Why the best hire might not have the perfect resume Regina Hartley

Your company launches
a search for an open position.

The applications start rolling in,

and the qualified candidates
are identified.

Now the choosing begins.

Person A: Ivy League,
4.0, flawless resume,

great recommendations.

All the right stuff.

Person B: state school,
fair amount of job hopping,

and odd jobs like cashier
and singing waitress.

But remember – both are qualified.

So I ask you:

who are you going to pick?

My colleagues and I created
very official terms

to describe two distinct
categories of candidates.

We call A “the Silver Spoon,”

the one who clearly had advantages
and was destined for success.

And we call B “the Scrapper,”

the one who had to fight
against tremendous odds

to get to the same point.

You just heard a human resources
director refer to people

as Silver Spoons and Scrappers –

(Laughter)

which is not exactly politically correct
and sounds a bit judgmental.

But before my human resources
certification gets revoked –

(Laughter)

let me explain.

A resume tells a story.

And over the years, I’ve learned
something about people

whose experiences read
like a patchwork quilt,

that makes me stop and fully consider them

before tossing their resumes away.

A series of odd jobs may indicate

inconsistency, lack of focus,
unpredictability.

Or it may signal a committed
struggle against obstacles.

At the very least, the Scrapper
deserves an interview.

To be clear,

I don’t hold anything
against the Silver Spoon;

getting into and graduating
from an elite university

takes a lot of hard work and sacrifice.

But if your whole life has been
engineered toward success,

how will you handle the tough times?

One person I hired felt that
because he attended an elite university,

there were certain assignments
that were beneath him,

like temporarily doing manual labor
to better understand an operation.

Eventually, he quit.

But on the flip side,

what happens when your whole life
is destined for failure

and you actually succeed?

I want to urge you
to interview the Scrapper.

I know a lot about this
because I am a Scrapper.

Before I was born,

my father was diagnosed
with paranoid schizophrenia,

and he couldn’t hold a job
in spite of his brilliance.

Our lives were one part “Cuckoo’s Nest,”

one part “Awakenings”

and one part “A Beautiful Mind.”

(Laughter)

I’m the fourth of five children
raised by a single mother

in a rough neighborhood
in Brooklyn, New York.

We never owned a home,
a car, a washing machine,

and for most of my childhood,
we didn’t even have a telephone.

So I was highly motivated

to understand the relationship
between business success and Scrappers,

because my life could easily
have turned out very differently.

As I met successful business people

and read profiles of high-powered leaders,

I noticed some commonality.

Many of them had experienced
early hardships,

anywhere from poverty, abandonment,

death of a parent while young,

to learning disabilities,
alcoholism and violence.

The conventional thinking has been
that trauma leads to distress,

and there’s been a lot of focus
on the resulting dysfunction.

But during studies of dysfunction,
data revealed an unexpected insight:

that even the worst circumstances
can result in growth and transformation.

A remarkable and counterintuitive
phenomenon has been discovered,

which scientists call
Post Traumatic Growth.

In one study designed to measure
the effects of adversity

on children at risk,

among a subset of 698 children

who experienced the most severe
and extreme conditions,

fully one-third grew up to lead healthy,
successful and productive lives.

In spite of everything and against
tremendous odds, they succeeded.

One-third.

Take this resume.

This guy’s parents
give him up for adoption.

He never finishes college.

He job-hops quite a bit,

goes on a sojourn to India for a year,

and to top it off, he has dyslexia.

Would you hire this guy?

His name is Steve Jobs.

In a study of the world’s
most highly successful entrepreneurs,

it turns out a disproportionate
number have dyslexia.

In the US,

35 percent of the entrepreneurs
studied had dyslexia.

What’s remarkable –
among those entrepreneurs

who experience post traumatic growth,

they now view their learning disability

as a desirable difficulty
which provided them an advantage

because they became better listeners
and paid greater attention to detail.

They don’t think they are who they are
in spite of adversity,

they know they are who they are
because of adversity.

They embrace their trauma and hardships

as key elements of who they’ve become,

and know that without those experiences,

they might not have developed
the muscle and grit required

to become successful.

One of my colleagues
had his life completely upended

as a result of the Chinese
Cultural Revolution in 1966.

At age 13, his parents were relocated
to the countryside,

the schools were closed

and he was left alone in Beijing
to fend for himself until 16,

when he got a job in a clothing factory.

But instead of accepting his fate,

he made a resolution that he would
continue his formal education.

Eleven years later, when
the political landscape changed,

he heard about a highly selective
university admissions test.

He had three months to learn
the entire curriculum

of middle and high school.

So, every day he came home
from the factory,

took a nap, studied until 4am,
went back to work

and repeated this cycle
every day for three months.

He did it, he succeeded.

His commitment to his education
was unwavering, and he never lost hope.

Today, he holds a master’s degree,

and his daughters each have degrees
from Cornell and Harvard.

Scrappers are propelled by the belief

that the only person you have
full control over is yourself.

When things don’t turn out well,

Scrappers ask, “What can I do differently
to create a better result?”

Scrappers have a sense of purpose

that prevents them
from giving up on themselves,

kind of like if you’ve survived poverty,
a crazy father and several muggings,

you figure, “Business challenges? –

(Laughter)

Really?

Piece of cake. I got this.”

(Laughter)

And that reminds me – humor.

Scrappers know that humor
gets you through the tough times,

and laughter helps you
change your perspective.

And finally, there are relationships.

People who overcome adversity
don’t do it alone.

Somewhere along the way,

they find people who
bring out the best in them

and who are invested in their success.

Having someone you can
count on no matter what

is essential to overcoming adversity.

I was lucky.

In my first job after college,

I didn’t have a car, so I carpooled
across two bridges

with a woman who was
the president’s assistant.

She watched me work

and encouraged me to focus on my future

and not dwell on my past.

Along the way I’ve met many people

who’ve provided me
brutally honest feedback,

advice and mentorship.

These people don’t mind

that I once worked as a singing waitress
to help pay for college.

(Laughter)

I’ll leave you with one final,
valuable insight.

Companies that are committed
to diversity and inclusive practices

tend to support Scrappers

and outperform their peers.

According to DiversityInc,

a study of their top 50
companies for diversity

outperformed the S&P 500 by 25 percent.

So back to my original question.

Who are you going to bet on:

Silver Spoon or Scrapper?

I say choose the underestimated contender,

whose secret weapons
are passion and purpose.

Hire the Scrapper.

(Applause)

贵公司
开始搜索空缺职位。

应用程序开始滚动,

并确定合格的
候选人。

现在开始选择。

A 人:常春藤盟校,
4.0,完美的简历,

很好的推荐。

所有正确的东西。

B 人:公立学校,
相当数量的跳槽,

以及像收银员
和唱歌服务员这样的零工。

但请记住——两者都是合格的。

所以我问你:

你要选谁?

我和我的同事创造了
非常正式的术语

来描述两种不同
类别的候选人。

我们称 A 为“银勺

”,它显然具有优势
并注定要成功。

我们称 B 为“铲屎官

”,他必须
与巨大的可能性

作斗争才能达到同一点。

你刚刚听到一个人力资源
总监把人

称为银勺子和废柴——

(笑声)

这在政治上并不完全正确
,听起来有点评判。

但在我的人力资源
证书被吊销之前——

(笑声)

让我解释一下。

简历讲述了一个故事。

多年来,我从

那些经历读起来
像拼布被子的人身上学到了一些东西,

这让我

在扔掉他们的简历之前停下来充分考虑他们。

一系列零工可能表明

不一致、缺乏焦点、
不可预测。

或者它可能
标志着与障碍的坚定斗争。

至少,Scrapper
值得接受采访。

需要明确的是,

我对 Silver Spoon 没有任何意见

进入并
从精英大学毕业

需要付出很多努力和牺牲。

但是,如果您的一生都
朝着成功的方向发展,

您将如何应对艰难时期?

我雇的一个人觉得,
因为他上的是一所精英大学,

所以有些任务
不适合他,

比如临时做体力劳动
以更好地理解一项操作。

最终,他辞职了。

但另一方面

,当你的
一生注定要失败

而你真的成功时会发生什么?

我想敦促
你采访 Scrapper。

我对此非常了解,
因为我是一名 Scrapper。

在我出生之前,

我父亲被诊断出
患有偏执型精神分裂症,

尽管他才华横溢,但他却找不到工作。

我们的生活是一部《杜鹃巢》,

一部《觉醒》

,一部《美丽心灵》。

(笑声)

我是纽约布鲁克林一个贫民区一个单身母亲抚养的五个孩子中的第四个

我们从未拥有过房子
、汽车、洗衣机

,在我童年的大部分时间里,
我们甚至没有电话。

所以我非常有动力

去理解
商业成功和 Scrappers 之间的关系,

因为我的生活很容易
就会变得非常不同。

当我遇到成功的商业人士

并阅读高权力领导者的个人资料时,

我注意到了一些共性。

他们中的许多人早年经历过
艰难困苦,

从贫穷、被遗弃

、年轻时父母去世,

到学习障碍、
酗酒和暴力。

传统的想法
是创伤会导致痛苦,

并且很多人都
关注由此产生的功能障碍。

但在对功能障碍的研究中,
数据揭示了一个意想不到的见解

:即使是最坏的情况
也可能导致增长和转变。 已经发现了

一种显着且违反直觉的
现象

,科学家称之为
创伤后成长。

在一项旨在衡量
逆境

对处于危险中的儿童的影响的研究中,

经历了最严重
和极端条件的 698 名儿童中,

整整三分之一的儿童长大后过上了健康、
成功和富有成效的生活。

尽管
遇到了种种困难,并且克服了巨大的困难,他们还是成功了。

三分之一。

收下这份简历。

这家伙的父母
把他送去收养。

他从未完成大学学业。

他经常跳槽,

去印度逗留了一年

,最糟糕的是,他患有阅读障碍。

你会雇用这个人吗?

他的名字是史蒂夫乔布斯。

在对世界上
最成功的企业家的一项研究中,

事实证明,有不成比例的人
患有阅读障碍症。

在美国,

研究的企业家中有 35%
患有阅读障碍。

值得注意的是——

那些经历过创伤后成长的企业家中,

他们现在将学习障碍

视为一种可取的困难
,这为他们提供了优势,

因为他们成为更好的倾听者
并更加关注细节。 尽管逆境,

他们并不认为自己是自己

他们知道自己
是逆境中的自己。

他们接受自己的创伤和艰辛

作为他们成为的关键因素,

并且知道如果没有这些经历,

他们可能不会发展
出成功所需的肌肉和勇气

我的一位同事在 1966 年的中国文化大革命中
彻底颠覆了他的生活

。13 岁时,他的父母
搬到农村

,学校停课

,他一个人留在
北京自谋生路,直到 16 岁。

当他在一家服装厂找到工作时。

但他没有接受自己的命运

,而是决定
继续接受正规教育。

十一年后,
当政治格局发生变化时,

他听说了一项高度选择性的
大学入学考试。

他有三个月的时间学习

初中和高中的全部课程。

于是,他每天
从工厂回家,

打个盹,学习到凌晨 4 点,
回到工作岗位

,每天重复这个循环,
持续了三个月。

他做到了,他成功了。

他对教育的承诺
坚定不移,他从未失去希望。

如今,他拥有硕士学位

,他的女儿们各自拥有
康奈尔大学和哈佛的学位。

Scrapers 被这样一种信念所推动,

即你唯一可以
完全控制的人就是你自己。

当事情进展不顺利时,

Scrappers 会问:“我能做些什么不同的事情
来创造更好的结果?”

铲屎官有一种使命感

,可以防止
他们放弃自己,

有点像如果你从贫困中幸存下来,
一个疯狂的父亲和几次抢劫,

你会想,“商业挑战?——

(笑声)

真的吗?

小菜一碟。 我懂了。”

(笑声)

这让我想起了——幽默。

Scrapers 知道幽默
可以帮助您度过艰难时期,

而笑声可以帮助
您改变观点。

最后,还有关系。

克服逆境的
人不会孤军奋战。

一路走来,

他们找到
了能发挥出他们最好的一面

并为他们的成功投资的人。

有一个你可以
依靠的人,无论

什么对克服逆境至关重要。

我很幸运。

在我大学毕业后的第一份工作中,

我没有车,所以我

和一位
担任总统助理的女士拼车过两座桥。

她看着我工作,

并鼓励我专注于我的未来,

而不是沉迷于我的过去。

在此过程中,我遇到了许多人

,他们为我提供了非常
诚实的反馈、

建议和指导。

这些人不

介意我曾经做过唱歌的女服务员
来帮助支付大学费用。

(笑声)

我会留给你最后一个
有价值的见解。

致力于多元化和包容性实践的公司

倾向于支持 Scrappers

并超越同行。

根据 DiversityInc 的数据,

一项对其 50
家多元化公司的研究

比标准普尔 500 指数高出 25%。

所以回到我原来的问题。

你会赌谁:

Silver Spoon 还是 Scrapper?

我说选择被低估的竞争者,

他们的秘密武器
是激情和目标。

雇用刮刀。

(掌声)