How my experience at a military camp changed me.

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what do you want to be

in the future what problems in the world

where you try to solve

is it to be successful to be famous

or just to be happy

everyone wants something different from

themselves

but how how do we make whatever it is we

want

in the future actually happen

being successful in the future mislaying

the foundations

for that success right now in the

present

and to do that we need to have some kind

of strategy

we need to develop the right knowledge

skills and experience

to make our future a reality

we need to be able to think long term

and understand how and why

making the right investment in that

knowledge

no skills experience right now

will yield tremendous positive returns

in the future

and we need to understand that to learn

something of real value

we often need to work real hard for it

and that’s what i want to talk to you

about today

how i make sacrifices

push myself way out of my comfort zone

i learned three important life lessons

lessons that have helped me to become a

better person

i set myself up for a bright and

brilliant future

so what was the investment i made

attending military camp

it’s one of the best and smartest things

i’ve ever done

so what do i want to be in the future

well i want to be an engineer

but becoming a top engineer

one would develop technological advances

that could someday save the world isn’t

going to be easy

the thousands of people across the world

all wanting to do the same

i knew i need something now give me the

edge

something that will ensure that i have

what it takes

to get to the top in the future

the only problem was i didn’t know

what that something was until

i enrolled in military camp

and that’s where i learned three golden

lessons

that i will share with you today

this was actually my third time at

matrix camp

the time when i had chosen to go

the first two times were mandatory and

arranged our school

but i learned so much that i want to

know

what else i could gain from a third time

one which was optional one full of

motivated young people

who really did want to learn and i

was learning every minute of every day

but if i had to extract three golden

lessons

i’d have to say their resilience

responsibility and leadership

let’s start with the first when you are

in military camp

the first thing you learn is resilience

trust me

when you first first learn how to stand

in a perfectly straight line

and then walk in unison

you practice for the whole day and i

do mean the whole day at the end of it

you feel like marching right out of the

cap and going straight home

but your legs already feel like they’re

falling off

but you have no choice to stay

but joking i say if you stick with it

and push yourself as hard as you can

day in day out it does become easier

and it gives you a great sense of

accomplishment

knowing that you dug deep

and were resilient enough to conquer the

stress

and pain when others couldn’t manage it

the second golden lesson was

responsibility

for yourself and others as well

i remember one of the best instructors

taught us

that whenever we do something you do it

quickly

do it without hesitation and you should

never procrastinate

and that’s what we had to do

whatever we were told to do we had to do

it

right away no question asked no

complaining

and definitely no whining

for example we had to wake up at 6 30

a.m

every day and then to wash our faces

a brush of teeth in only 15 minutes

and got only 5 minutes to put on our

clothes and make our bets

if you were the one who’s late you’ll be

punished by having clean your bathroom

or wipe the floor

there were no excuses no get off jail

free cards

no emotions no preferences

it would just cause an effect

so the lesson learned was whenever you

do something

just do it don’t get distracted

don’t be negative you do it properly

the first time i

had to be responsible for my own actions

all the time it will avoid

a lot of heartache later

the second lesson on responsibility

what’s to do with teamwork

being responsible for a team an outcome

he created

i remember we had to pass messages

between us

often in stressful conditions

and we had to make sure that we transfer

exactly the right information

and to the right person at the right

time

otherwise the mission will fail

in a real-world scenario could mean life

or death

given the fact that young people like me

the leaders of tomorrow

are growing up in the 21st century

where teamwork a rapid face-to-face

communication

is more crucial than ever

this was great practice and a really

really valuable lesson

in the real world whether in war or

business

miscommunication indecision

or lack of clarity can obviously

be disastrous and finally

golden lesson number three leadership

responsibility and leadership go hand in

hand

but in addition to responsibility

leadership demands vision and

perspective

and there’s no better place to learn

leadership

than a military camp because that

is what is testing and developing all

the time

you’re often asked to lead groups

through a variety of grueling

assignments

and then reflect on what went well and

what

could be improved next time

and you were also made aware of that

good leadership doesn’t mean complete

dictatorship

sometimes it actually means allowing

yourself

to bled by others in order to achieve

a common goal

it is impossible to commit yourself

fully to something like military camp

and not come out the other side a

changed person

it’s also impossible not to have learned

some incredibly valuable life skills

and understand implementing them in your

daily life

as much as you can

i became a better person

after attending military camp

it made me more resilient

it made me more responsible and it made

me

a better leader and team player

i understand the life is hard

and it gets harder as you grow older

i am 14. in a few years

i’ll be in doubt and i have to be

prepared

to take whatever life throws at me

i am confident that i now

have the courage the knowledge

skills and experience to say no to

negativity and doubt

to embrace and overcome adversity

and lead myself wisely along a positive

path a path to a seemingly uncertain

future

but a future in which i will be not only

survive

but thrive

i would definitely go back to military

camp this year

would i recommend military camp to you

yes sir

you

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未来你想

成为什么样的人 你试图解决的世界上的什么问题

是为了成名

还是为了快乐

每个人都想要与自己不同的东西

但是我们怎么做 我们

希望

在未来真正发生

在未来取得成功

在现在错误地为成功奠定基础

,为此我们需要制定

某种战略,

我们需要培养正确的知识

技能和经验,

以使我们的未来成为 现实

我们需要能够长期思考

并理解如何以及为什么

对这些知识进行正确的投资

现在没有技能经验

会在未来产生巨大的积极回报

,我们需要了解要学习

我们经常需要的真正有价值的东西 为之努力工作

,这就是我今天想和你谈谈的事情

我如何做出牺牲 让

自己走出舒适区

我学到了三个重要的人生道理 儿子的

课程帮助我成为一个

更好的人

我为自己的光明和辉煌的未来做好了准备

所以我参加军营的投资是什么这是我做过

的最好和最聪明的事情

之一

所以我想做什么 未来

好我想成为一名工程师,

但成为一名顶级工程师

将开发

有朝一日可以拯救世界的技术进步

非易事全世界成千上万的人

都想做同样的事情

我知道我 现在需要一些东西给我一些

优势

,这将确保我拥有

在未来登上顶峰所需

一切

今天我要和你分享的黄金课程

这实际上是我第三次参加

矩阵营

,前两次我选择去的时间是强制性的,并

安排了我们的学校,

但我学到了很多东西,我

想去 现在

我还能从第三次获得什么

,这是可选的,充满了

积极的年轻人

,他们真的很想学习,我

每天每一分钟都在学习,

但如果我必须提取三个黄金

课程,

我不得不说 他们的韧性

责任和领导力

让我们从第一个开始当你

在军营时

你学到的第一件事就是韧性

相信我

当你第一次学会如何

站在一条完美的直线

上然后一致走路

你练习一整天 我的

意思是一整天结束时,

你感觉就像从

帽子里走出来,直接回家,

但你的腿已经感觉像是要

掉下来了,

但你别无选择留下来,

但我开玩笑说,如果你坚持下去 它

并日复一日地尽你所能地努力

它确实变得更容易了

,它给你一种巨大的

成就感,

因为你知道你挖得很深,

并且有足够的弹性来克服

别人c时的压力和痛苦 无法管理

它第二个黄金教训是

对自己和他人负责

做我们被要求做的任何事情,我们必须马上

去做,

没有问题,没有

抱怨

,绝对没有抱怨

,例如,我们必须每天早上 6 点 30

起床,然后

在 15 分钟内洗脸刷牙

并且只有 5 分钟的时间穿上我们的

衣服并下注

如果你是迟到的人,你将

受到打扫浴室

或擦地板的惩罚

没有任何借口 没有下车 无监狱

没有情绪 没有

偏好 只会产生影响,

所以吸取的教训是,每当你

做某事时,

就去做,不要分心,

不要消极,你做得

很好,我第

一次必须为自己的

行为负责 我这将

避免很多心痛

稍后第二课关于责任

与团队合作有什么关系

对团队负责他创造的结果

我记得我们必须

经常在压力条件下在我们之间传递信息

,我们必须确保我们转移

在正确的时间向正确的人提供正确的信息,

否则任务将

在现实世界中失败可能意味着生死攸关

,因为像我这样的年轻人

,明天的领导者

正在成长在团队合作的 21 世纪

快速的面对面

交流

比以往任何时候都更加重要

这是一个很好的实践,

也是现实世界中非常有价值的一课,无论是在战争还是

商业中

沟通不畅 犹豫不决

或缺乏明确性显然

是灾难性的,最后是

第三课领导

责任的黄金课 和领导力齐头并进,

但除了责任之外,

领导力还需要远见和远见

,还有 没有比军营更好的学习领导力的地方了,

因为

这是一直在测试和发展

东西,你经常被要求带领团队

完成各种艰苦的

任务

,然后反思哪些地方做得好,

哪些地方

下次可以改进

你也意识到,

好的领导并不意味着完全的

独裁,

有时它实际上意味着允许

自己被别人流血以

实现共同的目标

另一边是一个

改变了的人

,也不可能不学习

一些非常有价值的生活技能,

并尽可能多地理解在日常生活中实施它们。

参加军营后我变成了一个更好的人,

这让我更有韧性

,让我更有责任感和 它让

成为了一个更好的领导者和团队

合作者 几年

我会怀疑,我必须准备

好接受生活给

我的

任何

东西 沿着积极

的道路通往看似不确定的

未来,

但未来我将不仅

生存

而且茁壮成长

我今年肯定会回到军营

我会向你推荐军营吗

是的先生