Your Map to Escape the Matrix
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imagine for a minute
a newborn child that has just been
brought
into this world what’s the first thing
that comes to mind for you
for me it’s the radiance of their eyes
just being enamored
by their eyes the connection to their
soul
and i believe the children’s eyes are so
radiant because
that’s their connection to source i
believe the radiance is just a
reflection of how connected they are to
god
they just came from there and i think
that’s beautiful
but unfortunately over time
that radiance tends to fade it tends to
fade out of that child’s eyes
as they go through the experiences of
life it’s like
these lenses get put over
the eyes and those lenses might be
considered
perception because it also alters the
way they see the world
and so that connection with source
fades and the radiance in the eyes
begins to fade and i know this happened
to me
i went through college and i was
very interested in real estate so i
studied real estate
and got involved in real estate and had
quite a few different careers in real
estate
but one time stands out in particular
with me
and that was about four years ago i set
this goal
that i wanted to make a million dollars
in a year
so i don’t know about you but i feel
like success
which were trained by the matrix
by some of the programming that goes on
success is supposed to mean
um having money i know that we
all are we all are familiar with the
cliche that money doesn’t buy happiness
however i think the majority of people
that are chasing success are chasing
money and i was one of them
so no judgment and i went after it i did
what i needed to do to hit that goal to
make a million dollars in a year
i hired a mentor i did everything that
mentor said i
made a bunch of phone calls i hired a
team and i just remember
feeling like the decision
to make it happen was enacted
so i had decided that i was going to do
it but i remember
feeling like i was forcing it i felt
like i was pushing water
literally like pushing water up a hill
and the reason i know that and why it
stands out is when i would leave
or i would take three days to go on a
weekend vacation or something
or maybe a little bit longer everything
would would flow
backwards like it was almost like it
started over again so
i was using what i call force and
it was unsustainable but i pushed
through
i pushed through and i hit the goal i
hit the goal in 2018 i made 1.1 million
dollars in real estate
and so why am i telling you this well
have you ever worked so hard
for a goal and then
attained that goal like i did
and looked around and realized
i’m not happy that’s what happened to me
i looked around and i realized this
this is not this is not what i want i’m
not happy
and i had forced my way and i’m like i
cannot sustain this i don’t want to i
don’t want to push
this much being out of flow i mean i
could
i could basically not listen to my
to my heart and just push forward but i
knew i didn’t want to and i remember it
like it was yesterday i looked into the
mirror
and i said to myself i don’t want to do
this anymore
and part of me felt that guilt or shame
you know like the matrix was
the matrix thinking was telling me you
know that you oh you’ve got to push
forward this is what we do
this is how the world works this is
life’s tough blah blah blah
and so that’s when i realized that i had
fell victim to what i call matrix
thinking so what is the matrix
well the matrix i think is
much more understood given the world
events that have occurred in the
last year or so but the matrix is
it’s a system set up by the elite for
the elite it’s a system where there’s a
lot of corruption
it’s a system where
the focus is to disempower
the individual and that corruption runs
deep that corruption’s in our monetary
systems it’s in our
corporate systems our corporate
structures
it’s in our governments but more
importantly than that
macro view even though all those things
are true more importantly is how that
affects the individual how that
extracts the personal sovereignty and
power out of the individual
and that’s illustrated really well by
the fact that 80 percent of americans
live paycheck to paycheck
americans are working harder than ever
and worldwide i think this is
is fairly fairly true worldwide people
are working
so hard just to make ends meet
and they have no time to pursue their
passion
and to give back to the world in a
meaningful way
which i’d like to talk a little bit more
about so how do we get out of that
matrix how do we
how do we extract ourself from that
matrix because
i know i felt i was stuck and it was in
that moment when i looked in the mirror
that i decided that i was going to
escape
the matrix so i want to provide you with
a map
to escape the matrix and i believe it
begins with
taking the inner journey
so let me explain have you ever had that
little voice
some of us will call it intuition i like
to call it the clarion call
it’s like this call out that tells you
hey
this isn’t the right path for you or hey
this isn’t what you’re supposed to be
doing or
this this scenario isn’t correct for you
i know we’ve all heard it
it comes from our hearts and
oftentimes unfortunately in the way that
this matrix is set up
we don’t get a chance to follow it
because we’re afraid we’re
we’re instilled with fear beliefs
limiting beliefs these perceptions that
block the radiance of our eyes and
disconnect us from
sourcefulness or true resourcefulness
from source within and we
have this fear that we have to fit in
and we have to act externally rather
than internally
to fit in with society and that’s
unfortunate because that clarion call
i believe is your intuition or god
showing you the pathway to what i call
your soul song
that life that you came here to live
that highest timeline of a life of
fulfillment effortless flow most times
effort is needed but a flow state
where you can be truly fulfilled
and i believe that’s how we’re intended
to live
but unfortunately we’re not most of us
are not
and i believe it’s deeply instilled in
our beliefs
in our our systems are the all these
paradigms that we live in
uh most of which have been spoon-fed
from our grandparents to our parents to
us
and accepted without being challenged as
a matter of fact we’re almost ostracized
if we try to step out of the matrix
but i’m telling you that is where true
fulfillment is
and one of the one of the ways that that
i like to look at this or one of the
things i think that causes
us the most trouble is the way that we
set our goals
so i set this goal an external
goal of making a million dollars in a
year
and we can all relate we’ve we’ve had
goals of maybe to get a car
to get a relationship or to get a house
and all of those things notice are
external
so we set our goal as a destination and
we even have
an acronym smart goals measurable
attainable all of those things
but they’re always external the way we
set goals is always
an external destination and the problem
with that is
that we can guarantee almost guarantee
that you can get there
so that’s that’s the good part is you
can almost guarantee like if you hire
i’m a mentor and a coach and if someone
hires me to make x amount of money in
real estate i can
show them a way to get there and if they
follow what i say i can
pretty close to guarantee that if they
do what i say that they can reach that
goal so that’s the good part
but what i can’t guarantee and the
problem in lies in the fact that when
they do get there
there’s no guarantee that they’ll be
happy just like in my case
and so we’re foregoing our happiness
for these external goals i call it the
corporate hamster it’s just like the
more you go
you feel like you’re gaining but what
happens what if i would have stayed on
that hamster wheel
what would have happened to me next i
would have set a goal for 2 million
right so it’s like when is it ever
enough
and we get trapped in that matrix style
of thinking
so i want to flip goal setting on its
head
flip it completely upside down and
instead of focusing on where you’re
going
focus on where you’re coming from
purify your intention
and where you’re coming from and this
changes everything first of all
if you do that if you purify where
you’re coming from and you take that
inner journey you listen to that clarion
call
and you follow your souls on then
i can’t guarantee where you’re going to
end up as a matter of fact
you really there’s no way to know and
that’s the beautiful part i know that
scares a lot of people
but source literally lays down each
flagstone for you
as you just go through this journey of
life that is beautiful
so i can’t guarantee where you’re gonna
end up but what i can guarantee
is that you will be fulfilled and that
you will be happy not only when you
arrive
but more importantly on the destination
so the whole system of goal setting to
me
is backwards and i think that’s why when
i reached my goal
i wasn’t happy and i hope that people
will understand the importance of taking
that inner journey
another way to illustrate this is
reminds me of a great book
called power versus force by dr david
hawkins i don’t know if you’ve read this
book but it is
it’s a phenomenal read and he talks
about
forcing like i was pushing water up a
hill
and versus standing in a place of power
and we’re not talking about patriarchal
power like corporations have
we’re talking about being resourceful
reconnecting to source within through
that inner journey
and having that flow through you
and a great way to illustrate this
is what i call a merry-go-round
analogy so do you remember the
merry-go-round back in grade school so
imagine you’re in third grade
the bell goes off and you’re running out
to to the merry-go-round
so you’ve got maybe three or four
friends with you and you start running
really fast
along the side you get it going really
fast and then you hop on
but remember how it felt
when you got into the center of the
merry-go-round
you could put your arms up you didn’t
even have to hold on
and the entire world would spin
around you that
is what i mean by being centered
by following your soul song and stepping
into
pure authentic alignment
so what happens when you get a little
bit out of that center
of the wheel we’ll call this the wheel
of life the sansara will of life when
you get a little bit out of center
you start to feel that resistance in
your life maybe you’re feeling this now
like uh i don’t really like my job but
i’ve got to do it
oh it’s not that bad let’s just try to
be positive
maybe you get two or three feet out of
center well now you’re holding on with
both hands
and this is where things like addiction
and depression
and other problems really start to
level up because you’re not in alignment
with yourself you’re not in alignment
with
who you really are and what happens next
well your legs may flow out to the side
and you get thrown off
and we’ve been there we’ve been thrown
off
so by being in the center of that
merry-go-round in your life
being in alignment with who you are
by taking that inner journey and
reconnecting to source bringing that
radiance back in your eyes
you can start to flow
abundance through you you’re a conduit
for source
so what does that mean that means that
as abundance comes into you
you become a shepherd for the abundance
and you let it flow
through you which is the opposite
of the old way the forceful way
which i call ego
so ego has its opposite in humility
allowing things to flow so the best
definition
i’ve heard for humility is
not thinking less of yourself but
thinking about yourself
less and when you’ve become in that
alignment and you begin to experience
abundance in more ways than just money
your experience abundance in health in
relationships and all these different
facets these different pillars of your
life
then it’s super important to maintain
that humility
versus ego and let me explain why let’s
look for a minute at the man who has the
ego
and first of all he’s going to be using
force to attain his wealth because
coming from an ego state it’s service to
self
and he’s going to be using force he’s
going to be using a tremendous amount of
energy
most likely is going to be very low on
energy in all reality and forcing his
way through life
but he comes from a place of scarcity
it’s from a place of fear
so maybe he has this big building and he
tints his windows puts his name on top
and everything is about service to self
he doesn’t want to share he doesn’t want
to help others but he maybe has the
illusion that he’s helping others
versus the man that is centered
and has humility when source
flows through him when abundance flows
through him instead of holding on to it
he believes in abundance not scarcity he
believes in love not fear and he allows
that to flow through him
he allows that to come out and each one
teach one and it’s a butterfly effect
that begins to change the world
when we choose to have that integrity
and
be authentic and be in alignment and let
that flow through us
and it is one of the most beautiful
feelings you can have you don’t have to
go through life scared
in the matrix and fearful
so let’s take a second right now and ask
yourself this question
am i living my soul song
have i heard that clarion call
ignored it
well the good news is it’s never too
late
and if you take that baby from the
beginning of our story
and let’s say that baby’s you now you’ve
gone through your entire
life and you’re sitting there on your
deathbed laying on your deathbed
what’s going to be important to you is
it going to be important that you lived
your life according to society according
to the matrix and you fed in
and you had to live by force your whole
life
or is it important to you that you had
the courage
to listen to your clarion call to step
in and live your soul song your highest
timeline
and to have a butterfly effect to help
the rest of the world
because i can promise you one thing
everything you ever wanted in your life
whether that’s abundance joy happiness
love
doesn’t come from external it comes from
within
thank you