Why is being scared so fun Margee Kerr
Somewhere right now,
people are lining up to scare themselves,
maybe with a thrill ride or horror movie.
In fact, in October of 2015 alone,
about 28 million people visited
a haunted house in the U.S.
But many consider
this behavior perplexing,
asking the question,
“What could possibly be fun
about being scared?”
Fear has a bad rap, but it’s not all bad.
For starters,
fear can actually feel pretty good.
When a threat triggers
our fight or flight response,
our bodies prepare for danger
by releasing chemicals that change
how our brains and bodies function.
This automatic response jumpstarts
systems that can aid in survival.
They do this by making sure
we have enough energy
and are protected from feeling pain,
while shutting down nonessential systems,
like critical thought.
Feeling pain-free and energized,
while not getting caught up in worrisome
thoughts that normally occupy our brains,
that all sounds great,
and it can be because this response
is similar, though not exactly the same
to what we experience in positive,
high-arousal states,
like excitement, happiness,
and even during sex.
The difference lays in the context.
If we’re in real danger, we’re focused
on survival, not fun.
But when we trigger this high arousal
response in a safe place,
we can switch over to enjoying
the natural high of being scared.
It’s why people on roller coasters can go
from screaming to laughing within moments.
Your body is already in a euphoric state.
You’re just relabeling the experience.
And though the threat response
is universal,
research shows differences
between individuals
in how the chemicals associated
with the threat response work.
This explains why some are more prone
to thrill-seeking than others.
Other normal physical differences explain
why some may love the dizziness
associated with a loop-de-loop,
while loathing the stomach-drop sensation
of a steep roller coaster,
or why some squeal with delight
inside a haunted house,
but retreat in terror
if taken to an actual cemetery.
Fear brings more
than just a fun, natural high.
Doing things that we’re afraid of
can give us a nice boost of self-esteem.
Like any personal challenge,
whether it’s running a race
or finishing a long book,
when we make it through to the end,
we feel a sense of accomplishment.
This is true even if we know
we’re not really in any danger.
Our thinking brains may know
the zombies aren’t real,
but our bodies tell us otherwise.
The fear feels real,
so when we make it through alive,
the satisfaction and sense
of accomplishment also feel real.
This is a great evolutionary adaptation.
Those who had the right balance
of bravery and wit
to know when to push through the fear
and when to retreat
were rewarded with survival,
new food,
and new lands.
Finally, fear can bring people together.
Emotions can be contagious,
and when you see your friend
scream and laugh,
you feel compelled to do the same.
This is because we make sense of what
our friends are experiencing
by recreating the experience ourselves.
In fact, the parts of the brain
that are active when our friend screams
are active in us when we watch them.
This not only intensifies
our own emotional experience,
but makes us feel closer
to those we’re with.
The feeling of closeness during
times of fear
is aided by the hormone oxytocin
released during fight or flight.
Fear is a powerful emotional experience,
and anything
that triggers a strong reaction
is going to be stored in our memory
really well.
You don’t want to forget
what can hurt you.
So if your memory of watching a horror
film with your friends is positive
and left you with a sense of satisfaction,
then you’ll want to do it over
and over again.