Are you in a state of Dormant Brilliance

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[Applause]

when people learn that i’m a nurse

quite often they assume that my work

includes

passing out medications following the

orders of a doctor

are only providing direct patient care

and while these responsibilities are all

extremely essential

to the role of a clinical nurse nurses

are also

leaders and innovators and practitioners

in fact being a nurse taught me how to

become an expert

an expert in communication an expert at

understanding

very complex systems and an expert

at problem solving you see all these

skills that come in handy as i

courageously started

a healthcare consulting firm and as a

consultant

i solved the very same problems that i

mastered

as a nurse but now as an expert

you see i’ve come to learn that no

matter what industry you’re in

or what professional title you have we

all have an inner expert

my intention is for you to walk away

today

knowing how to awaken your inner expert

you see awakening my inner expert wasn’t

an overnight process

it’s been a complete life’s journey

a journey of self-discovery of

self-reflection

and really acknowledging and stepping

into my full worth and potential

in 2019 i wrote my very first book

called the power of

expertise and i shared how i

transitioned from nurse

to healthcare consultant and in that

very moment

everything would change i mean i

completely disrupted the traditional

role of a nurse

let’s just say the floodgates of

outreach started to pour

into my inbox and still to this day

i received messages and emails from not

just

nurses but doctors and pharmacists

and health care professionals from all

backgrounds

curious to know how they can take their

experience

and apply it to becoming consultants

so i started to have conversations with

these very intelligent minds

and after having so many conversations

i started to notice themes in the talks

that we were having

there are themes of discontentment

themes of

burnout in their current role and a lot

of themes of frustration

frustration because they’ve done every

single thing society said they needed to

do

in order to be successful they’d gone to

school received

numerous degrees they landed great

careers in fact many had multiple

accolades

but yet they still came to me feeling

like something was missing

they were still searching for their

options

it became abundantly clear to me that

these very intelligent minds

were in a state of dormant brilliance

and i can relate because i’ve also

experienced

being in a state of dormant brilliance

where i found myself searching for my

purpose and searching for options

although i had a very great career as a

nurse

but i was searching for options that

only my inner expert could create

if you’re unfamiliar with dormant

brilliance let me provide you with a

definition

dormant brilliance is when you are

completely unaware

of the skills the gifts and the

expertise

that you possess that make you a

complete force to be reckoned with

you know how to solve every single

problem

you’ve mastered every skill in the book

and as a matter of fact everyone around

you sees you as an

expert and a resource but you

so in other words you’ve completely

downplayed your own

superpowers

so you live day by day and hour by hour

and minute by minute in the shadow of

your inner expert

so reflecting back and thinking of all

the conversations that i had

and continue to have with these very

intelligent minds

i’m not surprised that they felt

discontentment

and frustration and burnout

because what i know to be true about

being in a state of dormant brilliance

is that you always feel like you’re

searching for your life’s purpose

so no matter how amazingly smart you are

or how many people praise you for all

your accomplishments

you have failed to do one important

thing

awaken your inner expert

i remember when i was first introduced

to the concept of an expert

it was an undergraduate studies in

nursing school

many many years ago

and we were learning about dr berner’s

novice to expert

nursing theory and in dr patricia

berner’s

theory she introduced you to the phases

of how you become

an expert it started off with you being

a novice

and then you transitioned to advanced

beginner

and from advanced beginner you became

proficient

then competent and then you graduated to

being an

expert now this is where the fireworks

are supposed to go off but there were no

fireworks for me

in fact it would take years and momentum

and some trial and error

but i would become an expert

and not just because of dr berner’s

theory

but because i did the hard internal work

that it would take to force myself out

of a state

of dormant brilliance to awaken and

acknowledge

my inner expert

for so many years i felt like i was

disqualified to be an expert

because i myself harbored false truths

about what an expert looked like

about the credentials an expert had

so before we move forward i want to make

sure that we dispel

any myths about what it takes to be an

expert

number one being an expert doesn’t

require you to have a harvard degree

or any degree at all for that matter

in fact what is required is that you be

extremely

knowledgeable about the subject matter

of your choice

the second thing i want you to remember

is that being an expert doesn’t

necessarily have to be job related

being an expert can be birthed from your

inner passions

this means your inner expert could be an

author an artist

a life coach a chef the key is to be

guided by your inner expert

and the last thing i want you to

remember is

being an expert has no age limitations

or

restrictions our youth

are so intelligent and knowledgeable

the sooner we as parents allow our

children to release their inner expert

the less time they’ll spend as adults

searching for options

and searching for their purpose

so now that we’ve released those false

truths that you and i

have both been harboring i want to share

with you how you can awaken your own

inner expert

the first thing we have to focus on is

self reflection

self-reflection is when we have to ask

ourselves a lot of tough questions

questions that will require us to be

almost painfully honest with ourselves

and how we respond i had to ask myself

questions like

are you happy in both your professional

and your personal life

and if you’re not happy what’s going to

make you happy

do you feel fulfilled

and if you don’t feel fulfilled what’s

going to make you feel

fulfilled

for me i had to look directly in a

mirror

and acknowledge the fact that although

i’ve had a very gratifying role as a

nurse

there were aspects of my job that didn’t

make me happy

that left me feeling like something was

missing

self-reflection forced me to dissect

what i didn’t enjoy

so i could focus on what i did enjoy

and those topics i mastered i became the

expert

the next thing we have to focus on is

self mastery

self mastery much like self reflection

requires us to ask ourselves

a lot of questions as well but these

questions are a little bit different

these questions help you tap into your

zone of genius

i had to ask myself questions like

what gifts do you possess that others

praise you for

what knowledge do you have that can be

shared with the world

what skills do you possess that can be

shared with others so they can hit

their goals i’m quite sure there’s many

of you

here today who’ve been operating as

experts for years

in a dormant state one thing that i want

you to remember is that your inner

expert is a thought leader

thought leadership needs to be shared to

influence

change that’s powerful

the next thing we have to focus on and

this one’s a big one

it’s removing conditional restraints

and newsflash if you’re not familiar

with conditional restraints

we’ve been conditioned by society to be

generalists

not experts so in order for me to

release my inner expert i had to

completely remove society’s version of

what success

looked like in the road map i needed to

take in order to be successful

this meant i had to completely free my

status quo

mindset completely

also removing conditional restraints

from me

looked like not waiting for permission

to share my expertise

and i’m going to share something that

i’ve never shared publicly

but removing conditional restraints also

looked like me

dropping out of a phd program because i

had been conditioned to believe

that i needed the credentials of a phd

to validate that i

was an expert that was another false

truth

i would soon realize that the only

validation that i

needed would be the results i generated

from those i share my expertise with

i needed no permission no validation

and no additional credentials to be the

expert i am today

and the same applies for you too

and the very last thing that we have to

do to step out of a state of dormant

brilliance to awaken our inner expert

is to acknowledge our value

the moment you acknowledge your value is

the moment that your inner expert begins

to breathe

this is that pivotal point where you

acknowledge all of your own attributes

that no one else can bring to the table

but you

in fact this was a life-changing moment

in my own life

when i realized that i am an asset

my skills my gifts my expertise

are all valuable

along this journey i’ve come to realize

that

the moment that you step out of the

state of dormant brilliance

and you truly awaken your inner expert

that’s when you’re living out your

life’s purpose

just imagine where will we be without

experts

experts who unite us

experts who show us how to improve

experts who solve complex problems

experts who show us how to laugh

and also experts who show us what’s

possible

in this moment i asked you to close your

eyes with me

and as you close your eyes imagine

yourself walking into a room

with a beautiful full-length mirror in

front of you

i want you to walk closer and closer to

that mirror

and start to peer in your reflection

gaze into your eyes and i want you to

listen to my voice

you are an expert

your skills your gifts your knowledge

and expertise need to be

shared with the world to influence

change

it’s time to awaken your inner expert

now open your eyes

thank you

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you

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当人们经常得知我是一名护士时,

他们会认为我的工作

包括

按照医生的指示分发药物

只是提供直接的患者护理

,而这些责任对于护士

的角色来说都是极其重要的。 临床护士 护士

也是

领导者、创新者和实践

者 事实上,作为一名护士教会了我如何

成为

专家 沟通专家

理解

非常复杂的系统的

专家和解决问题的专家 你会看到所有

这些派上用场的技能 我

勇敢地创办

了一家医疗保健咨询公司,作为一名

顾问,

我解决了我

作为护士所掌握的相同问题,但现在作为一名专家,

你看到我已经开始了解到,

无论你从事什么行业

或什么职称 我们

都有一个内在的专家

吗?我的目的是让你今天走开

知道如何唤醒你的内在专家

你看唤醒我的内在专家不是

一个 一夜之间的过程

这是一个完整的人生

旅程自我发现的

自我反思之旅

,真正承认并

充分发挥我的价值和潜力

在2019年我写了我的第一本书,

名为专业的力量

,我分享了我是如何

从护士过渡的

到医疗保健顾问,在那

一刻

一切都会改变我的意思是我

完全颠覆了护士的传统

角色

让我们说外展的闸门

开始

涌入我的收件箱,直到今天

我收到的消息和电子邮件不仅来自

护士,而且 来自不同背景的医生、药剂师

和医疗保健专业人员

很想知道他们如何将自己的

经验应用到成为顾问中,

所以我开始与

这些非常聪明的人

进行对话,在进行了这么多对话之后,

我开始注意到谈话中的主题

我们

有一些不满的主题

倦怠的主题在他们当前的 r ole 和许多

令人沮丧的主题,

因为他们已经完成了

社会认为他们需要

的每一件事以取得成功 他们上过学并

获得

了许多学位 他们获得了伟大的

职业生涯 事实上,许多人获得了多项

荣誉,

但他们 仍然来找我,感觉

好像缺少了一些东西,

他们仍在寻找他们的

选择

,我非常清楚

这些非常聪明的

头脑处于休眠状态

,我可以理解,因为我也

经历过

处于休眠状态 辉煌

,我发现自己在寻找自己的

目标并寻找选择,

尽管我作为一名护士的职业生涯非常出色,

但我正在寻找

只有我的内心专家才能创造的选择,

如果你不熟悉休眠的

辉煌让我为你提供一个

定义

休眠的才华是当你

完全不

知道你拥有的技能、天赋和专业知识使你成为一个

完整的人时

你知道如何解决每一个

问题

你已经掌握了书中的每一项技能

,事实上,你周围的每个人都

将你视为

专家和资源,但

换句话说,你完全

淡化了你 你自己的

超能力,

所以你每天都生活

在你内心专家的阴影下

他们感到

不满

、沮丧和倦怠,

因为我知道

处于休眠状态的真实情况

是,你总是觉得你正在

寻找你的人生目标,

所以无论你多么聪明

或有多少人称赞 你为你所有

的成就

你没有做一件重要的

事情

唤醒你内在的专家

我记得当我第一次被

引入专家的概念时,

那是一个本科生 很多年前在

护士学校

学习,我们正在学习 berner 博士的

新手到专家

护理理论,在 patricia

berner 博士的

理论中,她向您介绍了如何成为专家的各个阶段

从新手开始

,然后过渡 到高级

初学者

,从高级初学者,你变得

精通

然后有能力,然后你毕业

成为

专家,现在这应该是烟花爆竹

的地方,但实际上

对我来说没有烟花,

这需要数年时间和动力

以及一些试验和 错误,

但我会成为专家

,不仅仅是因为伯纳博士的

理论,

还因为我做了艰苦的内部工作

,迫使自己摆脱

休眠的光辉状态,唤醒并

承认

我内心的

专家这么多年,我觉得 就像我被

取消成为专家的资格一样,

因为我自己对

专家的样子

以及专家所拥有的证书持有虚假的真相

在我们向前迈进之前,我想

确保我们消除

关于成为专家需要什么的任何神话

成为专家并不

要求您拥有哈佛学位

或任何学位

实际上需要什么 是你

对你选择

的主题非常了解我想让你记住的第二件事

是,作为专家

不一定与工作相关

作为专家可以从你

内心的激情中诞生,

这意味着你内心的专家 可以是

作家

艺术家 生活教练 厨师 关键是要

由你内心的专家指导

,我想让你记住的最后一件事

成为专家没有年龄限制

限制 我们的年轻人

越早变得如此聪明和博学 由于父母允许我们的

孩子释放他们内心的专家

,他们成年后花在

寻找选择

和寻找目标上的时间越少,

所以现在我们已经释放

了你认为的那些虚假事实 我

一直都在窝藏我想

和你分享如何唤醒你自己的

内在专家

我们必须关注的第一件事是

自我反思

自我反思是当我们不得不问

自己很多棘手的

问题时 我们要对自己

几乎痛苦地诚实以及

我们如何回应我不得不问自己

一些问题,

比如你在你的职业

和个人生活

中都快乐吗?如果你不快乐,什么

会让你快乐

,你是否感到满足

? 不感到满足

什么会让你

对我感到满足 我必须直视

镜子

并承认一个事实,虽然

我作为一名护士有一个非常令人满意的角色,

但我的工作的某些方面并

没有 我很高兴

这让我觉得缺少了一些东西

自我反省迫使我剖析

我不喜欢的东西,

这样我就可以专注于我喜欢的东西

和我掌握的那些主题我成为了

我们接下来要做的事情的专家 cus on 是

自我掌握

自我掌握就像自我反思一样,

要求我们也问

自己很多问题,但这些

问题有点不同

你拥有别人

称赞你的

知识 你有什么可以

与世界分享的知识

你拥有什么技能

可以与他人分享以便

他们实现目标

作为

专家多年来一直

处于休眠状态 我希望

您记住的一件事是,您的内在

专家是思想领袖

思想领导力需要被分享以

影响强大

的变革 接下来我们必须关注的

事情是 重要的是

如果您不

熟悉有条件的限制,

我们将取消有条件的限制和新闻快讯

释放我的内在专家我必须

完全消除社会版本

的成功

看起来我需要采取的路线图

才能成功

这意味着我必须完全释放我的

现状

心态

也消除我的有条件限制

看起来不像 等待

许可分享我的专业知识

,我将分享一些我从未公开分享过的东西,

但取消有条件的限制也

看起来像我

退出了博士课程,因为我

已经习惯于

相信我需要一个证书 博士学位

来验证我

是专家,这是另一个错误的

事实

我今天是专家

,这同样适用于你,

也是我们

走出休眠状态所要做的最后一

件事 唤醒我们的内在专家

就是承认我们的价值

当你承认你的价值

的那一刻,就是你的内在专家开始呼吸的那一刻,

这是

你承认自己所有的属性的关键点

事实上,这是我人生中一个改变人生的时刻

当我意识到我是一项资产时,

我的技能,我的天赋,我的专业知识

在这段旅程中都很有价值

蛰伏的光彩

,你真正唤醒你内心的专家

,当你活出你的

人生目标时

,想象一下,如果没有

专家,我们将何去何从

,还有向我们展示这一刻可能发生的事情的专家

我让你

和我一起闭上眼睛

,当你闭上眼睛时,想象

自己走进一个

充满美丽的房间 -在

你面前的镜子

我希望你越来越靠近

那面镜子

并开始凝视你的反射

凝视你的眼睛我希望你

听我的声音

你是专家

你的技能你的天赋你的知识

和专业知识 需要

与世界分享以影响

改变是时候唤醒你的内在专家

现在睁开你的眼睛

谢谢你

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