What is imposter syndrome and how can you combat it Elizabeth Cox

Even after writing eleven books
and winning several prestigious awards,

Maya Angelou couldn’t escape
the nagging doubt

that she hadn’t really earned
her accomplishments.

Albert Einstein experienced
something similar:

he described himself
as an “involuntary swindler”

whose work didn’t deserve
as much attention as it had received.

Accomplishments at the level
of Angelou’s or Einstein’s are rare,

but their feeling of fraudulence
is extremely common.

Why can’t so many of us shake feelings

that we haven’t earned
our accomplishments,

or that our ideas and skills
aren’t worthy of others’ attention?

Psychologist Pauline Rose Clance
was the first to study

this unwarranted sense of insecurity.

In her work as a therapist,

she noticed many of her undergraduate
patients shared a concern:

though they had high grades,

they didn’t believe they deserved
their spots at the university.

Some even believed their acceptance
had been an admissions error.

While Clance knew these fears
were unfounded,

she could also remember feeling
the exact same way in graduate school.

She and her patients experienced
something that goes by a number of names–

imposter phenomenon,

imposter experience,

and imposter syndrome.

Together with colleague Suzanne Imes,

Clance first studied imposterism
in female college students and faculty.

Their work established pervasive
feelings of fraudulence in this group.

Since that first study,

the same thing has been established
across gender,

race,

age,

and a huge range of occupations,

though it may be more prevalent
and disproportionately affect

the experiences of underrepresented
or disadvantaged groups.

To call it a syndrome
is to downplay how universal it is.

It’s not a disease or an abnormality,

and it isn’t necessarily
tied to depression,

anxiety,

or self-esteem.

Where do these feelings
of fraudulence come from?

People who are highly skilled
or accomplished

tend to think others are just as skilled.

This can spiral into feelings
that they don’t deserve accolades

and opportunities over other people.

And as Angelou and Einstein experienced,

there’s often no threshold
of accomplishment

that puts these feelings to rest.

Feelings of imposterism aren’t restricted
to highly skilled individuals, either.

Everyone is susceptible to a phenomenon
known as pluralistic ignorance,

where we each doubt ourselves privately,

but believe we’re alone
in thinking that way

because no one else voices their doubts.

Since it’s tough to really know
how hard our peers work,

how difficult they find certain tasks,

or how much they doubt themselves,

there’s no easy way to dismiss feelings
that we’re less capable

than the people around us.

Intense feelings of imposterism

can prevent people
from sharing their great ideas

or applying for jobs
and programs where they’d excel.

At least so far,

the most surefire way
to combat imposter syndrome

is to talk about it.

Many people suffering
from imposter syndrome

are afraid that if they ask
about their performance,

their fears will be confirmed.

And even when
they receive positive feedback,

it often fails to ease
feelings of fraudulence.

But on the other hand,

hearing that an advisor or mentor has
experienced feelings of imposterism

can help relieve those feelings.

The same goes for peers.

Even simply finding out there’s a term
for these feelings

can be an incredible relief.

Once you’re aware of the phenomenon,

you can combat your own imposter syndrome

by collecting
and revisiting positive feedback.

One scientist who kept blaming herself
for problems in her lab

started to document the causes
every time something went wrong.

Eventually, she realized most
of the problems

came from equipment failure,

and came to recognize her own competence.

We may never be able
to banish these feelings entirely,

but we can have open conversations
about academic or professional challenges.

With increasing awareness
of how common these experiences are,

perhaps we can feel freer to be frank
about our feelings

and build confidence
in some simple truths:

you have talent,

you are capable,

and you belong.

即使在写了 11 本书
并获得了多个著名奖项之后,

玛雅·安杰洛也无法
摆脱一个挥之不去的怀疑

,即她并没有真正获得
成就。

阿尔伯特·爱因斯坦也经历
过类似的事情:

他将自己描述
为一个“非自愿的骗子”,

他的工作并不
像它所受到的那样值得关注。

安杰卢或爱因斯坦这种水平的成就很少见,

但他们的欺骗感
却极为普遍。

为什么我们中的许多人不能摆脱

我们没有
获得成就的感觉,

或者我们的想法和
技能不值得别人关注?

心理学家 Pauline Rose Clance
是第一个研究

这种毫无根据的不安全感的人。

在她作为治疗师的工作中,

她注意到她的许多本科
患者都有一个担忧:

尽管他们的成绩很高,

但他们不认为自己配得上
大学的名额。

有些人甚至认为他们的
录取是一个录取错误。

虽然克兰斯知道这些担心
是没有根据的,

但她也记得
在研究生院时也有同样的感受。

她和她的病人
经历了一些有很多名字的事情——

冒名顶替现象、

冒名顶替者体验

和冒名顶替者综合症。

Clance 与同事 Suzanne Imes

一起首先研究
了女大学生和教师的冒名顶替。

他们的工作
在这个群体中建立了普遍的欺诈感。

自从第一次研究以来,

在性别、

种族、

年龄

和大量职业中都建立了同样的事情,

尽管它可能更普遍
并且不成比例地影响

代表性不足
或弱势群体的经历。

称其为综合症
是在淡化它的普遍性。

这不是疾病或异常

,也不一定
与抑郁、

焦虑

或自尊有关。

这些
欺骗的感觉从何而来?

高技能
或有成就的人

倾向于认为其他人同样熟练。

这可能会演变成一种感觉
,即他们不应该得到

别人的赞誉和机会。

正如安杰洛和爱因斯坦所经历的那样,

通常没有
成就的门槛可以

让这些感觉平静下来。

冒名顶替的感觉也不仅
限于高技能的人。

每个人都容易受到一种被称为多元无知的现象的影响

,我们每个人都在私下怀疑自己,

但相信我们是
唯一一个这样想的人,

因为没有其他人表达他们的怀疑。

由于很难真正了解
我们的同龄人工作有多努力,

他们找到某些任务有多困难,

或者他们有多怀疑自己,

所以没有简单的方法可以
消除我们

比周围人能力差的感觉。

强烈的冒名顶替感

会阻止
人们分享他们的好主意

或申请
他们擅长的工作和项目。

至少到目前为止

,对抗冒名顶替综合症最可靠的方法

就是谈论它。

许多
患有冒名顶替综合症的

人害怕如果他们
询问自己的表现,

他们的恐惧会得到证实。

即使
他们收到积极的反馈,

也常常无法缓解
欺诈的感觉。

但另一方面,

听到顾问或导师
经历过冒名顶替的感觉

可以帮助缓解这些感觉。

同龄人也是如此。

即使只是发现
这些感觉有一个术语,

也可以令人难以置信的解脱。

一旦你意识到这种现象,

你就可以

通过收集
和重新审视积极的反馈来对抗你自己的冒名顶替综合症。

一位一直将
实验室问题归咎于自己的

科学家开始记录每次出现问题的原因。

最终,她意识到
大部分问题

来自设备故障,

并开始认识到自己的能力。

我们可能永远无法
完全消除这些感觉,

但我们可以
就学术或专业挑战进行公开对话。

随着人们越来越
意识到这些经历的普遍性,

也许我们可以更自由地坦诚
自己的感受,

并对
一些简单的事实建立信心:

你有天赋,

你有能力

,你属于。