SetbacksObstacles Failures The Secrets To Success

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the year was 2005.

i had just finished my class 12 exams i

had grown up in small town jamshedpur

also known as tata nagar and this would

be the first time i would be leaving

home

i was moving to bombay for my graduation

and as cliche as it may sound

it was a culture shock in itself so as i

was getting used to the new city the

crazy speed the unknown set of people

i also started preparing for my

chartered accountancy

it was not that i loved ca it was

because everybody told me

some perk you’re good in accounts you

should go do ca

so i did three months into it i realized

this is not my cup of tea i was not

enjoying it and i knew i would not enjoy

it further as well

we’d invested good 35 40 000 into this

already

a big sum for the family that i came

from but i was sure i decided i wanted

to quit and i did

i was 18 i was still trying to figure

out what i eventually wanted to do in

life

so i experimented with a few part-time

jobs

and it was during one of these jobs that

i eventually found my calling

i started working with a small

electronic store

selling television so every morning from

7 to 12

i would go and attend college every

evening from 4 to 9

i would go and sell tvs i was making

some two thousand five hundred rupees a

month

and i was absolutely ecstatic people

told me

sampak what are you doing what will your

friends think if they see you

my friends eventually did notice me

there but i was not bothered what they

were thinking

because i was liking what i was doing

this was where i fell in love with the

whole thing of closing sales

this was where i found the high of

talking to people convincing them

and seeing them walking out satisfied

with their purchase

and that’s where i decided i wanted to

make a career in sales and marketing

2008 i enrolled for my mba and as luck

would have it

the financial crash came in a year and a

half later when i was sitting for

placements

the situation was still grim and i

walked out without a placement

another thing that i had not planned for

coming from a typical

indian middle class when you invest

lacks in education

you want to come out with a stable job

but that

did not happen and i moved to delhi i

had a few relatives there

and i started walking into offices with

resume in hand looking for a job

some i got rejected some turned me away

saying i was overqualified

a few months into this a friend’s dad

offered me a job

but it was an industry i had no clue

about

astrology so i landed up selling

software to astrologers

i landed up selling rings and gems and

yantras and rudraksha and crystals

standing in exhibitions

shouting at the top of my voice again

people questioned me

sun perk you deserve to be an mnc some

park you deserve a bigger brand

i knew i did but i knew that my

shot will eventually come so i kept

giving my 100

into this job as well 12 months later

that big break did come in i landed up

an interview with asianpaints

the interviewer was amazed with the

industry i came from

that my whole interview was around the

fact how did you convince astrologers

how did you generate leads how did you

close sales etc etc

there were 10 people sitting for the

interview that day i was the only one

who got through

this began my five awesome years at

asian paints

it laid the foundation for me as a

professional it made me the man that i

was

after that the startup bug bit me i

moved for three great years at ola

followed by two fantastic years at oyo

i was going from strength to strength i

was riding a wave

2019 was a landmark here i started the

year

getting awarded as one of the top 100

marketing sales and growth professionals

in the country

somewhere in the year i also won the

linkedin spotlight 2019 award

it was an award by linkedin recognizing

the top content creators in the country

everything seemed perfect nothing could

have gone wrong

but then 2020 came in covet struck

the vertical i was leading crashed and

in one day

i had almost lost my job my income was

gone

everything seemed topsy-turvy at this

stage

i could have sat craved cried and

lamented on

why me why did this happen to me but i

knew that was not the solution

while i’d been very very active on

linkedin i’d been building a network

on the side but it was never with the

intention of doing something full time

entrepreneurship was never on my cards

but as i stood on the crossroads that

day

something in me said sun park you have

nothing to lose

go ahead take the plunge so this forced

plunge

made me an accidental entrepreneur and

over the last 10 months

i have not taken my foot off the

accelerator

i have been coaching i have been

training i’ve been mentoring

i’ve been consulting and i’ve gone on

and on

in the last 10 months i’ve trained over

12 000 people

i’ve done sessions across five

continents across the globe

the fun fact is whatever income i was

able to reach in 10 years

i’ve been able to rise back to that from

zero

within 10 months itself now coming to

the crux

of what i learnt in these last 15 years

there are seven learnings

one if you do not enjoy something

move on the problem with the world is

people don’t know when to let go

if i had not left chartered accountancy

i might have become a ca

but would i have been happy no so if you

are giving a best shot to something

yet you don’t enjoy it look for

something that you do and move on

second there is no work big or small

irrespective of how small the work is

give it your 100

you will eventually get recognized if i

had sat down and said

why should i be selling tvs or why

should i be standing in exhibitions and

shouting at the top of my voice

i would not have reached where i am

third

always be confident of yourself that’s

what will take you forward

a lot of people will raise questions a

lot of people will point fingers

but you should know what you’re capable

of keep learning

keep re-skilling keep growing but a word

of caution there

understand the difference between

self-confidence and overconfidence

fourth there will be ups and downs

irrespective of

how high you are flying there might be

something that will pull you down

a lot of times you may not be the cause

of it something completely out of your

control would

but then that’s what life is did i

expect to lose my job

no did i expect my income to take a hit

no

it was at this time that i remember my

favorite dialogue from the movie rocky

balboa

life ain’t all about sunshines and

rainbows it’s a very mean and nasty

place

and i don’t care how tough you are

because it’s going to beat you to your

knees

and keep you there permanently if you

let it you

me or nobody gonna hit as hard as life

but it’s not about how hard you can hit

it’s about how hard you can get hit

and keep moving forward it’s about how

much you can take

and keep moving forward that’s how

winning is done

point number five stay positive

don’t cry don’t don’t complain no

one cares

no one bothers so if it’s your problem

only you are going to solve it

nobody is going to do it for you and

that’s been my mantra of success

that’s what has helped me achieve

whatever i have

point number six always

ask this question whenever you’re taking

a major decision

what is the worst that will happen i do

ask that question

and if it is not life-threatening then

go ahead and do it

what is the worst that will happen you

might need to restart you might need to

put in some more effort

you might need to uh do it all over

again

but if it is not life-threatening do it

the problem with the world is

the people think of the failure and give

up

the moment you start thinking of victory

your half

the problem is solved the moment you

start doing it you are

anyways ahead of 98 of the people

point number seven always work on your

foundation

the deeper the roots the the mightier

the storm that you can bear

if your roots are not strong enough even

a gust of wind will uproot you

over the last 10 years i’ve been very

very consciously

building those routes learning from

every organization that i have worked

with

so if you ask me what has my

organizations taught me the first

organization taught me life at the grass

root level it taught me the power of

empathy and the problems that you face

asian paints taught me the whole thing

of systems and processes

ola taught me the whole thing of speed

and agility

oyo taught me how do you manage people

how do you understand people dynamics

when you’re leading a team of 200 plus

all of them combined maybe what i am all

of them combined

make the foundation of who sun park is

all of them combined

help me resurrect myself in 10 months

and that’s where your foundation becomes

important

now you will ask me some park what next

what does the future have in hold i

don’t know

but what i know is there will be

victories there will be setbacks

there will be highs there will be lows

there will be good times

and there will be bad times but one

thing i am 100 sure

irrespective of what happens i will keep

going on and on

end of the day it does not matter how

tough the situation

is end of the day it does not matter

where you come from

if you’re positive if you’re confident

and if you’re striving to do what you

want to

you will eventually reach where you

should be

thank you

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] 那一年是 2005 年。

我刚刚完成了 12 年级的考试,我

在贾姆谢普尔小镇长大,

也被称为 tata nagar,这

将是我第一次离开

家,

我搬到了孟买 我的

毕业虽然听起来很陈词滥调,但

它本身就是一种文化冲击,所以当

我习惯了新城市时,

疯狂的速度,未知的一群人,

我也开始为我的

特许会计师

做准备,并不是我喜欢它 是

因为每个人都告诉我

一些好处,你的账户很好,你

应该去做,

所以我做了三个月,我意识到

这不是我的一杯茶,我不

喜欢它,我知道我也不会再喜欢

它了

我们已经投入了 35 40 000

美元,这对于我来自的家庭来说已经是一笔巨款了

,但我确定我决定

要辞职,我做到了,

我 18 岁,我仍在试图

弄清楚我最终想要做什么 在

生活中,

所以我尝试了一些兼职

工作

我最终找到了我的职业之一,

我开始在一家卖电视的小电子商店工作,

所以每天早上

7 点到 12 点

我会去上大学,每天

晚上 4 点到 9 点

我会去卖电视 我正在做

一些 每月两千五百卢比

,我非常欣喜若狂,人们

告诉

我你在做什么,

如果他们看到你,你的朋友会怎么想,

我的朋友们最终确实注意到了我

,但我并不在意他们

在想什么,

因为我喜欢什么 我正在做

这件事,我爱上

了完成销售的整个过程

在 2008 年的销售和市场营销中,

我报读了我的 mba,幸运的

是,一年

半后,当我准备

实习时,金融危机发生了 我很冷酷,我

没有安置就离开了

另一个我没有计划的事情

来自一个典型的

印度中产阶级当你投资

缺乏教育

你想找到一份稳定的工作

但那

没有发生我搬到德里我

那里有几个亲戚

,我开始拿着

简历走进办公室找工作,

有些人被我拒绝了,有些人拒绝了我,

说我资格

过高几个月后,一个朋友的父亲

给了我一份工作,

但这是我从事的行业

占星术一无所知,所以我开始

向占星家销售软件

我开始销售戒指、宝石、

yantras 和 rudraksha 和水晶

站在展览中

大声喊叫

人们再次质疑我

太阳振作 你应该成为跨国公司 一些

公园你 值得一个更大的品牌,

我知道我做到了,但我知道我的

机会最终会到来,所以我继续

为这份工作付出我的 100

分,以及 12 个月后

那个重大突破确实到来了,我得到了

一次面试 与 asianpaints

的面试官对我来自的行业感到惊讶

,我的整个面试都围绕着

这样一个事实:你是如何说服占星家的

,你是如何产生潜在客户的,你是如何

完成销售的等等等等

,那天有 10 个人参加面试,我是 只有一个

人经历了

这一切,开始了我在

亚洲涂料行业的五年美好时光

它为我作为一名专业人士奠定了基础

它使我成为了我

之后的那个人 创业公司的虫子咬了我 我

在 ola 度过了三年美好的时光,

然后是两个很棒的时光 在 oyo 的岁月里,

我不断壮大,我

正乘风破浪

2019 年是这里的一个里程碑,我开始了这

一年,

被评为该国

营销销售和增长专业人士 100 强之一

在这一年,我还赢得了

LinkedIn 的聚光灯 2019 年奖

这是由linkedin 颁发的奖项,旨在

表彰该国顶级内容创作者

一切似乎都很完美 没有什么

可能出错

但随后 2020 年进入了令人垂涎的 str 哎呀

,我领先的垂直行业崩溃了,

有一天

我几乎失去了工作,我的收入

消失了,

在这个阶段,一切似乎都一团糟,

我本可以坐下来,渴望哭泣并

感叹

为什么我为什么会发生这种情况,但我

知道 不是解决方案,

虽然我在linkedin上非常活跃,但

我一直在建立一个网络

,但从来没有

打算做某事全职

创业从来没有出现在我的卡片上,

但当我站在十字路口时

那天

我心里有话说太阳公园你没有

什么可失去的,

继续冒险,所以这次被迫的暴跌

使我成为了一个意外的企业家,

在过去的 10 个月里,

我没有把脚从加速器上移开,

我一直在执教我一直在

训练我 ‘一直在指导

我一直在咨询,

在过去的 10 个月里我一直在继续我已经培训了超过

12000 人

我已经

在全球五大洲完成

了课程有趣的事实是我

能够获得的任何收入 到 r 10 年中的每一年,

我都能够

在 10 个月内从零恢复到现在

,这是我在过去 15 年中学到的关键,

如果你不喜欢某些东西,那就有七种学习

方法。 世界是

人们不知道什么时候该放手

如果我没有离开特许会计师

我可能会成为一名 CA

但我会很高兴不这样 如果你

对某件事给予了最好的尝试

但你不喜欢它 看起来 对于

你所做的事情,

无论工作有多小,都没有大或小

的工作,

给它你的 100

,如果

我坐下来说

我为什么要卖电视或者我为什么要卖电视,你最终

会得到认可 站在展览中

大声喊叫

我不会达到我

第三的位置

永远对自己充满信心 这

就是你前进

的动力 很多人会提出问题

很多人会指责

但你应该知道什么 你有能力

不断学习

不断提升技能 不断成长 但

要注意

理解

自信和过度自信之间

的区别 有时你可能不是它的原因

,完全超出你控制的事情

会,

但这就是生活的

本来面目 电影中的对话

Rocky balboa

生活不全是阳光和

彩虹,这是一个非常卑鄙和讨厌的

地方

,我不在乎你有多强硬,

因为如果你让它让你

跪下

并让你永久留在那里

我或没有人会像生活一样受到打击,

但这不是关于你能打多少,

而是关于你能受到多大的打击

并继续前进,而是关于

你能承受多少

并继续前进这就是

胜利的方式 完成

第五点 保持积极

不要哭泣 不要哭泣 不要抱怨 没有

人关心

没有人打扰 所以如果这是你的问题

只有你会解决它

没有人会为你做这件事

这一直是我的口头禅

成功帮助我实现了

的第六点

每当你

做出重大决定时总是

问这个问题 最坏的情况是什么 我确实会

问这个问题

,如果它不会危及生命,那就

继续吧

做最坏的事情你

可能需要重新开始你可能需要

付出更多的努力

你可能需要重新做

一次

但是如果它不会危及生命就这样

做世界的问题是

当你开始想到胜利的时候,

人们会

想到失败并放弃 威力 呃

,如果你的根不够坚固,你可以承受的风暴

在过去的 10 年里

,即使一阵风也会把你连根拔起 我的

组织教会了我什么 第一个

组织教会了我在基层的生活

它教会了我

同理心的力量以及你面临的问题

亚洲涂料教会了

我系统和流程

的全部内容 ola 教会了我速度的全部内容

和 agility

oyo 教会了我你如何管理人员

当你领导一个 200 人以上的团队时,你如何理解人员动态

帮助我在 10 个月内复活自己

,这就是你的基础变得重要的地方,

现在你会问我一些公园

接下来会发生什么我

不知道,

但我知道那里有 会有

胜利 会有挫折

会有高潮 会有低谷

会有好

时光 也会有坏时光 但有一

件事我 100 确信

无论发生什么我都会继续

前进并且在

一天结束时它确实如此 无论情况多么

艰难,

无论

你来自哪里,

如果你是积极的,如果你有信心

,如果你努力做你

想做的事,

你最终会到达你

应该

感谢的地方 你