The morning class that changed everything Alhassan Susso

The summer after my first
year of teaching,

I decided to teach summer school.

Teaching summer school that year
was not the best idea,

not because of the unpleasant experience
that my students and I had,

but because I was expecting my first
child.

As luck would have it,

my wife went into labor the night
before summer school started.

That’s called life.

So I went back to school three days
later,

when she came home with our
daughter.

The bell rang, two students came in.

Five minutes into class,
it was still these two students.

I stopped and asked what was going on,
they both started giggling.

One of them said, “Mister you really want
to know the truth?”

I say, “Ah yeah.”

“Mister, on Monday, there were 22
kids in this class.

When they found out you were the teacher,
they all stopped coming.”

I didn’t laugh because I was stunned.

Stunned and speechless. I asked, “Why are
you two here?”

They’re like, “Oh we need to graduate, this
is the only class holding us up.

So once so we’re good we only have four
weeks to deal with you.”

So I continued with the lesson.

On my two hour train ride home that
evening, I cried like a baby.

I cried because I was asking this
question: why?

Why did I leave my three-day-old
daughter at home

to go try teach students who
apparently did not want my help?

But giving up wasn’t an option for me
because of the reason I became a teacher.

I became a teacher to empower young
immigrants

to live a life that my baby sister did
not have

after she was denied visa to seek
medical treatment in the U.S.,

after medical treatment was exhausted back
home in the Gambia where I came from.

The only question for me was, how do I
change this narrative?

In figuring out how to change my approach,

I came across a quote from an
American motivational speaker

by the name of Jim Rohn.

The quote said, “Success is something
you attract by the person you become.

You don’t pursue it.”

In other words, you cannot provide what
you do not possess.

If I want to have a joyful, kind, and
empathetic classroom,

I need to demonstrate joy, kindness, and
empathy in my classroom.

In trying to figure out how to improve
my own and my students' performance,

I have learned that graduation rates
are linked

more to validating our students'
experiences than test preps.

When I started to take the time to spend
time to learn about my students' stories,

their experiences, their backgrounds,
that’s when our relationship transformed.

Because, you see, my first year of teaching,

while I was jumping up and down
about the French Revolution,

the child in front of me did not eat
breakfast.

I learned my third year of teaching that only
28% of my students were going to college,

and out of that, 50% would
drop out within a year.

When I dig deeper, I discovered that the
rest of them were going to work

at minimum wage jobs.

I knew that was going to lead to a cycle
of intergenerational poverty,

and I knew something had to be done.

Sometimes we are always looking for a
path,

and there are times where you have to go
where there are no paths, and leave a trail.

So I decided to do something
about this, and went on a quest

to figure out how to help my students live
meaningful lives beyond the classroom.

What I have learned led to the creation
of the morning class.

Why is it called the morning class?

Because when I came up with the concept,
I had no name.

Teachers. We know how that works.

One of the students said, “Well, since
it’s gonna happen in the morning,

let’s just call it the morning class.”

You know, I don’t know about you, but
you know at times

when you have students
in your class in which

their friends listen more to them
than they actually listen to you?

Mhmm. Yeah so over the years
I tried to change the name,

everybody still calls it
the morning class.

Let’s just leave it at that.

The morning class is a before-school
program

that empowers kids to live a
meaningful life in the world socially,

professionally, academically and
economically.

It is built on five essential skills:

developing the right attitude and
mindset,

creating a clear goals and
vision for the future,

communication skills, leadership, and
financial management.

Well, we start with mindset and emotional
mastery.

This is when students are able
to uncover their goals,

their beliefs, their vision,
and their values

in order to transform their lives.

This leads to a daily practice of
gratitude and journaling,

and when students are able to uncover
their emotions,

and have the language
to express their feelings,

that’s when their self-worth
begins to take shape.

It is difficult, if not impossible,
to strive for something you cannot see.

So the second component of the program
focuses on developing a clear vision

and goals for the future.

This is done through a dream board
activity,

where students are able to create three
components:

personal goals, professional aspirations,
and social contributions.

And they will gather together to work on
their social contribution goals

to effect change within their communities.

This has led to multiple community
service projects,

such as working at homeless shelters,
planting trees in the Bronx,

and creating a video series to educate
families and to help teens

to combat teen pregnancy,

which video now has been used with
over 500 families in the Bronx.

This third component, and the fourth is
communication and leadership.

This is when students are able to develop
effective communication skills

through speaking, proper eye contact,
and proper handshake,

and they’re also able to uncover their
values and rules that guide their life,

so they could set their own standards
as well as teach others how to treat them.

And the last component is financial
management,

where students go ahead to open bank
accounts, investment accounts,

and build their credit history.

At the core of the program are the
weekend retreats that we take.

Twice a year, we’ll go away for an entire
weekend

for students to reflect and plan their
futures.

The most difficult part of this weekend,
however, is during our forgiveness exercise

because my students come from a lot of
traumatic experiences

and they have they’ve been carrying
a lot of pain with them over the years,

and this would be the first time they
will have the opportunity

to express those emotions.

Over the years, I have heard it all.

“I was raped when I was 12, and today
is the first time I’m talking about it.”

“My father left when I was two and he
still doesn’t want anything to do with me.”

“I’m gay and I’m not sure how to tell my
parents.”

“If my father dies tonight, I will not
shed a single tear.”

How do you forgive somebody who
continues to intentionally hurt you?

These are difficult moments, but what
ends up being special about it

is how students support each other
during the weekend,

throughout the school year and beyond,
because their motto is

“We are in this together.”

And as a teacher, when you have 50 kids
looking at you and seeking answers

to issues you have no answers for,
all I could do is to ensure them

that their past would
not equal their future,

because it is the choices that we make
that determine the lives that we live.

My job then is to get them the proper
counseling that they need.

Upon our return from the weekend retreat,
I connect them with professionals

within and outside of our building,
so that they could get the proper

care that they need in order to
overcome that aspect of their life.

When this program first started,
everybody thought this would not work

because our students are notorious for
coming to school late,

and this takes place an hour
before school.

People said, “Students who don’t come
to school on time,

what makes you think they’re going
to come an hour early?

Doesn’t make any sense.”

I do know one thing though:
we all spend time where we see value.

So the first day of the program, 28
students joined the program,

all – sorry 29 students.

100% graduated, 100% went on
to college.

The second year, 42 students.

All 42 graduated, 40 out of 42 went into
college.

The two that did not were undocumented.

Last year, over 70% of our
graduating seniors

were actually coming to school
an hour early.

As a result, our graduation rate went
from 31% when I started at my school

to 84.9% last year.

While those numbers are great, what I
appreciate more than anything

are the personal transformations I
witness in my students.

Each graduate has a vision board and a
plan for what they want to achieve

and contribute in this world.

Each one of the students who have joined
this program have quit drinking,

binge eating, joining gangs,
doing drugs and dropping out of school.

That was not something I thought about
when this program started,

because the idea was to
empower them financially.

And a quick story on that, I always joke
with my students,

“If you succeed, you have to give me 10%.”

And they’re like, “Sure Mister.”

So two, three years ago, I had
this Yemeni kid who said,

we went through a financial
education seminar

and upon our return from the weekend,
he was like,

“Mister, well you I’ll give you 30% when
I succeed.”

He never went to college, but today he
owns three grocery stores in New York City,

making more money than me.

I still did not receive my 30% yet.

For me at this point, it’s just a feeling
of gratitude

because the day I was announced as the
2019 New York State Teacher of the Year,

over a hundred of my former students
showed up to school within four hours.

They have traveled far and wide.

One of them got on the train from
Baltimore that day to be with us.

She was the first student who entered
my class the first year of teaching.

She said, “Mister, I came to say two things.”

I said, “Yes?”

“Number one, how horrible you were the
first year.”

“Okay.”

“But number two to also tell you something
I’ve never mentioned before.”

I said, “Okay.”

“When I was in your class,
the lessons–”

and by the way I ended up teaching that
kid for three consecutive years,

God bless me, okay –

“When I was in your class, the
lessons I was learning not only helped me,

but they helped transform my family.

Because my mom was battling
cancer when I was in your class

and the lessons I was learning,
I was passing them on to her.”

She said, “My mom passed away six
months ago, but the day she passed away,

the poster hanging over her bed came
from your classroom,

and the poster reads,
‘To live is to suffer.

To survive is to find meaning
in your suffering.’

My mom had meaning in her life
because of you. Thank you so much.”

What then I have come
to realize then is

my students come from
30 different countries,

they come from different backgrounds,
different beliefs, different cultures.

At the end of the day, here is what I
know to be true:

We are all seeking the same thing.

What I want, what you want, what our
students want,

what everybody you will ever meet wants
is one thing: we are all seeking validation.

If we can help to validate our students'
experiences,

their academic world will transform.

Because as students' personal
lives develop, their academics will follow.

Thank you.

第一年教学后的那个夏天,

我决定教暑期学校。

那年教暑期学校
并不是最好的主意,

不是因为
我和我的学生有不愉快的经历,

而是因为我正在期待我的第一个
孩子。

幸运的是,

我的妻子
在暑期学校开始的前一天晚上分娩了。

这才叫人生。

所以三天后我回到学校

,她带着我们的女儿回家了

铃声响起,进来了两个学生。

上课五分钟,
还是这两个学生。

我停下来问发生了什么事,
他们都开始咯咯地笑。

其中一人道:“先生,您真的
想知道真相吗?”

我说:“啊,是的。”

“先生,星期一,这个班有22个
孩子,

当他们发现你是老师时,
他们都不再来了。”

我没有笑,因为我惊呆了。

目瞪口呆,无语。 我问:“
你们两个怎么在这里?”

他们就像,“哦,我们需要毕业,这
是唯一一个阻碍我们的课程。

所以一次我们很好,我们只有四个
星期的时间来处理你。”

于是我继续上课。

那天晚上,在我两个小时的火车回家的路上
,我哭得像个婴儿。

我哭了,因为我在问这个
问题:为什么?

为什么我把三天大的
女儿留在家

里去尝试教那些
显然不想我帮助的学生?

但是
因为我成为一名教师的原因,放弃对我来说不是一个选择。

我成为一名教师,让年轻

移民过上我的小妹妹在美国

寻求治疗的签证被拒绝后没有的生活

在我来自冈比亚的家乡治疗已经用尽之后。

对我来说唯一的问题是,我
该如何改变这种叙述?

在弄清楚如何改变我的方法时,

我看到了一位名叫 Jim Rohn 的
美国励志演说家

的名言。

引用说:“成功是
你成为的人所吸引的东西。

你不追求它。”

换句话说,你不能提供
你没有的东西。

如果我想拥有一个快乐、善良和
善解人意的课堂,

我需要在课堂上表现出快乐、善意和
同情心。

在试图弄清楚如何提高
我自己和我的学生的表现时,

我了解到毕业率

更多地与验证我们学生的
经历有关,而不是考试准备。

当我开始花
时间去了解我学生的故事、

他们的经历、他们的背景
时,我们的关系就发生了转变。

因为,你看,我教书的第一年,

当我在
谈论法国大革命

的时候,我面前的孩子没有吃
早餐。

我在教学的第三年了解到,只有
28% 的学生会上大学,

而其中 50% 会
在一年内辍学。

当我深入挖掘时,我发现
其余的人都将

从事最低工资的工作。

我知道这将导致
代际贫困的循环

,我知道必须做点什么。

有时我们总是在寻找一条

,有时你必须
去没有路的地方,留下一条小路。

所以我决定
为此做点什么,并

继续探索如何帮助我的学生
在课堂之外过上有意义的生活。

我所学到的导致
了早课的创建。

为什么叫早课?

因为当我提出这个概念时,
我没有名字。

老师。 我们知道这是如何工作的。

一位学生说:“好吧,
既然要在早上发生,那

我们就叫它早课吧。”

你知道,我不了解你,但
你知道有时

你班上有学生,

他们的朋友听他们的
比他们真正听你的更多?

嗯。 是的,所以多年来
我试图改变名字,

每个人仍然
称它为早课。

让我们就这样吧。

早课是一项课前课程

,让孩子们能够
在社会、专业、学术和经济上过上有意义的生活

它建立在五项基本技能之上:

培养正确的态度和
思维方式、为未来

制定清晰的目标和
愿景、

沟通技巧、领导力和
财务管理。

好吧,我们从心态和情感
掌握开始。

这是学生
能够发现他们的目标、

他们的信仰、他们的愿景
和他们的价值观

以改变他们的生活的时候。

这导致了感恩和日记的日常练习

,当学生能够发现
他们的情绪,

并有
语言表达他们的感受

时,他们的自我价值就
开始形成了。

即使不是不可能,也
很难为你看不见的东西而努力。

因此,该计划的第二部分
侧重于为未来制定清晰的愿景

和目标。

这是通过梦想板
活动完成的

,学生可以在其中创建三个
组成部分:

个人目标、职业抱负
和社会贡献。

他们将齐聚一堂,努力实现
他们的社会贡献目标,

以在他们的社区内实现变革。

这导致了多个社区
服务项目,

例如在无家可归者收容所工作,
在布朗克斯植树,

以及制作一个视频系列来教育
家庭和帮助

青少年抗击青少年怀孕,

该视频现在已被
500 多个家庭使用 布朗克斯

这第三个组成部分,第四个是
沟通和领导。

这是当学生能够

通过说话、适当的眼神交流
和适当的握手来培养有效的沟通技巧的时候

,他们也能够
发现指导他们生活的价值观和规则,

这样他们就可以设定自己的
标准并进行教学 其他人如何对待他们。

最后一个组成部分是财务
管理

,学生继续开设银行
账户、投资账户

并建立他们的信用记录。

该计划的核心
是我们参加的周末务虚会。

一年两次,我们将离开整个
周末,

让学生反思和规划他们的
未来。 然而

,这个周末最困难的部分
是在我们的宽恕练习中,

因为我的学生有很多
创伤经历

,多年来他们一直
带着很多痛苦

,这将是第一次 他们
将有

机会表达这些情绪。

这些年来,我都听过。

“我 12 岁时被强奸,今天
是我第一次谈论这件事。”

“我父亲在我两岁的时候就离开了,他
仍然不想和我有任何关系。”

“我是同性恋,我不知道如何告诉我的
父母。”

“如果我父亲今晚死了,我不会
流一滴眼泪。”

你如何原谅
继续故意伤害你的人?

这些都是艰难的时刻,但
最终的特别之处

在于学生们
在周末、

整个学年及以后如何相互支持,
因为他们的座右铭是

“我们在一起。”

作为一名老师,当你有 50 个孩子
看着你并寻找

你无法解决的问题的答案时
,我所能做的就是

确保他们的过去
不会等于他们的未来,

因为这是我们做出的选择
决定我们的生活。

我的工作就是为他们提供所需的适当
咨询。

在我们从周末撤退回来后,
我将他们与

我们大楼内外的专业人士联系起来,
这样他们就可以获得

他们需要的适当护理,以
克服他们生活的这方面的问题。

这个项目刚开始的时候,
大家都认为这行不通,

因为我们的学生因迟到而臭名昭著

而且这发生
在开学前一个小时。

人们说:“不准时
到校的学生,

凭什么认为他们会
提前一个小时来?这

没有任何意义。”

不过我确实知道一件事:
我们都花时间在我们看到价值的地方。

所以项目的第一天,有 28
名学生加入了这个项目,

全部——对不起 29 名学生。

100%毕业,100%
上大学。

第二年,42名学生。

42 人全部毕业,42 人中有 40 人进入
大学。

没有记录的两个。

去年,超过 70% 的
应届

毕业生实际上
提前一个小时到校。

结果,我们的毕业率
从我刚开始上学时的 31% 上升

到去年的 84.9%。

虽然这些数字很棒,但我最
欣赏的是

我在学生身上看到的个人转变。

每个毕业生都有一个愿景板和一个
他们想要

在这个世界上实现和贡献的计划。

每一个参加
这个项目的学生都戒酒、戒酒、戒了

黑帮、
戒了毒、戒了学。

这不是我
在这个项目开始时考虑的事情,

因为这个想法是在经济上
赋予他们权力。

一个简短的故事,我总是
和我的学生开玩笑,

“如果你成功了,你必须给我 10%。”

他们就像,“当然,先生。”

所以两三年前,我
有一个也门孩子说,

我们参加了一个金融
教育研讨会

,周末回来后,
他说,

“先生,好吧,当我成功时,我会给你 30%
。 "

他从未上过大学,但今天他
在纽约市拥有三家杂货店,

赚的钱比我还多。

我还没有收到我的 30%。

在这一点上,对我来说,这只是一种
感激之情,

因为在我被宣布为
2019 年纽约州年度教师的那一天

,我的 100 多名以前的学生
在四个小时内就到了学校。

他们走得很远很远。 那天

他们中的一个人从巴尔的摩上了火车
来和我们在一起。

她是第一年进入
我班的第一个学生。

她说:“先生,我是来说两件事的。”

我说是?”

“第一,你第一年有多可怕
。”

“好的。”

“但第二个要告诉你一些
我以前从未提到过的事情。”

我说:“好吧。”

“当我在你们班的时候,课程——

”顺便说一句,我最终连续教了那个
孩子三年,

上帝保佑我,好吧——

“当我在你们班的时候,
我学到的课程不仅帮助了我 ,

但他们帮助改变了我的家庭。

因为
当我在你的课堂上

和我正在学习的课程时,
我妈妈正在与癌症作斗争,所以我把它们传给了她。

她说:“我妈妈六个月前去世了
,但在她去世的那天,

挂在她床上的海报
从你的教室里传来

,海报上写着
‘活着就是受苦

。生存就是在你的生命中找到意义
。 痛苦。' 因为你,

我妈妈的生活才有意义
。非常感谢你。”

然后我意识到

我的学生来自
30 个不同的国家,

他们来自不同的背景、
不同的信仰、不同的文化。

归根结底,我
知道这是真的:

我们都在寻求同样的东西。

我想要什么,你想要什么,我们的
学生想要

什么,你会遇到的每个人想要什么
都是一回事:我们都在寻求验证。

如果我们能够帮助验证学生的
经历,

他们的学术世界将会发生转变。

因为随着学生个人
生活的发展,他们的学业也会随之而来。

谢谢你。