5 Steps to become Happy Healthy and Wealthy
hello
i am cleona o’hara i am a personal
development coach
i’ve been studying personal development
now for 14 years
and what i want to do today is i want to
share some
ideas with you five very powerful steps
that i’ve used to become healthier
happier
and wealthier and so what i want to talk
to you
about first is i want to go back to when
i was a
young girl growing up in derry northern
ireland
i was young i was really excited about
life
and then i found i left school and i had
no job
i was searching i was looking for more
and then i made the big decision i said
you know what i want to go to america
i want to pursue the american dream
everybody looks so happy
in those movies everybody has a perfect
house
the perfect husband children dog
the white picket fence and so i said
i want that i want more and so i got on
the plane
at the age of 18 19 and i made a
permanent move to the united states
i landed in new york first of all and so
i remember one of the first trips
in new york i was with my sister we’re
walking through times square
and i remember we would go up to
everybody and we would hug
everyone we’re here we’re so happy we’re
from northern ireland yay
well little did we know you don’t do
that in america you don’t do that
especially in new york city so we ended
up going back to our hotel
and two people followed us
so through these years i’ve learned that
every country
every culture is programmed and
conditioned differently
i’ve learned that the subconscious mind
95
more than 95 percent of our behavior
comes from our subconscious mind
not our conscious thinking mind so
everything
most of the things we do are is habitual
for example when you get in the car you
don’t think about how you’re going to
drive the car right how you’re going to
turn the key
you just get in and you do it because
you created the habit
you created the habitual behavior to
drive the car
so it’s the same with us as humans what
i’ve learned is
every country has their own unique
cultural programming
and so i’m going to teach you five steps
today
to reprogram your mind to become
healthier
happier and wealthier just as i have
done
for myself i have been mentored by some
of the greatest
human potential experts in the world
prosperity teachers in the world i work
for bob proctor
and i love love love what i do i
absolutely love helping
people discover their full potential
and grow into the person they were
always meant to become
because we are each every each and every
one of us
have talents and gifts but many of us
we are not using them and so
let’s start with number one number one
is figure out what do you really really
want
not what you think you can have what
do you want what’s on your heart and
soul that you’ve always wanted to go for
but you didn’t have the courage you
didn’t have the money you didn’t have
the time
all these excuses what do you really
really want
and i want you to write it down okay
you’re going to write down your goal
and present tense i’m so happy and
grateful now
that i have a hundred thousand a year
i’m building the life of my dreams with
my new art studio whatever it is
whatever you want to build
now i want you to be very very careful i
want you to make sure
you put a number on there put a money
goal
i talk to people especially women
and women don’t have money goals over 90
percent of the woman i talk
to that scares me we must have
a money goal don’t be afraid to ask for
money
i grew up in northern ireland and the
conditioning that i received in my
environment
was that money was bad so when i came to
america
guess what i had no money why
because i had no goals for money i
thought money was bad
i had this belief in my subconscious
money’s bad money is evil
don’t want money it’s bad well guess
what i
found out that is wrong that’s the
biggest fallacy i’ve
ever discovered money is not
evil we need money money is a resource a
tool a
magnifier so the more money
in the hands of the good the more good
shall be done so you must have a money
goal
and if you have a money block or a money
paradigm it’s called
you need to question yourself where did
that come from
is it really your belief or did somebody
pass that on to you like they passed it
on to me
money is very important resource i
started to question this when i was in
america
in my 20s when i had no money and i was
sitting in an apartment in brooklyn i
was struggling
i had no money for food no money for
rent i’m like this can’t be the way
why would god want me to struggle like
this i had no money goals because of the
belief
that was passed on to me it was wrong
i studied this amazing book it actually
the book the science of getting rich
by wallace waddles he talks about money
and abundance is our birthright
when i read that i knew straight away
all of me my gut feeling my intuition
said that is right
because when we have money we can help
others
when we don’t have money we’re
struggling to pay the bills we’re
distracted with
stress of how am i going to afford how
am i going to do this
so write especially ladies woman please
write down your goal and write down how
much money you want a year
you don’t need to know how you’re going
to get it yet the universe
will provide the way as you move forward
you start getting ideas in your mind of
how to make that money
okay so that’s number one number two
figure out your why why
do you want the goal why do you want
the better life why why why go
inwards go inwards
okay you must discover your why
because that’s going to create the
desire
the book famous book think and grow rich
by napoleon hill he talks about the
principles of success
that he discovered from interviewing so
many of the most wealthiest and
successful people in the world
one of the principles of success is
desire when you connect to your why
that will ignite a desire for you
it ignites a desire for me i know my why
that desire drives me every day those
days that i’m in bed and i just want to
sleep and let me say oh i’m not today i
don’t feel when i think about my why the
desire kicks in and jump
out of bed so figure out your why
and create the burning desire it’s
almost like the octane tank that’s going
to
boost you and give you the fuel for your
fire
number three we have been programmed
you were programmed i was programmed i
was speaking to people the other day
from india i coach people from all over
the world i talk to people from all over
the world
there each country has their own
conditioning their own
cultural paradigms they’re called and
i was speaking to these lovely people in
india and yet again
90 of the people i speak to from india
and pakistan
they are not happy because they have no
money and they’re not happy
but they have all these degrees so the
conditioning
in india what i found from speaking to
these people
is that they were raised that you must
get a degree
you must get a a really great education
go get a master’s now go get a phd
keep educating keep educating more
knowledge more knowledge
but they’re not happy they’ve no money
and they didn’t even have money goals so
each country i’ve noticed has its own
unique conditioning when i was in
northern ireland
my conditioning was money was bad you
shouldn’t want money so i didn’t have
any
those beliefs were passed on to me
and whoever passed them on to me they
were passed on to them
it’s not their fault so i’m going to
teach you how to change
that we need to reprogram
our subconscious mind towards what we
want
so if you want more money you want to be
confident
then you need to start repeating to
yourself and give yourself
affirmations affirmations i’m sure
you’ve all heard about
affirmations affirmations are not just
nice things to say
you’re literally suggesting to your
subconscious a new belief
to replace the old belief for example
when i’d believe the money was evil that
was a belief in my subconscious money is
evil
i’ve replaced that belief with i am
prosperity i am wealthy i am prosperous
and the more i say that the more my
subconscious
is listening to that i’m replacing the
old belief i’ve already replaced it
because i do believe
i am prosperity and i am wealthy i now
and then the other thing
growing up i was told who do you think
you are
don’t show off don’t stand out in the
front that’s bad that’s bad manners
right
so now i’ve had to replace that belief
with i am confident
i am confident and i’ve said it over and
over and over
until i’ve now replaced the belief that
standing out in front is not bad i
am confident so you need to replace
these negative limiting beliefs with
affirmations do it on
repetition daily and you will see if you
keep saying this and writing it down
on repeat every day you’re going to
start changing your belief system you’re
going to change
the programming that was passed on to
you it’s not even your fault
not my fault this is the way we were
raised
number four
you need to be very careful
this is something i’m very very
passionate about
other people’s opinions
there is a graveyard think of this
image there’s a graveyard of
graves and there’s past people that have
passed on
their names are on the grave but what
else is in that graveyard
their dreams and their goals died with
them
so you need to be careful to reject
other people’s opinions
if they’re not in alignment with your
goal reject them say reject
and number five very very important
there’s a little voice in your mind it’s
called your inner critic
give it a name and become aware of it
when it tells you
you’re not good enough to say reject
reject
reject i named my inner critic cecil
so when i hear that little voice try to
distract me
not today cecil reject and then i’ll
give myself an affirmation
you are here for a purpose find out what
your gifts and talents are
and start finding a way to give them
away you are
prosperous you’re abundant you are
perfectly designed you’re here for a
reason
and i want you to become
the greatest version of yourself woman
ask for the money go after money it’s
very important
you will be of service to others if you
have
money and you’re resourceful so my
wish for you follow these five steps
and become and create the belief system
that you want to become
the person that you are always meant to
be
you