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imagine
i returned home from school and my mom
asks me
how was your day
and my first response is
good
i am sure many of you can relate to that
response
right
anyone
but what does that positive word good
really mean
truly convey
we probably say it just to sound
positive in our responses
think about it for a second
we even think that just saying some
positive words or thinking positively
will bring the success that we want
but then
why do all positive and well thought out
plans
don't succeed
weirdest positive thing can go wrong in
creating the success that we all want
positive thinking is surely a great
start but there's a serious limitation
to the way we
understand it
and that's exactly what i want to share
today
what is the missing link between
positive thinking and success
how about if i say that just like talent
positive thinking is overrated
especially when it comes to creating
success in life
not just that
apart from positive thinking and
outcomes there are two important
elements that are missing in the success
formula
actions
and alignment
together i call it my positive trilogy
where our thinking actions and outcomes
need to align
yes
the alignment is the key it's the glue
to success
you
want to create
and i've highlighted the same philosophy
in my first book one positive thought
i will also share the formula that
helped me a lot
it's called
becoming smart
which i will dive into details in just a
moment
but before that to be honest it took me
some time to realize the answer to this
question where this positive thing can
go wrong in creating success
but i figured it out from my own
experience
let me explain with a simple example
one time i ran a lot after many weeks of
not running
see
positive thinking and positive action
about staying fit
but the outcome wasn't as positive as my
legs started aching badly the next day
in life do we have such simple examples
to crucial ones where our thinking
actions and outcomes don't really align
the way it should be
well
let me share a story where i again
realized the power of this positive
trilogy it also worked for me
it was summer of 2020
i got an opportunity to audition for a
big acting program so i started
practicing a lot
then my mom told me to write on my board
i am selected
and i was like
why
she explained and then said now do it
so i did audition the next day
and later
my dad got a call back from the acting
program
and guess what
i got selected
this is where i realize the power of i
am exercise a part of our thinking
positive thinking
i am exercise is truly magical and do
you know it is much more than just
positive thinking
i am engages your future results with
your present thoughts it makes you more
determined and you become more
responsible for your actions
yes
you heard it correct
the
action word
i am is an action concept not a wishful
or fancy concept
you and i must put our work into it
because remember
there are no shortcuts to success
and if you try it
it could be a short circuit
alignment is the key in this positive
trilogy
and that my friends will transform your
positive thinking into your success
another short journey that i want to
take you through is when i had a goal of
publishing my first book one positive
thought on christmas day of 2019
we were on track until
my dad got a call from ndi in the first
week of november
my grandma suffered a major heart attack
and my dad left for india within hours
the next few weeks were
quite challenging
while i was praying for my grandma i
kept working on my book with my mom and
dad's encouragement
then
i received another call
that
my grandma is with god now
for days i
couldn't do anything
but then i remembered the goal
december 25th
i knew that my grandma's blessings were
with me so
i put my actions again and then finally
published my first book on
december 25th
2019.
my grandma could never see the book
physically but i knew that she must be
very proud that i kept putting my
actions during the tough time
and this
is the power of end
as long as you keep your eyes on the end
the outcome
you won't quit
and that makes all the difference
between someone positively thinking
about the outcome versus someone working
and aligning their actions towards
desired outcome
if that my friends will transform your
positive thinking into your success
but how do we make sure that our
positive thinking actions and outcomes
are aligned
how do we make sure that our positive
thinking isn't sabotaging our own
success
well
the answer to these questions is a
special but simple formula called
becoming smart
so
what is becoming smart
it is the formula to know whether your
thinking actions and outcomes are
aligned
everything you need to be successful
lies within this formula
it's beyond positive thinking
becoming smart
i assume that most of you are aware of
smart goal setting
smart goal setting is a powerful tool
for goal setting but it gets
supercharged when you add this becoming
as it brings other elements into the
picture especially
alignment
s for specific
m for measurable
a for achievable r for realistic and t
for time bound
b
for becoming
do you believe in your success
if not double up it this is your power
of i am
e efficient
how well you execute your actions
c consistent
don't give up keep trying this is your
power of end
oh organized time management
m
mindful awareness of you and others
feelings
i inspiring to yourself and others
and navigate planning your how to's
overcoming fears and distractions
and g
giving your success is beneficial to
others as well
so
how would you feel if from now on by
knowing this formula becoming smart you
have the power to create a beautiful
positive world for you success for you
and leaving a legacy for people around
you by being aware of this mindset of
aligning your thoughts actions and
outcomes
now
i want you to apply this formula in
three steps
first
write three things that you want to
achieve in the next 90 days to 6 months
like gardening starting a blog or losing
10 pounds of weight
anything
second
circle the one which you feel is closest
to your heart or you really want to
achieve asap
and third
now apply becoming smart
this formula will automatically break
all three elements thoughts actions and
outcomes align them and modify if it's
not
can you promise to yourself that you
will complete the third step before
going to bed tonight and ready with an
exciting goal tomorrow
positive trial audrey
it's with you
time for you to embrace becoming smart
and remove the missing link from your
positive thinking and your success
we all want success
we all want a change for the better
we all want to upgrade to the next best
possible version
we all want to impact lives around the
world
we all want to leave a positive legacy
and it starts
with this
the day you make a decision about your
life
is the day your world will change
and that day starts when you embrace
this positive trilogy when you apply the
formula becoming smart where you are
consciously aligning your thoughts
actions and outcomes to create the
success you truly want
you
are
next you
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想象一下
我放学回家，妈妈
问我
今天过得怎么样
，我的第一反应
很好
说它只是为了
在我们的回应中听起来很积极
考虑一下，
我们甚至认为仅仅说一些
积极的话或积极思考
就会带来我们想要的成功，
但是
为什么所有积极和深思熟虑的
计划
都没有成功呢？
积极的事情在
创造我们都想要的成功时可能会出错
积极思考肯定是一个很好的
开始，但我们理解它的方式有一个严重的限制
，这正是我今天要分享的
内容 积极思考和成功之间缺失的环节是什么
如果我说就像天赋一样，
积极思考被高估了，
尤其是在创造
生活成功方面，
而
不仅仅是积极思考 和
结果 成功公式中缺少两个重要
元素
行动
和
对齐 我称之为我的积极
三部曲 我们的思维行动和结果
需要对齐
是
的 对齐是关键 它是
你
想要创造
的成功的粘合剂 我 '
在我的第一本书中强调了同样的哲学，一个积极的想法
我也会分享对
我有很大帮助的公式，
它被称为
变得聪明
，我将在稍后深入细节，
但在此之前，老实说，我花了
一些时间 意识到这个
问题的答案，这个积极的事情
在创造成功时可能会出错，
但我从自己的
经验中发现了这一点
让我用一个简单的例子来解释一下，有
一次我在几个星期不跑步后跑了很多次
看到
积极的想法和积极的行动
关于保持健康，
但结果并不像我的
腿在生活中的第二天开始严重疼痛
那样积极，我们是否有这样简单的例子
到关键的地方？ 我们的思维
行动和结果并没有真正符合
它应该很好的方式
让我分享一个故事，我再次
意识到这个积极三部曲的力量
它也对我有用，
那是 2020 年夏天，
我有机会试镜一个
大 表演节目，所以我开始
练习很多，
然后我妈妈告诉我在我的板上写
我被选中
，我就像
她解释的原因然后说现在做
所以我第二天试镜
，后来
我爸爸接到了电话 表演
节目
，猜猜
我被选中了
这是我意识到我正在锻炼的力量的地方，这
是我们思考的一部分
积极思考
我正在锻炼真的很神奇，
你知道它不仅仅是
积极思考，
我正在参与你的未来 以
你现在的想法得到结果，它让你更加
坚定，你
对自己
的行为更加负责
努力工作，
因为记住
成功没有捷径
，如果你尝试
它，可能是短路
对齐是这个积极
三部曲
的关键，我的朋友们会将你的
积极想法转化为你的成功
，这是我想要进行的另一个短途旅程
你经历了当我的目标是
在
2019 年圣诞节出版我的第一
本书时，我们一直在进行中 对于印度来说
，接下来的几个星期
非常具有挑战性，
当我为我的奶奶祈祷时，我
在爸爸妈妈的鼓励下一直在写我的书，
然后
我接到另一个电话
，说
我的奶奶现在与上帝同
在好几天了，
我什么也做不了
但后来我想起了
12 月 25 日的目标
，我知道奶奶的祝福
与我同在，所以
我再次采取行动，终于
在 2019 年 12 月 25 日出版了我的第一本书。
dma 永远无法亲眼看到这本书，
但我知道她一定
很自豪，因为我在艰难时期一直坚持自己的
行动
，这
就是结束的力量，
只要你盯着最后
的结果，
你就不会放弃
如果我的朋友们会把你的
积极想法转化为你的成功
，那么积极思考结果的人与努力工作并根据预期结果调整行动的人之间的所有区别，但是我们如何确保我们
积极思考的行动和结果
是一致的
我们如何确保我们的积极
思维不会破坏我们自己的
成功
这些问题的答案是一个
特殊但简单的公式，称为
变得聪明
所以
什么是聪明
是知道你的
思维行为和结果是否
一致的公式
成功所需的一切
都在这个公式中
它超越了积极思考
变得聪明
我假设你们中的大多数人都是 aw
智能目标设定
智能目标设定是一个强大
的目标设定工具，但是当你添加它时它会变得更加强大，
因为它会将其他元素带入
图片中，特别是
对齐
s 用于特定
m 用于可测量
a 用于可实现 r 用于现实和 t
用于时间 如果不加倍
努力，你是否相信自己的成功？
这是你的力量
，我是
高效的
，你执行你的行动有多好
c 始终如一
，不要放弃，继续尝试，这是你的
力量，
哦，有组织的时间管理
对您和他人的感受的正念意识
i 对自己和他人的启发
和导航计划您如何
克服恐惧和
分心 g
让您的成功也对其
他人有益
所以
如果从现在开始通过
知道这个公式变得聪明你会有什么感觉
有能力为您创造一个美好的
积极世界，为您成功，
并
通过意识到这种心态为您周围的人留下遗产
调整你的想法 行动和
结果
现在
我希望你分三步应用这个公式
首先
写下你想
在接下来的 90 天到 6 个月内实现的三件事，
比如园艺 开始写博客或
减掉 10 磅的体重
第二个
圈 你觉得
最接近你的内心或者你真的想
尽快实现
第三个
现在应用变得聪明
这个公式将自动打破
所有三个元素思想行动和
结果调整它们并修改如果它
不是
你可以向自己保证你
将完成 今晚睡觉前的第三步，
为
明天的激动人心的目标做好准备
积极的审判 奥黛丽
现在是
时候让你拥抱变得聪明
，从你的积极思考和成功中移除缺失的环节
我们都希望成功
我们都希望改变 更好的是
我们都想升级到下一个最好
的版本
我们都想影响世界各地的生活
我们都想留下一个 积极的遗产
，它
从这一天开始，你对自己的生活做出决定
的那一天，你的世界将会改变
，这一天从你接受
这个积极的三部曲开始，当你应用
公式变得聪明时，你有
意识地调整你的思想
行动和结果 创造
你真正想要的成功，
你
就是
下一个
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