The family structure of elephants Caitlin OConnellRodwell

If I were to distill the 20 years of elephant research

that I’ve done

into one sentence,

what would it be?

What could I tell you?

I would say that elephants are just like us!

And what do I mean by that?

It takes a lot of patience

to be out there in the field

and trying to figure out patterns

of these very slow and intelligent animals.

But over time, it is true they are very similar to us.

And you think, “Well, how can I say that?

Look, they have huge ears,

they have really long noses.

What do you mean they’re like us?”

Well, in fact, their families are very similar to ours.

And family is extremely important to elephants.

They grow up in very tight-knit families

and they have extended families.

And it’s just like our family reunions

where you have all the aunts gathering around

with all the food they’re going to bring and plan,

and all the boys are thinking,

“Are we going to play our video games together?

Are we going to spar?”

It’s very, very similar,

and it’s jubilant, and screaming, yelling, it’s really amazing to see.

But, as soon as you get that family gathering,

it’s just like a wedding or anything else,

all of the sudden the family politics come out,

and the lower-ranking individuals in this scene,

you see the arrow off to the back,

the lower-ranking individuals already know their station,

they’re going to drink at the muddiest part of the pan

because the whole family’s here and we can’t drink at the best water

because that’s reserved for the top-ranking family.

What’s also very similar

is that you have elders in the group

that everyone reveres.

This is the matriarch,

and the other female is reaching over

and doing what’s called a trunk to mouth

placing her trunk in the mouth,

and it’s a sign of respect,

it’s kind of like a handshake,

but it’s also like a salute.

And this salute is learned at a very young age.

Now, ritual and bonding within the family

also facilitates coordinated activities.

So, here’s a young female whose calf has fallen into the trough

and she doesn’t know what to do and she panics.

Well, the older female, that’s the matriarch,

she says, “No problem here,” she just scoops the baby out.

Now, that’s not true for a lot of different families,

they can’t coordinate very well,

the younger females don’t really know what to do,

but the older ones will just get down,

kneel down together and pick the baby out.

Another thing that’s very similar

is the coming of age of teenage boys.

Male elephants at the age of about 12 to 15.

The biggest elephant in this photograph here

is an elephant who’s about the leave the family.

He gets too big, he gets a little fresh,

the adult females had enough of him,

but he also is independent,

he wants to go out and play with the guys.

So what happens then is that you have this all male society,

very ritual male society.

Greg is our main dominant bull here,

you can see him in the middle.

He’s got a huge posse, his following reveres him.

And it’s very interesting how very good leaders,

very good dominant individuals

know how to titrate the carrot and the stick.

This guy’s a master at it,

and there’s other bullies out there

that want to kind of want to create their own little following,

but they can’t do it because they’re too agressive.

And so when he’s not around

they try and sweet talk the underlings to come into their fold,

and they actually become less agressive.

So it’s very interesting to see how politics play out

in these male and female societies.

Now back to the ladies here.

In a core family group you’ll have a mother,

maybe even a grandmother,

her daughters and all of their offspring,

the male and female calves.

And what’s very interesting here

is that how character makes a difference.

So each matriarch has a very different character.

These two characters are kind of curious,

they’re uncertain,

whereas these other two characters are really agressive.

“We’re going to charge first, ask questions later.”

But then there are also matriarchs that say,

“Forget it! I’m going to run first

and then figure it out when we’re in the bush

and it’s safe.”

But the wisest matriarch,

the matriarchs that succeed best

in all of the studies that have been done,

is the one that assesses the danger

and decides is this worth running away from

or is this not a big deal at all.

Now being social is super important for elephants

and of course right at the beginning,

just like early childhood development,

socialization is very important.

Bathing together, eating together, playing together,

rough housing, this is all very important

for social development.

And who hasn’t tried to beat their sibling

to the head of the line coming into the water hole?

And these relationships from the beginning

is just like best friends forever for real.

These females are going to live together for life.

Now if it’s a male, female they might know each other for life,

but it’s really important to develop those bonds early on.

Those are the relationships that are going to save you later.

I’ll show you a little schoolyard scenario here.

Where, I think if you just focus on what’s happening here

you can see that we have the bully,

he’s pulling on the trunk of this baby calf,

and then we have the diplomat

who’s reaching over and saying,

“No, don’t do that! Stop doing that!”

And then, of course, we have the bystander.

And how do you get these three different characters

within the family?

It’s kind of fascinating to think that elephants

really are just like us.

And so I got curious about this

and I thought, “Well, what if you measure

the difference in character of a dominant female’s calf

versus a lower-ranking female’s calf,

and see what happens in their growing up.”

And so we started doing this.

And you can see this little guy with his ears out,

really charging at you.

The difference between that character

and the character who holds back,

wants to touch mom,

isn’t so certain about what’s going on here.

But the other one’s charging ahead all confident.

Well, we started measuring how far away

a calf will stray from mom,

how often do they touch others,

how often do they initiate play,

and then look at the dominance of the females, of their mothers.

And what we found is that socializing with the dominant calves

actually socialize more significantly more than the lower-ranking calves.

And what it looks like is

it’s not that the lower-ranking calves don’t want to play,

they’re actually not allowed to interact

with the higher-ranking calves.

They get swatted away from the dominant females.

and so this is kind of the downside of,

okay we are very much like elephants,

elephants are as much like us,

but it’s kind of for better or for worse

because I can also see this happening in humans

and maybe we should take a lesson from that.

One last thing that we found

is that the males will be the risk-takers,

they’re more independent

and they’re more likely to spend more time away from mom.

And that’s very true in human societies

and with other social animals.

So I hope I’ve convinced you

that we have very similar lives to elephants

and that elephants have very individual, durable

characters that we’ve measured across years.

The bully always tends to be the bully

unless there’s some kind of social upset,

and he decides he better be a softy

or else he’s not going to gain favor at all.

And then you have the gentle giants

that are always going to be gentle.

The young males really need mentoring from the elders,

and those gentle giants are very good at doing that,

soliciting them.

Leaving family is a really hard things for the males,

but they survive and they figure out who to hang out with.

So, just to end here, I just wanted to say that

since they are so similar to us,

and have these characters,

I hope when you see them on TV

or you go out and you’re lucky enough to see them in the wild,

that maybe you’ll think of them

as individual characters deserving of our attention,

and also deserving of our protection. Thank you.

如果让我将我 20 年的大象研究提炼

成一句话,

会是什么?

我能告诉你什么?

我想说大象和我们一样!

我的意思是什么?

在野外

并试图找出

这些非常缓慢而聪明的动物的模式需要很大的耐心。

但随着时间的推移,它们确实与我们非常相似。

你会想,“好吧,我怎么能这么说?

看,他们有大耳朵,

他们有很长的鼻子。

你说他们和我们一样是什么意思?”

嗯,事实上,他们的家庭和我们非常相似。

家庭对大象来说极其重要。

他们在非常紧密的家庭中长大,

并且有大家庭。

就像我们的家庭聚会一样

,所有的阿姨都聚在一起,

带着他们要带来的所有食物并计划

,所有的男孩都在想,

“我们要一起玩电子游戏吗

?我们要 晶石?”

它非常非常相似,

并且欢腾,尖叫,大喊大叫,真是令人惊叹。

但是,一到那个家庭聚会,

就跟婚礼什么的一样,

突然间家庭政治就出来了,

这个场景中的低级人物,

你看到后面的箭头

, 下层的人已经知道他们的位置,

他们会在锅最泥的地方喝,

因为全家人都在这里,我们不能喝最好的水,

因为那是为上层家庭保留的。

同样非常相似的

是,在

大家都敬仰的群体中有长辈。

这是

女族长,另一位女性伸出手

,做着所谓的躯干对口的动作,

将她的躯干放在嘴里

,这是一种尊重的表示,

有点像握手,

但也像敬礼。

这种敬礼是在很小的时候就学会的。

现在,家庭内部的仪式和联系

也有助于协调活动。

所以,这是一个年轻的女性,她的小腿掉进了低谷

,她不知道该怎么办,她很恐慌。

嗯,年长的女性,那就是女族长,

她说,“没问题,”她只是把婴儿舀出来。

现在,很多不同的家庭都不是这样,

他们不能很好地协调

,年轻的女性真的不知道该怎么办,

但年长的女性只会

蹲下来,一起跪下来接孩子。

另一件非常相似的事情

是十几岁的男孩的到来。

大约12到15岁的雄性

大象。这张照片中最大

的大象是一头即将离家出走的大象。

他太大了,他有点新鲜

,成年女性受够了他,

但他也很独立,

他想出去和男人们一起玩。

那么接下来发生的事情就是你拥有这个全是男性的社会,

非常有仪式感的男性社会。

格雷格是我们这里的主要优势公牛,

你可以在中间看到他。

他有一个庞大的团队,他的追随者尊敬他。

非常有趣的是,非常优秀的领导者,

非常优秀的统治者

如何知道如何滴定胡萝卜和大棒。

这家伙是这方面的高手,

还有其他的恶霸

想要创造自己的小追随者,

但他们做不到,因为他们太激进了。

因此,当他不在身边时

,他们会尝试甜言蜜语让下属加入他们的行列

,他们实际上变得不那么好斗了。

因此,看看政治如何

在这些男性和女性社会中发挥作用是非常有趣的。

现在回到这里的女士们。

在一个核心家庭组中,您将有一位母亲,

甚至可能是一位祖母、

她的女儿和他们所有的后代,

即雄性和雌性小牛。

这里非常有趣的

是性格如何产生影响。

所以每个女族长都有非常不同的性格。

这两个角色有点好奇,

他们不确定,

而另外两个角色非常好斗。

“我们先收费,以后再问问题。”

但也有女族长说,

“算了!我要先跑

,等我们在灌木丛里安全了再想办法

。”

但最聪明的女族长,

在所有已完成的研究中最成功的女族长,

是评估危险

并决定这值得逃避

还是根本没有什么大不了的人。

现在社交对大象来说非常重要

,当然一开始,

就像儿童早期发展一样,

社交也非常重要。

一起洗澡,一起吃饭,一起玩,

一起住,这对社会发展来说都是非常重要

的。

谁没有试图将他们的兄弟姐妹

打到进入水坑的队伍的最前面?

这些关系从一开始

就就像永远的最好的朋友一样。

这些女性将终生生活在一起。

现在,如果是男性,女性他们可能会终生相识,

但尽早建立这些联系非常重要。

这些关系将在以后拯救你。

我将在这里向您展示一个小校园场景。

在哪里,我想如果你只关注这里发生的事情,

你会看到我们有欺负者,

他在拉这只小牛犊的躯干,

然后我们有

外交官伸出手说,

“不,不要做 那个!别那样做!”

然后,当然,我们有旁观者。

您如何在家庭中获得这三个不同的角色

认为大象真的和我们一样,这有点令人着迷

所以我对此感到好奇

,我想,“好吧,如果你

衡量一个占主导地位的雌性小腿

和地位较低的雌性小腿的性格差异

,看看它们在成长过程中会发生什么。”

所以我们开始这样做。

你可以看到这个小家伙伸出耳朵,

真的向你冲过来。

那个角色和那个退缩的角色之间的区别,

想要抚摸妈妈,

对这里发生的事情不太确定。

但另一个人则充满信心地向前冲锋。

好吧,我们开始测量

小牛离妈妈有

多远,它们多久触摸一次,

多久开始玩耍,

然后看看雌性,它们的母亲的主导地位。

我们发现,与占主导地位的小牛进行

社交实际上比排名较低的小牛更显着地进行社交。

看起来不是低级小牛不想玩,

实际上是不允许他们

与高级小牛互动。

他们会从占主导地位的雌性动物手中被甩开。

所以这是不利的

一面,好吧,我们非常像大象,

大象和我们一样,

但这有好有坏,

因为我也可以看到这种情况发生在人类身上

,也许我们应该吸取教训 从此。

我们发现的最后一件事

是男性会冒险,

他们更独立

,更有可能花更多时间远离妈妈。

这在人类社会和其他社会动物中是非常真实的

所以我希望我已经让你

相信,我们的生活与大象非常相似

,而且大象具有我们多年来衡量的非常独特、持久的

性格。

欺凌者总是倾向于欺负人,

除非有某种社会不安

,他决定自己最好是个软弱的

人,否则他根本不会获得好感。

然后你有温柔的巨人

,他们总是很温柔。

年轻的男性确实需要长辈的指导,

而那些温柔的巨人很擅长这样做,

请他们。

离开家庭对男性来说是一件非常困难的事情,

但他们活下来了,他们想出了和谁一起出去玩。

所以,到此结束,我只想说,

既然他们和我们如此相似,

并且有这些角色,

我希望当你在电视上看到他们

或者你出去时,你有幸在野外看到他们

,也许你会认为他们

是值得我们关注的个体角色

,也值得我们保护。 谢谢你。