真的!

好吧,但问题是……是这样的,这是
真的!

所以,如果你把被压迫的人拿走,你就必须
把他们分开,再把他们分开

……就像:你是一个女人。

是的,
好吧,我是一个黑人妇女。

嗯,我是一个有两个孩子的黑人妇女。

嗯,我是一个黑人妇女,有两个孩子
,其中一个不太健康。

然后好吧,我是……

我是西班牙裔女性,我有一个天才儿子
,他没有钱,所以他不能

上大学

……你知道,我有一个
穿越边境

真是太棒了我很难获得公民身份;
我丈夫是个酒鬼。

这就像:
好吧,是的,这也很糟糕,所以……好吧,

让我们解决你所有的压迫……
压迫,我们会考虑到每一件事

然后我们也会修复你的。

我们会考虑每一件事情

……就像’不,你不会',因为你不能,
你不能,这在技术上是不可能的。

首先,你甚至不能列出
你被压迫的所有方式。

其次,你打算如何称量它们?

第三,谁来决定?

这就是血腥的事情:谁来
决定?

就是这样!

那么
西方的答案是什么?

就像在自由市场中一样。

哦,是的,天哪,我们永远无法解决
这个问题

没有人能解决它。

我们要怎么做呢?

我们将把它外包给市场
你会带走你

可怜的可怜的存在,你会尝试
给我一些我可能想要的东西,

我会带走我
可怜的可怜的存在,我 ‘我会说’好吧,

考虑到所有事情,
以及我能理解的……

也许我可以给你这么多钱。

(这实际上是对那个东西的承诺)
而且你已经把你所有的该死的压迫都打包

到了价格中;
我已经把我所有的压迫都塞进了

支付它的意愿中。

这个解决方案很糟糕!

这是一个糟糕的解决方案!

但与其他所有解决方案相比,伙计。

这就是为什么我们中有 10% 的人拥有自由。

所以……

这背后有一个巨大的
不合逻辑,就像

你必须将被压迫
的人一直细分到个人的水平!

“哦,这就是西方想出来的!”

你知道,有几个人物,他们

是我们文化的神话根源,你知道人们
对我很生气,因为我引入了宗教

主题
但我了解一些关于神话

和宗教的事情,这不是偶然的,
公理化的西方人是

被不公平地钉在十字架上并受到折磨的人
——就像是!

对!

确切地!

那你怎么办?

嗯……

我也想了很久。

这就像……好吧,你不会聚集
在一个该死的暴徒中!

因为所做的只是让你变得
像你想象的那样可怕,并且不

承担任何后果。

这是个坏主意!

那我们不这样做怎么样?

嗯,西方也有一个深刻的想法。

这就像’拿起你该死的痛苦……
并忍受它!

并努力成为一个好人,这样你就不会
变得更糟!

嗯,这是事实。

你懂?

我读了很多关于……
人们对彼此所做的可怕事情

你甚至无法想象。

太可怕了……

所以,你不想成为那样的人。

现在,你有理由吗?

是的!

你有很多理由成为!

上帝,有理由对
你的存在感到不满。

你认识的每个人都会死……

你知道,你也是!

一路上会有相当多的痛苦
,而且很多都是

不公平的
,就像:是的,难怪你会怨恨!

就像:表演出来,看看会发生什么;
你让你抱怨的一切

变得更糟!

有一种观点认为地狱是一个
无底洞,那是因为不管

它有多糟糕,像你这样的愚蠢的狗杂种总
能想出一个办法让

事情变得更糟!

所以你想:好吧,你会怎么做?

好吧,你接受它!

生活就是这样!

很痛苦!

这就是宗教人士一直
说的,“生活是痛苦的”。

是的!

好吧,谁愿意承认呢?

好吧,想想吧!

那么,面对这种痛苦,你会怎么做
呢?

尝试减少它!

从你自己开始!

你有什么好?

看在基督的份上,振作起来!

这样当你父亲去世时,你就不会
在角落里发牢骚

,你可以帮助计划葬礼。

并且你可以站得稳,让人们
可以依靠你!

这样更好!

不要成为该死的受害者!

你当然是受害者!

耶稣!

明显地!

把自己放在一起!

然后也许如果你把自己放在一起……你
知道怎么做!

你知道你有什么问题(如果你
承认的话),你知道

有一些事情你可以喜欢,
稍微完善一下,你甚至可以

在你
目前的状况不足的情况下处理。

所以你可以让自己发光
一点,然后你的眼睛会更

开阔一点,然后你可以
让自己更发光一点,然后也许

你可以把你的家人聚在一起,
而不是让他们成为可恨的人 ,恶毒的,

神经质的,内斗的一批,你喜欢,
“注定要一起过圣诞节!”

所以你把自己
整顿了一下……有点谦虚……因为你知道,上帝!

如果有的话,你就是一个修理工……
然后你必须弄清楚,好吧。

你能想出如何与
你的白痴兄弟和平相处吗? (可能不是因为

他和你一样愚蠢)
那么,你到底要怎么处理呢?

然后你可能会以这种方式到达某个地方
,并且你的家庭的运作方式

你会发现“嗯,那种减轻
了一点痛苦”。

虽然它减少了恶意报复的机会

……这有点让人头疼。

所以……

然后你让你的家人聚在一起,一点点

,然后你就有点线索了。

至少有一点,因为你做了一些
困难的事情,那

实际上很困难。

你更聪明,所以也许你可以

试探性地伸出家庭之外,
试着改变一些小事而不破坏

它就像,我们的社会很复杂,我们

教我们的学生他们可以解决

它就像 : 去修理一架军用直升机,
看看你能做到多远。

这就像你要去做……你
就像一个拿着扳手的黑猩猩:重

击!

“哦,看

!好多了!”

就像:不!
这不是更好……

事情很复杂,解决问题
真的很难!

你必须像一个……
解决问题的黄金工具。

而你不是!

所以,这就是西方的另一个信息,
就像,你如何克服

生活的痛苦?

我并不是说这只是
西方的信息,

你如何克服生活的痛苦
是:做一个更好的人!!!

你就是这样做的!

嗯,这很难!

它需要负责!

我想,你知道,如果你对某人说:
你想过有意义的生活吗?

你所做的一切都很重要!
(这就是有意义的生活的定义)

但是你所做的一切都很重要!

你将不得不随身携带它,
或者,你想忘记整个

有意义的事情,然后……
然后你没有任何责任……

因为,谁在乎呢?

你可以在生活中徘徊,做任何
你想做的事来

满足冲动的欲望,
这会有多大用处?

而且……

你陷入了无意义,但你
没有任何责任!

你想要哪一个?

嗯……

问问自己:“你追求的是哪一个?”

你会很快发现,并不是
你的大部分灵魂

都在追求整个“意义”的东西。

因为,看看你必须做什么,
去做!

你必须接受生活是痛苦的事实
。 面对这种情况

,你必须团结起来

嗯,这很难!

天哪,人们甚至可以做到这一点真是太神奇了!

我每天出门都惊呆了
……这不是骚乱,一切都在燃烧!

它可以……

真的!

上帝啊,你跟人说话

……就像……

我认识这个人……

他出过一次摩托车事故
,这真的毁了他。

而且…

他就像一个巡边员,你知道,
在处理权力。

而且…

他正在与患有帕金森病的人一起工作
,并且…

他们有互补的…
…不足之处。

所以……

他们中的两个可以做一个人的工作
,所以他们

在寒冷的天气里修理电线,
尽管事实上一个被

摩托车事故破坏了 3/4 而另一个有

帕金森。

就像……

我们的文明就是这样运作的。

就像…

外面有这么多被毁坏的人。

他们遇到了你无法相信的问题

……他们去上班,做他们甚至不
喜欢的事情!

看,灯亮了!

天哪!

这太不可思议了!

这是一个奇迹,这是一个奇迹!

而且我们太忘恩负义了!

大学生,后现代人……

他们太忘恩负义了。

你知道,他们不知道他们
被一个血腥的奇迹包围着!

这是一个奇迹,所有这些东西都能奏效……

但你们这些互不相识的疯狂黑猩猩
,可以在同一个房间里

闷热地坐上两个小时,
而不会互相撕裂。

因为这就是黑猩猩所做的!

所以无论如何,

发生了什么?

好吧,我制作了一些视频,然后……

我找到了一些事情的真相(至少
,据我所知)。

所以我告诉你底部是什么,然后
我知道你可能会怎么

做……

这不是我的想法……就像,这不是
我的想法……

这是一个古老的,古老的, 旧的,旧的想法。

它比基督教更古老。

它很古老,它是人类最古老的故事!

让自己在一起。

超越你的苦难,看看你能不能成为
某种英雄,

让世间的苦难少一些!

好吧,据
我所知,这就是前进的道路——如果有前进的道路的话。

这就是后现代主义者所攻击的东西
所以要小心,因为他们确切地知道

他们在做什么,他们确切地知道他们为什么
要这样做。

这就是我的样子。

就是这样了。