The One Path Problem Why College Is Not The Only Option

before i say anything

full disclosure i’m planning to apply to

and hopefully get to attend college in

fact

when i think about it a large chunk of

my academic career

has actually revolved around this idea

probably since as early as middle school

writing this talk hasn’t changed my mind

although

i don’t know if that’s because this is

the right goal for me or

if it’s simply the only one i’ve been

trained to aspire towards

and maybe even guilted into by my

ever-loving parents

since day one this in

fact is the question that pushed me to

start researching

is life really so binary that the only

options we have after completing our

secondary education

are college or not

what are the alternatives and why

haven’t i heard anything about them

is this a me problem or are others

around me struggling with the same thing

well i couldn’t find a definitive answer

on google

which is a rare occurrence but i did

find

plenty of articles touting all the

benefits of a college education

and there are many a college degree

provides easier access into the

professional world

and is a necessity if you want to go for

a master’s or phd

personal relationships with professors

can turn into life-long

mentorships fellow students can become

friends business partners

or useful contacts for the future and

the overall

college experience is set to be the best

years of your life

where you finally find your people

that’s all great but there is a

surprisingly limited amount of

information

about the possible downsides of a

college education

what i started to realize is that our

society has set such rigid expectations

for ourselves our friends our family

members

and even strangers that anything that

has historically been deemed a little

less ambitious

is considered a failure or a waste of

time

this mindset is not just archaic but

constricting

and harmful and so today

i want to challenge you to start

thinking

and begin engaging in the dialogue

needed to promote more than one

path to accept the possibility

that a college education need not

determine your value

status and society or future success

i want to be clear my goal today is not

to dissuade anyone from going to college

if that is what they really want rather

it is to present the possibility that

for a variety of students

there are other perspectives there is

more than one path

towards success as a high school student

i can confidently say that one of the

biggest pressures we face

even as early as freshman year is

getting into college

a study conducted by new york university

shows that 49

of high school students in the united

states reported feeling a great deal of

stress

on a daily basis and 26 reported

depression

at a clinically significant level these

students

cited one of their greatest causes of

stress

as getting into college this pressure

isn’t just coming from friends and

family but from society at large

the idea however that everyone needs to

go to college

is a purely american one in european

countries

the attendance to vocational school is

approximately equal

and the workforce benefits from having

people from each distinct

background my friend noah

an exchange student from switzerland was

telling me about the differences between

her life back home

and the month she has spent here in

america and one of the things that

surprised her most

was how differently our educational

systems are structured

in switzerland not everyone goes to

college

that is actually the less likely option

around age 16 students start working in

their chosen field

three days a week the other two days are

spent in vocational school

preparing them for their work and

helping to hone their craft

those who do continue on with their

education are pursuing jobs that require

a lot of background information

and training before one can begin

practicing such as a doctor

or lawyer statistics from the department

of labor show

that while only 31 of jobs need training

past high school

70 percent of americans enroll in

college a figure that demonstrates how

pervasive

and incorrect this notion is

but oftentimes students don’t know there

are other options

or if they do they believe pursuing them

makes you inferior in some way

educating young adults about all of the

options and opportunities that are

available to them

should be an important part of the

college selection process

especially because college is expensive

many students have to take out loans to

finance their education

and these can hold them back hindering

them and leaving them with financial

restrictions until they can be paid off

which on average takes 10 years

in fact did you know that total student

loan debt in the united states is

actually

higher than credit card debt it’s grown

to be 1.5

trillion dollars and yet many people who

invest in their education

believe they will be offered a job right

out of college that will allow them to

pay off their loans

in full a study conducted by lend edu

shows that students expect to be paid on

average ten thousand dollars more

than the true starting salary for an

entry-level position in their chosen

field

people are underestimating the cost of a

college education

and are not fully prepared for the

amount of debt they’re going to take on

ouch what a way to start adulting

again all of this isn’t to say that

college isn’t a worthwhile endeavor

it absolutely is for some people

just not for everyone despite long-held

societal beliefs

one option that is commonly considered

is taking a gap year

this is an opportunity to gain

experience in between your senior year

of high school

and your freshman year of college this

time

can be a super important step in

ultimately deciding what you want to do

a close family member of mine was really

passionate about marketing straight out

of high school

she jumped right into classes paid for

and attended them for four years

and as she started her first job she

realized

she absolutely hated it she could choose

to stay miserable

or go back to the drawing board and find

a completely new profession

she chose the latter and is now happy as

a doctor of physical therapy

however she wishes she had taken the

time to get her bearings

rather than going right into a career

and thinks a gap year would have been

the perfect opportunity to do so

recently the pandemic has forced many

high school seniors to consider taking

their own gap year

with the college experience promising to

be vastly different due to various

safety measures

these students are taking time for

themselves and exploring career options

in hopes that they can return to a more

normal version of campus in the next

year

research compiled by the gap year

association found that overall

students who chose to partake in gap

years benefited in numerous ways

from increasing confidence maturity and

readiness for college

to clarifying the path one wants to take

and positively impacting grades once

they enrolled in a university

just because you take a gap year that

doesn’t mean you can’t take high-level

classes in topics that interest you

websites like coursera edx udemy and all

the other ones up here

provide classes online from universities

for free

and in this case you don’t have to be in

college to participate

i’ve been taking classes over the summer

with topics ranging from

the moral foundations of politics to

social psychology

to the art of negotiation while this is

where my interests lie

they have classes in almost every

subject you can think of

quite frankly it’s difficult to pick

just one

you can also take them on your own

schedule which is super helpful when you

go to school

or work every day and if you choose you

can purchase a course certificate to put

on your resume

after taking some of these classes some

might come to the conclusion that

they don’t want to go to college at all

it

might sound extreme but this option

saves time

which can be used to start a new company

create a groundbreaking new product

launch a non-profit

or simply start working in your chosen

field

it also frees up money and does not

involve taking on massive student loans

in fact peter thiel a tech mogul has a

grant available to college age students

offering 100 000 dollars to drop out of

school

and build something new while people

like mark zuckerberg who famously

dropped out of college

are unique and most of us won’t find the

same heights of success that he did

he is also a big proponent of skipping

college

big tech jobs however are not the only

ones that don’t require a college degree

in fact there are jobs in almost every

field that only require a high school

diploma

people can be dental and medical

assistants legal assistants

real estate agents insurance sales

people artists musicians

any of the jobs you see up here and more

and make a very comfortable living

in fact the ceo of whole foods just

announced that a manager in their stores

can make over one hundred thousand

dollars annually with just a high school

diploma

in the past few months it has become

more evident to all of us

how important essential workers are to

keeping our world running on a

day-to-day basis

while we all stayed home quarantined to

protect ourselves and our families

essential workers remained personal care

aids worked with the elderly

the group of people most at risk for a

serious case of the coronavirus

firefighters and emts put themselves in

harm’s way

every day to keep the rest of us safe

truck drivers drive

cross country keeping industries afloat

and delivering supplies

grocery store employees make sure the

shelves are stocked every day

so we can all get what we need it took a

pandemic for us to realize how important

essential workers are

but it is a lesson that we all must

remember long after it ends

while some of the options i’ve just

presented might sound unrealistic

research has found that approximately 23

percent of college students

drop out by their fourth year anyway

that’s almost a quarter

so despite what we are being led to

believe people are coming to realize

too late that college is not the right

choice for them

i believe we have the power to change

the statistic

if we’re willing to think about what we

really want

and we can save a whole lot of time

money

and stress along the way

like i said the difficult part of this

talk for me

is that even after researching and

writing about all of this

college is still my goal i don’t know if

that means it’s the right road for me to

be

on or if google maps has simply

ingrained inside my internal gps

the road more traveled do i reroute now

or wait for a traffic jam

well the goal of today is not to

convince anyone

including myself not to go to college

rather i’m going to ask you to ask

yourself

three questions one why is college so

important to me

two have i ever imagined what my life

would be like without college

and three is there something else i’d

rather be doing

there is no right path for everyone

but whatever you do decide please don’t

do it because everyone else around you

is

or because it’s too much effort to think

about what you really want

it’s true that college is not the only

choice we’re going to make

but it is going to determine a lot

so think about what you really

want do your research

listen to all of the advice around you

but ultimately

make your own choice

thank you

在我说任何

完全披露之前,我计划申请

并希望能上大学,

事实上,

当我想到它时,

我的学术生涯

的很大一部分实际上都围绕着这个想法,

可能早在中学

写这篇演讲的时候就已经开始了 “我没有改变主意,

尽管

我不知道这是否是因为这

对我来说是正确的目标,

或者它是否只是我从第一天起就被

训练向往的目标

,甚至可能被我永远慈爱的父母感到内疚

事实上,这是促使我

开始研究

的问题,生活真的是如此二元,以至于

我们完成中学教育后的唯一选择

是大学或不上大学,

还有哪些选择,为什么

我没有听说过关于它们的任何消息,

这就是我 问题或者我周围的其他人是否

也在为同样的事情而

苦苦挣扎 教育,

并且有许多大学学位

可以更轻松地进入

专业领域

,如果您想攻读硕士或博士学位,这是必不可少的

与教授的个人关系

可以变成终身

导师 同学可以成为

朋友 商业伙伴

或有用的联系人 对于未来

,整个

大学经历将成为

你一生中最美好的岁月,在

那里你终于找到了你的人

,这一切都很棒,但

关于大学教育可能存在的不利因素的信息数量惊人地有限,

我开始意识到的是 我们的

社会

对我们自己、我们的朋友、我们的家人

甚至陌生人设定了如此严格的期望,以至于任何

历史上被认为不

那么雄心勃勃的事情都

被认为是失败或浪费

时间

这种心态不仅过时,而且

限制

和有害等等 今天

我想挑战你开始

思考

并开始参与

对话 需要推广不止一种

途径来接受

大学教育不需要

决定你的价值

地位和社会或未来成功的可能性

我想明确我今天的目标

不是劝阻任何人上大学,

如果那是他们真正想要的 相反,

它展示了这样一种可能性,即

对于各种学生来说,

还有其他观点,

作为一名高中生,通往成功的道路不止一条,

我可以自信地说,

即使早在大一,我们面临的最大压力之一就是

进入大学

纽约大学进行的一项研究

表明,美国有 49

名高中生

报告说每天都感到很大的

压力,26 人报告说

有临床意义的抑郁症 这些

学生

列举了他们压力的最大原因之一

进入大学后,这种

压力不仅来自朋友和

家人,还来自整个

社会 e需要

上大学

在欧洲国家是纯粹的美国人在

职业学校的出勤率

大致相同

,劳动力受益于

来自不同

背景的人我的朋友诺亚

来自瑞士的交换生

告诉我她生活之间的差异

回到家

,她在

美国度过了一个月,最令她惊讶的事情之一

是我们的教育

体系

在瑞士的结构有多么不同,并不是每个人都上

大学

,这实际上是

16 岁左右学生开始工作

的不太可能的选择。 每周三天选择的领域

,另外两天

在职业学校度过,

为他们的工作做准备并

帮助磨练他们的技能

那些继续

接受教育的人正在从事

需要大量背景信息

和培训才能开始的工作

执业医生

或律师等劳工部统计

因为虽然只有 31 个工作需要在高中毕业后接受培训,但

70% 的美国人进入了

大学,这一数字表明了

这种观念的普遍性和不正确性,

但学生通常不知道

还有其他选择,

或者他们认为追求这些选择

会带来 你在某种程度上不如

教育年轻人了解他们可用的所有

选择和机会

应该是大学选择过程的重要组成部分,

特别是因为大学很昂贵,

许多学生不得不贷款来

资助他们的教育,

而这些可以持有 他们回来阻碍

他们并让他们受到财务

限制,直到他们可以还清

这平均需要 10

年事实上你知道吗,美国的学生

贷款债务总额

实际上

高于信用卡债务它已经增长

到 1.5

万亿美元 然而,许多

投资于他们教育的人

相信他们会在

大学毕业后得到一份工作 t 将允许他们

全额还清

贷款,lend edu 进行的一项研究

表明,学生期望的

平均

工资比

他们所选领域的入门级职位的真实起薪高出一万美元

人们低估了成本 接受过

大学教育,

并且还没有为

他们将要承担的债务量做好充分准备,

哎呀,这是一种如何再次开始成人的方式

所有这一切并不是说

大学不值得努力,

它绝对适合某些人

尽管长期以来的社会信仰,人们只是不适合所有人

一个通常被认为

的选择是间隔年

这是一个

高中高

年级和大学一年级之间获得经验的机会 这次

可能非常重要 介入

最终决定你想做什么

我的一个亲密家庭成员

高中

毕业就对营销非常

热情 找了他们四年

,当她开始她的第一份工作时,她

意识到

她绝对讨厌它,她可以

选择保持痛苦

或回到绘图板并找到

一个全新的职业,

她选择了后者,现在很高兴成为

一名物理医生

然而,她希望自己花

时间去了解自己的方向,

而不是直接进入职业生涯,

并认为间隔年将是

这样做的绝佳机会。

最近,大流行迫使许多

高中生考虑

过自己的间隔年

由于采取了各种安全措施,大学经历有望大不相同,

这些学生正在为

自己腾出时间并探索职业选择

,希望他们能够

在明年回到更正常的校园版本

由间隔年协会编制的研究

发现

选择参加间隔

年的整体学生

从提高信心成熟度和准备度中受益匪浅

大学澄清一个人想要走的道路,

在他们进入大学后对成绩产生积极影响,

仅仅因为你参加了一个间隔年,

这并不意味着你不能参加

你感兴趣的主题的高级课程,

比如 coursera edx udemy 和

这里的所有其他人都

免费提供大学在线课程

,在这种情况下,您不必在

大学就可以参加

我整个夏天都在上课

,主题从

政治的道德基础到

社会 从心理学

到谈判艺术,虽然这是

我的兴趣所在,

但他们几乎所有

你能想到的科目都有课程,

坦率地说,很难只选择

一门

你也可以按照自己的

日程安排上课,这对你上学很有帮助

或每天工作,如果您选择,您

可以在参加其中一些课程后购买课程证书

放在您的简历上

,有些人

可能会得出结论,

他们没有 完全想上大学这

听起来可能很极端,但是这个选项

可以节省时间

,可以用来创办一家新公司

创建一个开创性的新产品

推出一个非营利组织,

或者只是开始在你选择的领域工作,

它还可以节省资金并且确实 不

涉及承担大量学生

贷款 事实上,彼得泰尔是一位科技大亨,

为大学生

提供了 10 万美元的资助,让他们辍学

并建立新的东西,而

像马克·扎克伯格这样著名的

辍学的人

是独一无二的,而且最 我们中的一些人不会找到

与他相同的成功高度,

他也是跳过大学大技术工作的坚定支持者,

但并不是

唯一不需要大学学位的工作

,事实上几乎每个

领域都有工作 只需要高中

文凭

人们可以是牙科和医疗

助理 法律助理

房地产经纪人 保险销售

人员 艺术家 音乐家

你在这里看到的任何工作等等

过上非常舒适的

生活 事实上,whole foods 的 CEO 刚刚

宣布,在过去的几个月里,他们商店的经理

只需高中文凭就可以每年赚取超过 10 万美元

,这

对我们所有人来说已经变得更加明显

重要的基本工作人员是为了

让我们的世界保持日常运转,

而我们都呆在家里隔离以

保护自己和我们的家人

基本工作人员仍然是个人护理

辅助工具与老年人一起工作

最容易发生

严重病例的人群 的冠状病毒

消防员和紧急救援人员每天都将自己置于危险之中,

以确保我们其他人的安全

卡车司机驾驶

越野保持工业运转

并运送物资

杂货店员工确保

货架每天都有库存,

以便我们都能得到我们需要的东西 一场

大流行让我们意识到

基本工人的重要性,

但这是我们所有人在大流行结束后很久都必须记住的教训

虽然我刚刚

提出的一些选择听起来不切实际,但

研究发现,大约 23

% 的大学生

在第四年就辍学了,

这几乎是四分之一,

所以尽管我们被引导

相信人们意识到这一点

为时已晚 那所大学对他们来说不是正确的

选择

我相信

如果我们愿意考虑我们真正想要的东西,我们就有能力改变统计数据,

并且我们可以像我说的那样节省大量时间

金钱

和压力

对我

来说,这次演讲的难点在于,即使在研究和

撰写了关于这所大学的所有内容之后,

我仍然是我的目标,我不知道这是否

意味着这对我来说是正确的道路,

或者谷歌地图是否只是

在我的内部根深蒂固 gps

这条路走得更远,我是现在改道

还是等堵车

好今天的目标不是

说服

包括我自己在内的任何人不要上大学,

而是我要你问

自己

三个问题 问题一为什么大学

对我来说如此重要

二我有没有想过没有大学我的生活

会是什么样子

三是否还有其他事情我

宁愿做

没有适合每个人的正确道路

但无论你做什么决定请不要

这样做是因为你周围的其他人

都是,

或者是因为

思考你

真正想要的东西太费劲

希望您的研究

听取您周围的所有建议,

但最终

做出自己的选择,

谢谢