How were honoring people overlooked by history Amy Padnani

Translator: Ivana Korom
Reviewer: Krystian Aparta

My name is Amy Padnani,

and I’m an editor on the obituaries desk
at the “New York Times.”

Or, as some friends call me,
the angel of death.

(Laughter)

In fact, people will ask me,

“Isn’t it depressing,
working on obituaries

and thinking about death all the time?”

But you know what I tell them?

Obits aren’t about death,
they’re about life,

they’re interesting, they’re relatable.

Often about something you never knew.

Recently, for example,

we had the obit for the inventor
of the sock puppet.

(Laughter)

Everyone knows what a sock puppet is,

but have you ever thought
about who created it,

or what their life was like?

Obits are a signature form of journalism.

An art form, if you will.

It’s an opportunity for a writer
to weave the tale of a person’s life

into a beautiful narrative.

Since 1851,

the “New York Times”
has published thousands of obituaries.

For heads of state, famous celebrities,

even the person who came up
with the name on the Slinky.

There’s just one problem.

Only a small percentage of them

chronicle the lives of women
and people of color.

That’s the impetus
behind a project I created

called “Overlooked,”

which tells the stories
of marginalized groups of people

who never got an obit.

It’s a chance for the newspaper to revisit
its 168-year existence

and fill in the gaps

for people who were,
for whatever reason, left out.

It’s a chance to right
the wrongs of the past,

and to refocus society’s lens
on who is considered important.

I came up with the idea
when I first joined Obituaries in 2017.

The Black Lives Matter movement
was at a rolling boil,

and the conversation on gender inequality
had just started bubbling up again.

And at the same time, I wondered,
as a journalist and as a woman of color,

what could I do to help
advance this conversation.

People were coming out of the shadows

to tell stories of injustices
that they had faced,

and I could feel their pain.

So I noticed we would get
these emails, sometimes, from readers,

saying, “Hey, why don’t you have
more women and people of color

in your obituaries?”

And I thought, “Yeah, why don’t we?”

Since I was new to the team,
I asked my colleagues,

and they said, “Well, the people
who are dying today

are from a generation
when women and people of color

weren’t invited to the table
to make a difference.

Perhaps in a generation or two,

we’ll start to see more women
and people of color in our obituaries.”

That answer just wasn’t satisfying at all.

(Laughter)

I wanted to know:
Where are all the dead women?

(Laughter)

So I started thinking about how we hear
about people who have died, right?

Number one way
is through reader submissions.

And so I thought,

“Well, what if we were to look
at international newspapers

or scour social media?”

It was around this time when …

Everything was swirling in my mind,

and I came across a website
about Mary Outerbridge.

She was credited with introducing
tennis to America in 1874.

And I thought, wow,
one of the biggest sports in America

was introduced by a woman?

Does anyone even know that?

And did she get a New York Times obituary?

Spoiler alert – she did not.

(Laughter)

So then I wondered who else we missed.

And it sent me on this deep dive
through the archives.

There were some surprises.

The pioneering journalist Ida B. Wells,

who started the campaign against lynching.

The brilliant poet Sylvia Plath.

Ada Lovelace, a mathematician

now recognized as the first
computer programmer.

So I went back to my team and I said,

“What if we were to tell
their stories now?”

It took a while to get buy-in.

There was this concern that, you know,

the newspaper might look bad

because it didn’t get it right
the first time.

It was also a little weird
to sort of look back at the past,

rather than cover news stories of our day.

But I said, “Guys, I really think
this is worthwhile.”

And once my team saw the value in it,

they were all in.

And so, with the help
of a dozen writers and editors,

we launched on March 8, 2018,

with the stories of 15 remarkable women.

And while I knew that the work
my team was doing was powerful,

I didn’t expect the response
to be equally powerful.

I had hundreds of emails.

They were from people who said,

“Thank you for finally giving
these women a voice.”

They were from readers who said,

“I cried on my way to work,
reading these stories,

because I felt seen for the first time.”

And they were from colleagues
of mine, who said,

“I never thought a woman of color

would be allowed to achieve
something like this

at the ‘New York Times.'”

I also got about 4,000 reader submissions

suggesting who else
we might have overlooked.

And some of those are my favorite
stories in the project.

My all-time favorite is Grandma Gatewood.

(Laughter)

She survived 30 years of domestic violence
at the hands of her husband.

One day, he beat her so badly,
beyond recognition,

he even broke a broomstick over her head,

and she threw flour
in his face in response.

But when the police arrived,
they arrested her, not him.

The mayor saw her in jail
and took her into his own home

until she could get back on her feet.

Then, one day, she read this article
in “National Geographic”

about how no woman had ever hiked

the Appalachian Trail
in its entirety alone.

And she said, “You know what?
I’m going to do it.”

Reporters caught wind of the old grandma
who is hiking through the woods.

And at the finish, they asked her,

“How did you survive so rough a place?”

But they had no idea
what she had survived before that.

So, “Overlooked” has become
wildly successful.

It’s becoming a TV show now, on Netflix.

(Laughter)

(Applause)

I cannot wait to see
this thing come to life.

Something like 25 different publishers
have reached out to me

with interest in turning
“Overlooked” into a book.

All of this clearly shows
how timely and necessary this project is.

It’s also a reminder of how newspapers

document what’s happening
in our world every single day,

and we have to make sure
not to leave out key people.

That’s why, even though it’s been
so meaningful to look back in the past,

I’m plagued with the lingering question:

“What about the future of obituaries –

how do I diversify those?”

That was my original problem, right?

So to start answering this question,
I wanted to gather some information.

I went down to the sub-sub-basement level
of the New York Times Building,

to the archives.

We call it the morgue.

(Laughter)

And I asked for some guidance
from our archivist there.

He pointed me to a book called
“New York Times Obituaries Index.”

So we handed it to the New York
Genealogical Society,

and they digitized it for us.

And then a programmer wrote up a program
that scanned all those headlines

for “Mr.,” Mrs.," “Lady,” “Sir,”
all the sort of gender-defining terms.

And what we found
was that from 1851 to 2017,

only about 15 to 20 percent
of our obits were on women.

So next, I worked with a programmer
to build this tool,

called the diversity analysis tool.

It’s a very dry name,
but bear with me, it’s super helpful.

It breaks down the percentage of our obits
month to month, women to men.

OK, if that doesn’t sound
like much to you,

this is how I used to calculate it before.

(Laughter)

So I asked this programmer
to program in a goal,

and that goal was 30 percent.

From the year of “Overlooked’s”
launch, March of 2018,

to March of 2019,

I was hoping we could get
to 30 percent of our obits on women.

It was a number we hadn’t
achieved in a 168 years,

and I’m happy to say we did it –
we got to 31 percent.

(Applause)

It’s awesome, but it’s not enough.

Next we’re hoping to get to 35 percent,

and then 40 percent,
until we achieve parity.

And then I’m hoping to partner
with this programmer again,

to build a similar tool to measure
people of color in our obits.

That was something I wanted to do
with “Overlooked” too,

to include men of color,

and I finally got to do it
with a special section

for Black History Month,

where we told the stories
of about a dozen black men and women.

Again, it was a really
powerful experience.

Many of these people had been slaves

or were a generation removed from slavery.

A lot of them had to make up
stories about their past

just to get ahead in life.

And there were these patterns
of their struggles

that came up again and again.

Elizabeth Jennings, for instance,

had to fight for her right to ride

on segregated street cars
in New York City –

a hundred years before Rosa Parks
did the exact same thing with buses.

It was just a reminder
of how far we’ve come,

and how much more
we still have left to do.

“Overlooked” is including
other marginalized people as well.

Recently, we had the obit
for the computer programmer Alan Turing.

Believe it or not, this brilliant man
never got an obituary,

even though his work

decoding German messages
during World War II

helps end the war.

Instead, he died a criminal
for his sexual orientation,

and he was forced to endure
chemical castration.

Great things, like this obits project,
do not come easily.

There were a lot of fits and starts

as I worked hard to convince people
it was worth getting it off the ground.

There were moments
when I faced great self-doubt.

I wondered if I was crazy
or if I was all alone,

and if I should just give up.

When I’ve seen the reaction
to this project,

I know I’m not at all alone.

There’s so many people
who feel the way I do.

And so yeah, not many people
think about obituaries.

But when you do, you realize
they’re a testament to a human life.

They’re the last chance to talk about
somebody’s contribution on the world.

They were also an example
of who society deemed important.

A hundred years from now,

somebody could be looking into the past
to see what our time was like.

I’m lucky, as a journalist,

to have been able to have used
this form of storytelling

to help shift a narrative.

I was also able to get
an established institution

to question its own status quo.

Little by little, I’m hoping
I can keep doing this work,

and continue refocusing society’s lens

so that nobody else gets overlooked.

Thank you.

(Applause)

译者:Ivana Korom
审稿人:Krystian Aparta

我叫 Amy Padnani,

是《纽约时报》讣告台的编辑。

或者,正如一些朋友所说
的,死亡天使。

(笑声)

事实上,人们会问我,

“写讣告,总是想着死亡,这不是很郁闷

吗?”

但你知道我告诉他们什么吗?

讣告不是关于死亡,而是
关于生命,

它们很有趣,它们是相关的。

经常是关于你从来不知道的事情。

例如,最近

我们收到了袜子木偶发明者的讣告

(笑声)

每个人都知道袜子木偶是什么,

但你有没有
想过是谁创造了它,

或者他们的生活是什么样的?

讣告是新闻业的标志性形式。

一种艺术形式,如果你愿意的话。

这是作家
将一个人的生活故事编织

成美丽叙事的机会。

自 1851 年以来

,《纽约时报
》发表了数千篇讣告。

对于国家元首、名人,

甚至是
在 Slinky 上想出这个名字的人。

只有一个问题。

其中只有一小部分

记录了女性
和有色人种的生活。

这就是
我创建的一个

名为“被忽视”的项目背后的推动力,

该项目讲述了

从未得到讣告的边缘化群体的故事。

这是该报重新审视其 168 年历史的机会,

为无论出于何种原因被排除在外的人们填补空白。

这是一个
纠正过去错误的机会

,让社会重新
关注谁被认为是重要的。

我在 2017 年第一次加入 Obituaries 时提出了

这个想法。Black Lives Matter 运动
正在沸腾

,关于性别不平等的对话
刚刚开始再次沸腾。

同时,我想知道,
作为一名记者和一名有色女性,

我能做些什么来帮助
推进这场对话。

人们从阴影中走出

来讲述他们所面临的不公正的故事

,我能感受到他们的痛苦。

所以我注意到我们有时会收到
这些来自读者的电子邮件,

说:“嘿,为什么不在你的讣告中加入
更多的女性和有色人种

?”

我想,“是的,我们为什么不呢?”

因为我是团队的新人,所以
我问了我的同事

,他们说,“嗯,
今天死去的人是没有

被邀请
到女性和有色人种

来做出改变的一代人。

也许在 一两代人,

我们将开始
在我们的讣告中看到更多的女性和有色人种。”

这个答案根本不令人满意。

(笑声)

我想知道:
死去的女人都在哪里?

(笑声)

所以我开始思考我们是如何
听到死者的消息的,对吧?

第一种方法
是通过读者提交。

所以我想,

“好吧,如果我们要
看看国际报纸

或搜索社交媒体呢?”

大约在这个时候……

一切都在我脑海中盘旋

,我偶然发现了一个
关于 Mary Outerbridge 的网站。 1874 年,

她因将
网球引入美国

而受到赞誉。我想,哇,
美国最大的运动之一

是由女性引入的?

有人知道吗?

她有没有得到纽约时报的讣告?

剧透警报——她没有。

(笑声

) 然后我想知道我们还错过了谁。

它让我
深入了解档案。

有一些惊喜。

开创性的记者 Ida B. Wells

,发起了反对私刑的运动。

才华横溢的诗人西尔维娅·普拉斯。

Ada Lovelace,一位数学家,

现在被公认为第一位
计算机程序员。

所以我回到我的团队,我说,

“如果我们现在要讲述
他们的故事怎么办?”

花了一段时间才得到买入。

有人担心,你知道

,报纸可能看起来很糟糕,

因为它第一次没有做对

回顾过去

而不是报道我们今天的新闻故事也有点奇怪。

但我说,“伙计们,我真的认为
这是值得的。”

一旦我的团队看到其中的价值,

他们就会全力以赴

。因此,在
十几位作家和编辑的帮助下,

我们于 2018 年 3 月 8 日推出

了 15 位杰出女性的故事。

虽然我知道
我的团队所做的工作很强大,但

我没想到
反应也同样强大。

我有数百封电子邮件。

他们来自那些说,

“谢谢你终于给了
这些女人一个声音。”

他们来自读者,他们说:

“我在上班的路上哭了,
读了这些故事,

因为我第一次感到被人看见。”

他们来自我的
同事,他们说:

“我从没想过一个有色人种的女人

会被允许

在《纽约时报》上取得这样的成就。”

我还收到了大约 4,000 份读者意见书,

表明
我们还可能忽略了哪些人 .

其中一些是我
在项目中最喜欢的故事。

我一直最喜欢的是盖特伍德奶奶。

(笑声)

她在丈夫手中度过了 30 年的家庭暴力

有一天,他把她打得
面目全非,

甚至在她头上打断了一把扫帚

,她把面粉扔
在他脸上作为回应。

但是当警察到达时,
他们逮捕了她,而不是他。

市长在监狱里看到她
,把她带进了自己的家,

直到她能重新站起来。

然后,有一天,她
在《国家地理》杂志上读到了一篇

关于没有女人独自

徒步完成阿巴拉契亚小径的文章

她说:“你知道吗?
我会去做的。”

记者听到老奶奶
在树林里徒步的风声。

最后,他们问她,

“你是如何在如此崎岖的地方生存下来的?”

但他们不
知道在那之前她活了下来。

因此,《被忽视》获得了
极大的成功。

它现在正在成为 Netflix 上的电视节目。

(笑声)

(掌声)

我迫不及待地想看到
这件事变得生动起来。

大约有 25 家不同的
出版商与我联系,

有兴趣将
《被忽视的》改编成一本书。

这一切都清楚地表明
了这个项目的及时性和必要性。

这也提醒我们报纸如何

记录我们世界每天发生的事情

,我们必须确保
不要遗漏关键人物。

这就是为什么,尽管
回顾过去非常有意义,但

我仍被一个挥之不去的问题所困扰:

“讣告的未来

如何——我如何使这些讣告多样化?”

那是我原来的问题,对吧?

所以要开始回答这个问题,
我想收集一些信息。


下到纽约时报大楼的地下一层,

去档案馆。

我们称之为太平间。

(笑声)


向我们那里的档案管理员请求了一些指导。

他指给我看一本名为
《纽约时报讣告索引》的书。

所以我们把它交给了纽约
家谱学会

,他们帮我们把它数字化了。

然后一个程序员编写了一个程序
,扫描所有标题

中的“先生”、“夫人”、“女士”、“先生”,
所有这些定义性别的术语

。我们发现
的是从 1851 年到 2017 年 ,我们的讣告中

只有大约 15% 到 20%
是关于女性的。

所以接下来,我和一个程序员
一起构建了这个工具,

称为多样性分析工具。

这是一个非常枯燥的名字,
但请耐心等待,它非常有帮助。

它打破了 逐月降低我们的百分比
,女性对男性。

好吧,如果这
听起来对你来说不是很多,

这就是我以前的计算方式。

(笑声)

所以我让这个程序员编写
一个目标 ,

而这个目标是 30%。

从 2018 年 3 月“被忽视的”
推出

到 2019 年 3 月,

我希望我们能
达到 30% 的女性讣告。

这是我们没有
达到的数字 在 168 年里

,我很高兴地说我们做到了——
我们达到了 31%。

(掌声

)太棒了,但这还不够。

接下来我们希望达到 35%,

然后是 40%,
直到我们实现平价。

然后我希望
再次与这位程序员合作

,构建一个类似的工具来衡量
我们讣告中的有色人种。

这也是我想
在“被忽视”中做的事情

,包括有色人种

,我终于在

黑人历史月的一个特别部分中做到了,

在那里我们讲述
了大约十几个黑人男女的故事。

同样,这是一次非常
强大的体验。

这些人中的许多人曾经是奴隶,

或者是摆脱奴隶制的一代人。

他们中的很多人不得不编造
关于他们过去的故事,

只是为了在生活中取得成功。

他们的这些

斗争模式一次又一次地出现。

例如,伊丽莎白詹宁斯

不得不为她在纽约市

乘坐隔离街车的权利而战
——

比罗莎帕克斯
在公共汽车上做同样的事情早了一百年。

这只是提醒
我们已经走了多远,

还有多少事情
要做。

“被忽视”也包括
其他被边缘化的人。

最近,我们收到
了计算机程序员艾伦·图灵的讣告。

信不信由你,这位才华横溢的人
从未得到讣告,

尽管他在二战期间

解码德国信息的工作

有助于结束战争。

相反,他因
性取向而成为罪犯,

被迫忍受
化学阉割。

伟大的事情,比如这个 obits 项目
,来之不易。

当我努力说服人们
将它付诸实践时,有很多断断续续的开始。

有时我面临极大的自我怀疑。

我想知道我是疯
了还是我一个人

,我是否应该放弃。

当我看到
对这个项目的反应时,

我知道我并不孤单。

有很多
人和我一样的感觉。

所以,是的,没有多少人
想到讣告。

但是当你这样做时,你会意识到
它们是人类生活的证明。

他们是谈论
某人对世界的贡献的最后机会。

他们也是
社会认为重要的人的一个例子。

一百年后,

有人可能会回顾过去
,看看我们的时代是什么样的。

作为一名记者,我很幸运

能够使用
这种讲故事的方式

来帮助改变叙事。

我还能够让
一个成熟的

机构质疑自己的现状。

一点一点,我希望
我能继续做这项工作,

并继续重新聚焦社会的镜头,

以免其他人被忽视。

谢谢你。

(掌声)