you have to practice who you want to be
you know you don't wake up one morning
and you're suddenly who you think you
want to be you have to put some energy
into it so if you want to be an honest
person you have to be an honest person
every day
even starting at three and four and five
right if you're going to be a hard
worker hard work doesn't just appear you
have to practice hard work you have to
practice effort and i also encourage
them try to help them understand that
good things don't come easy
you know with that effort you know
that's where you grow that's where
growth some of the best times in my life
when i've grown it's when i've done
something hard
when i've overcome a fear
you don't realize that when you're doing
it but when you come out
on the other side you realize wow i've
really
stepped up so i push my girls but more
importantly i love them a lot and that's
what i feel for all of you
i want you guys to
feel that in your lives so that you can
be excellent
because other people told me that i
might not be able to
to do well in school
for whatever reason i was always a good
student i worked hard but i thought
there was some magic
that happened
that made you really you know i didn't
know that it was just plain old hard
work
so there were periods of doubt for sure
i think we all i have doubts today
doubts don't go away
you just learn how to
deal with them you you start knowing
yourself and you become more confident
the more successes you have the more
chances you take
you don't let the the failures or the
stumbles define you
you know everybody falls every now and
then some people fall a lot
and what i realized is that we have long
lives if we're healthy and we do what
we're supposed to do
i'm 47 years old
so think about it whatever mistake i
made when i was 13 who cares
so think about life as a long trajectory
but at the same time
you don't want to make huge mistakes
because when you're young
making big big mistakes can last forever
right so you want to choose wisely
but the stumbles the lessons learned
that's part of life that that makes you
grow but i i came to know that i didn't
know that when i was your age i thought
every every mistake was the end of the
world
i'll never be able i'll never get into
school i'll never be you know of course
we all feel that way
um but just continue to work put the put
the effort in and i think
that has been
some of what's helped me being first
lady
first of all is knowing who you are and
being confident in yourself because
there'll be
clarissa what do you say pushing beyond
other people's labels of you
right that's a big part that's what we
do to each other all the time we don't
even know each other and we already
determined from one glance meeting one
line one word one phrase this is who you
are
so you have to know who you are
before that
and you and you live that reality and
you keep living it out no matter what
and if you're a good have good character
and and good intentions
that that ultimately shines through but
in the end it's hard work
and
i like to work hard and i like to do
good things
and you practice that now
and believe it or not i didn't know it
it prepared me to be the first lady of
united states i didn't know i guess i'm
doing okay but you know what
every day we just get up
and keep doing what we think is the
right thing
read
write
read read if the president were here
one of his greatest
strengths is reading
that's one of the reasons why he's a
good communicator why he's such a good
writer he's a voracious reader so we're
trying to get our girls no matter what
to just be
to love reading and to challenge
themselves with what they read not just
read the gossip books but push
themselves beyond and do things that
maybe they wouldn't do so i would
encourage you all to
to read read read just keep reading and
writing is another skill it's practice
it's practice the more you write the
better you get drafts
our kids are learning the first draft
means nothing you're gonna do seven ten
drafts that's writing it's not failure
it's not
not the teacher not liking you because
it's all marked up and read
when you get to be a good writer you
mark your own stuff in red
and you rewrite and you rewrite and you
rewrite that's what writing is
and if you come out with those skills
and then you're confident and you can
articulate and you can stand up straight
and look anybody in the eye and say this
is who i am it's a pleasure to meet you
that's one of the things we try to do
with our mentoring program with young
girls
my message to them is if you can walk
into the white house
and meet the first lady and say my name
is how are you and look me in the eye
then there's nothing you can't do that's
why it's important if you guys walked
here
are sitting here in front of all these
people
standing tall asking questions using
your voice
you have to practice that
these arenas just show up again and
again and then you just get used to it
the nerves go away and you start
relaxing into your own abilities
but it's practice
when you are struggling
and you start thinking about giving up
i want you to remember something that my
husband and i have talked about since we
first started this journey nearly a
decade ago
something that has carried us through
every moment
in this white house in every moment of
our lives
and that is the power of hope
the belief that something better
is always possible if you're willing to
work for it and fight for it
it is our fundamental belief in the
power of hope that has allowed us to
rise above the voices of doubt and
division
of anger and fear that we have faced in
our own lives and in the life of this
country
our hope that if we work hard enough and
believe in ourselves
then we can be whatever we dream
regardless of the limitations that
others may place on us
the hope that when people see us for who
we truly are
maybe just maybe
they too will be inspired
to rise to their best possible selves
shoot it's the hope of my
folks like my dad
got up every day
do his job at the city water plant
the hope that one day his kids
would go to college
and have opportunities he never dreamed
of
that's the kind of hope
that every single one of us
politicians
parents preachers all of us
need to be providing for our young
people
because that is what moves this country
forward every single day
our hope for the future
and the hard work that hope inspires i
want our young people to know
that they matter
that they
belong
so don't be afraid
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you hear me young people don't be afraid
be focused
be determined
be hopeful
be empowered
empower yourselves with a good education
then get out there and use that
education to build a country worthy of
your boundless promise
lead by example with hope
never fear
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so i figured something out that i
thought i'd tell you about this took me
like 30 years to figure out and i
figured it out on this tour
so there's this old idea you know that
you have to rescue your father from the
belly of the whale right from some
monster that's deep in the abyss you see
that pinocchio for example but it's a
very common idea and i figured out why
that is i think
so
imagine that we already know from a
clinical perspective that
you know if you set out a path towards a
goal which you want to do because you
need a goal and you need a path because
that provides you with positive emotion
right so you set up something as
valuable so that implies a hierarchy you
set up something as valuable you decide
that you're going to do that instead of
other things so that's kind of a
sacrifice because you're sacrificing
everything else to pursue that and then
you experience a fair bit of positive
emotion and meaning as you watch
yourself move towards the goal and so
the implication of that is the the
better the goal the the more full and
rich your experience is going to be when
you pursue it so that's one of the
reasons of
that's one of the reasons for developing
a vision and for fleshing yourself out
philosophically because you want to aim
at the highest goal that you can manage
okay so you do that
and then what you'll find is that as you
move towards the goal there are certain
things that that that you have to
accomplish that frighten you you know
maybe you have to learn to be a better
speaker a better writer a better thinker
you have to be better to people around
you or you have to learn some new skills
and you're afraid of that whatever
because it's going to stretch you if you
if you pursue a goal and it's and so
that'll put you up against challenges
okay so all the clinical
data indicates well the opposite of safe
spaces as jonathan height has been
pointing out that what you want to do
when
you identify something that someone is
avoiding that they need to do because
they're afraid you have them voluntary
con voluntarily confronted and so you
break it down what you try to do if
you're a behavior therapist is you break
down the thing they're avoiding into
smaller and smaller pieces until you
find a piece that's small enough so
they'll do it and it doesn't really
matter as long as they start it you know
then they can put the next piece on the
next piece and what happens is
they don't get less afraid exactly they
get braver
they get they get it's like there's more
of them you can and here's why so
imagine
you do something new
and that's informative right there's
information in the action and then you
can incorporate that information and
turn it into a skill and turn it into a
transformation of your perceptions so
there's more to you because you've tried
something new so that's one thing the
second thing is
and there's good biological evidence for
this now that
if you put yourself in a new situation
then new genes code for new proteins and
build new neural structures a new
nervous system structures same thing
happens to some degree when you work out
right because your your muscles are
responding to the load but your nervous
system does that too so you imagine that
there's a lot of potential you locked in
your genetic code
and then if you put yourself in a new
situation then then the stress that's
the situational stress that's produced
by that particular situation unlocks
those genes and then builds new parts of
you so that's very cool because who
knows how much there is locked inside of
you okay so now here's the idea
so
let's assume that that scales as you
take on heavier and heavier loads
that more and more of you you get more
and more informed because you're doing
more and more difficult things but more
and more of you gets unlocked
and so then
what that would imply is that
if you got to the point where you could
look at the darkest things so that would
be the abyss right that would be the
deepest abyss if you could look at the
harshest things like the most brutal
parts of the suffering of the world and
the malevolence of people and society if
you could look that
look at that
straight and and directly that that
would turn you on maximally
and so that's the idea of rescuing your
father because imagine that you're like
the potential composite of of all your
all the ancestral wisdom that's locked
inside of you biologically but that's
not going to come out at all unless you
stress yourself unless you unless you
challenge yourself and the bigger the
challenge you take on the more that's
going to turn on and so that as you take
on a broader and broader range of
challenges and you push yourself harder
then more and more of what you could be
turns on and that's equivalent to
transforming yourself into the ancestral
father into all because you're you're
like the what would you call it you're
the consequence of all these
living beings that have come before you
and that's all
part of your biological potentiality and
then if you can push yourself then all
that clicks on and that turns you into
who you could be that's and that's the
re-representation of that
positive ancestral father the point is
your best strategic position
is
how am i insufficient and how can i
rectify that
that's what you've got and the thing is
you are insufficient
and you could rectify it
both of those are within your grasp if
you aim low enough one of the things why
do you see that that's another thing you
keep saying aim low enough have a low
enough bar why do you why do you mean
that well let's say you've got a kid and
you want the kid to improve you don't
set them a bar that's so high that it's
impossible for them to attain it you
take a look at the kid and you think
okay this kid's got this range of skill
here's a challenge we can throw at him
or her that exceeds their current level
of skill but gives them a reasonable
probability of success
and so like i'm saying it
tongue-in-cheek to some degree you know
it's like but if you're but i'm doing it
as an aide to humility it's like well i
don't know how to start improving my
life someone might say that and i would
say well you're not aiming low enough
there's something you could do that you
are regarding as trivial
that that you could do that you would do
that would result in an actual
improvement but it's not a big enough
improvement for you so you won't lower
yourself enough to take the opportunity
incremental steps yes and so this is
also what is achieved through exercise
it's one of the most important
well what do you do when you go and lift
weights you don't go in like if you
haven't bench pressed before you don't
put 400 pounds on the damn bar and drop
the and drop the bar through your skull
right you know you think look when i
started working out when i was a kid i
was i was weighed about 130 pounds and i
was six foot one was a thin kid and i
smoked a lot i wasn't in good shape i
wasn't in good physical shape and i went
to the gym and it was bloody
embarrassing you know people would come
over and help me with the goddamn
weights here's how you're supposed to
use this you know it's humiliating and
maybe i was pressing 65 pounds or
something at that point you know but
what am i going to do i'm going to lift
up 150 pounds and injure myself right
off the bat no i had to go in there and
strip down and put my skinny goddamn
self in front of the mirror and think
son of a there's all these
monsters in the gym who've been lifting
weights for 10 years and i'm struggling
to get 50 pounds off the bar tough luck
for me but i could lift 50 pounds and it
wasn't fair very long until i could lift
75 and well you know how it goes but and
i never injured myself when i was
weightlifting and the reason for that
was i never pushed myself past where i
knew i could go and i pushed myself a
lot you know i gained 35 pounds of
muscle in about three years in
university i kind of had to quit because
i was eating so goddamn much i couldn't
stand it it's eating like six meals a
day it was just taking up too much time
but there's a humility in determining
what it is that the wretched creature
that you are can actually manage aim low
and i don't mean don't aim and i don't
mean don't aim up
but you have to accept the fact that
you can set yourself a goal that you can
attain and there's not going to be much
glory in it to begin with
because if you're not in very good shape
the goal that you could could attain
tomorrow isn't very glorious
but it's a hell of a lot better than
nothing and it beats the hell out of
bitterness and it's way better than
blaming someone else it's way less
dangerous and you could do it and what's
cool about it
there's a statement in the new testament
it's called the matthew principle and
economists use it to describe how the
economy and the world works to those who
have everything more will be given from
those who have nothing everything will
be taken it's like what's very
pessimistic in some sense because it
means that as you start to fail you fail
more and more rapidly but it also means
that as you start to succeed you succeed
more and more rapidly and so you take an
incremental step and well now you can
lift 55 pounds instead of 52.5 pounds
you think what the hell's that it's like
it's one step on a very long journey
and so it's it and it starts to compound
on you so a small step today means puts
you in a position to take a slightly
bigger step the next day and then that
puts you in a position to take a
slightly bigger step the next day you do
that for two or three years man you're
starting to stride
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i found that nothing in life
is worthwhile
unless you take risks
nothing
nelson mandela said there is no passion
to be found
playing small
in settling for a life that's less
than the one you're capable of living
now i'm sure in your experiences in
school and applying to college and
picking your major and deciding what you
want to do with life i'm sure people
have told you to make sure you have
something to fall back on make sure you
got something to fall back on honey
but i never understood that concept
having something to fall back on
if i'm going to fall
i don't want to fall back on anything
except my faith
i want to fall forward
i figure at least this way i'll see what
i'm going to hit
fall forward
this is what i mean
reggie jackson struck out 2600 times in
his career the most
in the history of baseball but you don't
hear about the strikeouts people
remember the home runs
fall forward
thomas edison conducted 1 000 failed
experiments did you know that i didn't
know that because the one thousand and
first was the light bulb
fall forward
every failed experiment is one step
closer to success you've got to take
risks and i'm sure you've probably heard
that before but i want to talk to you
about why that's so important
first
you will fail at some point in your life
accept it you will lose you will
embarrass yourself you will suck at
something there's no doubt about it
and i know that's probably not a
traditional message for a graduation
ceremony but hey
i'm telling you embrace it because it's
inevitable
and i should know
in the acting business you fail all the
time early on in my career
i auditioned for a part in a broadway
musical
perfect role for me i thought
except for the fact that i can't sing
so
i'm i'm in the wings i'm about to go on
stage but the guy in front of me he's
singing like
like like paparazzi he's just wrong
and he's just going on and on and on and
i'm just shrinking i'm getting smaller
and smaller
so they say oh thank you very much thank
you very much and you will you'll be
hearing from us
so i come out with my little sheet music
and
it was it was uh
just my imagination by the temptations
that's what i came up with
so i hand it to the the the accompanist
and uh she looks at it and looks at me
and looks out at the director and was
like
all right
so i i start you know that's i'm i'm
gonna sing i'm like you know and
it's just my imagination
once again
and then
coming
and i'm not saying anything so i'm
thinking i'm getting better so i can
start getting into it
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[Applause]
running this oh yeah
yeah thank you thank you thank you very
much mr washington thank you
so i assumed i didn't get the job
but the next part of the audition he
called me back the next part of the
audition is the acting part of the
audition so i'm like hey okay maybe i
can't sing but i know i can act
so they pair me with this guy and again
i didn't know about musical theater and
musical theater is big so they can reach
everyone all the way in the back of the
stadium and i'm more from a realistic
naturalistic kind of acting where you
you know you actually talk to the person
next to you
so i don't know what my line was my line
was well hand me the cup
and his line was well i will hand you
the cup my dear the cup will be there to
be handed to you
i said
okay
will
should i give you the cup back oh yes
you should give it back to me because
you know that is my cup and it should be
giving back
to me
i didn't get the job
but here's the thing
i didn't quit
i didn't fall back
i walked out of there to prepare for the
next audition and the next audition and
the next audition
i prayed
i prayed
and i prayed
but i continued to fail
and fail
and fail but it didn't matter because
you know what
there's an old saying
you hang around the barber shop long
enough sooner or later you're going to
get a haircut
so you will catch a break and i did
catch a break
last year
i did a play called fences on broadway
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someone talked about it
won the tony award
and i didn't have to sing by the way
but here's the kicker
it was at the court theater
it was at the same theater that i failed
that first audition
30 years prior
the point is every graduate here today
has the training and the talent to
succeed
but do you have the guts
to fail
here's my second point about failure if
you don't fail
you're not even trying
i'll say it again if you don't fail
you're not even trying my wife told me
this great expression to get something
you never had you have to do something
you never did
les brown's a motivational speaker he
made an analogy about this he says
imagine you're on your death bed and
standing around your deathbed are the
ghosts representing your unfulfilled
potential the ghost of the ideas you
never acted on the ghost of the talents
you didn't use and they're standing
around your bed angry disappointed and
upset
they say we we came to you because you
could have brought us to life they say
and now we have to go to the grave
together so i ask you today
how many ghosts are going to be around
your bed when your time comes
you've invested you you've invested a
lot in your education and people have
invested in you and let me tell you the
world needs your talents man does it
ever i just got back from africa like
two days ago so if i'm rambling on it's
cause i'm jet lagged i just got back
from south africa it's beautiful country
but there are places there with terrible
poverty that need help and africa is
just the tip of the iceberg the middle
east needs your help japan needs your
help alabama needs your help tennessee
needs your help louisiana needs your
help philadelphia needs your help
the world needs a lot and we need it
from you
we really do we need it from you young
people i mean i'm not speaking for the
rest of us up here but i know i'm
getting a little grayer
we need it from you the young people
because remember this so you got to get
out there
you got to give it everything you got
whether it's your time
your your your talent
your prayers
or your treasures because remember this
you will never see a u-haul
behind a hearse
you can't take it with you
the egyptians tried it
and all they got was robbed
so the question is
what are you going to do with what you
have i'm not talking about how much you
have
some of you are business majors some of
you are theologians nurses sociologists
some of you have money some of you have
patience some of you have kindness some
of you have loved some of you have the
gift of long-suffering whatever it is
whatever your gift is
what are you going to do
with what you have
all right now here's my last point about
failure
sometimes
it's the best way
to figure out where you're going
your life will never be a straight path
i began at fordham university as a
pre-med student i i
i took a course called the
cardiac morphos i still can't say it
cardiac
cardiac morphogenesis i couldn't read it
i couldn't say it i sure couldn't pass
it
so then i decided to go into pre-law
then journalism and with no academic
focus my grades took off in their own
direction
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yeah down
i was a 1.8 gpa
one semester and the university very
politely suggested that it might be
better to take some time off
i was 20 years old i was at my lowest
point
and then one day and i remember the
exact day march 27 1975 i was helping my
mother in her beauty shop my mother
owned a beauty shop up in mount vernon
and there's there was this older woman
who was considered one of the elders in
the town and i didn't know her
personally but i was looking in the
mirror and every time i looked in the
mirror i could see her behind me and she
was staring at me
she just kept looking at me every time i
looked at her she kept giving me these
strange looks
so she finally took the dryer off her
head and said
some she said something i'll never
forget
first of all she said somebody give me a
piece of paper give me a piece of paper
she said young boy
i have a prophecy
a spiritual prophecy
she said you are going to travel the
world
and speak to millions of people now mind
you i'm 20 years old i'm flunked out of
school in fact like a wise ass i'm
thinking to myself maybe she's got
something in that crystal ball about me
getting back into school next fall
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but maybe she was on to something
because later that summer while working
as a counselor at the ymca camp in
connecticut we put on a talent show for
the campers and after the show another
counselor came up to me and asked have
you ever thought about acting you're
good at that
so when i got back to fordham that fall
i got in and i changed my major once
again
for the last time
and in the years that followed just as
that woman prophesies i have traveled
the world and i have spoken to millions
of people through my movies
millions who up until this day
couldn't see me i who up till this day i
couldn't see while i was talking to them
and they couldn't see me they could only
see the movie
they couldn't see the real me
but i see you today
and i'm encouraged by what i see
and i'm strengthened
by what i see
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and i love
what i see
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today i want to tell you three stories
from my life
that's it no big deal
just three stories
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the first story
is about connecting the dots
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i dropped out of reed college after the
first six months but then stayed around
as a drop in for another 18 months or so
before i really quit
so why'd i drop out
it started before i was born
my biological mother was a young unwed
graduate student and she decided to put
me up for adoption
she felt very strongly that i should be
adopted by college graduates so
everything was all set for me to be
adopted at birth by a lawyer and his
wife
except that when i popped out they
decided at the last minute that they
really wanted a girl
so my parents who were on a waiting list
got a call in the middle of the night
asking
we've got an unexpected baby boy do you
want him
they said of course
my biological mother found out later
that my mother had never graduated from
college and that my father had never
graduated from high school
she refused to sign the final adoption
papers
she only relented a few months later
when my parents promised that i would go
to college this was the start
in my life
and 17 years later i did go to college
but i naively chose a college that was
almost as expensive as stanford
and all of my working class parents
savings were being spent on my college
tuition
after six months i couldn't see the
value in it
i had no idea what i wanted to do with
my life and no idea how college was
going to help me figure it out
and here i was spending all the money my
parents had saved their entire life
so i decided to drop out and trust that
it would all work out okay
it was pretty scary at the time but
looking back it was one of the best
decisions i ever made
the minute i dropped out
i could stop taking the required classes
that didn't interest me
and begin dropping in on the ones that
looked far more interesting
it wasn't all romantic
i didn't have a dorm room so i slept on
the floor in friends rooms
i returned coke bottles for the five
cent deposits to buy food with
and i would walk the seven miles across
town every sunday night
to get one good meal a week at the hari
krishna temple
i loved it
and much of what i stumbled into by
following my curiosity and intuition
turned out to be priceless later on
let me give you one example
reed college at that time offered
perhaps the best calligraphy instruction
in the country
throughout the campus
every poster every label on every drawer
was beautifully hand calligraphed
because i had dropped out and didn't
have to take the normal classes
i decided to take a calligraphy class to
learn how to do this
i learned about serif and sans serif
typefaces about varying the amount of
space between different letter
combinations about what makes great
typography great
it was beautiful historical artistically
subtle in a way that science can't
capture
and i found it fascinating
none of this had even a hope of any
practical application
in my life
but 10 years later when we were
designing the first macintosh computer
it all came back to me
and we designed it all into the mac it
was the first computer with beautiful
typography
if i had never dropped in on that single
course in college the mac would have
never had multiple typefaces or
proportionally spaced fonts
and since windows just copied the mac
it's likely that no personal computer
would have them
if i had never dropped out i would have
never dropped in on that calligraphy
class and personal computers might not
have the wonderful typography that they
do
of course it was impossible to connect
the dots looking forward when i was in
college but it was very very clear
looking backwards ten years later
again you can't connect the dots looking
forward you can only connect them
looking backwards
so you have to trust that the dots will
somehow connect in your future you have
to trust in something your gut destiny
life karma whatever
because believing that the dots will
connect down the road
will give you the confidence to follow
your heart
even when it leads you off the well-worn
path and that will make all the
difference
[Music]
my second story
is about love and loss
i was lucky i found what i loved to do
early in life woz and i started apple in
my parents garage when i was 20.
we worked hard and in 10 years apple had
grown from just the two of us in a
garage into a two billion dollar company
with over 4 000 employees
we just released our finest creation the
macintosh a year earlier and i just
turned 30
and then i got fired
how can you get fired from a company you
started
[Music]
well
as apple grew we hired someone who i
thought was very talented to run the
company with me and for the first year
or so things went well but then our
visions of the future began to diverge
and eventually we had a falling out
when we did our board of directors sided
with him and so at 30 i was out
and very publicly out
what had been the focus of my entire
adult life was gone and it was
devastating
i really didn't know what to do for a
few months
i felt that i'd let the previous
generation of entrepreneurs down that i
had dropped the baton as it was being
passed to me
i met with david packard and bob noyce
and tried to apologize for screwing up
so badly
i was a very public failure and i even
thought about running away from the
valley but something slowly began to
dawn on me
i still loved what i did
the turn of events at apple had not
changed that one bit
i'd been rejected but i was still in
love
and so i decided to start over
i didn't see it then
but it turned out that getting fired
from apple was the best thing that could
have ever happened to me
the heaviness of being successful was
replaced by the likeness of being a
beginner again less sure about
everything
it freed me to enter one of the most
creative periods of my life
during the next five years i started a
company named next another company named
pixar and fell in love with an amazing
woman who would become my wife
pixar went on to create the world's
first computer animated feature film toy
story and is now the most successful
animation studio in the world
in a remarkable turn of events
apple bought next and i returned to
apple and the technology we developed it
next is at the heart of apple's current
renaissance
and loreen and i have a wonderful family
together
i'm pretty sure
none of this would have happened if i
hadn't been fired from apple
it was awful tasting medicine but i
guess the patient needed it
sometime life sometimes life's going to
hit you in the head with a brick
don't lose faith
i'm convinced that the only thing that
kept me going was that i loved what i
did you've got to find what you love and
that is as true for work as it is for
your lovers
your work is going to fill a large part
of your life and the only way to be
truly satisfied is to do what you
believe is great work and the only way
to do great work is to love what you do
if you haven't found it yet keep looking
and don't settle
as with all matters of the heart you'll
know when you find it and like any great
relationship it just gets better and
better as the years roll on so keep
looking
don't settle
my third story
is about death
when i was 17 i read a quote that went
something like
if you live each day as if it was your
last someday you'll most certainly be
right
it made an impression on me and since
then for the past 33 years i've looked
in the mirror every morning and asked
myself
if today were the last day of my life
would i want to do what i am about to do
today
and whenever the answer has been no for
too many days in a row i know i need to
change something
remembering that i'll be dead soon is
the most important tool i've ever
encountered to help me make the big
choices in life
because almost everything
all external expectations all pride all
fear of embarrassment or failure these
things just fall away in the face of
death
leaving only what is truly important
remembering that you are going to die is
the best way i know to avoid the trap of
thinking you have something to lose
you are already naked there is no reason
not to follow your heart
no one wants to die
even people who want to go to heaven
don't want to die to get there
and yet
death is the destination we all share
no one has ever escaped it
and that is as it should be because
death is very likely the single best
invention of life
it's life's change agent it clears out
the old to make way for the new
right now the new is you
but someday not too long from now you
will gradually become the old and be
cleared away
sorry to be so dramatic but it's quite
true
your time is limited so don't waste it
living someone else's life
don't be trapped by dogma which is
living with the results of other
people's thinking
don't let the noise of others opinions
drown out your own inner voice and most
important have the courage to follow
your heart and intuition
they somehow already know what you truly
want to become
everything else is secondary
stay hungry stay foolish
today
i want to talk about purpose
[Music]
but i'm not here to give you the
standard commencement about finding your
purpose we're millennials we try to do
that instinctively
instead i'm here to tell you that
finding your purpose isn't enough
the challenge for our generation is to
create a world where everyone has a
sense of purpose
one of my favorite stories
is when jfk went to go visit the nasa
space center and he saw a janitor
holding a broom and he asked him what he
was doing and the janitor replied mr
president i'm helping put a man on the
moon
purpose
is that feeling
that you are a part of something bigger
than yourself
that you are needed and that you have
something better ahead to work for
purpose is what creates true happiness
and today i want to talk about three
ways that we can create a world where
everyone has a sense of purpose
by taking on big meaningful projects
together
by redefining equality so everyone has
the freedom to pursue their purpose
and by building community
all across the world
so first let's take on big meaningful
projects
our generation is going to have to deal
with tens of millions of jobs replaced
by automation like self-driving cars and
trucks
but we have the potential to do so much
more than that
every generation has its defining works
more than three hundred thousand people
work to put that man on the moon
including that janitor
millions of volunteers immunize children
around the world against polio and
millions of more people built the hoover
dam and other great projects
and now it's our generation's turn
to do great things
now i know maybe you're thinking i don't
know how to build a dam
i don't know how to get a million people
involved in anything
well
let me tell you a secret
no one does when they begin
ideas don't come out fully formed
they only become clear as you work on
them
you just have to get started
movies and pop culture just get this all
wrong
the idea of a single eureka moment is a
dangerous lie it makes us feel
inadequate because we feel like we
haven't had ours yet
and it prevents people with seeds of
good ideas from ever getting started in
the first place
[Music]
in our society
we often don't take on big things
because we're so afraid of making
mistakes
that we ignore all the things wrong
today if we do nothing
the reality is
anything we do today
is going to have some issues in the
future
but that can't stop us from getting
started
so what are we waiting for
it is time for our generation defining
great works
how about stopping climate change before
we destroy the planet and getting
millions of people involved
manufacturing
and installing solar panels
how about curing all diseases and
getting people involved by asking
volunteers to share their health data
track their health data and share their
genomes
[Music]
these achievements are all within our
reach
let's do them all in a way that gives
everyone in our society a role
let's do big things not just to create
progress but to create purpose
the second is redefining
our idea of equality so everyone has the
freedom to pursue their purpose
now
many of our parents had stable jobs
throughout their careers but in our
generation we're all a little
entrepreneurial whether we're starting
our own projects or finding our role in
another one
and you know that's great because our
culture of entrepreneurship is how we
create so much progress
an entrepreneurial culture thrives when
it is easy to try lots of new ideas
facebook wasn't the first thing i built
i also built chat systems and games
study tools and music players and i'm
not alone
jk rowling got rejected 12 times before
she finally wrote and published harry
potter
the greatest successes come from having
the freedom to fail
now
today
we have a level of wealth and equality
that hurts everyone
when you don't have the freedom
to take your idea and turn it into a
historic enterprise
we all lose
and right now today our society is way
over indexed on rewarding people when
they're successful and we don't do
nearly enough to make sure that everyone
can take lots of different shots
now let's face it
there is something wrong with our system
when i can leave here and make billions
of dollars in 10 years
while millions of students can't even
afford to pay off their loans let alone
start a business
i know a lot of entrepreneurs
and i don't know a single person who
gave up on starting a business because
they were worried they might not make
enough money
but i know too many people who haven't
had the chance to pursue their dreams
because they didn't have a cushion to
fall back on if they failed
[Music]
every generation
expands its definition of equality
previous generations fought for the vote
and civil rights
they had the new deal
and great society
and now it's time for our generation to
define a new social contract
we should have a society that measures
progress
not just by economic metrics like gdp
but by how many of us have a role we
find meaningful
we should explore ideas like universal
basic income to make sure that everyone
has a cushion to try new ideas
and we're all going to make mistakes
so we need a society that's less focused
on locking us up and stigmatizing us
when we do
and as our technology keeps on evolving
we need a society that is more focused
on providing continuous education
through our lives and yes
giving everyone the freedom to pursue
purpose isn't going to be free
people like me should pay for it
and a lot of you are going to do really
well and you should too
but it's not just about giving money
you can also give time
and i promise you
if you just take an hour to a week
that's all it takes to give someone a
hand and help them reach their potential
now maybe you're thinking that's a lot
of time i'm not sure if i have that much
time
i used to think that
we can all make time to give someone a
hand
let's give everyone the freedom to
pursue purpose not just because it's the
right thing to do but because when more
people can turn their dreams into
something great we are all better for it
purpose doesn't only come from work
the third way
we can create a sense of purpose for
everyone is by building community
and in our generation when we say
purpose for everyone
we mean everyone in the world
in a recent survey of millennials around
the world
asking what most defines our identity
the most popular answer wasn't
nationality ethnicity or religion
it was citizen of the world
that's a big deal
every generation expands the circle of
people we consider one of us
and in our generation that now includes
the whole world
we understand that the great arc of
human history bends towards people
coming together in ever greater numbers
from tribes to cities to nations to
achieve things that we could not on our
own
we get that our greatest opportunities
are now global
we can be the generation that ends
poverty
that ends disease
and we get that our greatest challenges
need global responses too
no country can fight climate change
alone or prevent pandemics
progress now requires coming together
not just as cities or nations but also
as a global community
[Music]
but we live in an unstable time
there are people left behind by
globalization
across the whole world
and it's tough to care about people in
other places when we don't first feel
good about our lives here at home
the purpose and stability in our own
lives
that we can start to open up and care
about everyone else too
and the best way to do that
is to start building local communities
right now
change starts local
even global change starts small with
people like us
in our generation
the struggle of whether we connect more
whether we achieve our greatest
opportunities comes down to this
your ability
to build communities
and create a world where every single
person has a sense of purpose
i i try to think what did i say that
could actually be helpful or useful to
you in the future
and uh i thought perhaps uh tell the
story of how i sort of came to be here
how did some of these things happen
and and maybe there's some lessons there
um because i often find myself wondering
how did this happen
so
when i was young i i
i didn't really know what i was going to
do uh when i got older
but but then eventually i thought that
the idea of inventing things would be
would be really cool
the reason i thought that was because
i i read a quote from author c clock
which said that
efficiently advanced technology is
indistinguishable from magic
and and that's really true
if you think if you go back
say 300 years the things that we take
for granted today
would be you'd be burned at the stake
for you know being able to fly
that's crazy
being able to see over long distances
being able to communicate having um
effectively
with with the internet
a group mind of sorts
and having access to all the world's
information
instantly from almost anywhere in the
earth
this is stuff that that really would be
magic it would be considered magic
in times past in fact i think it
actually goes beyond that because there
are many things that we take for granted
today that weren't even imagined
in times past they weren't even in the
realm of magic
so that it actually goes goes beyond
that
so i thought well
you know if if i can do
some of those things basically if i can
advance technology then that's like
magic and that would be really cool and
i always had sort of a slight
existential crisis because i was trying
to figure out what does it all mean like
what's the purpose of things
and i came to the conclusion that if if
we can advance the the knowledge of the
world if we can do things that expand
the scope and and scale of consciousness
then we're better able to ask the right
questions and become more enlightened
and and that's really the only way
forward
so i i studied
physics and business because i figured
in order to do a lot of these things you
need to
know how the universe works and you need
to know how
how the economy works
and you also need to be able to bring a
lot of people together to work with you
to create something because it's very
difficult to do something as as an
individual if it's if it's a significant
technology
i originally came out to to california
to
try to figure out
how to improve the
energy density of of electric vehicles
basically to try to figure out if there
was an advanced capacitor that that
could serve as an alternative to
batteries
and um that was in 95 and
that's also when the internet
started to happen
and it i i thought well i can either
pursue this tech this technology where
success maybe may not be one of the
possible outcomes which is always tricky
or
participate in the internet and and be
part of it so i decided to to drop out
did some internet stuff what one of
which was paypal and and i think maybe
it's helpful to
say one of the things that was important
then in the creation of paypal
was uh was kind of how it started
because
the initial thought was with paypal was
to create an agglomeration of financial
services so you have one place where
all your financial services needs would
be seamlessly integrated and and work
smoothly and then we had like a little
feature which was to do email payments
and whenever we'd show the show the
system off to someone uh we'd show the
hard part which was the um
the agglomeration of financial services
which was quite difficult to put
together nobody was interested then we'd
show people email payments which was
actually quite easy and everybody was
interested so i think it's important to
to take feedback from your environment
you know it's it you want to be as
closed loop as possible it's so we focus
on email payments and really try to make
that work and that's what really got
things to take off
but but if we hadn't if we hadn't
responded to what people said then we we
probably would not have been successful
so it's important to look for things
like that and and focus on them when
when you when you see them and get
correct your prior assumptions
going from paypal
what what are some of the
the other problems that uh are likely to
most affect the future of humanity
it really wasn't from the perspective of
what what's the rancor best way to to
make money um which which is which is
okay but
what i think is going to most affect the
future humanity so i think the biggest
terrestrial problem we've got is a
sustainable energy but the production
and consumption of energy in a
sustainable manner if we don't solve
that this the sensory is the century
we're we're in deep trouble
and then the the other one being the
extension of life beyond earth to make
life multi-planetary
so that's the basis for
the latter is the basis force for spacex
and the former is the basis for
tesla and solar city and and when i
started spacex i it was actually
initially
i thought that
well there's there's no way one could
possibly start a rocket company i wasn't
that crazy
but but then
i thought well what is a way to
increase nasa's budget that was actually
my initial goal
so
i i thought well if we can do a low-cost
mission to mars something called mars
oasis which would land seeds with with
dehydrate wood with seasoned dehydrated
nutrient gel and you hydrate them upon
landing and then you'd have this great
sort of money shot of green plants on a
red background and the public tends to
respond to um
precedents and superlatives
and this would be the first life on mars
the furthest that life's ever traveled
as far as we know
and and i thought well that that would
get people really excited
and and and therefore increase at nasa's
budget so so obviously the financial
outcome from such a mission would
probably be zero so anything better than
that was on the upside
so i actually went to i went to russia
three times to look at buying a
refurbished icbm because that that was
the best deal
and uh i can tell you it was very weird
going there in 2000 late 2001 2002
going to the russian rocket forces and
saying i'd like to buy
two of your biggest rockets
but you can keep the nuke
that's a lot more
um
and
that was 10 years ago i guess so
they thought i was crazy but but i did
have money so that was
that was okay
after making several trips to to russia
i came to the conclusion that
that actually uh
my initial impression was was wrong
about
because my initial thought was well
that there's not enough will to explore
and expand beyond earth and have a mars
base and that kind of thing but i can't
conclusion that that was wrong um in
fact there's plenty of will particularly
in the united states
because the united states
is a nation of explorers of people who
came here from from other parts of the
world i think
the united states really
a
distillation of the spirit of human
exploration
but if people think it's impossible then
or it's going to completely break the
federal budget then they're not going to
do it
so
after
my third trip i said okay
what we really need to do here is try to
solve the space transport problem
and uh and started spacex
and uh this this was against the advice
of pretty much everyone i talked to
but one friend made me sit down and
watch a bunch of videos of rockets
blowing up let me tell you he wasn't far
wrong i think it was it was tough going
there in the beginning because i'd never
built anything physical i mean i built
like little model rockets as a kid and
that kind of thing but
um i never had a company that built
anything physical so i'd figure out how
to how to do all these things and and
bring together the right team of people
and so we we did all that and and then
failed three times um
it it was tough tough going
because thing about a rocket is that the
the passing grade is a hundred percent
and uh
you you don't get to
actually test the rocket in the real
environment that it's going to be in
so i think so the best analogy for for
rocket engineering is
it's like if you want to create a really
complicated bit of software
you could you can't run the software as
an integrated hole and you can't run it
on the computer it's intended to run on
but the first time you put it all
together and write it on that computer
it must run with no bugs
that's that's basically the essence of
it so we missed the mark there
that the first launch i was picking up
bits of rocket near the
the launch site was bizarre and uh
but we we learned with with each
successive flight and uh and were able
to with uh especially with the fourth
flight in 2008 uh reached orbit and that
was also with the last bit of money that
we had
thank goodness uh that that happened i
think the saying is fourth times the
charm
so that's we got the falcon one two
orbit
and then
uh began to scale that up to to the
falcon 9 which is
about an order of magnitude more a
thrust it's uh around a million pounds
of thrust
and
we managed to get that to orbit and then
uh developed dragon spacecraft
which
recently was able to dock and return to
earth from the space station
that was a white knuckled event
so yeah it's a huge relief still can't
quite believe it actually happened
but there's a lot more that that that
must happen beyond this in order for
humanity to be to become a space faring
civilization ultimately
a multi-planet species and that's
something i think it's it's it's vitally
important and and i hope um
that that some of you will will
participate in in that either at spacex
or at other companies because it's just
really one of the
the most important things for the
preservation and extension of
consciousness
it's worth noting as i'm sure people are
aware that the earth has been around for
four billion years
and civilization at least in terms of
having
writing has been around for 10 000 years
and that's been generous and i think um
i'm actually i'm actually fairly
optimistic about the future of earth so
i don't want to
i don't want to sort of people to have
the wrong impression that i think we're
all about to die
i think things will most likely be okay
for a lo for a long time on earth
but not not for sure but most likely
but but even if it's if it's sort of 99
likely one a one percent chance is still
it's still worth spending a fair bit of
effort to ensure that we have um we've
backed up the biosphere you know
planetary redundancy if you will
and so i think i think it's really
really quite important and in order to
do that
there's a breakthrough that needs to
occur which is to create a rapidly and
completely reusable um transport system
to mars which which is one of those
things that's right on the borderline of
of impossible
um but that that's sort of the the thing
that we're
we're going to try to achieve there with
with with spacex
and then on the on the on the tesla
front uh the goal with tesla was really
to try to show that what electric cars
can do because people had the wrong
impression we had to change people's
perception of an electric vehicle
because they used to think of it as
something that was slow and
ugly and had low range and like a golf
cart
and and so that's why we created the
tesla roadster to show that you can be
fast
attractive and and long range and it's
amazing how
even though you can show that something
works on paper you know and the
calculations are very clear
until you actually have the physical
object and they can they can drive it it
doesn't really sink in for people
um and so that that i think is is
something worth noting if if you're
gonna create a company the first thing
you should try to do is create a working
prototype
um you know everything everything looks
great on powerpoint but if you have if
you have an actual demonstration article
even if it's in primitive form that's
much much more effective for convincing
people
i i think the the overarching point i
want to make is that um
you guys are the magicians of the 21st
century they're like anything holds you
back imagination is is the limit
um and
go out there and create some magic thank
you
[Music]
you
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如果总统在场
,请阅读他最大的
优势之一就是阅读
这就是为什么他是一个
很好的沟通者为什么他是一个如此优秀的
作家他是一个贪婪的读者所以我们
试图让我们的女孩不管做
什么 热爱阅读,并
用他们所读的东西挑战自己,不仅
阅读八卦书,而且
超越自我,做一些
他们可能不会做的事情,所以我
鼓励
大家阅读阅读只是继续阅读和
写作是另一种技能 练习
它 练习的越多,
你得到的草稿就越多 草稿
我们的孩子正在学习 初稿
意味着什么 你会做七十
份草稿 这不是失败
不是老师不喜欢你 因为
它都被标记了,
当你得到时阅读 要成为一名优秀的作家,
您将自己的东西标记为红色,
然后重写,重写,
重写,这就是写作
,如果您掌握了这些技能
,然后您就会有信心,可以
清晰表达,并且可以
站直 看着任何人的眼睛说这
就是我 很高兴见到你
这是
我们与年轻女孩的指导计划中尝试做的事情之一
我给她们的信息是如果你能
走进白宫
并见到你 第一夫人,说我的名字
是你好吗,看着我的眼睛,
那么没有什么是你做不到的,这就是
为什么如果你们走到
这里,坐在所有这些高高在上的人面前,
用
你的 声音
你必须练习
这些竞技场只是一次
又一次地出现然后你就习惯
了神经消失了你开始
放松自己的能力
但是
当你挣扎
并且开始考虑放弃
我想要的时候这是练习 你要记住我
丈夫和我自从
近十年前第一次开始这段旅程以来一直在谈论的
一些事情,它在我们生命的每一刻都带着我们度过
了这座白宫的每一刻
,这就是希望的力量,
相信
如果您愿意
为之努力并为之奋斗,那么更好的事情总是可能的。
这是我们
对希望力量的基本信念,它使我们能够
超越
我们所面临的怀疑和愤怒和恐惧的声音
我们自己的生活和这个国家的生活
我们希望,如果我们足够努力并
相信自己,
那么我们就可以成为我们的梦想,
而不管
其他人可能施加的限制
我们希望,当人们看到
我们真正的
样子时,也许他们也会受到
鼓舞,努力成为最好的自己
希望有一天他的孩子
能上大学
并获得他从未梦想过的机会
,
这
是我们每一位
政治家、
父母、传教士、我们所有人都
需要为我们的年轻人提供的希望,
因为这就是推动这个国家的动力
每一天都向前
传递我们对未来的希望和希望激发的辛勤工作我希望我们的年轻人
知道他们的
归属
很重要所以不要害怕
[音乐]
你听到我说年轻人不要
害怕专注
下定
决心 充满希望
获得力量
用良好的教育赋予自己力量
然后走出去并利用这种
教育来建立一个值得
你无限承诺的国家
以身作则 带着希望
永远不要害怕
[音乐]
所以如果 我想出了一些
我想告诉你的事情,我花了大约
30 年的时间才弄明白,我
在这次旅行中弄明白了,
所以有一个老想法,你知道
你必须把你的父亲从
鲸鱼的肚子里救出来,对吧 例如,从
深渊中的某个怪物中,您会
看到匹诺曹,但这是一个
非常普遍的想法,我想知道为什么
会
这样
,所以想象一下,我们已经从
临床角度
知道,如果您开辟了一条通往
你想做的目标,因为你
需要一个目标,你需要一条道路,因为
它为你提供了积极的情绪,
所以你设置了一些
有价值的东西,这意味着一个层次结构你
设置了一些有价值的东西你
决定你要去 这样做而不是
其他事情,所以这是一种
牺牲,因为你牺牲了
一切来追求它,然后
当你看到
自己朝着目标前进时,你会体验到相当多的积极情绪和意义 o
这意味着
目标越好,
当你追求它时,你的体验就会越充实和丰富
,所以这就是
形成愿景和在哲学上充实自己的原因之一,
因为 你想
瞄准你可以管理的最高目标,
所以你做到了
,然后你会发现,当你
朝着目标前进时
,你必须完成某些事情,这让你
害怕你知道
也许你 必须学习成为更好的
演讲者 更好的作家 更好的思考者
你必须对周围的人更好,
或者你必须学习一些新技能
,无论如何你都会害怕,
因为如果你追求,它会让你感到
紧张 一个目标,它就是这样,所以
这会让你面对挑战,
好吧,所以所有临床
数据都表明安全空间的反面,
因为乔纳森高度一直
指出,
当
你发现某事时你想要做什么 某人正在
避免他们需要做的事情,因为
他们害怕你让他们
自愿面对,所以你
分解它如果
你是一名行为治疗师,你试图做
的事情是你分解他们避免的事情成
越来越小的碎片,直到你
找到足够小的碎片所以
他们会这样做,这并不
重要,只要他们开始它你知道
然后他们可以将下一块放在
下一块上,会发生什么是
他们不 不要减少害怕 他们
变得更勇敢
他们得到了 就像有更多
的人你可以,这就是为什么
想象
你做一些新的事情
,这是有
信息的,因为行动中有信息,然后你
可以整合这些信息
并将其转化为 一种技能,并将其
转化为你的感知的转变,所以你
有更多的东西,因为你尝试了
一些新的东西,所以这是
第二件事
,现在有很好的生物学证据
表明
如果你 p 让你自己处于一个新的环境中,
然后新的基因编码新的蛋白质并
构建新的神经结构 新的
神经系统结构
当你正确锻炼时,在某种程度上也会发生同样的事情,
因为你的肌肉正在
对负荷做出反应,但你的神经
系统也会这样做 所以你想象
你的基因密码中有很多潜力
,然后如果你把自己置于一个新的
环境中,那么由特定情况
产生的情境压力会
解锁
这些基因,然后构建
你的新部分,所以 这很酷,因为谁
知道你的内心有多少被锁住了,
所以现在是这个想法,
所以
让我们假设随着你
承受越来越重的负载
,你会
越来越多地了解情况,因为你是 做
越来越多困难的事情,但
越来越多的人被解锁
,所以
这意味着
如果你到了可以
看起来 t 最黑暗的事情,
如果你能看到
最残酷的事情,比如世界上最
残酷的苦难以及
人和社会的恶意,
那
将是最深的深渊。
直截了当,这
会让你最大程度地兴奋
,所以这就是拯救你父亲的想法,
因为想象你就像
你所有的所有祖先智慧的潜在组合,这些
智慧在生物学上被锁定
在你的内心,但这
不会 除非你给
自己压力,除非你
挑战自己,
否则你
就出来了 以及更多你可以
打开的东西,这相当于
把你自己变成了祖父,
因为你就像你所说的
那样 你是
所有
出现在你面前的生物的结果
,这
都是你生物潜力的一部分,
然后如果你能推动自己,那么所有
的点击都会让你
成为你可以成为的
人 -代表那个
积极的祖父,关键是
你最好的战略位置
是
我怎么不够,我怎么能
纠正
那是你所拥有的,问题是
你不够
,你可以纠正它,
这两者都在你的掌握之中 如果
你的目标足够低其中一件事
为什么你会看到那是另一件事你
一直在说目标足够低有一个
足够低的标准为什么你为什么你的
意思很好假设你有一个孩子并且
你想要这个孩子 为了提高你不要
给他们设置一个太高的标准,以至于
他们不可能达到它你
看看孩子,你认为
好吧这个孩子有这样的技能范围
这是我们可以向他
或她提出的挑战 超过 他们目前
的技能水平,但给了他们合理
的成功概率
,所以就像我
在某种程度上开玩笑说你知道
这就像,但如果你是,但我这样
做是为了谦虚 就像我
不知道如何开始改善我的
生活 有人可能会这么说 我会
说你的目标不够低
你可以做一些你
认为微不足道
的事情 你可以做 你会
做 会带来实际的
改善,但这
对您来说还不够大,因此您不会降低
自己的水平以抓住机会
增量步骤是的,所以
这也是通过锻炼实现的,
这是最重要
的之一 当你去
举重时,你不会像
没有卧推之前那样做,不要
把 400 磅放在该死的杠上,然后把杠铃
放下,然后把杠铃穿过你的头骨,
你知道你想看看什么时候
我小时候开始锻炼
我当时体重约 130 磅,
身高 6 英尺,是个瘦小的孩子,
我抽烟很多
知道人们会
过来帮我拿该死的
重量这是你应该如何
使用它你知道这很丢脸,
也许我当时正在按下 65 磅或
其他东西你知道但
我要做什么我要去
举起 150 磅并立即伤害自己
不,我不得不进去
脱光衣服,把我那该死的瘦骨嶙峋的
自己放在镜子前,想着
狗娘
养的,健身房里有这么多怪物
举重 10 年,我一直
在努力减掉 50 磅
对我来说运气不好,但我可以举起 50 磅,
直到我可以举起 75 磅,这并不公平
,而且你知道它是怎么回事,但是
我 我在举重时从来没有伤害过自己
,原因
是我从来没有推过我的 精灵过去了我
知道我可以去的地方,我
很努力,你知道我
在大学的大约三年里增加了 35 磅的肌肉,
我不得不放弃,因为
我吃得太多了,我
受不了它吃得像 一天六顿饭,
这只是占用了太多时间,
但是要谦虚地确定
你这个可怜的生物
实际上可以控制低
目标,我不是说不瞄准,我不是
说不要 不要瞄准,
但你必须接受这样一个事实,
你可以为自己设定一个你可以实现的目标,
而且一开始不会有太多的
荣耀,
因为如果你的状态不是很好
,你可以实现的目标 可以实现
明天不是很光荣,
但它比
没有好得多,它战胜了
痛苦,它比
责备别人要好得多,它的危险性更小
,你可以做到,它有什么
很酷
的 新约中的声明
称为马修普里 nciple和
经济学家用它来描述
经济和世界如何运作给那些
拥有一切的人会从
那些一无所有的人那里得到更多的
东西,这就像
在某种意义上非常悲观,因为这
意味着当你开始失败时 失败的
速度越来越快,但这也
意味着当你开始成功时,你的成功
速度也越来越快,所以你迈出一个
渐进的步骤,现在你可以
举起 55 磅而不是 52.5 磅,
你认为这到底是怎么回事?
踏上一段很长的旅程
,就这样,它开始
在你身上复合,所以今天的一小步意味着
你
第二天可以迈出更大的一步,然后
你就可以
迈出更大的一步 第二天你就这样做
了两三年男人你
开始大步前进
[音乐]
我发现生活中没有什么
是值得的,
除非你冒险
没有
纳尔逊曼德拉说没有
激情 在适应
一种
比你现在能够过的生活还少
的生活时,我敢肯定
人们告诉你要确保你有
东西可以依靠 确保你
有东西可以依靠 亲爱的,
但我从来不理解这个概念
如果我要跌倒
我不想跌倒
除了我的信仰之外,
我想继续
前进 棒球,但你没有
听说过三振出局 人们
记得本垒打
向前
倒下 托马斯·爱迪生进行了 1000 次失败的
实验你知道吗我不
知道因为第 1000
次是灯泡
向前倒下,
每次失败的实验都是 一针 p
离成功更近了,你必须承担
风险,我相信你以前可能
听说过,但我想先和你
谈谈为什么这很重要,
你会在生命中的某个时刻失败
接受它你会失败 你
会让自己难堪 你会被
一些毫无疑问的事情所吸引
,我知道这可能不是
毕业典礼的传统信息,
但嘿,
我告诉你接受它,因为这是
不可避免的
,我应该知道
在演艺界你失败了
在我职业生涯的早期,
我试镜了一个百老汇
音乐剧的
完美角色,我想
除了我不会唱歌,
所以
我在准备好我要
上台了 但是在我面前的那个人他
唱歌
就像狗仔队一样他只是错了
他一直在继续
我只是在缩小我越来越小
所以他们说哦非常
感谢非常非常感谢 你会
听到我们的消息,
所以我出来了 用我的小乐谱
,
这
只是我对诱惑的想象,
这就是我想出的,
所以我把它交给伴奏者
,呃,她看着它,看着我
,看着导演,然后是
好吧,
所以我开始你知道那是我我
要唱歌我就像你知道
这只是我的想象
再次出现
然后我什么也没说所以我
想我正在变得更好 所以我可以
开始参与
了 试镜的下
一部分是试镜的表演部分,
所以我想嘿,好吧,也许我
不会唱歌,但我知道我可以表演,
所以他们把我和这个人配对,
我又不知道音乐剧
音乐剧院很大,所以
他们可以在体育场后面一直接触到每个人
,我更喜欢 rom 一种现实的
自然主义表演,
你知道你实际上和你旁边的人交谈,
所以我不知道我的台词是什么我的
台词很好,把杯子递给我
,他的台词很好,我会把
杯子递给你我的 亲爱的杯子会在那里
递给你
我说
好吧
我应该把杯子还给你哦是的
你应该把它还给我因为
你知道那是我的杯子它应该
还给我
我没有 得到这份工作,
但这是
我没有辞职的事情我没有退缩
我走出那里为
下一次试镜和下一次试镜
和下一次试镜做准备
失败
又失败,但没关系,因为
你知道
有句老话,
你早晚要在理发店里呆
得够久,你
就会理发,
所以你会休息一下,去年我确实
休息了
我在百老汇演了一出戏叫栅栏
[音乐]
有人谈论它
不会 他获得了托尼奖
,顺便说一句,我不必唱歌,
但这是在法院剧院的踢球者
,在同一个剧院,我在 30 年前的
第一次试镜中失败了,
关键是今天这里的每个毕业生
都接受了培训,并且 成功的天赋,
但你
有勇气失败
吗这是我关于失败的第二点如果
你不失败
你甚至没有尝试
我会再说一遍如果你没有失败
你甚至没有尝试我的妻子 告诉我
这个伟大的表达来得到
你从未有过的东西 你必须做
你从未做过的事情
莱斯布朗是一位励志演说家 他
对此做了一个类比 他说
想象你在你的临终病床上
站在你临终前的
鬼魂是代表你的 未实现的
潜力 你
从未付诸行动的想法的幽灵
你没有使用的才能的幽灵 他们
站在你的床边生气 失望和
沮丧
他们说我们来找你是因为你本
可以让我们活过来 他们说
现在我们 必须一起去坟墓
,所以今天我问你,
当你的时间到来时,你的
床会有多少鬼
你这个
世界需要你的才华
,我曾经两天前刚从非洲回来,
所以如果我漫无目的地说这是
因为我时差,我
刚从南非回来,这是一个美丽的国家,
但那里有一些地方
需要帮助的可怕贫困和非洲
只是冰山一角
中东需要你的帮助 日本需要你的
帮助 阿拉巴马州需要你的帮助 田纳西州
需要你的帮助 路易斯安那州需要你的
帮助 费城需要你的
帮助 世界需要很多,我们需要
来自
你们我们真的需要你们
年轻人我的意思是我不是在
为我们其他人说话但我知道我
越来越灰暗
我们需要你们年轻人
因为记住这一点所以你必须
出去,
你有 给它你得到的一切,
无论是你的时间
你的天赋
你的祈祷
还是你的宝藏因为记住这
一点你永远不会看到
灵车后面的拖车
你不能随身
携带埃及人试过了
,他们得到的只是 被抢劫了,
所以问题
是你将如何处理你所
拥有的我不是在谈论你有多少
你是商业专业的一些
人是神学家护士社会学家
有些人有钱有些人有
耐心有些人 你有善心 你们中的
一些人爱过一些人 有
忍耐的天赋 不管是
什么你的天赋是
什么 你打算
用你现在拥有的东西做什么
这是我关于失败的最后一点
有时
这是最好的
方法 弄清楚你要去哪里
你的生活永远不会是一条笔直的道路
我在福特汉姆大学作为一名
医学预科
生开始学习一门名为
心脏形态的课程我仍然不能说
心脏
心脏形态发生我不能 读它
我不能说我肯定不能通过
它
所以然后我决定进入法律预科
然后是新闻学并且没有学术
重点我的成绩朝着自己的方向起飞
[音乐]
是的
我是1.8 gpa
一个学期,大学非常
有礼貌地建议请假可能会
更好。
我当时 20 岁,我处于
最低谷
,然后有一天,我记得
1975 年 3 月 27 日的确切日期,我正在帮助我的
母亲美容 我妈妈
在弗农山开了一家美容店
,有一位年长的女士
,她被认为是镇上的长者
之一,我个人不认识她,
但我正在
照镜子,每次我照镜子
镜子里我能看到她在我身后,她
正盯着我
看,每次我看着她,她就一直看着
我,她一直用
奇怪的眼神看着我,
所以她终于把吹风机从头上拿下来
,说了
一些她说的话,我会的 首先永远不要
忘记
她说有人 给我
一张纸 给我一张纸
她说小男孩
我有一个预言
一个精神预言
她说你将环游
世界
并与数百万人交谈 现在请
注意我已经 20 岁了
辍学实际上就像一个聪明的驴子,我在
想自己也许她
在那个水晶球里有一些关于我
明年秋天重返学校的事情
[音乐]
但也许她正在做某事,
因为那个夏天晚些时候,
作为一名工作人员 康涅狄格州 ymca 营地的辅导员
我们为营员们举办了一场才艺表演,
表演结束后,另一位
辅导员走过来问我,
你有没有想过表演你很
擅长,
所以当我那年秋天回到福特汉姆时,
我 进去了,我最后一次改变了我的专业
,在接下来的几年里,正如
那个女人预言我已经
环游世界,我
通过我的电影与数百万人交谈,数百万人
直到今天
还看不到 直到现在的我 今天我
和他们说话时我看不见,他们看不见我,他们只能
看电影,
他们看不到真实的我,
但我今天看到了你
,我对我所看到的感到鼓舞
,我
我被我所看到的
[音乐]所强化
,我喜欢
我今天所看到的
[音乐]
我想告诉你
我生命
中的三个故事,没什么大不了的,
只是三个故事
[音乐
]第一个故事
是关于连接点
[ 音乐]
在最初的六个月后,我从里德大学辍学
,但在我真正退出之前,我又留
了 18 个月左右的时间,所以
我
为什么
在我出生之前就辍学了
我的亲生母亲还年轻 未婚
研究生,她决定
收养我,
她非常强烈地认为我应该
被大学毕业生收养,所以
一切都准备好让我
在出生时被律师和他的妻子收养,
除了当我突然出现时,他们
决定 在最后一刻他们
真的想要一个女孩
所以我的父母 在等待名单
上的人半夜接到电话
问
我们有一个意想不到的男婴你
想要他
他们说当然
我的亲生母亲后来
发现我母亲从未从
大学毕业而我父亲 从未
从高中毕业
她拒绝签署最终的收养
文件
她只是在几个月后才松了口气,
当时我的父母承诺我
会上大学 这是我生命的开始
,17 年后我确实上过大学,
但我天真 选择了一所
几乎和斯坦福大学一样贵的大学,六个月
后我所有工人阶级父母的
积蓄都花在了我的大学学费上
我看不到
它的价值
我不知道我想用
我的生活做什么 不知道大学
将如何帮助我解决这个问题
,在这里我花光了我
父母为他们节省了一生的所有钱,
所以我决定辍学并相信
一切都会好起来的
,当时这很可怕 但是
回想起来,这是
我辍学那一刻
做出的最好的决定之一
我没有宿舍,所以我睡
在朋友房间的地板上。
我退回可乐瓶以支付 5
美分的押金来购买食物
,每周日晚上我会步行 7 英里穿过
城镇,
每周在
哈里克里希纳神庙
我很喜欢它
,我凭着好奇心和直觉偶然发现的大部分东西
后来都变成了无价之宝
每张海报 每个抽屉上的每个标签都
用精美的手写书法
因为我辍学了,
不必参加普通课程
我决定参加书法课来
学习如何做到
这一点 关于衬线和无衬线
字体关于改变
不同字母组合之间的空间量
关于是什么让伟大的排版变得伟大
它是美丽的历史艺术
微妙以科学无法
捕捉
的方式我发现它很迷人
这一切都没有希望
在我生命中的任何实际应用中,
但 10 年后,当我们
设计第一台 Macintosh 计算机时,
这一切都回到了我的脑海
,我们将它全部设计到了 mac
当然,在大学里,mac
永远不会有多种字体或
按比例间隔的字体,
而且由于windows只是复制了mac
,如果我从未辍学,很可能没有个人电脑
会有它们
,我永远
不会参加那个书法
课和个人电脑 可能没有
他们所做的出色的排版
当然不可能
将这些点连接起来 当我在
大学的时候,但很清楚
十年后再次回头看
,你无法连接向前看的点
,你只能
向后看,
所以你必须相信这些点会
在你的未来以某种方式连接你
必须 相信一些你的直觉命运
生活业力,
因为相信点点滴滴会
在路上连接起来
会让你有信心跟随
你的心,
即使它会让你偏离陈旧的
道路,这会让一切变得
不同
[音乐]
我的 第二个故事
是关于爱和失落
我很幸运我在生命的早期就找到了我喜欢做的事情我
20 岁时在我父母的车库里创办了苹果公司。
我们努力工作,10 年里苹果公司
从我们两个人成长 在
车库里进入一家拥有 4000 多名员工、价值 20 亿美元的公司
一年前我们刚刚发布了我们最好的创造 Macintosh,我
刚满 30 岁
,然后我被解雇
了,你怎么能被你创办的公司解雇
[音乐]
随着苹果的成长,我们聘请了一个我
认为非常有才华的人来
和我一起经营公司,第一年
左右事情进展顺利,但后来我们
对未来的愿景开始出现分歧
,最终我们吵了一架
。 我们的董事会
支持他,所以在 30 岁的时候,我出
柜了,并且非常公开地表明
了我整个
成年生活的重点已经消失了,这是
毁灭性的,
我真的不知道该怎么做
几个月
我 我觉得我让上
一代企业家失望了,
因为接力棒被
传给了我,所以
我会见了大卫帕卡德和鲍勃诺伊斯,
并试图为搞砸了这么严重而道歉,
我是一个非常公开的失败,我 甚至
想过逃离
山谷,但我慢慢开始
明白了
我仍然喜欢我
所做的事情在苹果公司发生的事情并没有
改变
我曾经被拒绝但我仍然
爱着所以我决定 重新开始
我没看到
但事实证明,被
苹果公司解雇是我可能发生过的最好的事情
。成功的沉重感被再次
成为初学者的相似性所取代
在接下来的五年中,我创办了
一家名为 next 的公司,另一家名为
pixar 的公司爱上了一位了不起的
女人,她后来成为了我的妻子
pixar 继续创作了世界
上第一部电脑动画故事片玩具
故事,现在是 世界上最成功的
动画工作室
发生了翻天覆地
的变化 苹果接下来收购了我,我又回到了苹果,我们接下来开发的技术是苹果当前
复兴的核心
,洛琳和我有一个美好的
家庭,
我很确定
如果我
没有被苹果公司解雇,这一切都不会发生,
这是一种很糟糕的药,但我
想病人有时需要它,
有时是生命。” 我会
用砖头砸你的头
不要失去信心
我相信唯一
让我坚持下去的就是我爱我
所做的你必须找到你爱的东西
为
你的爱人
工作你的工作将
占据你生活的大部分时间,真正满足的唯一方法
就是做你
认为伟大的工作,
而做伟大工作的唯一方法就是热爱你所做的事
如果您还没有找到它,请继续寻找
并且不要
像所有内心问题一样安定下来,
当您找到它时就会知道,并且就像任何良好的
关系一样,
随着岁月的流逝,它会变得越来越好,所以请继续
寻找
我的第三个故事
是关于死亡的,
当时我 17
过去33年
每天早上我都会照镜子问
自己今天是不是最后一天 如果我的生活
我想做我今天要做的事
,每当答案连续太多天都是否定的时候,
我知道我需要
改变一些事情,
记住我很快就会死
是最重要的工具 曾经
遇到过帮助我做出
人生重大选择的人,
因为几乎所有事情
所有外部期望 所有骄傲 所有
对尴尬或失败的恐惧 这些
事情在死亡面前消失了
只留下真正重要
的事情 记住你将要死 是
我所知道的最好的方法来避免陷入
认为你有什么要失去的陷阱
你已经赤身裸体没有理由
不跟随你的心
没有人想死
即使是想去天堂的人
也不想死 到达那里
,但
死亡是我们共同的目的地,
没有人逃脱过它
,这应该是因为
死亡很可能
是生命中唯一最好的发明
它是生命的改变剂它
清除旧的为新的让路
现在是新的你,
但不久之后的某一天,你
会逐渐变成旧的,被
清除掉
很抱歉这么戏剧化,但这是
真的,
你的时间是有限的,所以不要浪费它过
别人的生活
不要 被教条所困,
活在
别人的想法里
不要让别人的意见
淹没你自己内心的声音,最
重要的是有勇气跟随
你的内心和直觉
他们不知何故已经知道你真正
想成为什么
其他一切都是次要的
保持饥饿 保持愚蠢
今天
我想谈谈目的
[音乐]
但我不是来给你一个
关于找到你的目的的标准开始
我们是千禧一代我们试图本能地做到
这一点
而不是我来这里 告诉你,
找到你的目标是不够
的,我们这一代人的挑战是
创造一个每个人都有
目标感的
世界我最喜欢的故事之一
是肯尼迪去参观美国宇航局的
太空 中心,他看到一个看门人
拿着扫帚,他问他
在做什么,看门人回答总统先生,
我正在帮助一个人登上
月球
目的
是
感觉你是比你自己更大的东西的一部分
需要,并且您有
更好的工作可以为目标而工作,这
是创造真正幸福的原因
,今天我想谈谈
我们可以通过重新定义平等来共同承担有意义的重大项目来创造一个
每个人都有目标感的世界的三种方式,
所以 每个人都有
追求自己目标的自由,
并通过
在世界各地建立社区,
所以首先让我们进行有意义的大型
项目,
我们这一代人将不得不
处理数以千万计的工作
被自动驾驶汽车和卡车等自动化所取代,
但我们 有潜力做的
不仅仅是
每一代人都有其决定性的工作
超过三十万人
努力将那个人送上月球,
包括 看门
人数以百万计的志愿者
为世界各地的儿童接种脊髓灰质炎疫苗,还有
数以百万计的人建造了胡佛
水坝和其他伟大的项目
,现在轮到我们这一代人
去做伟大的事情
了 建一座大坝
我不知道如何让一百万人
参与任何事情
让我告诉你一个秘密
当他们开始时没有人会
做想法没有完全形成
它们只有在你工作时才会变得清晰
你只是有 开始
电影和流行文化只是把这一切都
弄错
了一个单一的尤里卡时刻的想法是一个
危险的谎言它让我们感到
不足,因为我们觉得我们
还没有拥有我们的
,它阻止了拥有
好想法种子的人 首先开始
[音乐]
在我们的社会中,
我们通常不会做大事,
因为我们太害怕犯错误
,以至于如果我们什么都不做,我们今天会忽略所有错误的事情
,现实就是
我们今天所做的任何事情
未来会有一些问题,
但这不能阻止我们
开始,
所以我们还在等什么
现在是我们这一代定义
伟大作品的时候了,
如何在
我们破坏地球并让
数百万人参与之前阻止气候变化
制造
和安装太阳能电池板
如何治愈所有疾病并
通过要求
志愿者分享他们的健康数据让人们参与进来
跟踪他们的健康数据并分享他们的
基因组
[音乐]
这些成就都在我们的能力范围内
在我们的社会中,一个角色
让我们做大事,不仅是为了
进步,而且是为了创造
目标;第二是重新定义
我们的平等理念,让每个人都可以
自由追求自己的目标
无论我们是开始
自己的项目还是在另一个项目中寻找我们的角色,我们都有点创业精神
,你知道 这很棒,因为我们
的创业文化是我们
创造如此多进步
的方式,当
尝试很多新想法很容易时,创业文化就会蓬勃发展
。facebook不是我建造的第一件事,
我还建造了聊天系统和游戏
学习工具和音乐播放器 我
并不孤单
jk罗琳在
她最终写作和出版
哈利波特之前被拒绝了12次最大的成功来自拥有
失败的自由
现在
今天
我们拥有一定程度的财富和平等
,
当你没有自由时会伤害每个人
把你的想法变成一个
历史性的企业,
我们都
输了
现在让我们面对现实吧
,我们的系统出了问题,
我可以离开这里并
在 10 年内赚到数十亿美元,
而数百万学生甚至
无法偿还 我的贷款更不用说
创业
了 追求梦想的机会,
因为
如果他们失败了
[音乐]
每一代人都在
扩展其对平等的定义,
前几代人为投票
和公民权利而奋斗,
他们拥有新政
和伟大的社会
,现在 现在是我们这一代人
定义新社会契约的时候了
我们应该有一个社会来衡量
进步,
不仅通过 GDP 等经济指标,
而且通过我们中有多少人拥有我们认为有意义的角色
我们应该探索诸如普遍
基本收入之类的想法,以确保 每个人
都有尝试新想法的缓冲
,我们都会犯错误,
所以我们需要一个不那么专注
于锁定我们和污名化我们的社会,
因为我们这样做
并且我们的技术不断发展 不断发展,
我们需要一个更专注
于在
我们的生活中提供持续教育的社会,是的,
让每个人都有追求
目标的自由不会是免费的,
像我这样的人应该为此付出代价
,你们中的很多人都会做得
很好 你也应该这样做,
但这不仅仅是给钱,
你也可以给时间
那是
很多时间我不确定我是否有那么多
时间
我曾经认为
我们都可以腾出时间帮助某人
让我们给每个人
追求目标的自由不仅因为这是
正确的事情而是因为 当更多的
人可以将他们的梦想变成
伟大的事情时,我们都会变得更好,因为
目标不仅仅是来自工作
,
我们可以为每个人创造目标感的第三种方式
是通过建立社区
和我们这一代人说的
目标 e 对于每个人,
我们指的是世界
上的每个人 在最近一项针对世界各地千禧一代的调查中,
询问什么最能定义我们的
身份 最受欢迎的答案不是
国籍种族或宗教
而是世界公民
这很重要
每一代人都在扩大圈子
在我们认为是我们
中的一员的人中,在我们这一代人中,现在
包括整个世界,
我们明白
人类历史的伟大弧线转向
越来越多的人聚集在一起,
从部落到城市再到国家,以
实现我们无法实现的目标
我们知道我们最大的机会
现在是全球
性的 城市或国家,但也
作为一个全球社区
[音乐]
但我们生活在一个不稳定的时代
,有人离开 在
全球全球化
的阻碍下,
当我们第一次
对自己在家里的生活感觉不好时,很难关心其他地方
的
人
我们可以开始开放并
关心每个人的自己生活的目标和稳定性 否则
,最好的方法就是
现在就开始建立当地社区
改变从地方开始,
甚至全球改变从
像我们这一代人这样的人开始 我们
是否能更多地联系
我们是否获得最大
机会的斗争归结为
你的
建立社区
和创造一个每个
人都有目标感的世界的能力
ii 试着想一想我说了
什么对你未来有帮助或有用的
东西 来到这里
这些事情是怎么发生
的,也许那里有一些教训,
嗯,因为我经常发现自己想
知道这是怎么发生的,
所以
当我年轻的时候 ii
我真的不知道我长大后要做什么
,但是后来我最终认为
发明东西的想法
会非常
酷,因为我认为这是因为我
读了作者 c clock 的一句话
它说
高效先进的技术
与魔法没有区别,
如果你认为如果你回到
300 年前,我们今天认为理所当然的事情就是
你会被烧死在火刑柱上,
因为你知道能够飞行
这太疯狂
了 能够远距离看到
能够与互联网
有效地交流
一个群体的头脑
并且可以从地球上几乎任何地方立即访问世界上所有的
信息
这真是
太神奇了 在过去会被认为是魔法
事实上我认为它
实际上超出了这一点,因为
有很多我们今天认为理所当然的
事情在过去甚至没有
想象过 因为他们甚至不在
魔法领域,
所以它实际上超出了
这个范围,
所以我想
你知道如果我能做
一些这些事情,如果我能
推进技术,那就像
魔法一样,那真的很酷
我总是有一种轻微的
生存危机,因为我
试图弄清楚这一切意味着
什么,比如事情的目的是什么
,我得出的结论是,如果
我们能推进世界的知识,
如果我们能做到 扩大
意识的范围和规模的事情,
那么我们就能够更好地提出正确的
问题并变得更加开明
,这确实是唯一的
出路,
所以我学习了
物理和商业,因为我想
这样做是为了做很多这些 你
需要
知道宇宙是如何运作的,你
需要知道
经济是如何运作的
,你还需要能够将
很多人聚集在一起与你
一起创造一些东西,因为这非常
困难 作为个人做某事,
如果它是一项重要的
技术,
我最初来到加利福尼亚
,
试图弄清楚
如何
提高电动汽车的能量密度,
基本上试图弄清楚是否
有一种先进的电容器
可以作为电池的替代品
,嗯,那是在 95 年
,那也是互联网
开始出现
的时候,我想我可以要么
追求这项技术,这项技术,
成功可能不是
可能的结果之一,这总是很棘手
或
参与互联网并成为其中的
一部分,所以我决定退出
做一些互联网的事情,其中
之一是贝宝,我认为
说一说当时在创建贝宝时很重要的事情可能会有所帮助
嗯,它是这样开始的,
因为最初的想法是使用贝宝是
为了创建一个金融服务的聚集地,
这样你就有一个地方可以存放
你所有的金融服务 ices 的需求
将无缝集成并且工作
顺利,然后我们有一个小
功能,即进行电子邮件支付
,每当我们
向某人展示系统时,我们会展示
困难的部分,那就是
嗯 很难整合的金融服务集聚,
没有人感兴趣,然后我们会
向人们展示电子邮件支付,这
实际上很容易,每个人都
感兴趣,所以我认为
从你的环境中获取反馈很重要,
你知道这是你想要的 尽可能地
闭环,所以我们专注
于电子邮件支付,并真正尝试让
这项工作发挥作用,这才是真正让
事情起飞的原因
,但如果我们没有
回应人们所说的话,那么我们
可能 不会成功,
所以重要的是要寻找
类似的东西,并
在你看到它们时专注于它们,并
纠正你先前的假设
,这些假设来自贝宝
其他可能
对人类未来影响最大的问题
真的不是从
什么是最好的赚钱方式的角度来看
未来的人类,所以我认为
我们面临的最大陆地问题是
可持续能源,但
如果我们不解决这个问题,我们将以可持续的方式生产和消耗能源
感官是我们所处的世纪
麻烦
,然后另一个是
地球以外的生命延伸,使
生命多行星,
所以这是
后者的基础是 spacex 的基础力量
,前者是
特斯拉和太阳能城的基础,当我
开始 spacex 我实际上是
最初
我
认为没有人
可能会创办一家火箭公司
所以
我想,如果我们能做一个低成本的
火星任务,一个叫做火星
绿洲的东西,它会用
脱水木头和经验丰富的脱水
营养凝胶降落种子,然后你在
着陆时给它们补水,然后你就会有这么大
的一笔钱
红色背景上的绿色植物,公众倾向于
回应嗯
先例和最高级
,这将是火星上的第一个生命
,据我们所知,生命已经旅行的最远
,我认为这
会让人们非常兴奋
并且因此增加了美国宇航局的
预算,所以很明显
,这样一个任务的财务结果
可能会为零,所以任何比这更好的事情都是有利的
,
所以我实际上去了我去俄罗斯
三度考虑购买
翻新的洲际导弹,因为 那
是最好的交易
,嗯,我可以告诉你
,2000 年去那里很奇怪 2001 年末 2002 年
去俄罗斯火箭部队,
说我想买
两个你 你最大的火箭,
但你可以保留更多的核弹
,
我猜那是 10 年前的事了,所以
他们认为我疯了,但我
确实有钱,所以
在我去了几次俄罗斯之后没关系
结论是
我最初的印象是错误
的,
因为我最初的想法
是没有足够的意愿去探索
和扩展地球之外并拥有火星
基地之类的东西,但我不能
断定这是错误的 嗯,
事实上,特别是
在美国,有很多意愿,
因为美国
是一个由来自世界其他地方的人组成的探索者的国家,
我认为
美国确实
是
人类探索精神的升华,
但如果人们 认为那是不可能的,
或者它将完全破坏
联邦预算,然后他们不
会这样做,所以
在
我第三次旅行之后,我说好吧
,我们真正需要做的是尝试
解决 太空运输问题
,呃,开始了spacex
,呃,这违背了
我交谈过的几乎每个人的建议,
但一个朋友让我坐下来
观看一堆火箭爆炸的视频
让我告诉你他不远
错了,我认为一开始去那里很难,
因为我从来没有
建造过任何实体的东西,我的意思是我小时候建造的
就像小模型火箭
之类的东西,
但是我从来没有一家公司建造
过实体的东西,所以我 我会弄清楚
如何做所有这些事情,并
把合适的团队召集起来
,所以我们做了所有这些,然后
失败了三次,嗯
,这很难,
因为火箭的事情
就是 及格率是百分之
一百,呃
,你不能
在火箭将要进入的真实环境中实际测试火箭
,
所以我认为火箭工程的最佳类比
是
,如果你想创造一个真正的
复杂的s 通常,
您可能无法将软件
作为集成孔运行,也无法
在要运行的计算机上运行它,
但是当您第一次将它们
放在一起并在该计算机上编写时,
它必须运行没有错误
这基本上就是它的本质
所以我们错过
了第一次发射我在发射场
附近捡起火箭碎片的标记
是奇怪的,呃,
但我们在每次
连续飞行中都学到了,呃,并且
能够呃 尤其是在 2008 年的第四次
飞行中,呃到达了轨道,这
也是我们所拥有的最后一点钱,
谢天谢地,呃,那件事发生了,我
认为这句话是魅力的四倍,
所以我们得到了猎鹰一二
轨道
,然后
呃 开始把它放大到
猎鹰 9 号,它的推力比猎鹰 9 号
高出一个数量级,
它大约是一百万磅
的推力
,
我们设法让它进入轨道,然后
呃开发了龙飞船
,它
最近能够 停靠并
从空间站返回地球,
那是一个白色的关节事件,
所以是的,这是一个巨大的解脱,仍然不能
完全相信它真的发生了,
但
除此之外,为了让
人类成为 一个太空
文明最终
是一个多行星物种,
我认为这是非常
重要的,我希望
你们中的一些人会
在 spacex 或其他公司参与其中,
因为它真的只是
其中之一
对于意识的
保存和扩展来说,最重要的事情
值得注意,因为我相信人们都
知道地球已经存在了
40 亿年,
而文明至少在
文字方面已经存在了 10 000 年
,那就是 很慷慨,我想,嗯,
我实际上
对地球的未来相当乐观,所以
我不想
我不想让
人们错了我 印象我认为我们都快
死
了 百分比的机会
仍然值得花费相当多的
努力来确保我们拥有我们已经
支持了你知道行星冗余的生物圈,
如果你愿意的话
,所以我认为我认为这
真的非常重要,为了
做到这一点
有一个突破需要
发生,那就是创建一个快速且
完全可重复使用的火星运输
系统,这是
那些在不可能的边界上
的事情之一,但这就是我们的事情
'将尝试与 spacex 一起实现那里
,然后在 tesla
front 呃,特斯拉的目标实际上
是试图展示电动汽车
可以做什么,因为人们有错误的
印象,我们必须改变人们的
p 对电动汽车的认识是
因为他们过去认为它
是缓慢而
丑陋的东西,并且射程低,就像高尔夫球
车
,这就是为什么我们创造了
特斯拉跑车来证明你可以
快速
有吸引力和远距离
令人惊奇的是,
即使您可以证明某些
东西在纸上有效,并且
计算非常清晰,
直到您真正拥有物理
对象并且他们可以驱动它,它
并没有真正为人们所
接受,所以
如果你
要创建一家公司,我认为这是值得注意的事情,
你应该尝试做的第一件事是创建一个工作
原型,
嗯,你知道一切
在 powerpoint 上看起来都很棒,但是如果你有,如果
你有一个实际的演示文章,
甚至 如果它是原始形式,那
对于说服
人们
更有效我认为我想说的最重要的
一点是,
你们是
他们喜欢的 21 世纪的魔术师 任何阻碍
你想象力的东西都是极限,
嗯,
去那里创造一些魔法谢谢
你
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