Future belongs to us
i want to
say that life is
beautiful do you agree with me
you may disagree with me
but i just want to tell you that i am
here
on this earth for more than 35 years
what i just said it what i have
experienced
and this is what i have learned and this
is also what i
feel and i believe
and i’m here to share with you my
experiences
and my learning because i feel that you
are the future
because after this university degree you
are going to
jump into a real life and these
experiences
and this learning are going to help you
to balance your life
and i think we need to practice this
are you here with me are you with me
speak aloud are you with me
well done now tell me who is the most
beautiful person sitting here tell me
who is the most beautiful person here
okay who is the most intelligent person
here
you don’t know remember that i tell you
who is the most beautiful and who is the
most intelligent
you are the most beautiful person and
you are the most
intelligent person in your own
distinct way
you know why because you
all are different we
even not you but we all are different
actually
and because we are different we are
unique and because we are unique
this uniqueness can never ever be
compared
and this makes each one of us a very
very special person
on this mother earth and this is very
important
to know so
always remember
that you are important you
are special you
are unique but at the same time
what is more important is that respect
the individuality and the uniqueness
and the existence of others
there is one more thing that you need to
remember
that no one has a right
to tag you to comment on you
to judge you or to discourage you
or to discriminate you based on
your religion your caste
your culture
the skin color your height your weight
and the way you talk walk eat drink and
sleep
and think you know why
because we all are
equal
equally intelligent and
equally competent
so appreciate
first the beauty within you
and beauty in others and this is
life now can you tell me what is the
theme of today’s event
speak aloud what is the theme of today’s
call of tomorrow yes it is
this is a well thought theme
that reminds each one of us
about our purpose
a purpose to improve and our purpose
to contribute first improve
ourselves and then improve
everything around us and this includes a
society
so that we can create a happy and a
healthy
and a beautiful place for our new
generation
so that we can leave this earth or we
can exit
this earth gracefully
you know with each passing moment this
tomorrow
is going to become today
and the moment you blink this today will
become a history
and you know what our new generation
learns
from the history
so think critically think twice
whatever you want tomorrow
now you know that every
fifth adolescent in this world is an
is an indian do you know this
every fifth adolescent is an indian
so you are the future because you are
going to
rule the future remember this you are
going to rule the future are you happy
you should be happy but here is one data
that i want to share with you
the national crime
records bureau you might have heard
about it the national crime bureau
records crime records bureau
has released a report about
the statistics of the suicide victims
and if you look closely you can see that
here you can see that the student
share is 7.6
and in every hour one
student commits aside this is very
alarming
and i have another eye opening data
and you will be surprised to know this
maharashtra is number one in suicide
cases
please remember that you are
precious
you are precious but those who hurt
themselves
and those who commit suicide
they actually don’t understand this
because they don’t respect their own
existence
as a human being are we so fragile
that anybody or any situation
takes away our happiness and drags us to
this extent that we are committing
suicide
no
but i believe that our new generation
you you are the strongest people in this
world
and you know that life is all about
ups and downs but you know this is life
sometimes we lose hope
for this you need to improve ourselves
but how
now i’ll tell you how first be the
commander of your
own life and don’t let
anybody anybody
hurt you or damage you
physically mentally socially
and emotionally in the name of
love relationship
faith and respect
remember this second
we all are successful
please remember it’s a magical sentence
we
all are successful how
because we survived we survived
in the womb and we have survived outside
the womb
and therefore we all are beautiful lives
around
are you agree with me yes
see nature has chosen you
nature has chosen you remember
so you need not to worry
but we hardly think about it because we
all
are busy in getting success
but what is success there is nothing
like success
because we all are successful
basically
this is just achievement
life is all about goals
and we put in lot of effort we do our
best
to achieve that goal
but sometimes what happens we don’t
achieve much
this is the time when you have to be
strong
you have to double your strength
and you should not lose hope
and then kick start you will definitely
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see there is nothing that you cannot
achieve in your life
everything is possible but the magical
word is hard work
hard work is key to success but hard
work does not mean
spending sleepless nights and getting
this
dark circles around your eyes and not
eating properly because you are busy in
doing hard work
please don’t do this i think we need to
understand the real meaning of the hard
work
hard work basically is honesty
dedication perseverance
and consistency in your own work and
towards your target
and this should be associated with five
important
things that you should do first sleep
tight
eat right plan right and execute
tight and with this there are four more
things that you need to do
is that first of all you realize your
own
strength and try to strengthen it more
and then second identify
or realize your weaknesses and try to
convert those weaknesses to
your strengths
number three identify the opportunities
which are going to help you while you’re
in the process of achieving something
and the last is threats or the
challenges which are going to
affect when you are in the process of
achieving your goal
and all these things should be done
before the time
slips
third third is you have to take care of
the four aspects of your life first
your body second your mind
third your heart that is your emotions
and your environment so first of all
keep your body fit and healthy
and for this again you need to do two
things number one
eat right and walk tight
see i have seen that few
young generation or youngsters they are
very crazy about
getting packs here and also having this
body
muscle because you want to look
good you look good but i tell you
if you are fit and if you are healthy
believe me you look
awesome but
these muscles and these packs are added
advantage
but if you are crazy about it and you
inject something
in your body and you eat something that
harms your body
and you are admitted in the hospital you
are in the icu and you are in the
dialysis and sometimes i’ve seen that
boys have died then i have a problem
if you want to have a pax please do the
exercise
this is true for girls also the data
says that
more than 50 percent girls are anemic
there are various reasons for being
anemic
but the one is
to be slim again i have no problem if
you
if you want to be slim and you want to
look beautiful
everybody has the right but i have a
problem when you don’t eat properly and
when you eat
and then you vomit just to maintain your
slim figure
please don’t do this the data says that
there is a study conducted in different
states of india the data
shows that our young generations are
becoming thin
and short and this smoking
drinking drug abuse
and junk food these are damaging our
body
please remember again that the health
and well-being of
your future generation your future
generation not mind future generation
your future generation is in your hands
so take care of your body another one
your mind and your heart
is there anybody who is not distressed
is there anybody
there is no one who don’t have stress
everybody is a stress
may be small or big but actually i tell
you there is nothing like stress
it is just a state of mind
it is just a state of mind when
something that has not happened the way
we have perceived
and it is also a perceived
danger when there is actually no danger
so we start
showing our stress in three different
forms
flight flight is an anxiety
fight aggression and this freeze
is helplessness please don’t do this
if you are really stressed you feel
stressed and you don’t you are not able
to come
come out of it please do following
things
first of all be confident and happy
always
prepare yourself well and manage time as
much as you can
then control your emotions don’t let
emotions control you remember that every
problem has a solution
so find one for you if you are not able
to find the solution please interact
with others talk to others and get their
advice
people are here to help us then learn to
say
it’s okay it is not good that for small
small thing we always feel sorry and
guilty
it is okay to say it’s okay then
spend some time with yourself find some
me time so that you can
synchronize your body your mind and your
heart
this is very important your mobile
phones need synchronization
synchronization so you need the same
thing
and again remember the moment you
understand
that sadness happiness excitement
guilt all these are the part of life and
these are the natural
you will be less stressed so practice
this
now the environment see environment
includes
living as well as non-living things
including the people the society
everything and you have some
responsibility
to con so to follow your responsibility
and
contribute to your environment for this
you need to
do few things first of all don’t waste
water try to reuse it
plan a plant without any reason
then you have to use a public transport
whenever necessary
or whenever you can because it is going
to
help us to reduce the pollution then go
green
that means whenever you are traveling
please carry your own water bottle
and carry bag then respect the existence
of others for this please don’t break
the cues when you are
in queue please don’t break the queue
and also flush the toilet after use
because when you respect this is a kind
of respect that you give
while doing so because when you pay the
respect to others
people are going to respect you your
existence also
then if you really want to improve
someone or something
please make them your friend and then
connect with them and then correct this
is the right process
and then spread happiness for spreading
happiness you need not to do anything
you just be simple have a smile on your
face
and appreciate there will be happiness
everywhere and finally
love your country
there is no other country like india
believe me there is no other country
there is no other culture like
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for calling me here on this tedx event
and
my profession is to work for the care
and
care and education of young children
or i just want to share what i’m right
now feeling about
you
you understood
you