Learning from past presidents Doris Kearns Goodwin

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so indeed I have spent my life looking

into the lives of presidents who are no

longer alive

waking up with Abraham Lincoln in the

morning thinking of Franklin Roosevelt

when I went to bed at night but when I

try and think about what I’ve learned

about the meaning in life my mind keeps

wandering back to a seminar that I took

when I was a graduate student at Harvard

with the great psychologist Erik Erikson

he taught us that the richest and

fullest lives attempt to achieve an

inner balance between three realms work

love and play and that to pursue one

realm to the disregard of the others is

to open oneself to ultimate sadness in

older age where is to pursue all three

with equal dedication is to make

possible a life filled not only with

achievement but with serenity so since I

tell stories let me look back on the

lives of two of the presidents I’ve

studied to illustrate this point Abraham

Lincoln and Lyndon Johnson as for that

first sphere of work I think what

Abraham Lincoln’s life suggests is that

fierce ambition is a good thing he had a

huge ambition but it wasn’t simply for

office or power or celebrity or fame

what it was for is to accomplish

something worthy enough in life so that

he could make the world a little better

place for his having lived in it even as

a child it seemed Lincoln dreamed heroic

dreams he somehow had to escape that

hardscrabble farm from which he was born

no schooling was possible for him except

a few weeks here a few weeks there but

he read books in every spare moment he

could find it was said when he got a

copy of the King James Bible or Aesop’s

fables he was so excited he couldn’t

sleep he couldn’t eat the great poet

Emily Dickinson once said there is no

frigate like a book to take us lands

away how true for Lincoln though he

never would travel to Europe he went

with Shakespeare’s Kings to marry

England he went with Lord Byron’s poetry

to Spain and Portugal literature allowed

him to transcend his surroundings but

there were so many losses in his early

life that he was haunted by death his

mother died when he was only nine years

old his only sister Sara in childbirth a

few years later and his first love and

Rutledge at the age of 22

moreover when his mother Lay Dying she

did not hold out for him the hope that

they would meet in an after world she

simply said to him Abraham I’m going

away from you now and I shall never

return as a result he became obsessed

with the thought that when we die our

life is swept away dust to dust but only

as he grew older did he develop a

certain consolation from an ancient

Greek notion but followed by other

cultures as well that if you could

accomplish something worthy in your life

you could live on in the memory of

others your honor and your reputation

would outlive your earthly existence and

that worthy ambition became his lodestar

it carried him through the one

significant depression that he suffered

when he was in his early 30s three

things had combined to lay him low he

had broken his engagement with Mary Todd

not certain he was ready to marry her

but knowing how devastating it was to

her that he did that his one intimate

friend Joshua speed was leaving Illinois

to go back to Kentucky because speed’s

father had died and his political career

in the state legislature was on a

downward slide he was so depressed that

friends worried he was suicidal they

took all knives and razors and scissors

from his room and his great friend speed

went to his side and said Lincoln you

must rally or you will die he said that

I would just as soon die right now but

I’ve not yet done anything to make any

human being remember that I have lived

so fueled by that ambition he returned

to the state legislature he eventually

won a seat in Congress he then ran twice

for the Senate lost twice every one is

broken by life Ernest Hemingway once

said but some people are stronger in the

broken places so then he surprised the

nation with an upset victory for the

presidency over three far more

experienced far more educated far more

celebrated rivals and then when he won

the general election he stunned the

nation even more by appointing each of

these three rivals into his cabinet it

was an unprecedented act at the time

because everybody thought he look like a

figurehead compared to these people they

said why are you doing this Lincoln he

said look these are the strongest and

most able men in the country the country

is in peril I need them by my side but

perhaps my old friend Lyndon Johnson

might have put it in less noble fashion

better to have your enemies inside the

tent pissing

out than outside the tent pissing in but

it soon became clear that Abraham

Lincoln would emerge as the undisputed

captain of this unruly team for each of

them soon came to understand that he

possessed an unparalleled array of

emotional strains and political skills

that proved far more important than the

thinness of his external resume for one

thing he possessed an uncanny ability to

empathize with and to think about other

people’s point of view he repaired

injured feelings that might have

escalated into permanent hostility he

shared credit with Eze assumed

responsibility for the failure of his

subordinates constantly acknowledged his

errors and learned from his mistakes

these are the qualities we should be

looking for in our candidates in 2008 he

refused to be provoked he refused to be

provoked by petty grievances

he’d never submitted to jealousy or

brooded over perceived slights and he

expressed his unshakeable convictions in

everyday language in metaphors in

stories and with the beauty of language

almost as if the Shakespeare and the

poetry he had so loved as a child had

worked their way into his very soul in

1863 when the Emancipation Proclamation

was signed he brought his old friend

Joshua speed back to the White House and

remembered that conversation of decades

before when he was so sad and he

pointing to the proclamation said I

believe in this measure my fondest hopes

will be realized but as he was about to

put his signature on the proclamation

his own hand was numb and shaking

because he had shaken a thousand hands

that morning at a New Year’s reception

so he put the pen down he said if ever

my soul were in an act it is in this act

but if I sign with a shaking hand

posterity will say he hesitated so he

waited until he could take up the pen

and sign with a bold and clear hand but

even in his wildest dreams Lincoln could

never have imagined how far his

reputation would reach I was so thrilled

to find a interview with the great

Russian writer Leo Tolstoy in a New York

newspaper in the early 1900s and in it

Tolstoy told of a trip that he’d

recently made to a very remote area of

the Caucasus where there were only wild

barbarians who had never left this part

of Russia

knowing that Tolstoy was in their myths

they asked him to tell stories of the

great men of

so I said I told them about Napoleon and

Alexander the Great in Frederick great

and Julius Caesar and they loved it but

before I finished the chief of the

barbarians stood up and said but wait

you haven’t told us about the greatest

ruler of them all we want to hear about

that man who spoke with the voice of

thunder who laughed like the sunrise who

came from that place called America

which is so far from here that if a

young man should travel there he would

be an old man when he arrived tell us of

that man tell us of Abraham Lincoln he

was stunned II told him everything he

could about Lincoln and then in the

interview he said what made Lincoln so

great not as great a generalist Napoleon

not as great a statesman as Frederick

the Great but his greatness consisted

and historians would roundly agree in

the integrity of his character and the

moral fiber of his being so in the end

that powerful ambition that had carried

Lincoln through his bleak childhood had

been realized that ambition that had

allowed him to laborious Lee educate

himself by himself to go through those

string of political failures and the

darkest days of the war his story would

be told so as for that second sphere not

of work but of love encompassing family

friends and colleagues it too takes work

and commitment the Lyndon Johnson that I

saw in the last years of his life when I

helped him on his memoirs was a man who

had spent so many years in the pursuit

of work power and individual success

they need absolutely no psychic or

emotional resources left to get him

through the days once the presidency was

gone my relationship with him began on a

rather curious level I was selected as a

White House Fellow when I was 24 years

old we had a big dance at the White

House President Johnson did dance with

me that night not that peculiar they’re

only three women out of the 16 White

House fellows but he did whisper in my

ear that he wanted me to work directly

for him in the White House but it was

not to be that simple for in the months

leading up to my selection like many

young people I’d been active in the

anti-vietnam war movement and had

written an article against Lyndon

Johnson which unfortunately came out in

the New Republic two days after the

dance in the White House

the theme of the article was how to

remove Lyndon Johnson from power so I

was certain he would kick me out of the

program but instead surprising he said

I’ll bring her down here for a year if I

can’t win her over

no one can so I did end up working for

him in the White House eventually

accompanied him to his ranch to help him

on those memoirs never fully

understanding why he’d chosen me to

spend so many hours with I like to

believe it was because I was a good

listener he was a great storyteller

fabulous colorful anecdotal stories

there was a problem with these stories

however which I later discovered which

is that half of them weren’t true but

they were great on the last so I think

that part of his attraction for me was

that I loved listening to his tall tales

but I also worried that part of it was

that I was then a young woman and he had

somewhat of a minor league womanizing

reputation so I constantly chatted to

him about boyfriends even when I didn’t

have any at all everything was working

perfectly until one day he said when

he’s discussed our relationship sounded

very ominous when he took me nearby to

the lake conveniently called lake lyndon

baines johnson and there was wine and

cheese in a red check tablecloth all the

romantic trappings and he started out

Doris more than any other woman I have

ever known and my heart sank and then he

said you remind me of my mother

it was it was pretty embarrassing given

what was going on in my mind but I must

say the older I’ve gotten the more I

realized what an incredible privilege it

was to have spent so many hours with

this aging line of a man a victor in a

thousand contests three great civil

rights laws Medicare aid to education

and yet roundly defeated in the end by

the war in Vietnam and because he was so

sad and so vulnerable he opened up to me

in ways he never would have had I known

him at the height of his power sharing

his fears his sorrows and his worries

and I’d like to believe that that

privilege fired within me the drive to

understand the inner person behind the

public figure that I’ve tried to bring

to each of my books since then but it

also brought home to me the lessons

which Erik Erikson had tried to instill

in all of us about the importance of

finding balance in life for on the

surface Lyndon Johnson should have had

everything in the world to feel good

about in those last years in the sense

that he had been elected to the

presidency he had all the money he

needed to pursue any leisure activity he

wanted

he owned a spacious ranch in the

countryside a penthouse in the city

sailboats speedboats he had servants to

answer any whim and he had a family who

loved him deeply and yet years of

concentration solely on work and

individual success meant that in his

retirement he could find no solace in

family in recreation in sports or in

hobbies it was almost as if the hole in

his heart was so large that even the

love of a family without work could not

fill it as his spirit sagged his body

deteriorated until I believe he slowly

brought about his own death in those

last years he said he was so sad

watching the American people look toward

a new president and forgetting him he

spoke with immense sadness in his voice

saying maybe he should have spent more

time with his children and their

children in turn but it was too late

despite all that power all that wealth

he was alone when he finally died his

ultimate terror realized so as for that

third sphere of play which he never had

learned to enjoy I’ve learned over the

years that even this sphere requires a

commitment of time and energy enough so

that a hobby a sport a love of music or

art or literature or any form of

recreation can provide true pleasure

relaxation and replenishment so deep for

instance was Abraham Lincoln’s love of

Shakespeare that he made time to spend

more than a hundred nights in the

theatre even during those dark days of

the war he said when the lights went

down in a Shakespeare play came on for a

few precious hours he could imagine

himself back in Prince Hal’s time but an

even more important form of relaxation

for him that Lyndon Johnson never could

enjoy was a love of somehow humor and

feeling out what hilarious parts of life

can produce a sidelight to the sadness

he once said that he laughed so he did

not cry that a good story for him was

better than a drop of whiskey his

storytelling powers had first been

recognized when he was on the circuit in

Illinois the lawyers and the judges

would travel from one County Courthouse

to the other and when anyone was knowing

Lincoln was in town they would come from

miles around to listen to him tell

stories he would stand with his back

against a fire and entertain the crowd

for hours with his winding tales

and all these stories became part of his

memory bank so he could call on them

whenever he needed to and they’re not

quite what you might expect from our

marble monument one of his favorite

stories for example had to do with the

Revolutionary War hero Ethan Allen and

his Lincoln told the story mr. Allen

went to Britain after the war and the

British people were still upset about

losing the revolution so they decided to

embarrass him a little bit by putting a

huge picture of General Washington in

the only outhouse where he’d have to

encounter it they figured he be upset

about the indignity of George Washington

being in an outhouse but he came out of

the outhouse not upset at all and so

they said we’ll teach you see George

Washington there oh yes he said

perfectly appropriate place for him what

do you mean they said well he said

there’s nothing to make an Englishman

faster than the sight of General

George so you can imagine if you are in

the middle of a tense cabinet meeting he

had hundreds of these stories you will

have to relax

so between his nightly treks to the

theatre his storytelling and his

extraordinary sense of humor and his

love of quoting Shakespeare and poetry

he found that form of play which carried

him through his days in my own life I

shall always be grateful for having

found a form of play in my irrational

love of baseball which allows me from

the beginning of spring training to the

end of the fall to have something to

occupy my mind and heart other than my

work it all began when I was only six

years old and my father taught me that

mysterious art of keeping score while

listening to baseball games so that when

he went to work in New York during the

day I could record for him the history

of that afternoon’s Brooklyn Dodger game

now when you’re only six years old and

your father comes home every single

night and listens to you as I now

realize that I in excruciating detail

recounted every single play of every

inning of the game that had just taken

place that afternoon but he made me feel

I was telling him a fabulous story they

think makes you think there’s something

magic about history to keep your

father’s attention in fact I’m convinced

I learned the narrative art from those

nightly sessions with my father because

at first I’d be so excited I would blurt

out the Dodgers won or the Dodgers lost

which took much of the drama of this

two-hour telling

so I finally learned you had to stell a

story from beginning to middle to end I

must say so fervent was my love of the

old Brooklyn Dodgers in those days that

I had to confess in my first confession

to sins that related to baseball the

first occurred because the Dodger

catcher Roy Campanella came to my

hometown of Rockville Center Long Island

just as it was in preparation for my

First Holy Communion and I was so

excited first person I’d ever see

outside of Ebbets Field but it so

happened he was speaking in a Protestant

Church when you were brought up as a

Catholic you think if you ever set foot

in a Protestant Church you’ll be struck

dead at the threshold so I went to my

father in tears what are we going to do

he said don’t worry he’s speaking at a

parish hall we’re sitting and folding

chairs he’s talking about sportsmanship

it’s not a sin but as I left that night

I was certain that somehow I traded the

life of my everlasting soul for this one

night with Roy Campanella and there were

no indulgences around that I could buy

so I had this sin on my soul when I went

to my first confession I told the priest

right away he said no problem it wasn’t

a religious service but then

unfortunately said and what else my

child and then came my seconds and I

tried to sandwich it in between talking

too much in church witching harm to

others being mean to my sisters and he

said to whom did you wish harm and I had

to say that I wish that various New York

Yankee players would break arms and legs

and ankles so that the RET so that the

Brooklyn Dodgers could win their first

World Series he said how often do you

make these horrible wishes and I had to

say every night when I said my prayers

so he said look I tell you something I

love the Brooklyn Dodgers as you do but

I promise you someday they will win

fairly and squarely do not need to wish

harm and others to make it happen oh yes

I said but luckily my first confession

to a baseball loving priest

well though my father died of a sudden

heart attack when I was still in my 20s

before I had gotten married and had my

three sons I have passed his memory as

well as his love of baseball onto my

boys though when the Dodgers abandoned

us to come to LA I lost faith in

baseball until I moved to Boston became

an irrational Red Sox fan and I must say

even now when I sit with my sons with

our season tickets I can sometimes close

my eyes against the Sun and imagine

myself a young girl once more in the

presence of my father watching the

players of my youth on the grassy fields

below Jackie Robinson Roy Campanella Pee

Wee Reese and

Schneider I must say there is magic in

these moments when I opened my eyes and

I see my son’s in the place where my

father once sat I feel an invisible

loyalty and love linking my sons to the

grandfather whose face they never had a

chance to see but whose heart and soul

they have come to know through all the

stories I have told which is why in the

end I shall always be grateful for this

curious love of history allowing me to

spend a lifetime looking back into the

past allowing me to learn from these

large figures about the struggle for

meaning for life allowing me to believe

that the private people we have loved

and lost in our families and the public

figures we have respected in our history

just as Abraham Lincoln wanted to

believe really can live on so long as we

pledge to tell and to retell the stories

of their lives thank you for letting me

be that storyteller today

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they’re not that’s what I’m working on

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planet

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所以确实,我一生都

在研究那些不再活着的总统的

生活 我所学到的

关于生命意义的事我的脑海中不断

回荡着

我在哈佛读研究生时

与伟大的心理学家埃里克·埃里克森(Erik Erikson)

一起参加的一次研讨会,他告诉我们,最丰富、

最充实的生活试图实现

内心的平衡 在三个领域之间工作

爱和玩耍,追求一个

领域而忽视其他领域是

在老年时向最终的悲伤敞开心扉,

以同等的奉献精神追求所有三个领域是

使生活不仅充满

成就,而且 平静地,所以自从我

讲故事以来,让我回顾一下

我研究过的两位总统的生活,

以说明这一点亚伯拉罕

林肯和林登约翰逊作为

第一个工作领域 我认为

亚伯拉罕·林肯的一生所暗示的是,

雄心勃勃是一件好事,他有一个

巨大的野心,但这不仅仅是为了

办公室、权力、名望或

名望,而是为了

在生活中完成一些有价值的事情,这样

他就可以 让世界变得更美好一点

,因为他从小就生活在其中

林肯似乎梦想着英雄的

梦想,他不知何故不得不

逃离他出生的那个贫瘠的农场,

除了在这里几个星期之外,他无法接受教育

在那里,但

他在每一个空闲的时间里都会

读书 没有

一艘护卫舰能像一本书一样把我们的土地

带走对林肯来说是多么真实尽管他

永远不会去欧洲他

和莎士比亚的国王一起去嫁给

英国他和拜伦勋爵的诗歌一起

去西班牙和葡萄牙文学允许 教育

他超越他的环境,

但他早年经历了太多的损失,

以至于他被死亡所困扰,他的

母亲在他九岁时去世,几年后

唯一的妹妹萨拉分娩

,他的初恋和

拉特利奇在 22岁,

而他的母亲临终时,她

并没有为他抱有

来世相见的希望,她

只是对他说亚伯拉罕我现在要

离开你,我永远不会

回来,结果他成了

痴迷于这样的想法,即当我们死去时,我们的

生活会被一扫而空,但只有

随着年龄的增长,他才

从古

希腊的概念中获得了某种安慰,但其他文化也遵循着这样的想法

,即如果你能

在你的生活中完成一些有价值的事情

你可以活在别人的记忆中

你的荣誉和名誉

会比你在世俗的存在

更长久,而那个有价值的野心成为他的指路明灯,

它带他度过

了他所遭受的一次严重的抑郁症

在他 30 岁出头的时候,三

件事加在一起使他

变得低落,他与玛丽·托德解除了婚约

斯皮德的

父亲去世了,他

在州议会的政治生涯

一落千丈,他正离开伊利诺伊州回到肯塔基州,他非常沮丧,以至于

朋友们担心他有自杀倾向,他们

从他的房间里拿走了所有的刀、剃刀和剪刀 朋友速度

走到他身边说林肯,你

必须团结起来,否则你会死,他说

我现在就死了,但

我还没有做任何事情来让任何

人记住我的生活

是如此的野心 他

回到了州议会 他最终

赢得了国会席位 然后他两次

竞选参议院 输了两次 每一次都

被生活打破 欧内斯特·海明威曾经

说过,但有些人在国会中更强大

broken places so then he surprised the

nation with an upset victory for the

presidency over three far more

experienced far more educated far more

celebrated rivals and then when he won

the general election he stunned the

nation even more by appointing each of

these three rivals into his 内阁,这

在当时是史无前例的行为,

因为每个人都认为他看起来像一个

傀儡,与这些人相比,他们

说你为什么要这样做林肯他

说看,这些是这个国家最强壮、

最能干的人这个

国家处于危险之中我需要 他们在我身边,但

也许我的老朋友林登·约翰逊(Lyndon Johnson)

可能不那么高尚

,让你的敌人在

帐篷里

撒尿比在帐篷外撒尿更好,

但很快就很明显,亚伯拉罕

林肯将成为无可争议的

船长 他们每个人的这个不守规矩的团队

很快就明白,他

拥有无与伦比的

情绪紧张和政治技巧

, 事实证明,这比

他的外部履历单薄更重要,因为

他拥有一种不可思议的

同情和思考

他人观点的能力,他修复

了可能

升级为永久敌意的受伤情绪,他

与 Eze 共同承担了

责任 他的下属的失败

不断承认他的

错误并从他的错误中吸取教训

这些是我们应该

在 2008 年我们的候选人中寻找的品质 他

拒绝被激怒 他拒绝

被小事

激怒 他在日常语言中以故事中的隐喻和语言之美

表达了他不可动摇的信念,

就好像莎士比亚和

他小时候深爱的诗歌

在 1863 年解放时已经深入他的灵魂

签署了公告,他带着他的老朋友

约书亚速度回到了白宫 我

想起了几十年前的那次谈话,

当时他很伤心,他

指着公告说我

相信通过这个措施,我最美好的希望

会实现,但当他准备

在公告上签名时,

他自己的手已经麻木和颤抖,

因为

那天早上他在新年招待会上握了千手,

所以他放下了笔,他说,如果

我的灵魂在一个动作中,它就是在这个动作中,

但如果我握手,

后人会说他犹豫了,所以他

等了 直到他能够拿起笔

并用大胆而清晰的手签名,但

即使在他最疯狂的梦想中,林肯也

无法想象他的

名声会达到多远,我很高兴

在《新时代》杂志上找到俄罗斯伟大作家列夫·托尔斯泰的采访

1900 年代初的约克报纸和托尔斯泰在其中

讲述了他

最近前往高加索一个非常偏远地区

的旅行,那里只有

从未离开

过俄罗斯这一地区的

野蛮人知道 托尔斯泰在他们的神话中,

他们让他讲述伟人的故事,

所以我说我告诉他们

弗雷德里克大帝

和凯撒大帝的拿破仑和亚历山大大帝,他们喜欢它,但

在我说完之前,野蛮人的首领

站了起来 然后说但是等等,

你还没有告诉我们关于他们中最伟大的

统治者的一切我们想听到的关于

那个用雷鸣般的声音说话的

人,他笑得像日出一样,

来自那个叫美国的地方

,离这里很远, 如果一个

年轻人去那里旅行,

当他到达时他会是一个老人告诉我们

那个人告诉我们亚伯拉罕林肯

他惊呆了我告诉

他关于林肯的一切,然后在

采访中他说是什么让林肯如此

伟大而不是 作为一个伟大的通才拿破仑

不像腓特烈大帝那样伟大的政治家,

但他的伟大

在于,历史学家会完全同意

他的品格和

道德品质的完整性,所以

最后 使

林肯度过了他凄凉童年的强大

野心已经意识到,

让他辛辛苦苦的李

自学的野心自学经历了

一系列政治失败和

战争中最黑暗的日子,他的故事将

被讲述 第二个领域

不是工作,而是爱,包括家人

朋友和同事,这也需要工作

和承诺。我

在他生命的最后几年

帮助他写回忆录时看到的林登·约翰逊是一个

在美国工作了这么多年的人

追求工作能力和个人成功

他们绝对不需要任何精神或

情感资源来让他度过

总统任期

结束后的日子 我与他的关系开始于一个

相当奇怪的水平

我在 24 岁时被选为白宫研究员

老我们在白宫举行了一场盛大的舞会

约翰逊总统

那天晚上确实和我一起跳舞 并不奇怪 他们

只是 16 位白宫中的三位女性

伙计们,但他确实在我

耳边低语说他希望我直接

在白宫为他工作,但这

并不是那么简单,因为在

我被选中之前的几个月里,我就像

许多积极参与

反抗的年轻人一样 -越南战争运动,曾

写过一篇反对林登·约翰逊的文章

,不幸的是,

在白宫舞会两天后新共和国

发表了这篇文章,文章的主题是如何让

林登·约翰逊下台,所以

我确信他会踢我 退出该

计划,但令他惊讶的是,他说

如果我

无法赢得她的支持,我会把她带到这里

一年,所以我最终

在白宫为他工作,最终

陪他到他的牧场帮忙 他

在那些回忆录中从来没有完全

理解为什么他选择我和我

一起度过这么多时间

r 后来我发现,

其中一半不是真的,

但最后一个很棒,所以我

认为他对我的吸引力的一部分

是我喜欢听他的高大故事,

但我也担心其中一部分是

我当时还是个年轻女人,他在

小联盟里有点女人化的

名声,所以我经常和

他谈男朋友,即使我根本

没有任何男朋友,一切都很

顺利,直到有一天他说当

他讨论我们的关系听起来

当他带我去附近的湖边时非常不祥,

这个湖方便地称为林登贝恩斯约翰逊湖

,红色格子桌布上有葡萄酒和奶酪,所有

浪漫的装饰,他开始

多丽丝的次数比我认识的任何其他女人都多

,我的心沉了下来, 然后他

说你让我想起了我的母亲

,考虑到我的想法,这真是太尴尬

了,但我必须

说,我年纪越大,我就越

意识到这是多么令人难以置信的

特权 花了这么多时间和

这个男人的衰老线

一千场比赛的胜利者三部伟大的

民权法医疗保险援助教育

,但最终

在越南战争中彻底失败,因为他如此

悲伤和如此脆弱,他打开了 由我决定

,如果我

在他权力的巅峰时期认识他,我永远不会知道他,分享

他的恐惧,悲伤和担忧

从那时起,我一直试图把这个数字带到我的每本书中,但它

也让我明白了

埃里克·埃里克森试图向

我们所有人灌输

的关于在

表面上林登·约翰逊应该找到生活平衡的重要性的教训

在过去几年中,在过去几年

中,他有良好的休息活动

所选的休闲活动所在的休闲活动所在的休闲活动中的所有休闲活动

在乡下 城市里的顶层公寓

帆船 快艇 他有仆人

可以满足任何心血来潮 他有一个

深爱他的家庭,然而多年来

只专注于工作和

个人成功,这意味着他

退休后无法在

家庭中找到安慰 体育消遣或

兴趣爱好,

他心中的洞似乎太大了,即使是

没有工作的家人的爱也无法

填补,因为他的精神萎靡不振,他的身体

每况愈下,直到我相信他慢慢地

导致了自己的死亡。 在

过去的几年里,他说他很伤心

地看着美国人民看着

一位新总统而忘记了他

,他的声音中充满了极大的悲伤,

说也许他应该花更多的

时间与他的孩子和他们的

孩子相处,但为时已晚

尽管有那么多的权力,那么多的财富

,当他最终死去时,他还是一个人,他的

终极恐惧意识到了

他从未学会享受的第三个游戏领域,

我已经

多年来了解到,即使是这个领域也需要

足够的时间和精力投入,

以便爱好、运动、对音乐、

艺术或文学的热爱或任何形式的

娱乐活动都可以提供真正的快乐

放松和补充,

例如亚伯拉罕林肯的爱

莎士比亚,他抽出时间在剧院度过

了一百多个夜晚,

即使在战争的那些黑暗日子里,

他说当

莎士比亚戏剧中的灯光熄灭时,

他可以想象

自己回到哈尔王子剧院的几个宝贵小时 时间,但

对他来说,林登·约翰逊永远无法

享受的一种更重要的放松形式是热爱某种幽默,

感受生活中的哪些有趣的部分

可以对他曾经说过的悲伤产生旁观者,

他说他笑了,所以他

没有哭 对他来说,一个好故事

胜过一滴威士忌,

当他在伊利诺伊州巡回巡回赛时,他的讲故事能力首次得到认可。

可以从一个县法院

走到另一个,当有人知道

林肯在城里时,他们会从

几英里外来听他讲

故事,他会背对着火站着,

用他曲折的故事娱乐人群几个小时

, 所有这些故事都成为了他

记忆库的一部分,因此他可以在

需要时随时调用它们,而这些故事

并不是您对我们的

大理石纪念碑所期望的那样,他最喜欢的

故事之一与

革命战争英雄伊桑艾伦有关

他的林肯先生讲述了这个故事。 艾伦

战后去了英国,

英国人民仍然对

失败的革命感到不安,所以他们决定把

华盛顿将军的巨幅照片

放在他必须遇到的唯一外屋里,让他有点尴尬

,他们认为他

对乔治华盛顿在外屋的侮辱感到不安,

但他从外屋出来时一点

也不生气,所以

他们说我们会教你去那里看看乔治

华盛顿哦,是的,他说

对他来说是完全合适的地方

你是什么意思他们 说得好他说

没有什么

比看到乔治将军更能让英国人拉屎的了,

所以你可以想象,如果你正

处于紧张的内阁会议中,他

有数百个这样的故事,你将

不得不放松,

所以在他每晚跋涉到

剧院 他的讲故事和他

非凡的幽默感以及他

对引用莎士比亚和诗歌的热爱

他发现了这种戏剧形式,

他在我自己的生活中度过了他的日子

我将永远感激

在我对棒球的非理性热爱中找到了一种游戏形式,

它让我

从春季训练开始到

秋季结束,除了工作之外,还有一些事情可以

占据我的思想和心灵。

这一切都始于我

那时我才六岁,我父亲教我

一边听棒球比赛一边记分的神秘艺术,

这样当

他白天去纽约工作时,

我可以为他

记录那天下午布鲁克林道奇队

比赛的历史。 “只有六岁,

你父亲每天晚上都回家

听你说话,因为我现在

意识到,我以极其详细的方式

讲述了

那天下午刚刚发生的每一局比赛的每一场比赛,

但他让我觉得

我 给他讲了一个他们

认为让你觉得

历史有什么魔力可以

吸引你父亲的注意的神话故事事实上我相信

我从那些夜间会议中学到了叙事艺术

和我父亲在一起,因为

一开始我会非常兴奋,我会

脱口而出道奇队赢了或道奇队输了

,这花了

两个小时的讲述的大部分戏剧性,

所以我终于知道你必须从头到尾讲述一个

故事 最后,我

必须说,当时我对

老布鲁克林道奇队的热爱是如此热烈,以至于

我不得不在第一次忏悔

与棒球有关的罪孽时,

因为道奇队

接球手罗伊·坎帕内拉来到我的

家乡洛克维尔中心朗 岛

,就像它在为我的

第一次圣餐做准备一样,我非常

兴奋,我在 Ebbets Field 以外看到的第一个人

,但

碰巧他在新教教堂里讲话,

当你长大为

天主教徒时,你想如果 你曾经

踏入新教教堂 你会

在门槛上被击毙 所以我哭着去找我

父亲 我们要做什么

他说别担心 他在

教区大厅里说话 我们坐着折叠

椅子 他在说话 关于体育精神,

这不是罪过,但当我那天晚上离开时,

我确信我以某种方式

用我永恒灵魂的生命换取了

与罗伊·坎帕内拉的这一晚,

周围没有我可以买的放纵,

所以我把这个罪过 当

我第一次忏悔时,我立即告诉

神父,他说没问题,这

不是宗教仪式,但

不幸的是,我的孩子又说了些什么

,然后又来了我的秒,我

试图把它夹在说话

太多之间 在教堂里巫术伤害

别人对我的姐妹们很刻薄,他

说你希望伤害谁,我

不得不说,我希望纽约

洋基队的各种球员会摔断胳膊、腿

和脚踝,这样 RET 就可以让

布鲁克林道奇队 可以赢得他们的第一个

世界大赛他说你多久做一次

这些可怕的愿望,

我每天晚上祈祷时都必须说,

所以他说看我告诉你一些事情我

和你一样爱布鲁克林道奇队,但

我向你保证 有一天他们会

公平公正地获胜 不需要希望

伤害和其他人来实现它哦是的

我说但幸运的是我第一次

向热爱棒球的

牧师忏悔虽然

我父亲在我 20 多岁时突然心脏病发作去世了

在我结婚并

生下三个儿子之前,我已经将他的记忆

以及他对棒球的热爱传递给了我的

孩子们,尽管当道奇队抛弃

我们来到洛杉矶时,我对棒球失去了信心,

直到我搬到波士顿成为

了一个非理性的红袜队 球迷,我必须说,

即使是现在,当我拿着季票和儿子们坐在一起时,

有时我可以

闭上眼睛对着太阳,想象

自己再次成为一个年轻女孩,

在我父亲面前看着

我年轻时在草地上的球员

下面是杰基·罗宾逊罗伊·坎帕内拉·皮·

维·里斯和

施耐德我必须说,

当我睁开眼睛

看到我儿子在我父亲曾经坐过的地方时,

我感到了一种无形的

忠诚和爱。 g 我的儿子们向

祖父致敬 让我

用一生的时间回顾

过去,让我从这些大人物身上学习

为生命的意义而奋斗,让我

相信我们在家庭中所爱和失去的私人,以及我们

在我们的家庭中尊重的公众

人物 历史

就像亚伯拉罕·林肯想要

相信的那样,只要我们

承诺讲述和复述

他们的生活故事,历史就可以继续存在谢谢你让我

今天成为那个讲故事的人

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真的很棒谢谢你什么是

机器 了解自身 能否知道

何时需要维修,何时

不需要维修 在制造业

和能源等行业,他们正在使用预测

分析来检测故障迹象,从而

帮助他人 公司节省了数百万美元的

维护费用,因为机器

在损坏之前寻求帮助,而当它们损坏时则不寻求帮助,

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