The genderfluid history of the Philippines France Villarta
I was an eight-year-old kid
in the mid-1990s.
I grew up in southern Philippines.
At that age, you’re young enough
to be oblivious
about what society expects
from each of us
but old enough to be aware
of what’s going on around you.
We lived in a one-bedroom house,
all five of us.
Our house was amongst clusters of houses
made mostly of wood
and corrugated metal sheets.
These houses were built
very close to each other
along unpaved roads.
There was little to no
expectation of privacy.
Whenever an argument broke out next door,
you heard it all.
Or, if there was a little …
something something going on –
(Laughter)
you would probably hear that, too.
(Laughter)
Like any other kid, I learned
what a family looked like.
It was a man, a woman,
plus a child or children.
But I also learned
it wasn’t always that way.
There were other combinations
that worked just as well.
There was this family of three
who lived down the street.
The lady of the house was called Lenie.
Lenie had long black hair,
often in a ponytail,
and manicured nails.
She always went out
with a little makeup on
and her signature red lipstick.
Lenie’s other half,
I don’t remember much about him
except that he had a thing
for white sleeveless shirts
and gold chains around his neck.
Their daughter was
a couple years younger than me.
Now, everybody in the village knew Lenie.
She owned and ran what was
the most popular beauty salon
in our side of town.
Every time their family
would walk down the roads,
they would always be greeted with smiles
and occasionally stopped
for a little chitchat.
Now, the interesting thing about Lenie
is that she also happened to be
a transgender woman.
She exemplified one of the Philippines'
long-standing stories
about gender diversity.
Lenie was proof that oftentimes
we think of something as strange
only because we’re not familiar with it,
or we haven’t taken enough time
to try and understand.
In most cultures around the world,
gender is this man-woman dichotomy.
It’s this immovable, nonnegotiable,
distinct classes of individuals.
We assign characteristics
and expectations
the moment a person’s
biological sex is determined.
But not all cultures are like that.
Not all cultures are as rigid.
Many cultures don’t look
at genitalia primarily
as basis for gender construction,
and some communities in North America,
Africa, the Indian subcontinent
and the Pacific Islands,
including the Philippines,
have a long history
of cultural permissiveness
and accommodation of gender variances.
As you may know,
the people of the Philippines were under
Spanish rule for over 300 years.
That’s from 1565 to 1898.
This explains why everyday
Filipino conversations
are peppered with Spanish words
and why so many of our last names,
including mine, sound very Spanish.
This also explains the firmly entrenched
influence of Catholicism.
But precolonial Philippine societies,
they were mostly animists.
They believed all things
had a distinct spiritual essence:
plants, animals, rocks, rivers, places.
Power resided in the spirit.
Whoever was able to harness
that spiritual power was highly revered.
Now, scholars who have studied
the Spanish colonial archives
also tell us that these early societies
were largely egalitarian.
Men did not necessarily
have an advantage over women.
Wives were treated
as companions, not slaves.
And family contracts were not done
without their presence and approval.
In some ways, women had the upper hand.
A woman could divorce her husband
and own property under her own name,
which she kept even after marriage.
She had the prerogative
to have a baby or not
and then decide the baby’s name.
But the real key to the power
of the precolonial Filipino woman
was in her role as “babaylan,”
a collective term for shamans
of various ethnic groups.
They were the community healers,
specialists in herbal and divine lore.
They delivered babies
and communicated with the spirit world.
They performed exorcisms
and occasionally, and in defense
of their community,
they kicked some ass.
(Laughter)
And while the babaylan was a female role,
there were also, in fact,
male practitioners in the spiritual realm.
Reports from early Spanish chroniclers
contain several references
to male shamans who did not conform
to normative Western masculine standards.
They cross-dressed
and appeared effeminate
or sexually ambiguous.
A Jesuit missionary named Francisco Alcina
said that one man
he believed to be a shaman
was “so effeminate
that in every way he was
more a woman than a man.
All the things the women did
he performed,
such as weaving blankets,
sewing clothes and making pots.
He danced also like they did,
never like a man,
whose dance is different.
In all, he appeared
more a woman than a man.”
Well, any other juicy details
in the colonial archives?
Thought you’d never ask.
(Laughter)
As you may have deduced by now,
the manner in which these
precolonial societies conducted themselves
didn’t go over so well.
All the free-loving,
gender-variant-permitting,
gender equality wokeness
clashed viciously with the European
sensibilities at the time,
so much so that the Spanish missionaries
spent the next 300 years
trying to enforce their two-sex,
two-gender model.
Many Spanish friars also thought
that the cross-dressing babaylan
were either celibates like themselves
or had deficient or malformed genitals.
But this was pure speculation.
Documents compiled between 1679 and 1685,
called “The Bolinao Manuscript,”
mentions male shamans marrying women.
The Boxer Codex, circa 1590,
provide clues on the nature
of the male babaylan sexuality.
It says, “Ordinarily they dress as women,
act like prudes
and are so effeminate
that one who does not know them
would believe they are women.
Almost all are impotent
for the reproductive act,
and thus they marry other males
and sleep with them as man and wife
and have carnal knowledge.”
Carnal knowledge, of course, meaning sex.
Now, there’s an ongoing debate
in contemporary society
about what constitutes gender
and how it should be defined.
My country is no exception.
Some countries like Australia,
New Zealand, Pakistan, Nepal and Canada
have begun introducing nonbinary options
in their legal documents,
such as their passports
and their permanent resident cards.
In all these discussions about gender,
I think it’s important to keep in mind
that the prevailing notions
of man and woman as static genders
anchored strictly on biological sex
are social constructs.
In my people’s case,
this social construct is an imposition.
It was hammered into their heads
over hundreds of years
until they were convinced that their way
of thinking was erroneous.
But the good thing about social constructs
is they can be reconstructed
to fit a time and age.
They can be reconstructed
to respond to communities
that are becoming more diverse.
And they can be reconstructed
for a world that’s starting to realize
we have so much to gain from learning
and working through our differences.
When I think about this subject,
I think about the Filipino people
and an almost forgotten
but important legacy
of gender equality and inclusivity.
I think about lovers who were
some of the gentlest souls I had known
but could not be fully open.
I think about people
who have made an impact in my life,
who showed me that integrity,
kindness and strength of character
are far better measures of judgment,
far better than things
that are beyond a person’s control
such as their skin color, their age
or their gender.
As I stand here today,
on the shoulders of people like Lenie,
I feel incredibly grateful for all
who have come before me,
the ones courageous enough
to put themselves out there,
who lived a life that was theirs
and in the process, made it a little
easier for us to live our lives now.
Because being yourself is revolutionary.
And to anyone reeling from forces
trying to knock you down
and cram you into these neat little boxes
people have decided for you:
don’t break.
I see you.
My ancestors see you.
Their blood runs through me
as they run through so many of us.
You are valid, and you deserve
rights and recognition
just like everyone else.
Thank you.
(Applause)