15 English Lessons for Conversational English
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threat
basic patterns
that dog is very threatening
the idea of change threatens some people
he
was warned about a possible threat
predators were a threat to the herd
crops were threatened by the lack of
rain
are you threatening me
people can act violently if they feel
threatened
cat is no threat to anybody
this wind is threatening to become a
storm
his tone of voice held a subtle threat
if you aren’t home exactly on time
tonight we are going to have to punish
you
if you come home late then you won’t be
able to talk on the phone for two weeks
give me everything or I will use my gun
don’t try to call for help until I’m
long gone otherwise I’ll have to hurt
you
if you don’t work late tonight then
don’t bother coming back to work at all
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you
dialogue 1
remember your curfew tonight I will I
mean it your mother and I will not
tolerate you coming home late again it’s
not that big a deal yes it is if you
aren’t home exactly on time tonight we
are going to have to punish you you’re
not serious are you
you are going to be grounded what does
that mean we are going to take away some
of your privileges like what if you come
home late and you won’t be able to talk
on the phone for two weeks
that’s not fair also won’t be allowed to
hang out with your friends for two weeks
that means no going out for fun you will
go to school and come straight back home
that’s unreasonable it’s the only
solution that we can think of to make
sure that you keep your curfew why can’t
you trust my word you’ve been late three
times in the past two weeks one time you
were over an hour late I promise they
won’t be late this time I’d like to
believe that however I’m still letting
you know what will happen if you break
the rules one more time I said that I
would be on time there’s no need to warn
me about the consequences I hope so
don’t move
what’s going on this is a robbery please
don’t hurt me
listen to me I’ll do anything you say
try to call out for help I won’t give me
your wallet and watch I’ll give you my
wallet but not my watch give me
everything or I will use my gun please
my mother gave me this watch before she
died it has a lot of sentimental value
I’ll make me use my gun I’m begging you
this watch cannot be replaced please let
me keep it telling you one last time
give me the watch or I’ll have to hurt
you
okay here it is good now lay down on the
ground until I’m gone okay
don’t try to call for help until I’m
long gone otherwise I’ll have to hurt
you understand yes I understand
dialogue three
hello mr. Hughes what can I do for you I
need you to work late tonight I’m afraid
that’s impossible you’re going to have
to the company has an important meeting
tomorrow and we have to be prepared I’m
sorry but I’ve already made some
important plans haven’t you been
listening to what I’ve been saying
yes I have you must understand how vital
this meeting is the company could lose a
million-dollar deal if everything
doesn’t go perfectly I understand all
that but tonight is a very special night
what’s so special tonight is my 10th
wedding anniversary my husband and I
have been planning a special evening for
weeks now you’re going to have to
postpone them I couldn’t possibly do
that to my husband he would be crushed
well it is going to come down between
your job and your husband what if you
don’t work late tonight
then don’t bother coming back to work at
all isn’t that a little extreme this
meeting is too important to be ruined
because of your social life so let me
get this straight you’re going to fire
me if I don’t work late tonight that is
right but I have been a loyal employee
for years I’m afraid that is your choice
you
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to shion’s
one
remember your curfew tonight
beyond time tonight
don’t forget when to be home
keep in mind we expect you home at 11
o’clock
to
I mean it
I’m serious
I’m not kidding
I’m definite
three
you are going to be grounded
you are going to be punished
you are going to be disciplined
you are going to be reprimanded
for
we are going to take away some of your
privileges we are going to take away
some of your freedoms
we are going to take away some of the
things you enjoy
going to take away some of your rights
five
it’s the only solution that we can think
of to make sure that you keep your
curfew
it’s the only solution that we can think
of to make sure that you follow the
rules
it’s the only solution that we can think
of to make sure that you be on time
it’s the only solution that we can think
of to make sure that you abide by our
rules
six
don’t move
freeze
stay put
not another step
seven
I’ll do anything you say
I’ll do whatever you tell me
I’ll do everything you want me to do
follow all your instructions
eight
it has a lot of sentimental value
it means a lot to me
it reminds me of someone important
it has special memories
9
don’t make me use my gun
don’t force me to use my gun
push me to use my gun
don’t pressure me to use my gun
ten
I’m begging you
I’m pleading with you
I beseech you
what else can I say to convince you
eleven
understand
is that clear
are we straight
no questions right
12
I need you to work late tonight
I need you to work overtime tonight
I need you to work more hours tonight
I need you to work later than usual
tonight
thirteen
I’m afraid that is impossible
I can’t do that
it won’t be possible
that can’t be arranged
14
you’re going to have to
you must
this isn’t a request but a demand
no choice
fifteen
so let me get this straight
so let’s be clear
so let’s make sure I’m not confused
so let’s make sure we are on the same
page
you
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monologue
the feeling threat can make people take
some extreme actions for instance in
America people feel so threatened by the
possibility they may be the victims of a
crime that it causes them to want to own
a gun one of the main arguments against
making guns illegal for private citizens
to own is that people should have the
right to defend themselves the
Constitution of the United States does
have a provision about the right to bear
arms in the Bill of Rights however
according to some experts this refers to
the right of the states to have
well-regulated militias to defend
themselves there is a lot of controversy
whether or not this right extends to
individual citizens either way the fear
of crime has greatly contributed to a
belief by many that guns our right of
every citizen they even say this in the
face of the statistic that a person is
more likely to injure himself or someone
he knows that an assailant thus it has
been impossible to ban guns and
difficult to even pass gun control
legislation people have even objected to
such laws that would limit a person to
buying only three guns a month and
having to wait three days so that a
background check can be completed to
make sure criminals and mentally
unstable people cannot acquire guns
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worries
basic patterns
I’m worried about next week’s test
don’t worry about me
I’m worried for your safety
you’re driving concerns me
he doesn’t seem concerned about his
health
it’s nothing that you should worry about
his actions have always been a worry to
me
this new information is very worrisome
I’m a little concerned about the expense
of this meal
he is a real worry to his mother
I’ve got some money troubles
I’m a musician and I often don’t have
regular jobs
I’m good at English in history but I’m
really awful at the Natural Sciences
can’t get rid of my worries
I know I’m being silly but I’ll worry
about her for the rest of my life
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dialogue 1
hey Tim how are you doing little
stressed out what’s wrong I’ve got some
money troubles I hope they’re not too
serious if I can get a job soon then I
can stop worrying I didn’t know you were
out of work I’m a musician
and I often don’t have regular jobs I
guess that is the life of a musician my
parents keep asking when I plan on
getting a real job that has a regular
salary why do you keep being a musician
if it pays so badly it’s the job I love
I can’t imagine doing anything else so
what happens if you don’t get a job soon
I have to my rent is due next week and I
have to make a car payment at the end of
the month
that is a reason to be stressed not only
that but I also have to pay utilities
and go grocery shopping no wonder you’re
worried this waiting for a job is
nerve-racking
are you expecting a job I’m supposed to
hear from someone today there is a bar
that might want to have some live music
on Saturday nights I hope you get it me
too if not I might have to go to my last
resort oh it’s that borrowing money for
my parents if I do that then I will have
to listen to another lecture about how I
should find a more stable job I hope
everything works out for you
I long to
how is it going Steven horrible what’s
the matter I have a big test tomorrow
I’m sure you’ll pass with flying colors
I’ll be lucky to barely pass but you’re
such a good student I’m good at English
in history but I’m really awful at the
Natural Sciences I take it that this
test is in the sciences
it’s the final exam for my biology class
you’ll do better than you think I can’t
get rid of my worry
haven’t you been studying hard yes a
couple of hours a day for the past week
then you should have nothing to worry
about it’s very difficult for me to
learn biology I can’t seem to remember
all the information I need to know it’s
only one test you don’t understand if I
don’t get at least a C on this exam that
I won’t pass the class can’t you take
the class again this should be my last
semester I’m supposed to graduate but I
won’t unless I get a passing grade in
this course oh now I understand why
you’re so worried I can’t imagine having
to tell my parents that I won’t be
graduating I really want them to be
proud of me I think you’re putting too
much pressure on yourself you’ll never
do well if you’re this anxious
ugh three
we’ll really miss her the house will
seem so empty without her it’s natural
that a child should move out of her
parents home and go off on her own I
know that but I can’t help worrying
about her she’s only going away to
college but this is the first time she’s
ever lived away from home she’s smart
and responsible she’ll be fine
I still worry about her it’s a parent’s
job to be concerned about her child’s
welfare she’s 18 years old you can stop
worrying about her because she’s an
adult no matter how old she gets she’ll
still be my baby you are going to worry
yourself sick maybe I should call her to
see if she needs anything she just left
give her some time to settle in I hope
she gets enough to eat and wraps up I
want her to stay healthy she knows to do
that if she does get sick there’s a
Health Center at the University but they
won’t take care of her like I would it’s
not that far away if it becomes
necessary we can go get her and bring
her home I know I’m being silly but I
worry about her for the rest of my life
that’s okay we always worry about the
one we love
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substitutions
one
a little stressed out
I’ve got some troubles
I have a lot on my mind
I’m a little tense
to
I’ve got some money troubles
I’m concerned about my finances
I’m stretched a little thin this month
I’m a little short on cash
three
why do you keep being a musician if it
pays so badly
why do you keep being a musician if it
doesn’t make ends meet
why do you keep being a musician if it
doesn’t pay the bills
why do you keep being a musician if it
can’t cover your expenses
for
this waiting for a job is nerve-racking
this waiting for a job is very stressful
this waiting for a job is hard on my
nerves
this waiting for a job is killing me
five
if not I might have to go to my last
resort
if not I might have to go to the last
thing I want to do
if not I might have to go to what I’m
trying to avoid
if not I might have to go to my least
favorite option
six
I’ll be lucky to barely pass
I’ll be lucky to get addy
I’ll be lucky to get a passing mark
I’ll be lucky to meet the minimum
requirement
seven
it’s the final exam for my biology class
it’s the final exam for my chemistry
class
it’s the final exam for my physics class
it’s the final exam for my anatomy class
eight
if I don’t get at least to see on this
exam that I won’t pass the class
if I don’t get at least to see on this
exam that I will fail the course
if I don’t get at least a C on this exam
then I won’t get credit for the class
if I don’t get at least a C on this exam
that I won’t get a passing grade
9
can’t you take the class again
can’t you repeat the course
can’t you try again next semester
can’t you have another try at it
ten
I think you are putting too much
pressure on yourself
I think you are creating too much
anxiety
I think you are making the situation
worse
I think you’re being too hard on
yourself
eleven
the house will seem so empty without her
the house won’t be the same without her
the house will be lonely without her
the house will be so quiet without her
12
but this is the first time she’s ever
lived away from home
but this is the first time she’s ever
been on her own
but this is the first time she’s ever
lived independently
but this is the first time she’s ever
lived by herself
thirteen
you can stop worrying about her because
she’s an adult
you can stop worrying about her because
she’s all grown up
you can stop worrying about her because
she’s a woman not a child
you can stop worrying about her because
she’s a big girl
14
no matter how old she gets she’ll still
be my baby
it doesn’t matter how old she gets
she’ll still be my baby
I don’t care how old she gets she’ll
still be my baby
it makes no difference how old she gets
she’ll still be my baby
fifteen
you are going to worry yourself sick
you are going to worry yourself to death
you are going to go out of your mind
with worry
to drive yourself crazy with worry
you
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monologue
when asked what is their biggest worry
many Americans will say money money
issues could be very stressful for some
people even relatively well-off people
in the upper middle class have financial
concerns one of the biggest money costs
to the average family is housing unless
a couple is independently wealthy they
either have to rent a place to live or
take out a mortgage to buy a home a
mortgage is alone that a bank gives to
an individual to buy a home this is one
of the most significant debts than most
families incur the next most expensive
household item is a car for many
families two cars are necessary America
does not have a highly effective system
of public transportation outside of a
few large cities
therefore if both parents work and they
both need a car to commute if only one
works then the other needs a car to run
the daily household errands
thus a monthly car payment is added to
the family’s budget one of the easiest
and fastest ways to get deeply in debt
is a credit card credit cards are easy
to obtain and market it extensively it
allows a person to charge up to his or
her spending level per month they must
make monthly payments on what they
charge if they charge more than what
they can pay in a month anything still
owed will have interest added on people
get into trouble and they have many
credit cards and like to spend more than
they make finally if a couple has
children then they must also consider
how to pay for their college education a
college education is becoming more and
more necessary to make a decent living
so enrollment rates in college are at
their highest all these costs can
produce a lot of stress and one of the
main causes that lead to divorce is
arguing about money
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deception
basic patterns
you tricked me
I was deceived in this business deal
his words were very deceptive
you allowed yourself to be deceived
don’t be fooled by his friendly words
he was completely fooled by his enemy
don’t let appearances deceive you
you can’t fool me that easily
he was tricked out of his money
I can’t believe I was such a fool
she would have contacted my parents if I
couldn’t have come up with a good excuse
it’s only a white lie so it’s no big
deal
my conscience would weigh heavily on me
I had to make something up so I wouldn’t
get into trouble
are you sure that you had to be
dishonest
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dialogue 1
are you feeling better I’m feeling fine
I haven’t been sick but our teacher said
that you missed class because you
weren’t feeling well
she said you caught the flu oh that’s
right I had to tell her I was sick so
she would excuse my absence do you mean
you weren’t sick no I’m healthy as a
horse why would you lie I didn’t want
her to tell my parents that I wasn’t in
school she would have contacted my
parents if I couldn’t have come up with
a good excuse why would you lie to both
your parents and your teacher I really
wanted to go see a movie why didn’t she
wait until after school it was only
showing once and it was a matinee it’s
not good to lie to people it’s only a
white lie so it’s no big deal what about
the work you missed since our teacher
thinks I was sick she’s letting me make
up the work so really I didn’t miss
anything and what if you get caught I
don’t think I will but even if I do the
movie was worth it even if you get into
serious trouble even then
dialogue to
how do you think you’re going to do on
tomorrow’s test not very well I haven’t
been paying much attention in class
lately what if I told you there was a
surefire way you could get an A I
wouldn’t believe you I don’t know any of
the material that will be on the test
that doesn’t matter I promise you
there’s a way do you want to know
absolutely I’ll tell you but you have to
promise to keep it a secret I swear I
will I’ve got all the questions and
answers to the test all you have to do
is memorize the answers to get a perfect
score isn’t that cheating yeah
but don’t you want to pass how did you
get it I stole a copy of the test from
the teacher she doesn’t even know it’s
missing what if we get caught in the act
we can’t get caught all we have to do is
make sure we remember all the answers
the teacher won’t suspect a thing since
there are no papers or other evidence to
prove us guilty I don’t know about this
come on what do you have to lose we
could fail the test and get suspended
for cheating
I told you that we aren’t going to get
caught
I just think cheating is wrong my
conscience would weigh heavily on me do
you want to fail of course not
then how else will you get a good grade
I’ll have to think about it
ugh three
I heard you got a flat tire this morning
on the way to work I really didn’t what
do you mean I had to make something up
so I wouldn’t get into trouble what
really happened I was up very late last
night so I didn’t get much sleep and
woke up very late why didn’t you just
tell the truth because the truth sounds
irresponsible why did you get to bed so
late
I went to a party and ended up staying
later than I planned being late because
of car problems is more professional
than saying I overslept because I
partied too much the night before that
doesn’t sound very responsible did you
miss anything this morning I missed a
very important conference so I couldn’t
tell the boss the truth he would have
fired me on the spot why do you think he
would be so harsh because he had to
cancel the conference because I was
absent are you sure that you had to be
dishonest wouldn’t he have understood I
had to lie he doesn’t really like me and
he’s just looking for any excuse to fire
me do you think he believed you I have
my doubts but he couldn’t prove I was
lying to him so he had to accept my
reason how do you think he feels about
you now I think I’m hanging on to my job
by a thread
I believe if I screw up one more time
I’ll be out of a job I guess you’ll have
to be extra careful I’ll have to stay on
my toes
you
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stations
one
she said you caught the flu
she said you caught a cold
she said you had a stomachache
she said you got food poisoning
to
no I’m healthy as a horse
oh I’m in tip-top shape
no I’m in wonderful health
no I couldn’t be better
three
why would you lie
why not tell the truth
why be dishonest
what were you covering up
for
it’s only a white lie so it’s no big
deal
it’s only a white lie so it’s not
serious
it’s only a white lie so one hurt anyone
it’s only a white lie so it won’t affect
anything
five
what if I told you there was a surefire
way you could get an A
what if I told you there was a definite
way you could get an A
what if I told you there was a
guaranteed way you could get an A
what if I told you there was a certain
way you could get an A
six
I’ll tell you but you
promised to keep it a secret
I’ll tell you but you have to swear not
to tell anyone
I’ll tell you what you have to promise
not to speak about this to anyone else
I’ll tell you but you have to keep your
lips sealed
seven
what if we get caught in the act
what if we get found out
what if the teacher gets suspicious
what if the teacher sees through our
scheme
eight
I don’t know about this
I’m not sure
I’m not certain this is for me
I don’t know if I want to do this
9
come on
you should
why not
don’t be afraid
ten
what really happened
what’s the truth
what’s the real reason
what in fact occurred
eleven
he would have fired me on the spot
he would have fired me right there
he would have fired me immediately
he would have fired me
front of everyone
12
do you think he believed you
do you think he saw through you
do you think you swallowed your story
do you think he accepted your account
thirteen
I think I’m hanging on to my job by a
thread
I think by position at the company is
precarious
I think my job here is tenuous
I think my future here is uncertain
14
I believe if I screw up one more time
I’ll be out of a job
I believe if I mess up one more time
I’ll be out of a job
I believe if I slip up one more time
I’ll be out of a job
I believe if I make a mistake one more
time I’ll be out of a job
fifteen
I’ll have to stand my toes
I’ll have to be conscientious
I’ll have to be constantly alert
I’ll have to be careful not to make a
mistake
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you
monologue
skipping class is something quite common
in American colleges college is often
the first time young people have a
chance to live on their own without
supervision this excitement and novelty
of being on their own for the first time
often leads to some irresponsible
behavior without a parent’s nagging
voice that they should go to school some
students slip into the bad habit of
sleeping through classes instead of
waking up on time to go to them not only
do they miss the information that is
taught in them but they can also have
their grades penalized colleges and
universities recognize the problem of
multiple absences and some even require
that professors reduce the grade of the
student if he or she has too many
unexcused absences
in order to get an excused absence a
student usually has to provide some
proof for instance if he says he has
been sick then a teacher might require a
note from the health center to prove his
illness if they must be away for school
activity then they must have a note from
the school sponsor of the activity
explaining why the student must miss
class therefore even if a student has
done a quality work he or she may still
fail a class if he or she misses more
classes than allowed by school policy
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Saro
basic patterns
I’m so sorry this has happened to you
I can’t deal with this right now
this is awful
are you crying
I’ll be okay in a moment
I miss my wife
these pictures make me sad
he’s still grieving for her
she hasn’t gotten over the death of her
child
I just don’t feel like talking about it
why are you so upset
I feel like my heart is breaking
I’m not in the mood to talk right now
I’m really upset right now and I think
I’d rather be alone
in these cases time to heal is the only
thing that can help
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dialogue 1 have you been crying no I
think you have you’re right I admit it
why are you so upset my boyfriend just
broke up with me that’s awful
I feel like my heart is breaking how
long did you date him we dated for six
months I’m so very sorry that you have
to go through this I just can’t
understand why he would do this I
thought he was happy with me did he give
you a reason he said that he stopped
loving me do you believe him
it doesn’t make sense one day he seemed
content and the next day out of the blue
he said he couldn’t be in a relationship
with me when did he break up with you
last night I know that you don’t believe
this now but time heals all wounds I
can’t believe that right now I’ve never
felt this terrible in my entire life
just remember there are other fish in
the sea I don’t think that I’m going to
date anyone else for a while
dialogue to
hello Martin what’s new I’m not in the
mood to talk right now
what’s wrong I’m really upset right now
and I think I’d rather be alone are you
sure sometimes it helps to talk to
someone but if you insist I’ll back off
no you’re right it might help to talk it
over tell me what’s on your mind last
night my dog died Oh No I’m very sorry I
miss him so much right now did you have
him long I’ve had him since he was a
puppy
what did he die of old age
how old was he he was 15 years old
that’s very old for a dog you must have
had many good years with him yes do you
think that you will get another dog I
cannot imagine that any dog could
replace him I don’t think I want to get
attached to another animal anyway why
not because it hurts too much when you
lose your pet it’s just like what a
person dies I think you will feel
differently when the grief passes maybe
log3
hi Jordan
Malinda I just heard about your
grandfather I was sad to find out that
he died thank you for your sympathy is
there anything I can do no but thank you
for offering would you like to talk
about him or is it still too painful no
I really like to talk about him it helps
me to remember him and I don’t want to
ever forget him how did he die he had a
heart attack and the doctors just
couldn’t save him how old was he he was
82 years old he must have lived a very
full life yes he was very happy and
active right up until the very end this
must be very hard on you
yes but it is hard to start my
grandmother were they married long they
were married for 55 years
not many couples stay together for so
long they must have loved each other
very much as far back as I can remember
I have always thought that they loved
one another more than any other couple
I’ve known how was your grandmother
holding up
it’s like she’s lost a part of herself
she doesn’t talk much to anyone and just
sits and cries over old pictures of my
grandfather that’s so sad can anyone do
anything for her my entire family has
taken turns trying but she’s
inconsolable I think that she just needs
some time that’s probably true in these
cases time to heal is the only thing
that can help
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substitutions
one
have you been crying
have you been weeping
have you been sobbing
have you been shedding tears
to
my boyfriend just broke up with me
my boyfriend just dumped me
my boyfriend just ended our relationship
my boyfriend just said he didn’t want to
go out with me anymore
three
I feel like my heart is breaking
I feel like my world is ending
I feel like my heart has been ripped out
I feel like I’ve lost the most important
thing in my life
for
I’m so very sorry that you have to go
through this
I’m so very sorry that you have to
suffer this ordeal
I’m so very sorry that you have to bear
this
I’m so very sorry that you have to put
up with this
five
he said that he stopped loving me
he said that he fell out of love with me
he said that he didn’t think I was the
one for him
he said that he didn’t believe we were
right for each other
six
one day he seemed content and the next
day out of the blue he said he could not
be in a relationship with me
one day he seemed content and the next
day without warning he said he could not
be in a relationship with me
one day he seemed content and the next
day out of nowhere he said he could not
be in a relationship with me
one day he seemed content and the next
day all of a sudden he said he could not
be in a relationship with me
seven
just remember that there are other fish
in the sea
just remember that there are other boys
out there
just remember that you’ll fall in love
again
just remember that you’ll meet someone
else
eight
I’m really upset right now and I think
I’d rather be alone
I’m not in the mood to talk right now
and I think I’d rather be alone
9
sometimes it helps to talk to someone
but if you insist I’ll back off
sometimes it helps to talk to someone
but if you insist I’ll respect your
privacy
sometimes it helps to talk to someone
but if you insist I’ll leave you long
sometimes that hell
to talk to someone but if you insist I
won’t bother you
ten
no you’re right it might help to talk it
over
no you’re right it might help to discuss
things
you’re right it might help to get this
off my chest
no you’re right it might help to share
my feelings
eleven
last night my dog died
last night my cat died
last night my hamster died
last night my parrot died
12
I don’t think I want to get attached to
another animal anyway
I don’t think I want to love another
animal anyway
I don’t think I want to care for another
animal anyway
I don’t think I want to feel affection
for another animal anyway
thirteen
would you like to talk about him or is
it still too painful
would you like to talk about him or is
it still too difficult
would you like to talk about him or is
it still too upsetting
would you like to talk about him or is
it still too distressing
14
he had a heart attack and the doctors
just couldn’t save him
he had a heart attack and the doctors
just couldn’t cure him
he had a heart attack and the doctors
just couldn’t heal him
he had a heart attack and the doctors
just couldn’t make him well
fifteen
as far back as I can remember I have
always thought that they loved one
another more than any other couple I’ve
known
as long as I can recall I have always
thought that they loved one another more
and than any other couple I’ve known
all my life I have always thought that
they loved one another more than any
other couple I’ve known
no matter how far I think back I have
always thought that they loved one
another more than any other couple I’ve
known
you
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mom log
Americans really love their pets having
pets is a common occurrence in the
United States common pets can include
cats dogs birds hamsters and fish pet
supplies and services cost Americans
millions of dollars a year people become
so attached to their pets that they’re
willing to spend anything in order to
keep them healthy veterinary services
can get quite costly and a growing
industry in America is pet health
insurance this attachment or bond can be
as strong as one between humans
therefore when a pet dies an owner can
feel as much sorrow as when a human
being he or she is close to passes away
this sorrow leads them to treat their
pet just as they would a loved one who
has died some pet owners bury their pets
just like people there are even pet
cemeteries that specialize in burials
for pets complete with funerals and
coffins they can also be cremated if
that is what the owner desires most
people bury their beloved pets in the
backyard or a special place for instance
in my parents backyard lies the remains
of a dozen fish and four hamsters there
were once the pets of my brothers and me
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fear
basic patterns
dogs terrify me I’m scared of heights
he’s too afraid of getting hurt
something has given him a bad fright
that man’s eyes frighten me that movie
was terrifying I’m still afraid of the
dark
drowning is one of my greatest fears I’m
not afraid to say what I think
don’t be frightened by the noises
turn off the lights the monster will
come out from underneath my bed it will
come out and eat me if you turn off the
lights I freak out every time I see a
bug have you ever tried to overcome your
fear one day you will have to face your
fear
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you
dialogue 1
Jenny time for bed just a few more
minutes please daddy oh you need to be
in bed now
it’s very late can I get a drink of
water first one small drink are you
ready now
I have to go to the bathroom okay go
then
would you read me a bedtime story only
if it is very short go pick one out I
want you to read this one Jenny this one
has over a hundred pages that’s way too
long I’ll go pick something else why are
you stalling I’m not stalling yes you
are tell me the truth why don’t you want
to get into bed I don’t want you to turn
off the lights why not you can’t sleep
in a bright room if you turn off the
lights the monster will come out from
underneath my bed there are no such
things as monsters yes there are I heard
one under my bed last night it will come
out and eat me if you turn off the
lights
I’ll check under the bed look there’s
nothing under here maybe it moved to the
closet
let’s check the closet no monsters in
here either now it’s time for bed
but I’m still scared how about if I
leave one small light on will that make
you feel better
yes I’ll try to go to bed now
I walk too
hi Mary hi Daniel are you busy no why
I was wondering if you wanted to go to
the new horror movie which one the one
about the giant insects definitely not
why not it looks really cool
I hate insect they aren’t real doesn’t
matter I can’t stand to look at any kind
of insect but the special effects in the
movie are supposed to be great my friend
said that it looks like the bugs are
going to jump right off the screen at
you that’s not a big selling point for
me awesome the surround sound in the
theater is so good that you can
practically hear the bugs creeping up
behind you stop it what’s wrong I have
to admit I’m terrified of bugs I avoid
even looking at pictures of them but
this is just a movie
I still get too scared well I guess I
shouldn’t pressure you I would
appreciate that why are you so scared of
bugs I’m not sure but as far back as I
can remember I’ve always had this phobia
of them it sounds kind of serious it is
I freaked out every time I see above
especially spiders then you really
wouldn’t like the movie because all the
insects look like spiders except they
are the size of cars well I hope you
enjoy your movie maybe you can find
someone else to go with
log3
how are things going pretty good I’ve
just started a new job what are you
doing I’m a veterinary assistant I help
the veterinarian take care of animals
that sounds like a job you would really
like you’ve always loved all kinds of
animals yes I really like working there
there’s an opening if you’re interested
I could give you a recommendation I
don’t think so
why not it would be fun to work together
the job is great for you
but I don’t think it would suit me are
you sure it would be easy to get you a
job and the pay is decent I’m sure I
really can’t work there you can’t or
don’t want to I can’t I’ll tell you
something that I usually don’t tell
anyone else what is it I’m terrified of
dogs why dogs are very friendly and
lovable when I was six a neighbor’s dog
attacked me ever since I’ve been
frightened of dogs so I could never work
in a veterinarian’s office are you
scared of all kinds of dogs any breed of
dog scares me even the little tiny ones
they can’t possibly scare you even those
dogs are incredibly popular they are
everywhere and it would be difficult to
avoid them completely up until now I’ve
managed have you ever tried to overcome
your fear I once tried going to a
therapist to get over my fear but I
stopped going why did you stop because
it was too hard he wanted me to
constantly look at and touch dogs but
isn’t that the only way to overcome your
fear I just wasn’t ready one day you
will have to face your fear I know but
for now I’ll just keep away from dogs
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substitutions one
Archy it’s time for bed
Archy it’s bedtime
Archy it’s time sleep
Archy it’s time to get under the covers
to
okay go then
okay do it
okay hurry up
okay finish up
three
why are you stalling
why are you delaying why are you playing
for time
why are you postponing the inevitable
for
if you turn off the lights the monster
will come out from underneath my bed
you turn off the lights the monster will
come out from my closet if you turn off
the lights the monster will come out
from the shadows if you turn off the
lights the monster will come out from
behind the dresser
five
will that make you feel better
make you feel less scared
will that make you feel more relaxed
that make you feel not so frightened
six
are you busy
are you doing anything want to go out
seven
it looks really cool it looks really
interesting it looks really neat
it looks really exciting
eight
I can’t stand to look at any kind of
insect
stand touch any kind of insect
I can’t stand to be near any kind of
insect I can’t stand to handle any kind
of insect
9
that’s not a big selling point for me
that doesn’t appeal to me
that doesn’t make me want to go
that really turns me off
ten
I’m not sure but as far back as I can
remember I’ve always had this phobia of
them
I’m not sure but as far back as I can
remember I’ve always had this irrational
fear of them
I’m not sure but as far back as I can
remember I’ve always had this thing
about them
I’m not sure but as far back as I can
remember I’ve always had this feeling of
dread about them
eleven
I freaked out every time I see a bug I
go to pieces every time I see a bug I
become insensible every time I see a bug
I go completely irrational every time I
see a bug
12
I could give you recommendation
I could put a good word in for you I
could tell my boss about you I could
talk you up to my boss
thirteen
it would be easy to get you a job and
the pay is decent it would be easy to
get you a job and the pay is respectable
it would be easy to get you a job and
the pay is enough to get by it would be
easy to get you a job and the pay is
enough to live on
14
dogs are very friendly and lovable
dogs are very cuddly and cute
are very sweet and loyal
dogs are very playful and steadfast
fifteen
one day you will have to face your fear
one day you will have to overcome your
fear
one day you will have to get over your
fear
one day you will have to conquer your
fear
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monologue
phobias are things that people fear
phobias are usually specific and go
beyond just common fears because the
fear of something is only labeled a
phobia if it is extreme
some people’s phobias are so extreme
that they can interfere with their daily
lives phobia is the Greek word meaning
fear often times phobias are given their
Greek names for instance when
debilitating phobia is agoraphobia Agora
refers to the Greek word for marketplace
so agoraphobia is used to describe the
fear of many people some agoraphobics
are so frightened that they cannot leave
their homes this prevents them from
leading a normal life since they cannot
even go to the supermarket much less to
an office to go to work some of the most
common phobias are of such things as
dark places snakes spiders and high
places for those with fears that
interfere with how they live they must
seek help to overcome their fears
psychologists can often help with this
kind of disorder they slowly introduce
to the person what they most fear and
they repeat this process until the
patient no longer feels scared
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you
reproach
basic patterns
you need to stop being late to work
here approach Tom for his careless work
the teacher admonished the whole class
for their grades
I wouldn’t do that if I were you
that’s not a good idea
that is not okay
I can’t believe you just did that
that was disgusting
you are very rude
you can’t act that way in public
you would have had plenty of time to
finish if you had started the book
report when I first gave the assignment
I must admit but I’m very disappointed
in you
you need to take this more seriously
you have no right to get on my case
I don’t think you do we are all
depending on each other to do our parts
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dialogue 1 what can I do for you
Kimberly I wanted to ask you a favor
what is it I’d like to know if I could
turn in the book report late I don’t
know do you have a good reason not
really I just procrastinated too much I
let all the students know about this
assignment a long time ago I know but I
still haven’t finished you would have
had plenty of time to finish if you had
started the book report when I first
gave the assignment
when did you start be honest I started
last week last week you didn’t leave
yourself enough time to do this report I
know
have you even finished reading the book
that you were going to write about no
I’m only about halfway through I must
admit that I’m very disappointed in you
you are usually such a good student I
won’t ever procrastinate again I hope
you don’t can i turn in the paper to you
next week yes you can however I’m going
to have to take off some points but why
because that is only fair to the other
students you will be getting more time
and it’s not fair to give you the same
points as someone who finished on time I
guess it’s my own fault maybe next time
you will make sure to finish your work
when it is due
I log to
Louie could you please come here Yes
Mother
didn’t I ask you to do the laundry oh I
forgot Louie you’re getting older now
and I’m going to start depending on you
to get your chores done I’m sorry I’ll
do it now no now you need to set the
table for dinner I’ll do the laundry
after dinner have you finished your
homework no I was going to do it after
dinner then you can’t do the laundry and
your homework at the same time can you I
guess not
now I’m going to have to get the laundry
done I really am sorry you have to
remember your chores I work all day when
I get home I’m very tired
but I still have to fix dinner and wash
up I have too much to do and I really
need your help
I feel really bad isn’t there anything I
can do to make up for forgetting the
laundry
just don’t forget again I won’t will you
go set the table please
right away
dialogue three
hi Doug where were you today what do you
mean why weren’t you at basketball
practice oh I had a date I can’t believe
you why are you getting upset it’s only
one practice every practice is important
right now we are getting ready for the
championship game I’ll be at the next
practice don’t worry about it
you need to take this more seriously
don’t make such a fuss about one
practice I’ll be at the next one
you better you have no right to get on
my case yes I do what makes you think
that basketball is a team sport and all
the members of the team must work
together to win okay I get it I don’t
think you do we are all depending on
each other to do our parts we must all
work hard if we want to win winning
isn’t that important to me then you
shouldn’t be on the team the rest of the
team takes this very seriously and wants
to win
I apologize I understand how important
this is to everyone and I won’t miss
another practice be sure not to or we
don’t want you on the team
[Music]
you
stations
one
I’d like to know if I could turn in the
book report late
I’d like to know if I could have more
time to finish the book report
I’d like to know if I could get an
extension
I’d like to know if I could have some
extra time to complete the assignment
to
I just procrastinated too much
I just wasted too much time
I just delayed starting
I just put it off too long
three
be honest
tell the truth
speak truthfully
be straightforward with me
for
I must admit that I’m very disappointed
in you
I must admit that I expected better of
you
I must admit that I feel like you let me
down
I must admit but I think you could do
better
five
however I’m going to have to take off
some points
however I’m going to have to reduce your
grade
however I’m going to have to penalize
you
ever I’m going to have to bring down
your score
six
I guess it’s my own fault
I have no one else to blame
it’s my responsibility
it’s all on my shoulders
seven
didn’t I ask you to do the laundry
didn’t I ask you to clean your room
didn’t I ask you to wash the dishes
didn’t I ask you to vacuum the carpets
eight
you have to remember your chores
you have to remember your jobs
you have to remember your
responsibilities
you have to remember to help around the
house
9
I have too much to do and I really need
your help
I have too much to do and I depend on
you
I have too much to do and I need your
assistance
I have too much to do and I must have
your support
ten
just don’t forget again
try to remember
don’t let it happen again
don’t make the same mistake twice
eleven
why weren’t you at basketball practice
why weren’t you at band rehearsal
why weren’t you at choir practice
why weren’t you at softball practice
12
oh I had a date
oh I had a meeting
oh I had an interview
oh I had to get together
thirteen
don’t make such a fuss about one
practice
don’t go on so about one practice
don’t make a scene about one practice
don’t hassle me so much about one
practice
14
you have no right to get on my case
you have no right to criticize me
you have no right to nag me
you have no right to pester me
fifteen
be sure not to or we don’t want you on
the team
see that it doesn’t or we don’t want you
on the team
make sure or we don’t want you on the
team
be certain it doesn’t or we don’t want
you on the team
you
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mom log
in many instances reproach from one’s
peers can be a lot more effective than
from someone in a position of power peer
pressure can be a negative influence
when it sways people to do things that
are inappropriate or harmful to their
health one of the biggest causes for
first-time drug and alcohol use is peer
pressure it can be incredibly difficult
for a young person to stand out from the
crowd and say that they do not want to
do something however this is not always
the case sometimes the desire for our
peers to respect us can make us better
people this is especially so when a
person feels like he has let down his
peers when they were depending upon him
this is particularly the case when
children play a team sport
many parents encourage their children to
play these kinds of sports because they
feel that they can instill a sense of
responsibility and duty to others
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jealousy
basic patterns
that girl thinks she is so cute
I wish I could afford a car like this
I have to admit I’m a little jealous
I’m envious of his success
you have no reason to envy me
you jealous of my friend
I wish I could be as fast as Tom
clearly makes bill jealous
jealousy can really hurt a friendship
it doesn’t help to be envious of him
I can already tell that I won’t like him
it sounds like you are jealous
I just don’t like the idea of you
spending so much time with that guy
no matter how much I study I can’t seem
to beat you
I guess my Envy makes me get carried
away
[Music]
dialogue 1
who’s that guy with you oh that’s my new
tutor
I thought your new tutor was going to be
a girl I thought so too but at the last
minute she had to cancel
she was good enough to recommend Peter
to me so his name is Peter yes he’s been
studying French for six years
so he’s going to be able to help me
improve my French a lot how often are
you going to be meeting with him we’re
supposed to meet twice a week isn’t that
a lot I don’t think so I really need
help with my French if I want to study
in France next summer don’t you think
you can find a better tutor no I already
explained to you that he’s very
qualified plus we get along well
how do you know that you get along well
we had a nice conversation he’s a very
nice guy well I don’t like him you don’t
know him you haven’t even spoken to him
I don’t need to I can already tell that
I won’t like him it sounds like you’re
jealous why would you think that I’m
jealous
because Peter is very handsome and we
will be spending lots of time alone
together studying so what if I’m jealous
I just don’t like the idea of you
spending so much time with that guy he
might try to make a move on you you
don’t have to worry he has a girlfriend
that he cares about a lot I still don’t
know if I trust him nevertheless you can
trust me because I would never cheat on
you
dialogue to
what did you get on the test I got a 95
how about you 92
not as high as you maybe next time
you’ll beat me I don’t think so no
matter how much I study I can’t seem to
beat you it’s not that important after
all we both got an an the test and we’ll
get an A for the course as well but it’s
really annoying that you always get a
higher score it’s not a contest that’s
easy for you to say you’re always doing
better than me but you always do well
it’s not fair no matter how hard or long
I study I can never do better than you
we’re friends we shouldn’t be competing
against each other we should be helping
each other you just don’t know how I
feel because you aren’t the one who’s
always getting a lower grade it makes me
uncomfortable when you talk like this I
don’t care I want to get a higher score
than you just once I think you’re taking
this too far I’m sorry I guess my Envy
makes me get carried away I don’t think
this type of competition is good for our
friendship maybe you’re right
I shouldn’t be so jealous of you and
should try to enjoy my own
accomplishments maybe we shouldn’t
discuss our scores with each other
anymore
dialogue three
bell would you come wash the dinner
dishes why do I have to do it because I
said so
but Kara doesn’t have to do the chores -
Kara is five years younger than you you
are the oldest and your mother and I
expect you to help out it’s not fair yes
it is when Kara is older then she will
have chores too I just want things to be
more equal how are things on equal for
example on her birthday she received
more presents than I did she may have
gotten more presents but that’s because
the one birthday present you received
was as expensive as all her gifts
combined your mother and I spent just as
much on you as we did her last week
carrots ruined my favorite book and she
didn’t get punished yes she did
she had to go to her room for the rest
of the day with no television if I did
the same to her I would have been
grounded for a week
that’s because she’s too young to really
understand what she has done when she’s
older she’ll get the same kinds of
punishment as you but it’s not fair now
you get to do a lot of things that Kara
doesn’t get to do because you’re older
like what for instance you can go out
with your friends by yourself when
Kara’s with their friends a parent must
always be watching
that’s not a big deal compared to the
fact that Kara gets anything she wants
because she’s the baby do you really
want to be treated exactly like Kara yes
children should be treated equally then
you should start getting ready for bed
soon
but it’s only 7:30 Kara’s bedtime is
8:00 p.m. and you said you want an equal
treatment that’s not what I meant but
you have to understand that you can’t
just take the good things if you ought
to be treated the same then you have to
take the bad with the good
I see your point
I’ll go do the dishes now
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substitutions
one
who was that guy with you who were you
with
tell me about that guy
why were you with him
to
she was good enough to recommend Peter
to me
she was kind enough to recommend Peter
to me
she was considered enough to recommend
Peter to me
she was thoughtful enough to recommend
Peter to me
three
we had a nice conversation
we had a nice chat
we had a nice discussion
we had a nice talk
for
it sounds like you are jealous
it sounds like you’ve been bitten by the
green-eyed monster
it sounds like you were envious
it sounds like you are green with envy
five
because Peter is very handsome and will
be spending lots of time alone together
studying
because Peter is very charming and we
will be spending lots of time alone
together studying
because Peter is very witty and will be
spending lots of time alone together
studying
because Peter is very attractive and
will be spending lots of time alone
together studying
six
not as high as you
lower than that
not as good a grade
I didn’t score as well
seven
but it’s really annoying that you always
get a higher score
but it really gets to me that you always
get a higher score
but it really bothers me that you always
get a higher score
it’s on my nerves that you always get a
higher score
eight
that’s easy for you to say
you don’t have to worry
it’s no skin off your nose
your problem
9
I guess my Envy makes me get carried
away
I guess my Envy makes me take things too
far
I guess my Envy makes me go overboard
I guess my Envy makes me go off the deep
end
ten
I shouldn’t be so jealous of you and
should try to enjoy my own
accomplishments
I shouldn’t be so jealous of you and
should try to bask in my own glory
I shouldn’t be so jealous of you and
should try to appreciate what I have
I shouldn’t be so jealous of you and
should try to take pleasure in my own
achievements
eleven
kara is five years younger than you
you are five years older than Kara
you are more mature
kara is five years your junior
12
she may have gotten more presents but
that’s because the one birthday present
you received was as expensive as all her
gifts combined
she may have gotten more presents but
that’s because the one birthday present
you received was as expensive as all her
gifts put together
may have gotten more presents but that’s
because the one birthday present you
received was as expensive as all her
gifts added up
she may have gotten more presents but
that’s because the one birthday present
you received was as expensive as all her
gifts taken as a whole
thirteen
last week Kara drew in my favorite book
and she didn’t get punished
last week carrot or my favorite shirt
and she didn’t get punished
last week Kara broke my favorite doll
and she didn’t get punished
last week Kara got my favorite dress
dirty and she didn’t get punished
14
for instance you can go out with your
friends by yourself
for instance you can go out with your
friends without supervision
for instance you can go out with your
friends without a chaperone
for instance you can go out with your
friends without an adult
fifteen
that’s not what I meant
that’s not what I intended
that’s not what I wanted
that’s not what I saw it after
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mom log
sibling rivalry is a common occurrence
in families America has a history of
wanting everyone to be treated equally
and this has extended to family life
when colonists left England for a new
home in America they wanted some
traditions to change in England legally
only the firstborn son would inherit the
family property America passed a law
that got rid of this law and stated that
all children could inherit from this
ideal and others of equality Americans
usually believed that all children
should be loved and treated in the same
way favoritism by parents can lead to
emotional problems and their children
once they grow up something that is
commonly talked about in America is
middle child syndrome this is when a
child who is neither the oldest nor the
youngest doesn’t feel special the oldest
and youngest are usually seen as
receiving special privileges that middle
children don’t get this can make them
feel very insecure or very sensitive to
the littlest of slights when they become
adults
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flattery
basic patterns
you haven’t aged one bit
that dress looks marvelous on you
don’t try to impress me with flattery
fooled by your false compliments
you played that piece wonderfully
you sing like an angel
he’s the best ball player I have ever
seen
you are our most valuable worker
we are very impressed with your work
you have the best yard in the
neighborhood
you are just the person I was hoping to
run into
because your smile brightens up my day
can’t I just enjoy your company
I really like that dress you are wearing
I just wanted to let you know how well I
think you are running the office
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you
dialogue 1
dream you are just the person I was
hoping to run into oh why is that
because your smile brightens up my day
is that all isn’t there another reason
can’t I just enjoy your company I guess
so I really like that dress you’re
wearing I think it suits you well
that is nice of you to say so
is it new no I’ve had it for many years
you’ve seen me wear it lots of times oh
that’s right
have you done something new with your
hair no it’s the same as it has always
been I just think it looks especially
good today
why are you flattering me so much today
I’m just trying to be nice to you
I’m still a little suspicious do you
want something well I was going to ask
you if you have an extra ticket to the
concert yes I do I was wondering if you
have found someone who wants to go not
yet would you like to go yes I would
all you had to do is ask you didn’t have
to try to butter me up first
I want to
good morning mr. Addison good morning
Diana how are you doing today I am very
well and you I’m doing fine thank you
for asking is there something that you
wanted to discuss with me nothing in
particular
I just wanted to let you know how well I
think you are running the office thank
you for the compliment since you’ve
taken over I think that the entire
office is working more efficiently and
effectively that’s nice of you to say
our old manager didn’t do half as good a
job as you well that is one of the
reasons he had to be replaced the
president of the company felt that he
was not working very hard I can tell
that you are a hard worker
I try to be I’ve noticed that you are
always working late into the night
it shows how dedicated you are to making
sure the company succeeds it is good of
you to notice I believe that not enough
people are aware of all that you do
around the office employees like you
that take the time to let me know how
I’m appreciated make up for that is
there anything else you want to talk
about I’ve heard that someone in the
office might be promoted is that true
yes management is looking to advance
someone in the office who deserves it
who will pick the person to get promoted
the president has left the decision up
to me that’s wonderful have you made a
decision yet not yet but I’ll let
everyone know by the end of this week I
hope that you will keep me in mind I
definitely will thank you sir have a
nice afternoon
three
you look absolutely wonderful thank you
so much you must have taken a long time
to get ready for the prom I spent all
day getting ready that dress is lovely
did it take you a long time to pick it
out it took me ages I wanted to make
sure that it was the perfect dress so I
took my time and didn’t just buy the
first dress I saw I think you chose
wisely
the color suits you this shade of green
is my favorite color I’ve always thought
that green goes well with your shade of
red hair I’ve always been jealous of
your hair it’s so long and curly but
I’ve always liked your hair it’s so
smooth and straight thanks for saying
that did you go to the hairdresser to
fix your hair yes do you like it I do
I think wearing your hair up is very
chic I thought so too
I saw this hairstyle in a magazine on a
movie star I liked it so much that I
took the picture into the hairdresser
and had her copy it I think it turned
out well who did your makeup my older
sister
she did a very good job I think it looks
natural
I’m not overdone like a lot of girls I
see I hate it when girls wear too much
makeup it makes them look like clowns
anyway I hope you have fun at the prom
you too
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substitutions
one
because your smile brightens up my day
because your smile makes me happy
because your smile makes my day
because your smile always cheers me up
can’t I just enjoy your company
I just like being around you
your presence is enough
I don’t need another reason other than I
enjoy your company
three
I think it suits you well
I think it matches your personality
I think it goes well with your hair
I think it fits you
for
that is nice of you to say so
thank you for saying so
it’s nice of you to tell me
I appreciate the compliment
five
have you done something new with your
hair
you change your hairstyle
have you cut your hair
is that a new hairstyle
six
all you had to do was ask
you only had to be straightforward
you should have just gotten directly to
the point
you didn’t have to beat around the bush
seven
you didn’t have to try to butter me up
first
you didn’t have to try to flatter me
first
you didn’t have to try to compliment me
first
you didn’t have to try to say nice
things about me first
eight
nothing in particular
nothing specific
I didn’t have anything in mind
I don’t have anything concrete to
discuss
9
since you’ve taken over I think that the
entire office is working more
efficiently and effectively
since you’ve taken charge I think that
the entire office is working more
efficiently and effectively
since you’ve taken leadership I think
that the entire office is working more
efficiently and effectively
you’ve taken the reins I think that the
entire office is working more
efficiently and effectively
ten
it is good of you to notice
it is good of you to say something
it is good of you to point it out
it is good of you to let me know you are
aware of it
eleven
is that true
can you confirm that
is there truth to the rumor
is that right
12
I spent all day getting ready
I spent all day preparing
I spent all day dressing up
I spent all day trying to look my best
thirteen
that dress is lovely
that hairstyle is lovely
that outfit is lovely
that blouse is lovely
14
it’s so long and curly
it’s so short and smooth
it’s so thick and wavy
it’s so shiny and neat
fifteen
I think it turned out well
I think she did a good job
I think she copied it perfectly
I think it looks exactly like the
picture
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mom log
flattery is often very nice to hear but
at times it is not welcomed genuine
compliments are always appreciated
genuine compliments are ones that a
person truly means these comments should
be expressed but not too excessively
excessive flattery tends to make
Americans suspicious that the person
giving the compliments is either
insincere or wants something it is
enough to say that someone looks
beautiful just once if you are gushing
or overflowing with praise it tends to
make you appear as if your comments
don’t mean much because you are quite
free with them for instance if you
constantly say everything is lovely and
people might not believe that you feel
that they are especially lovely if that
is a common phrase for you
compliments given to the opposite sex
should also be in moderation if you are
a man and would like to compliment that
your friends date looks very attractive
you can say this once or twice anymore
would probably offend your friend
because it would feel like you were
paying too much attention to his
companion finally compliments should be
given without any expectation of
something in return
numerous admiring comments to an
employer would not be appreciated
because it would look like you were
kissing up to him or her kissing up is
when someone gives false praise to
another in order to get something this
is a quality much detested by Americans
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you
shame
basic patterns
you should be ashamed of yourself
his behavior was shameful
he has disgraced his entire family
she is a disgrace to her country
I feel very ashamed for what I did
apologize for the shame I have brought
on the school
blushed with shame
that man is no shame
he couldn’t hide his embarrassment
his shame was evident to everyone
I lied to my parents and now I feel very
guilty
I feel so ashamed of myself
I can’t believe I fell flat on my face
at the recital
I’m so ashamed and embarrassed
I don’t think I can face my friends and
family
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dialogue 1
hi Sean
Oh Megan why do you look so upset I did
something that I shouldn’t have done
what did you do I lied to my parents and
now I feel very guilty what did you lie
about I told them I was going to the
library to study but in reality I
actually went to the arcade to play
video games it’s not good to lie to your
parents but that doesn’t sound too bad
you don’t understand what don’t I
understand I shouldn’t have gone to the
arcade because they needed my help what
should you have been helping with my dad
needed my help to fix the roof that’s
why I had to lie they would have
insisted that I help if all I wanted to
do was go to the arcade so instead you
told them that you had to go study yes I
told them I had a big test to study for
so I had to go to the library I swore
that there was no other time for me to
go to the library it was just a little
white lie it was more than that my
father broke his arm while trying to fix
the roof by himself oh my god is he okay
he’ll be fine the cast on his arm should
come off in three weeks but I still feel
horrible you shouldn’t be so hard on
yourself you didn’t know what would
happen I still can’t shake the feeling
that I could have prevented his injury
if I was there I feel so ashamed of
myself you should concentrate on helping
around the house now
your guilt can’t change the past
log2
I can’t believe I fell flat on my face
at the recital it wasn’t that bad yes it
was
I completely forgot the piece I was
playing I didn’t even finish everyone
makes mistakes I should have been better
I’m sure you did the best you could but
I didn’t what do you mean I should have
practiced the piano more but your piano
teacher said that you’ve been practicing
an hour every day that’s more than
enough I know that’s what I told him but
it’s not the truth why did you lie to
him I haven’t been practicing but I
didn’t want to get into trouble so I
lied and said that I practiced every day
what have you been doing instead I’ve
just been fooling around and I guess you
have no one to blame but yourself I know
I’m so ashamed and embarrassed my
grandparents made a special trip here to
see me play the piano did they have to
travel far three hours by train that is
a long way to come they were expecting
to be so proud of me I’m sure that I’ve
let them down I’m certain that it
doesn’t matter to them I don’t think I
can face my friends and family I’m so
humiliated
you can’t hide all night so you might as
well get it over with
log3
what’s up Ted I’m not feeling so hot
what’s wrong
done something that I’m not very proud
of what did you do I stole something I
can’t believe you would do something
like that I know I’m pretty ashamed of
myself what did you steal a comic book
from the book store what came over you I
don’t know I just really wanted the
comic book that is so unlike you this is
not my proudest moment did you get
caught no the manager was busy with
another customer so I got away with it I
think that you should return it and
apologize but I will get into trouble
my parents will be furious I still think
you should the comic book isn’t worth
much the bookstore will probably never
miss it what about your conscience so
I’m feeling a little guilty I’ll get
over it I don’t think you will your
conscience will eat at you until you
finally make amends you’re probably
right if I turn myself in maybe they’ll
go easy on me
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substitutions
one
I lied to my parents and now I feel very
guilt
I lied to my parents and now I feel very
sorry
I lied to my parents and now I feel very
remorseful
I lied to my parents and now I feel very
repentant
to
I told them I was going to the library
to study but in reality I actually went
to the arcade to play video games
I told them I was going to the library
to study but in truth I actually went to
the arcade to play video games
I told them I was going to the library
to study but actually I went to the
arcade to play video games
I told them I was going to the library
to study but in fact I actually went to
the arcade to play video games
three
I swore that there was no other time for
me to go to the library
I maintained that there was no other
time for me to go to the library
I insisted that there was no other time
for me to go to the library
I claimed that there was no other time
for me to go to the library
for
it was just a little white lie
it was just a tiny untruth
it was just a fib
who assists a trivial falsehood
five
you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself
you shouldn’t blame yourself
you shouldn’t punish yourself
you shouldn’t condemn yourself
six
I can’t believe I fell flat on my face
at the recital
I can’t believe I failed at the recital
I can’t believe I embarrassed myself at
the recital
I can’t believe I bombed at the recital
seven
everyone makes mistakes
no one is perfect
we all slip up sometimes
we’re only human
eight
I should have practiced the piano more
I should have practiced the violin more
practiced the cello more
I should have practiced the trumpet more
9
I’ve just been fooling around
I’ve just been goofing off
I’ve just been playing around
I’ve just been messing about
ten
I don’t think I can face my friends and
family
I don’t think I can meet the eyes of my
friends and family
I don’t think I can confront my friends
and family
I don’t think I can cope with my friends
and family
eleven
I’ve done something that I’m not very
proud of
I’ve done something that I am ashamed of
I’ve done something that I can’t face
I’ve done something that I can’t live up
to
12
I stole some to me
I shop lifted
I committed a crime
thirteen
what came over you
what possessed you to do such a thing
how do you excuse this
what can you say to explain your actions
14
that is so unlike you
that is so out of character for you
that is not like you
that is not how you normally behave
fifteen
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mom log
guilt and shame can be very powerful
emotions they prevent people from acting
in socially unacceptable ways
this can especially be seen when people
confess even though they have no chance
of being caught Americans sometimes call
this their conscience kicking in a
conscience is the part of a person’s
mind that can tell the difference
between right and wrong sometimes people
don’t always listen to their conscience
because of other factors like extreme
desire for something one cannot afford
they may be able to get away with their
offense without being caught
however they cannot escape their
conscience once when he was eight years
old he stole some candy from a local
store no one saw him and he got away
with his crime completely however the
values taught to him by his parents
wouldn’t let him eat the candy he felt
so guilty that he took something that
didn’t belong to him that he returned
the candy to the store a week later and
apologized no person made him do this it
was simply his conscience reminding him
of his shame
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ridicule
basic patterns
he’s always making mistakes
does she always dress that badly
you are such an idiot
what you are saying is ridiculous
his argument is nonsense
he is an awful actor
that is the most stupid thing I have
ever heard
he is the worst worker here
this poem is awful
your music is hurting my ears
then why was everyone laughing at me
they were having fun at my expense
I don’t like the embarrassment
then that’s too bad because I’m never
going to put myself through that ordeal
again
last week I did something really dumb
and everyone laughed
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dialogue 1
I can’t believe I did so badly wasn’t
that bad yes it was everyone was
laughing at me people can be stupid
forget them
I’m just so embarrassed I’ll never do it
again
it’s just for fun when people do karaoke
no one expects a professional but I
wasn’t even passably good you were fine
I could make a screeching cat sound good
you’re being too dramatic then why was
everyone laughing at me they weren’t all
laughing at you they were laughing
because they were having fun they were
having fun at my expense I think you’re
wrong well I don’t care I’m still never
going to sing in public again the only
important thing is to have fun when
doing karaoke I don’t like the
embarrassment next time I’ll just watch
from the audience but it’s more fun to
participate you’re going to miss out
then that’s too bad because I’m never
going to put myself through that ordeal
again I think you’ll regret it
dialogue to
how was class today terrible I never
want to go back what happened that was
so bad
the whole class laughed at me I can’t
stand them why did they laugh the
teacher called on me to answer a
question but I didn’t know the answer so
they laughed at you for that
no I didn’t know the answer but the
teacher insisted that I tried to give an
answer so I guessed I ended up giving
the wrong answer
the class was wrong to laugh did their
teacher make them stop yes but after the
class they still made fun of me they all
said it was an easy question and only
someone who was would get it
wrong what was the question she asked me
what is the capital of our state what
did you say
said the capital was Baltimore that’s a
good guess since it is the largest city
in Maryland the class didn’t think it
was a good guess everyone thought I was
stupid because I didn’t know that the
capital of Maryland is Annapolis they
said everyone should know the capital of
their own state well now you know I wish
I knew before now everyone calls me
dummy don’t worry about it now I’ll
forget by the time you go back to school
tomorrow I hope so
dialogue three
are you going to tonight’s volleyball
game no I’ve decided not to play anymore
why not I’d rather not say come on I’m
your best friend okay but only because
we’re best friends
so go on last week I did something
really dumb and everyone laughed the
people watching the other team and even
my own team went into hysterics oh those
things happen you can’t take it to heart
I do don’t be so sensitive you weren’t
there so you don’t know try to explain
it to me
well I went to make a shot but instead I
hit the ball backwards off the court
that could happen to anyone
but then the ball smashed into a window
in the gym and broke it you must admit
that is kind of funny no it’s not I
turned beet red have a sense of humor I
don’t think I can get over it
the first step to overcoming your
embarrassment is to come play again I’ll
consider it
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you
stations
one
everyone was laughing at me
everyone was making fun of me
everyone was ridiculing me
everyone was mocking me
to
people can be stupid
people can be insensitive
people can be thoughtless
people can be inconsiderate
three
I could make a screeching cat sound good
I can make a howling dog sound good
I could make a screaming child sound
good
I could make nail scraping a chalkboard
sound good
for
I’m still never going to sing in public
again
I’m still never going to sing on stage
again
I’m still never going to sing in front
of people again
I’m still never going to sing for a
crowd again
five
you are going to miss out
you are not going to have fun in life
that way
you are not going to live life to the
fullest
you are not going to experience all you
can
six
I never want to go back
I can’t show my face there
I can’t face those people
through that again
seven
no I didn’t know the answer but the
teacher insisted that I try to give an
answer so I guessed
no I didn’t know the answer but the
teacher insisted that I try to give an
answer so I took a long shot
the answer but the teacher insisted that
I try to give an answer so I made a wild
guess
no I didn’t know the answer but the
teacher insisted that I try to give an
answer so I made an attempt
eight
they all said it was an easy question
and only someone who is would
get it wrong
they all said it was an easy question
not only someone who was slow would get
it wrong
they all said it was an easy question
and only someone who was an imbecile
would get it wrong
they all said it was an easy question
and only someone who was an idiot would
get it wrong
9
they’ll all forget by the time you go
back to school tomorrow
they’ll all move on to something else by
the time you go back to school tomorrow
they all won’t even remember what
happened by the time you go back to
school tomorrow
they’ll all be laughing at someone
else’s mistake by the time you go back
to school tomorrow
ten
I’d rather not say
I don’t want to discuss it
I don’t want to talk about it
it’s not up for discussion
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mom log
Americans appreciate those who can let
ridicule slide off their backs the idiom
slide off their back means that it
doesn’t let something affect or bother
them no one likes being made fun of but
people who react very badly to it such
as storming off or crying tend to lose
respect in the eyes of many Americans
according to ideal stereotypes that many
Americans have the but or victim of the
laughter should either pretend not to
care or be able to find the humor in the
situation and fall down laughing with
everyone else
for instance April first is April Fool’s
Day in the u.s. people usually play
funny pranks on others on this day this
is considered to be fun unless the joke
or prank causes harm or is done with
malice people expect the target of the
joke
to be able to laugh at himself or
herself those that cannot are judged to
have a poor sense of humor and an
inability to have fun
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you
unforgettable experiences
basic patterns
the president swimming with dolphins was
unforgettable
I almost drowned when I was a boy
last year I went to the Great Wall
I’ll never forget the day I met my
husband
this is the most memorable day of my
life
you only graduate from college once
Esther is a truly unforgettable person
how can I forget the day my child was
born
I can’t forget how much you have done
for me
the one thing that I will never forget
is swimming with the dolphins
it was an unbelievable experience
I made sure that I took lots of pictures
so I can always remember my trip
I wanted to capture every last detail
I want to be able to share this
memorable experience with everyone I
care about
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dialogue 1
what did you do over vacation I went to
New Zealand for the holiday Wow
I wish I had gone there you should go
sometime because it’s a lovely country
what is it like the country is made up
of two islands it’s very lush and green
because it rains a lot there what did
you do while you were there I did a lot
of different things
too many to explain what was your
favorite the one thing that I will never
forget is swimming with the dolphins
that sounds really interesting how did
you do it first you have to put on a
wetsuit because the water is rather
chilly then you get into a very large
pool where you can swim with the
dolphins was it expensive a little steep
but worth every penny
is it very dangerous no the dolphins are
very gentle did you know scientists
believe they are smarter than dogs I
wasn’t aware of that you mean that you
can actually swim with them without
anything between you and them nothing
between us at all I even got to touch
the Dolphins what was it like
at first I was only brave enough to pet
them with my hand but then I got braver
and held on to ones fin while it took me
for a swim you actually held on to the
dolphin while it was swimming yeah so we
moved very quickly and gracefully
through the water it was unforgettable I
can’t even imagine how that would feel
you really had to be there
I want to
where did you go on your lunch break I
went to pick up my film may I see your
pictures sure what are they of white
ripped Pompeii ooh when did you go
this past summer did you enjoy it it was
an unbelievable experience tell me about
it Pompeii is an ancient city in Italy
that was buried by volcanic ash when the
local volcano Mountain Vesuvius erupted
why is it so amazing lots of cities have
been destroyed by volcanoes this city is
so amazing because the ash from the
volcano perfectly preserved everything
in the town even the people who died
even the people it has allowed
archeologists to study how the people
live back then they have carefully
uncovered the city for study
it sounds like an important discovery it
is because the people were completely
surprised by the volcano they were
trapped doing everyday things such as
cooking and selling goods in the market
it is not often that archaeologists can
study the lives of the common people why
is that usually nothing survives from
them because only the objects and
writings of the rich and powerful are
studied in preserve this all sounds
fascinating I made sure that I took lots
of pictures so I can always remember my
trip how many rules did you take ten oh
that’s a lot like I said I wanted to
capture every last detail
log3
are you up to anything no why want to
run some errands with me sure what do
you need to do first I need to make sure
to pick up my dry-cleaning why is it so
important because it’s the dress I want
to wear to graduation oh then we need to
make certain we get that done also I
have to go to the mall what do you have
to pick up at the mall I need to buy a
camera don’t you have a camera
no I recently lost it do you think it
will be very expensive yes because I
want to buy a new digital camera not
just a regular 35 millimeter one why
spend so much extra money I want to be
able to send pictures of my graduation
to my entire family why not just mail
them pictures if I mail them photos I
have to go to the extra trouble of
making duplicate copies buying stamps
and addressing envelopes I’m too lazy to
do all that what’s easier with a digital
camera a digital camera will let me just
email photos to all my friends and
family it’s much easier to send emails
than the other way it does sound more
convenient also some of my loved ones
live very far away and postage could be
very expensive
I guess the digital cameras are good bye
I want to be able to share this
memorable experience with everyone I
care about
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you
stations
one
I wish I had gone there
I’ve always wanted to go there
it’s on my list of places to visit
I really want to see it
to
what did you do while you were there
what activities did you do
you spend your time
how did you pass the time
three
I wasn’t aware of that I didn’t know
that that’s news to me
the first time I’ve heard of that
for
I can’t even imagine how that would feel
I can’t even put myself in your place
I can’t even think about doing the same
thing you did
I can’t even picture myself doing that
five
you really had to be there
you have to experience it yourself
you have to do it firsthand to
understand
words can’t express the feeling
six
why is it so amazing
why is it so unique
why is it so exceptional
why is it so special
seven
this city is so amazing because the ash
from the volcano perfectly preserved
everything in the town
this city is so amazing because the ash
from the volcano saved everything in the
town
this city is so amazing because the ash
from the volcano kept intact everything
in the town
this city is so amazing because the ash
from volcano prevented the deterioration
of everything in the town
eight
it has allowed archeologists to study
how the people lived back then
it has allowed archeologists to study
how the people lived in that period
it has allowed archeologists to study
how the people lived during that age
it has allowed archeologists to study
how the people lived long ago
9
it sounds like an important discovery
it sounds like an historic discovery
it sounds like a landmark discovery
it sounds like a groundbreaking
discovery
ten
I wanted to capture every last detail
I don’t want to forget anything
I want to remember every moment
I want to document everything
eleven
oh then we need to make certain we get
that done
oh then we need to make certain we cross
that off our list
oh then we need to make certain we
accomplished that task
oh then we need to make certain we make
that a top priority
12
what do you have to pick up at the mall
what do you have to buy at the mall
what you have to find at the mall
what do you have to get your hands on at
the mall
thirteen
no I recently lost it
No it recently vanished
no it is nowhere to be found
No I misplaced it
14
it does sound more convenient
it sounds like it will come in handy
it will make things easier
it sounds like a practical purchase
fifteen
I want to be able to share this
memorable experience with everyone I
care about
I want to be able to share this landmark
moment with everyone I care about
I want to be able to share this
milestone in my life with everyone I
care about
want to be able to share this
significant event with everyone I care
about
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you
monologue
the dolphin is a favorite animal among
most Americans their intelligence and
charm have captured the hearts of many
people who flocked to zoos and aquariums
that have them places like SeaWorld a
popular Florida attraction that
specializes in marine animals make a
fortune off people’s love of dolphins
their high intelligence can easily be
seen in all the tricks they can learn to
perform scientists even believe that
dolphins have a highly developed system
of communication not yet fully
understood by humans they are seen as
kind and gentle animals because there
are many tales of dolphins saving
sailors lost at sea in spite of these
wonderful characteristics not everyone
appreciates dolphins fishermen are in
direct competition with dolphins for
fish especially tuna every year
dolphins are killed in tuna Nets
nevertheless this animals popularity can
be seen by people who insist on buying
dolphin-safe tuna tuna fish that is
caught without any harm to dolphins and
the growing number of attractions
featuring them especially ones that
allow people to swim with them
[Music]
sweet memories
basic patterns
do you remember how the flowers used to
smell in our farm
you are wearing the blue dress on our
first date
I loved to sit under that oak tree as a
child
some of my best memories are from
college
pictures bring back some great memories
fresh grass always reminds me of
childhood summers
I Love New York in the summer
I can’t forget the way her hair smelled
that reminds me of my first dog
I still like thinking about my first
girlfriend
pictures are nice but I don’t need any
reminders for such a milestone in our
lives
there have been many other moments since
we’ve become parents that I will
remember just as much
it’s a very significant moment in your
life
best memories I have of him was when I
first got him
[Music]
dialogue 1
can you believe that Kathy is almost 5
years old it seems like just yesterday
that we brought her home from the
hospital do you remember the night she
was born of course how could I forget
who we were so nervous that night we had
good reason there was so much traffic
that I didn’t think we’d make it to the
hospital on time
I must admit that I was worried that I
might have the baby in the car on the
way we made it in the nick of time even
though it was stressful then it’s good
we can laugh about it now looking back
on it I can see the humor but at the
moment I couldn’t imagine ever finding
it funny but having a baby to bring home
made it all worth it it was really good
of our families to welcome us home when
we brought Cassie home from the hospital
I was so happy to see our loved ones
waiting with balloons and presents for
Cassie I remember that everyone took so
many pictures that day
it was very nice of your mother to put
some of those pictures together in an
album did you save it of course I did
I want Cassie to have a keepsake of her
first day at home I’ve put it in a safe
place until she’s old enough to
appreciate it pictures are nice but I
don’t need any reminders for such a
milestone in our lives yes there are
just some things that people will always
hold dear there have been many other
moments since we become parents that I
will remember just as much and there are
sure to be more to come
dialogue to
I hear that you have an anniversary
coming up that’s right at the end of the
month how long have you been married
five years did you know each other long
before he got married we dated a little
over two years before we got married
how did you do me we met in college I’ll
never forget the day we met I don’t
doubt that it’s a very significant
moment in your life give me some details
I was a junior in college and we had
just begun the new school year when I
ran into him what exactly brought you
together
well I was sitting under a tree reading
a book when a guy came up and asked me
where the library was located and that
guy is now your husband you guessed
right he came up and explained to me
that he was a new transfer student and
he didn’t know his way around the campus
what happened next
I offered to show him where the library
was and he took me to lunch as a way to
say thank you that is such a sweet story
later he confessed to me that he really
did know where the library was but he
just use that as an excuse to introduce
himself to me he said that he saw me
under the tree and just had to meet me
so was love at first sight for him
that’s what he says
you must never get tired of telling that
story because it’s so wonderful I tell
it as often as I get a chance to because
I love it so much
dialogue three
isn’t this a cute picture of a puppy yes
it is he reminds me of my first dog what
was his name
Gus why does this picture remind you of
him
puppy in the photo looks a bit like him
what happened to gas
he died oh I’m very sorry it’s alright
it happened many years ago I’m sure you
have many good memories of him I do we
used to do everything together tell me
some stories about him one of the best
memories I have of him was when I first
got him how did you get him I was 10 and
had been pestering my parents for a dog
for a year
why wouldn’t they get you a dog they
told me I was too young to take care of
a puppy what made them change their
minds maybe because I’d gotten older or
they couldn’t resist how much I wanted a
puppy I’m not sure how did they give him
to you one day I came home from school
my parents said they had a surprise for
me and it was waiting for me in my room
what did you do then I ran up the stairs
to my room and threw open the door what
did you find it was a tiny puppy with a
big red bow around his neck at the foot
of my bed how cute what was he doing
actually nothing he was fast asleep
for the rest of his life he slept on the
exact same spot at the end of my bed
every night that’s a great childhood
memory
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substitutions
one
of course how could I forget
course it’s burned in my memory
of course it was a memorable experience
of course it can’t be wiped from my mind
to
we made it in the nick of time
we barely made it
we didn’t leave any time to spare
it was a close call
three
I want Cassie to have a keepsake of her
first day at home
Kassie to have a memento of her first
day at home
Kassie to have a reminder of her first
day at home
Kassie to have a souvenir of her first
day at home
for
I’ve put it in a safe place until she’s
old enough to appreciate it
I have it in safekeeping until she’s old
enough to appreciate it
stored it away until she’s old enough to
appreciate it
I’ve locked it away until she’s old
enough to appreciate it
five
yes there are just some things that
people will always hold dear
yes there are just some things the
people will always keep close to their
heart
yes there are just some things the
people will always treasure
yes there are just some things that
people will always look back on fondly
six
I hear that you have an anniversary
coming up
I hear that you have an anniversary in
the near future
I hear that you have an anniversary in a
little while
I hear that you have an anniversary in
next to no time
seven
we met in college
we met at a restaurant
we met in a bar
we met at work
eight
well I was sitting under a tree reading
a book when a guy came up and asked me
where the library was located
I was sitting under a tree working on a
paper when a guy came up and asked me
where the library was located
well I was sitting under a tree
listening to music when a guy came up
and asked me where the library was
located
well I was sitting under a tree flipping
through a magazine when a guy came up
and asked me where the library was
located
9
you guessed right
you hit the nail on the head
exactly
that’s correct
ten
I tell it as often as I get a chance to
because I love it so much
I tell it as much as I can because I
love it so much
I tell it as many times as people will
let me because I love it so much
I tell it to anyone who will listen
because I love it so much
eleven
what happened to Gus
where’s Gus now
what’s cust doing now
is Gus doing well
12
one of the best memories I have of him
was when I first got him
one of the fondest memories I have of
him was when I first got him
happiest memories I have of him was when
I first got him
one of the most warm-hearted memories I
have of him was when I first got him
thirteen
I was ten and had been pestering my
parents for a dog for years
I was ten and had been nagging my
parents for a dog for years
I was ten I had been begging my parents
for a dog for years
I was ten and had been pleading with my
parents for a dog for years
14
why wouldn’t they get you a dog
why wouldn’t they let you have a dog
why wouldn’t they allow you to keep a
dog
why wouldn’t they give their permission
for you to have a dog
fifteen
they told me I was too young to take
care of a puppy
they told me I was too irresponsible to
take care of a puppy
they told me I was too immature to take
care of a puppy
told me I was too careless to take care
of a puppy
[Music]
monologue
taking pictures is a way to remember
events people places and things is very
common one of the problems with taking
so many pictures is that people tend to
forget the exact details of what is in
the picture in very old pictures there
might not be anyone who remembers why it
was taken or the people event or place
it depicts thus it is best to try to
find a way to record relevant
information that one would want to know
about a picture one way is to write down
a description of the picture a date and
place on the back of each photo another
way is to place the pictures in an
organized album or scrapbook
a very common kind of album that
Americans like to keep is a baby book a
baby book or album records the early
years of a person’s development it is
usually kept by a parent grandparent or
someone else with a very close
relationship to the child
it usually records memorable firsts such
as the first smile first steps first
words and first birthday
it can include pictures and special
mementos like for instance the babies
Hospital ID bracelet
[Music]
memorable people
basic patterns
Jeff was the funniest guy in our class
the whole town thought Jim was a good
mayor
I’m glad to see that you still remember
me
how could I forget my favorite college
professor
alfred was the tallest guy in our school
Hector was the worst employer I ever had
our nation owes a lot to Martin Luther
King jr.
Susan was the prettiest girl in our town
had a beautiful singing voice
he helped many people in his long career
have you kept in touch with many of your
old classmates
there is one person I’m positive I’ll
recognize
nevertheless she is someone I’ll never
forget
this autograph is worth a lot because
he’s such a memorable figure in baseball
and african-american history
his courage won’t be forgotten
[Music]
dialogue 1
I’m so excited why are you so excited
tomorrow is my class reunion your class
reunion for what my high school
graduating class have you kept in touch
with many of your old classmates not
really it’s been very difficult to stay
in touch because I’ve moved around a lot
since graduation that’s a shame how long
has it been since you’ve seen these
people since graduation day and when was
that
ten years ago this is my 10-year class
reunion it’s been a long time do you
think you’ll remember everyone no but
there’s one person I’m positive I’ll
recognize who was that
patrícia why her because she was my best
friend and a big part of my high-school
experience we did everything together
what kinds of things did you do together
we did cheerleading field hockey chorus
and lots of other things sounds like you
were close we were just like sisters why
didn’t you stay friends
the distance between us made it too
difficult she went to college in
California and I went to college in New
York
that’s a shame nevertheless she is
someone I’ll never forget I hope she
will be at the reunion because I’m
really looking forward to seeing her
I ought to
what are you doing Jake
organizing my autograph collection I
didn’t know that you were into
collecting autographs I’ve done it since
I was a kid who do you collect
autographs from lots of different kinds
of people almost anyone who is famous
give me some examples
I’ve autographs from movie stars
television personalities sports stars
and politicians which one’s your
favorite my favorite is an autographed
baseball signed by Jackie Robinson who’s
Jackie Robinson I can’t believe that you
don’t know who Jackie Robinson is he’s
famous I’m sorry but I don’t keep up
with sports Jackie Robinson was the
first black man to play professional
baseball but there are lots of black
baseball players now why couldn’t they
play before because people were very
prejudiced and professional baseball
players had to be white Jackie Robinson
was the first man to challenge that
discrimination he must have been very
courageous he was lots of people hated
him and he even got death threats that’s
amazing now people must really admire
him yes that’s why I was so determined
to get his autograph where do you keep
it
in a locked case to make sure it is safe
this autograph is worth a lot because
he’s such a memorable figure in baseball
and african-american history how could
you afford it I had to save up a lot of
money and also sell off some of my other
autographs but it was worth it because
he’s one of my heroes
dialogue three
would you do me a favor ask away
would you mail a letter for me tomorrow
I’d like to but I can’t why not because
tomorrow is Martin Luther King Junior’s
birthday and all the post offices will
be closed oh I forgot about that I’d be
happy to mail it for you the next day
that’s okay
I’ll be able to do it then Martin Luther
King jr. has always been a hero of mine
me too but I think almost everyone in
the country knows what an important
figure he was yes it took a lot of
courage to be a leader in the civil
rights movement it takes a special kind
of person to stand up for what they
believe in equal rights for everyone
meant a lot to him he was very strong to
stand up against prejudice even though
people threatened both him and his
family did you know that some hateful
people even threatened to kill his
children if he didn’t back down I’ve
heard that I think his greatest
contribution was to advocate peaceful
protests and demonstrations he
maintained that love and respect would
overcome hate and Prejudice he was also
a magnificent speaker everyone said how
powerful his voice was and it could
really move people it was horrible when
he died I can’t believe that someone
could be so full of hate as to shoot him
that was a defining moment in American
history because we lost one of our great
leaders too early I don’t think this
country should ever forget his
contribution his courage won’t be
forgotten that’s why we celebrate his
birthday as a national holiday
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substitutions
have you kept in touch with many of your
old classmates have you kept in contact
with many of your old classmates have
you stayed up-to-date with many of your
old classmates
have you remained friends with many of
your old classmates
to
it’s been very difficult to stay in
touch because I’ve moved around a lot
since graduation it’s been very
difficult to stay in touch because I
don’t know how to contact them
it’s been very difficult to stay in
touch because lots of them have moved
away
it’s been very difficult to stay in
touch because I’ve lost their phone
numbers
three
how long has it been since you’ve seen
these people
when did you last see these people
been long since you saw them
can you recall the last time you saw
them
for
No but there is one person I’m positive
I’ll recognize
No but there is one person I’m positive
I’ll know
No but there is one person I’m positive
I’ll make out
No but there is one person I’m positive
I’ll identify
five
sounds like you were close
sounds like you were devoted to each
other
sounds like you knew each other well
sounds like you couldn’t be separated
six
we were just like sisters we were like
two peas in a pod as close as two people
can be it was like we shared one brain
seven
I didn’t know that you were into
collecting autographs
I didn’t know that you were interested
in collecting autographs I didn’t know
that you were drawn to collecting
autographs I didn’t know that your hobby
was collecting autographs
eight
give me some examples
what for instance
like who
anyone I would know
9
I’m sorry but I don’t keep up with
sports I’m sorry but I don’t know much
about sports
I’m sorry but I don’t read up on sports
I’m sorry but I don’t think much about
sports
ten
Jackie Robinson was the first man to
challenge that discrimination
Jackie Robinson was the first man to
challenge that prejudice
Jackie Robinson was the first man to
challenge that inequality
Jackie Robinson was the first man to
challenge that bigotry
eleven
in a locked case to make sure it is safe
in a locked case to make sure it is
protected
case to make sure it is out of harm’s
reach
in a locked case to make sure it is
beyond danger
12
ask away
feel free
don’t hesitate don’t think twice about
it
thirteen
Martin Luther King jr. has always been a
hero of mine
Martin Luther King jr. has always been
an idol to me
Martin Luther King jr. has always been
someone I respect
Martin Luther King jr. has always been
the man I admire the most
14
it takes a special kind of person to
stand up for what they believe in
it takes a special kind of person to
stand up for their convictions it takes
a special kind of person to stand up for
their principles
special kind of person to stand up for
what they think is right
fifteen
that was a defining moment in American
history because we lost one of our great
leaders too early
that was a defining moment in American
history because we lost one of our great
leaders prematurely
that was a defining moment in American
history because we lost one of our great
leaders before his time
that was a defining moment in American
history because we lost one of our great
leaders when we needed him most
[Music]
monologue
Martin Luther King jr. is a very
important figure in American history in
addition to being a minister he was a
major leader of the civil rights
movement
the civil rights movement was an
organized action by african-americans in
the 1950s and 1960s to petition for
equal rights up until that time
legalized discrimination force them to
go to separate schools from whites and
even made them sit in the back of trains
and buses it was even illegal for blacks
to use the same public restrooms and
water fountains as white people the
civil rights movement sought to change
all this and give blacks equal treatment
under the law
King advocated nonviolent means of
protest against injustice such as
peaceful demonstrations like marches and
sit-ins a sit-in was an organized effort
where blacks would sit in restaurants
that refused to serve black people they
wouldn’t damage anything or attack
anyone they would just peacefully remain
in silent protest King was seen as such
a strong leader that those prejudiced
people who wanted to stop the civil
rights movement targeted him
he received numerous death threats
against himself and his family and the
church he preached at was bombed none of
these things deterred him finally in
1968 King paid the ultimate sacrifice to
his cause when a man assassinated him
for all his efforts and wisdom Americans
celebrate his birthday as a national
holiday to remember the man and all that
he stood for
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ecstatic experiences
basic patterns
I love my new job
surprise birthday party was great
this balloon ride is incredible
our trip to the mountain was amazing
time scuba-diving was unforgettable
tasting this chocolate is pure ecstasy
parachuting gives me an incredible rush
it’s not safe but I love driving fast my
greatest thrill is going on the roller
coaster
I love the way these sheets feel wrapped
around me
I can’t believe this is really happening
you’ll probably feel differently when
some of the excitement has passed I
didn’t think I would get it but I did
I do but right now I’m so excited that
nothing could rain on my parade
why are you so worked up
[Music]
dialogue 1
Kelsey would you go check the mailbox
I’m too nervous too
why because there might be a college
rejection letter but there might also be
a college acceptance letter I suppose
you’re right
Kelsea goes out and comes back in with
the mail is there anything for many
colleges one letter where is it from
Yale
isn’t that your first-choice school yes
why haven’t you opened it too excited
well nothing’s going to get solved by
just standing there and holding it
alright here goes
well what does it say it says I got in
congratulations
I can’t believe this is really happening
I got into my first choice
Kelsey calm down I can’t come down I
have to go tell everyone I guess you
have a right to be excited would you
like to go out to dinner tonight to
celebrate I think I’m too wound up to
eat anything you’ll probably feel
differently when some of the excitement
has passed I have to go call my best
friend
log2
what’s new max I just got some great
news Oh what is it my boss just told me
I got a promotion Wow good for you I
didn’t think I would get it but I did
why didn’t you think you would receive
the promotion because the competition
was fierce many of the other people who
were up for the job had been at the
company much longer than I have your
boss must really think highly of you to
advance you before those others I guess
so
do you think those other people will be
jealous I’m not sure but it doesn’t
matter don’t you care what your
co-workers think I do but right now I’m
so excited that nothing could rain on my
parade does the job have many perks
loads
what
I get a company car an expense account
three weeks paid vacation and a huge
raise that’s a lot to be happy about
it’s almost too much to believe how will
you celebrate
I think I’ll treat myself to a new
stereo I’ve been putting off buying one
because I didn’t think I could afford it
now with my new salary I can easily pay
for it
log three
why are you so worked up
I just got some fantastic news
what is it
you won’t believe this so come on and
tell me already
I just got a new job
that’s not so unbelievable
a new job is in Paris
now that’s something worth cheering
about
I’m so excited right now I can hardly
breathe
take a moment to catch your breath
I just cannot believe this is happening
to me of all people
why is it so hard for you to believe
because I’m such a homebody I’m almost
30 and I’ve never even left my hometown
well Paris is a long way away from here
do you know any French I studied for a
couple years in high school but I’ve
forgotten most of it how will you get by
I should pick up French quickly once I’m
there my French will come back to me
have you told many people yet
nope you’re the first but I want to
shout it from the rooftop next I’m going
to call my parents to break the news to
them do you think they’ll be happy for
you
Bilby said that their son is moving so
far away but they’ll be happy for me
because they know how much this means to
me
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substitutions
one
Kelsey would you go check the mailbox
Kelsey would you see if the mail is here
Kelsey would you find out if the postman
has come by
Kelsey would you see if there’s anything
in the mailbox
to
where is it from who sent it what’s the
return address do you know who it is
from
three
well nothing’s going to get solved by
just standing there and holding it
well nothing’s going to get revealed by
just standing there and holding it well
nothing’s going to get figured out by
just standing there and holding it
well nothing’s going to get answered by
just standing there and holding it
for
well what does it say
well what’s in it well is it good news
well is it bad news
five
you’ll probably feel differently when
some of the excitement has passed
you’ll probably feel differently when
you’ve calmed down
you’ll probably feel differently when
you’ve settled down some
probably feel differently when your
enthusiasm has subsided
six
good for you congratulations well done
nice job
seven
many of the other people who I was
competing against for the job have been
at the company much longer than I have
many of the other people who were also
in the running for the job
have been at the company much longer
than I have
many of the other people who are in
contention for the job have been at the
company much longer than I have
eight
I do but right now I’m so excited that
nothing could rain on my parade
I do but right now I’m so excited that
nothing could bring me down
I do but right now I’m so excited that
nothing could reduce my happiness
I do but right now I’m so excited that
nothing can bring me off my I
9
many perks
job have many benefits
the job have many bonuses
the job have many extras
ten
it’s almost too much to believe
it’s too much for me I can barely
comprehend it all
I can hardly take it all in
eleven
I just got some fantastic news
I just got some tremendous news
just got some excellent news
I just got some marvelous news
12
so come on and tell me already
stop beating around the bush
out with it
get on with it
thirteen
I’m so excited right now I can hardly
breathe
so wound up right now I can hardly
breathe
I’m so keyed up right now I can hardly
breathe
so thrilled right now I can hardly
breathe
14
now that’s something worth cheering
about
that’s something worth being excited
over
now that’s something worth celebrating
now that’s something worth throwing a
party over
fifteen
no you’re the first but I want to shout
it from the rooftops
no you’re the first but I want to tell
the whole world
no you’re the first but I want to tell
anyone who will listen
no you’re the first but I want to share
the news with everyone
[Music]
monologue
Americans have many ways of celebrating
good news for major occasions such as
going away to college or a significant
birthday a party is usually called for
significant birthdays include 16th 18th
21st 40th and 100th the sixteenth is
important because it is usually when
teenagers can go and get their drivers
licenses
the 18th birthday is noteworthy because
one officially becomes a legal adult in
most aspects and can vote in political
elections when someone turns 21 they can
legally buy and drink alcohol the 40th
birthday signifies the move into
middle-age and for many it is considered
the beginning of becoming old the 100th
birthday is obvious since it is quite a
feat to reach that age for other kinds
of events such as a promotion or a
reward for doing a good job on an
assignment maybe a dinner or small gift
is needed these events are usually
personal or work-related and aren’t
generally recognized major milestones
[Music]
you
embarrassing experiences
basic patterns
I can’t believe I said something that’s
stupid at the party I just spilled my
drink
all over my pants
halfway through my speech I forgot the
rest of what I wanted to say
I didn’t notice the stain until I got to
work
he tripped and fell right in front of
the guests
she came to the party in the same dress
as me
my ex-girlfriend told everyone at the
party about me
he was so sick that he vomited right in
the middle of dinner
I just realized that this shirt isn’t
clean
cold Bob what I said about him that has
to be my most embarrassing moment ever
that shouldn’t be enough to cause you to
quit
that is a little embarrassing
still you shouldn’t stop doing something
you liked just because of one incident
I embarrassed myself the entire evening
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dialogue 1
hi Mitch
I meant to ask you earlier how your
speech went
I’d rather not talk about it
that bad worse I’m so sorry
do you mind if I asked what happened
it’s too embarrassing
you can tell me I completely forgot my
speech Oh No
what did you do I stood at the podium
for five minutes trying to remember how
it went but I just couldn’t recall it
didn’t you have any notes no I was so
confident about giving the speech that I
didn’t bother with it he knows did you
manage to somehow finish the speech no
after standing in silence for five
minutes
I just ran off the stage what did
everyone else do
they didn’t know how to react so they
just let the next speaker talk how
embarrassing I don’t think I’ll ever get
over it
in time you will I don’t know about that
that has to be my most embarrassing
moment ever you’ll do better next time I
don’t think there will be a next time
dialogue to
hi Ross
hi Caitlin what are you doing here at
the supermarket I’m just getting some
shopping done why do you ask I just
thought you usually had dance practice
at this time I normally do why don’t you
have dance practice today various dance
practice but I decided not to go why not
I’m not doing dance anymore
but I thought you really enjoyed it I
did but not anymore what made you change
your mind nothing must have been
something it’s not something I like to
talk about it’s okay to tell me if you
must know I screwed up at the last dance
recital that should be enough to cause
you to quit trust me it was what was so
bad in the middle of the recital I lost
my balance and fell over that is a
little embarrassing I also knocked over
the girl dancing beside me oh no it was
awful the entire audience burst out into
hysterics I couldn’t believe I could be
so clumsy
still you shouldn’t stop doing something
you like just because of one incident I
might consider going back
log3
hey John I’ve been trying to catch up
with you why I wanted to know how your
date went that is not a topic that I
want to go over but you were so excited
about it what happened to change that
the entire evening was a disaster it
couldn’t have been that bad I assure you
it was I embarrassed myself the entire
evening what went wrong where do I begin
first there was so much traffic that I
was almost half an hour late that
definitely isn’t fashionably late
she was really understanding about that
so I thought the rest of the evening
would be okay it wasn’t no I decided to
take her to a very expensive restaurant
to make up for my being late that should
have been more than enough to make up
for it it would have been if the dinner
had gone well this doesn’t sound good
during dinner I somehow managed to spill
my wine all over her dress I was such a
klutz
couldn’t you have offered to get it
cleaned it was red wine and that doesn’t
come out
I guess the evening was a disaster
I’m not finished yet what else happened
when I went to pay for the meal I
discovered I didn’t have my wallet what
happened to it
I left it at home how did you pay for
the meal
she had to pay for it I offered to pay
her back but I don’t think she believed
that I would do you think she’ll go out
with you again I didn’t dare ask
you
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substitutions
one
I meant to ask you earlier how your
speech went
I meant to ask you earlier how did you
do on your speech
I meant to ask you earlier did your
speech go well
I meant to ask you earlier did you give
a successful speech
to
that bad
so bad
good
in better
three
do you mind if I ask what happened
would you be offended if I asked what
happened
am i overstepping if I ask what happened
would I upset you if I asked what
happened
for
you can tell me I won’t laugh
don’t worry about telling me it will
just be between us
five
no I was so confident about giving the
speech that I didn’t bother with any
notes
no I was so confident about giving the
speech but I didn’t bother writing
anything down no I was so confident
about giving the speech that I didn’t
bother bringing any cue cards no I was
so confident about giving the speech but
I didn’t bother taking anything to
remind me
six
that has to be my most embarrassing
moment ever that has to be the most
embarrassing moment of my life
has to be the most embarrassing thing
I’ve ever done
that has to be the most embarrassing
moment I can remember
seven
what are you doing here at the
supermarket
what are you doing here at the mall what
are you doing here at the drugstore
what are you doing here at the bookstore
eight
I normally do I usually do
I typically do I generally do
9 what made you change your mind what
turned your opinion what made such a
drastic change what made you do a 180
ten
it’s not something I like to talk about
it’s not something I like to tell people
not something I like to share with
others
not something I want everyone to know
eleven
in the middle of the recital I lost my
balance and fell over
in the middle of the program I lost my
balance and fell over
in the middle of the show I lost my
balance and fell over
in the middle of the performance I lost
my balance and fell over
12
I’ve been trying to catch up with you
I’ve been looking all over the place for
you
I’ve been looking everywhere for you
I’ve been searching high and low for you
thirteen
she was really understanding about that
so I thought the rest of the evening
would be okay
she was really understanding about that
so I thought the rest of the evening
would turn out fine
she was really understanding about that
so I thought the rest of the evening
would be better
she was really understanding about that
so I thought the rest of the evening
would be uphill from there
14
I was such a klutz I was so clumsy I was
so awkward I was anything but graceful
fifteen
when I went to pay for the meal I
discovered I didn’t have my wallet
the check I discovered I didn’t have my
wallet
when I went to get the bill I discovered
I didn’t have my wallet
when I went to pick up the tab I
discovered I didn’t have my wallet
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monologue
many Americans will say that one of
their greatest fears is public speaking
they fear that they will make a fool of
themselves this fear can lead them to
either completely avoid public speaking
or enduring extreme anxiety when they
are forced into it some people even have
unpleasant dreams about the many
different ways they could embarrass
themselves while giving a speech a
common one is entirely forgetting what
one wants to say this anxiety can cause
physical symptoms that can vary in
intensity from sweaty palms to
full-blown anxiety attacks where a
person cannot breathe
the best way to make sure that you don’t
embarrass yourself while giving a public
address is to prepare have notes to
refer to if you forget a word it is
important not to read directly from them
because I contact with the audience is
vital in order to establish a connection
with them next as the saying goes
practice makes perfect
the more you are familiar with a speech
the more comfortable you are in saying
and remembering the words finally
staying calm is vital to speaking slowly
and clearly the more nervous a person is
the faster he or she usually speaks