From a 95 job to 247 travel

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okay firstly i want to apologize

for my complete lack of experience but

welcome to my ted talk

i honestly never thought i would be

saying this and not cracking a joke

but well here we are hi i’m rindah

sharma an average indian woman

and an aspiring travel blogger coming to

you live from spiti

i honestly wish um i was giving this

talk in person so that i would be able

to interact with

all of you lovely people but this works

out fine as well because

this is where i actually started

my journey from and and i’m actually

giving my talk my ted talk here

every story has a beginning and my

beginning dates back to when i was a

child and i used to travel with my

parents to

these hill stations across india i grew

up in a school surrounded by kids who

were

able to travel the world with their

parents and i was great for them but

somehow

knowing my humble beginnings and where i

was coming from

i never felt like i was in a place to

even dream

of traveling the world so the mountains

in india were my safe place

i grew up as a very passionate kid i was

always very enamored by the outdoors i

loved being outdoors

i was always either into sports or i

really like to travel

even though it was with my parents so

when i graduated from school

i was lucky enough to get admission in a

college that also had a campus in shimla

and when i got to know that i knew that

was something i had to pursue and

honestly that was the perfect

opportunity for me to get out of my

comfort zone

and i chose that campus solely with a

mindset of

being able to stay in the mountains

utilize that time to

be independent uh be on my own and also

start traveling

without my parents first two years of my

college were

not that easy i was in an environment i

was not

very flexible and very open to seeing

women doing um unusual things

especially like travelling and trust me

back then traveling was not normal

hardly anyone from my college used to

travel

except these few guys who were already

from himachal

and it was also very difficult to

convince my parents to let me go with a

group of people they didn’t know

to a place they hadn’t been to so i

spent the first two years of my

engineering just waiting for that

perfect opportunity

cut to my fifth semester i started to

realize that time was running out

and i was closer to the mountains then

then i would have ever been

and i also had like this list of places

that i had to have to cover before

my college would end so i got together

eight people

to go on this trek called triune i’m

sure a lot of you have heard about it

so that i would be able to convince my

parents to let me go

and also have my college give me

permission to leave when i started the

trek

i instantly felt in connection with my

surroundings

and with the nature i was so happy i

felt so confident

and you know you miss a lot of things

when you’re traveling with your parents

when you’re just

kids and all these things were starting

to come to me as soon as i started this

trip

i reached the top and i instantly felt

so accomplished

i was also separated from the rest of my

group so it was only me with

two other friends of mine 15 minutes

into reaching the top

we were stuck in a hail storm that did

not end for 45 minutes

after which it started to snow by this

point i had no idea where the rest of my

group was i was

very worried for all of them a lot of

the camps that uh the people that were

already there had set up

were torn because of the hail storm we

had nowhere to stay

uh the little tea stall that we had

taken shelter in the guy decided to

close and head back down to dharamshala

so we had literally nowhere to stay

and mind you this was my first trek this

was my first trip

without the blanket of protection of my

parents

and the planning and everything that

goes behind planning a vacation

that i had no idea up until this point

but the responsibility that came with

this experience

was definitely i was getting a high off

of

i remember then in the morning when we

decided to leave

very urgently because i knew the weather

was going to get even worse

uh that particular day and we had just

begun to

climb down when uh the weather started

to clear out

and the clouds in front of the dholadars

started to move away

and i had never seen such mountains

before

i i still don’t have the words to

describe

the feeling i got when i saw those

mountains

and that is when i knew

i had to had to make traveling a very

very big part of my life

i loved this feeling of responsibility

this feeling of being independent solely

responsible for your own safety

and continue to chase these experiences

now it was time for me to graduate i was

desperately trying to figure out how to

travel full-time

if there was a job that would allow me

to travel

every month or every week for that

matter how i could convince my parents

that i was so passionate about traveling

i wanted to do it

full time but honestly i got no answers

i went nowhere with my research

this was year 2017 when we only had

a handful of influencers and people were

not very open about

their sources of income and how they

were able to travel

but nevertheless i did not stop trying i

did not stop contacting people

on instagram on and on multiple websites

and

this is when i got in touch with this

star photographer

uh anunnae who i began talking on

instagram

and somehow convinced him to take me on

on this trip to spiti that he was

planning that winter i was so desperate

to reach the mountains i basically

agreed to go with five complete

strangers

to a minus 25 degree no networks with me

and since this year i had graduated and

i was not working

i was still trying to figure out stuff

and i was generous enough to sponsor the

trip for me because i literally had no

money

as long as i was able to help him out

with his work since he was already an

influencer back then

he did have a couple of collaborations

that he wanted help with while i was on

this trip

while i was working with him i saw this

whole new world of careers

this whole new world of being

influencers and actually traveling full

time

uh and honestly i knew then this is

something i had to explore

i continued to work with anunna since

that trip to spiti

i began doing social media management

for a couple of clients that we had back

then

and with the money that we earned we

took a couple of trips across india

we then decided to move to dubai to

expand this list of clients that we had

and you’re probably wondering why dubai

no taxes

better work culture and closer to the

rest of the world i

moved to dubai in march 2018 and i know

you’re probably wondering

this was too soon right um that’s what

honestly i felt as well

but uh this this was a risk that i

decided to take for myself

because i was honestly not able to see

anything that was happening for myself

back in india for the next two to three

months

um i continued to work freelance on

social media management

and travel as well and if this sounds

perfect

it wasn’t i gradually learned that i was

not too comfortable traveling and

working because

i was not okay with the fact that

something was interrupting my trips

and i was somehow not about this kind of

life

about this um uncertainty of how much

money i’m going to be making the next

month or if a client would stay on

uh the next month or not and i wanted

some stability in my sources of income

so i decided to start looking for a job

two months

of countless interviews and a lot of

hard work

i finally landed a job with gsk and

started working

in august 2018 and i remember thinking

to myself back then

um oh you know it’s okay i have

responsibilities

i have bills to pay um it’s okay if you

know even if i’m able to travel

once a year it’s fine at least i’ll be

able to do something at least i’ll be

able to travel

once it’s fine and i remember thinking

all this with a very heavy heart

because this is obviously not something

i was

looking forward to do while on the job i

try to hack my way into

maximizing the amount of travel that i

was able to do with the amount of leaves

that i was

given in a year and as soon as my

probation period ended which is

for about six months uh we started

traveling

in feb uh in 2019 and ended up traveling

to 12 countries that year

we did not miss one long weekend every

public holiday we combined with our

annual leaves and honesty just left

we prioritized traveling that year to

the max

so much so that i gave up spending time

with my family

meeting my friends or anything else that

honestly that i like doing because

traveling was the only thing that was on

my mind that year we were working

full-time jobs traveling the world and

trying to grow our instagram accounts to

now

300 and 400k followers and this way we

also

were able to establish multiple sources

of income for ourselves

i’ve obviously missed out on a lot of

important information here

so let’s get into it why did i decide to

not travel full-time

i had responsibilities i also had bills

to pay

and uncertainty was something

i have never honestly looked forward to

back then

since being influencers was not that

popular um i had no

idea how to start and how

brand collaborations work or how you can

actually earn through instagram so i

decided

to work on this on the side till the

time i figure stuff out for myself

and my parents did not approve of

traveling full-time at all

how did we end up travelling so much

with full-time jobs

i’m asked this question all the time on

instagram on how i’m able to manage

a nine-to-five job with traveling this

much and honestly

where there is a will there is a way is

always my answer 2019

was a year where i prioritized myself

when my work started to get noticed on

instagram uh that’s when things started

to pick up

i started receiving um collaborations

from brands and that is when i fully

understood

how you could actually travel full-time

and how you don’t need to

be working freelance in order to travel

i now have

enough experience with traveling and

blogging that i no longer

require my nine-to-five job now let’s

talk about what you guys can learn from

my story

number one try to have or develop a

sellable skill

this will help you figure out how you

can earn on the side

and also not be location dependent

number two

be patient and be passionate we often

forget

the things that we really like to do or

the things that we’re passionate about

when we are so busy trying to build a

life for ourselves

it is very important to have something

that you’re truly passionate about

because this definitely helps you stay

motivated

no matter what you’re doing if you’re

not able to do what you love doing now

you will in the future so figure out

ways you can start

achieving it and work towards it keep

small goals for yourself

and timelines that you want to achieve

those goals by and start working towards

those goals

number three start prioritizing your

life 2019 for me

was self-care 101 because i cheated my

job as my job

and tried very very hard not to confuse

my personal

and my work life while i worked towards

building a career for myself

i did not forget what i was passionate

about let’s start normalizing not

killing ourselves for a job

let’s start normalizing and prioritizing

taking all our leaves

and let’s start prioritizing ourselves

and lastly

i know this one will be a little cheesy

but if you love something purely enough

things will definitely fall into place

all you need to do

is be passionate and be ready to take

the risks for yourself

because thank you everyone for listening

to my talk

hope i have been able to inspire you to

build your own path

be passionate take risks and not go

after having a normal life

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you

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好的,首先我想

为我完全缺乏经验而道歉,但

欢迎来到我的 ted 演讲,

老实说,我从没想过我会

这么说,而不是在开玩笑,

但是我们在这里,嗨,我是 rindah

sharma,一个普通的印度女人

一位有抱负的旅游博主

从斯皮蒂来到你身边

我的旅程从和我实际上是

在做我的演讲我的TED演讲

每个故事都有一个开始,我的

开始可以追溯到我还是个

孩子的时候,我曾经和

父母一起去

印度各地的这些山站旅行,我

长大了 一所学校的孩子们

能够和他们的父母一起环游世界

,我对他们很好,但

不知何故

知道我卑微的出身和我来自哪里

所以印度的山

是我安全的地方

我是一个非常热情的孩子 我

总是非常迷恋户外活动 我

喜欢户外活动

我总是喜欢运动,或者我

真的很喜欢旅行,

即使是和父母一起旅行所以

当我从学校毕业时,

我很幸运地被

一所在西姆拉也有校园的大学录取

在我的

舒适区

,我选择了那个校园,只是抱着

能够留在山里的心态

利用这段

时间独立,嗯,我一个人,也

开始在

没有父母的情况下旅行我大学的前两年

并不容易我 在一个环境中,

我不是

很灵活,也不太愿意看到

女性做一些不寻常的事情,

尤其是旅行,相信我,

那时旅行并不正常

,我大学里几乎没有人曾经

旅行

过 pt这几个已经

来自喜马偕尔的人

,也很难

说服我的父母让我和

一群他们不认识的人一起

去一个他们没去过的地方,所以我

花了头两年 我的

工程只是在等待那个

完美的机会

切到我的第五个学期我开始

意识到时间已经不多了

,我离山更近了,

那时我会去的

,我也喜欢

这个我必须拥有的地方列表 在

我的大学结束之前进行报道,所以我召集了

个人一起进行这次名为 triune 的跋涉

大学允许我

离开 当我开始

徒步旅行时

我立刻感觉到与

周围环境

和大自然的联系 我很高兴 我

感到如此自信

而且你知道

当你和父母一起旅行时你会错过很多事情

当你 只是

孩子和人

当我开始这次

旅行时,这些事情

就开始出现

在我

身上 到达山顶后,

我们陷入了一场冰雹风暴,

持续了 45 分钟,

之后开始下雪

,我不知道我的团队的其他成员

在哪里 那个已经在那里的人

因为冰雹风暴而被撕裂了我们

无处可住

我们

在那个家伙那里躲避的小

茶摊决定关闭并返回达兰萨拉

所以我们真的无处可去 留下

来提醒你这是我的第一次徒步旅行这

是我第一次

没有父母保护的毯子

和计划以及

计划假期背后的一切,

直到这一点我才知道,

但责任是 ca 有

这种经历

的我绝对是我兴奋不已

我记得那天早上我们

决定非常紧急地离开,

因为我知道那天

天气会变得

更糟,我们刚刚

开始

爬下时 呃天气

开始放晴

,dholadars前面的云

开始移开

,我以前从未见过这样的山,我

仍然无法用语言来

形容

我看到这些山时的感觉

,那就是当 我知道

我必须让旅行

成为我生活中非常重要的一部分

我喜欢这种责任感

这种独立的感觉 只

为自己的安全负责

并继续追求这些经历

现在是我毕业的时候了

拼命想弄清楚如何

全职旅行,

如果有一份工作可以让我

每个月或每周都去旅行,那

我怎么能说服我的

父母我是如此的热情 吃了关于旅行

我想全职做,

但老实说,我没有得到任何答案

我的研究无处可去

这是 2017 年,当时我们只有

少数有影响力的人,人们

他们的收入来源以及他们如何

能够做到并不十分开放 去旅行

,但我并没有停止尝试,我

并没有停止

在 Instagram 上和多个网站上

与人们联系,

这就是我与这位

明星摄影师

uh anunnae 取得联系的时候,我开始在 Instagram 上交谈,

并以某种方式说服他接受我

在这次他计划的那个冬天去斯皮蒂的旅行中,

我非常渴望

去山上,我基本上

同意和五个完全

陌生的零下25度的人一起去没有网络和我一起

,因为今年我毕业了,

我没有工作

我 仍在努力解决问题

,我很慷慨地为我赞助了

这次旅行,因为我真的没有

,只要我能够帮助他

完成他的工作,因为他已经

当时他是一个有影响力的人,

他确实有过几次合作

,当我在

这次旅行

时,我和他一起工作时,他需要帮助

老实说,我当时就知道这

是我必须探索的

事情,自从

那次斯皮蒂之行以来

,我

继续

anunna 合作 在印度旅行之后,

我们决定搬到迪拜以

扩大我们拥有的客户名单

,您可能想知道为什么迪拜

不征税

更好的工作文化和更接近

世界其他地方我

于 2018 年 3 月搬到迪拜,我知道

你可能想知道

这还为时过早,嗯,

老实说,我也有这种感觉,

但是,这是我

决定为自己承担的风险,

因为老实说,我看不到

任何快乐的事情

在接下来的两到三个月里,为自己回到印度

嗯,我继续从事

社交媒体管理

和旅行方面的自由职业者,如果这听起来很

完美,

那不是我逐渐了解到我

对旅行和工作不太舒服,

因为

我 有

什么东西打断了我的旅行

,我不同意

这种生活,

我不确定下个月我能赚多少钱,

或者客户是否会留下来

一个月与否,我希望

我的收入来源有一些稳定,

所以我决定开始找一份工作,经过

两个月

的无数次面试和大量的

努力,

我终于在 gsk 找到了一份工作,并

于 2018 年 8 月开始工作,我记得当时在想

那时对我自己,

嗯,哦,你知道没关系,我有

责任,

我有账单要付,嗯,如果你知道也没关系,

即使我能够每年旅行

一次,至少我

可以做一些事情,至少我 ‘二

一旦一切顺利,我就可以旅行了,我记得我

怀着沉重的心情思考这一切,

因为这显然不是

我在工作中

期待做的事情

与我在一年内获得的休假数量有关

,一旦我的

试用期结束

,大约六个月,嗯,我们从

2019 年 2 月开始旅行,最后

去了 12 个国家,那一年

我们没有错过 每个公共假期都有一个长周末

我们加上

年假和诚实刚刚离开

我们将那一年的旅行放在首位,

以至于我放弃了

与家人

会面我的朋友或其他

任何我喜欢做的诚实的事情,因为

旅行 是

那一年我唯一想到的事情,我们

在世界各地从事全职工作,并

试图将我们的 instagram 帐户增加到

现在的

300 和 400k 追随者,这样我们

也是一个 能够为自己建立多种收入来源

我显然在这里错过了很多

重要信息,

所以让我们开始讨论为什么我决定

不全职旅行

我有责任我也有账单

要支付

而且不确定性是什么

那时我从来没有真正期待过,

因为有影响力的人并不那么

受欢迎,嗯,我不

知道如何开始以及

品牌合作如何运作,或者你如何

通过 instagram 实际赚钱,所以我

决定

在这方面工作直到

那时 我为自己弄清楚了一些事情

,我的父母根本不赞成

全职

旅行,我们是怎么

结束全职工作的,

我一直在 Instagram 上被问到这个问题

,关于我如何能够 管理

一个朝九晚五的工作,旅行这么

多,老实说

,有意愿的地方总有办法是

我的答案 2019

年是我优先考虑自己的一年,

当我的工作开始在

Instagram 上引起注意时 Hings 开始好转

我开始收到

来自品牌的 um 合作,那是我完全

理解你如何真正全职旅行

以及你如何不需要

为了旅行而成为自由职业者的时候

我现在有

足够的旅行经验和

写博客,我不再

需要朝九晚五的工作,现在让我们

谈谈你们可以从

我的故事中学到什么,

第一个尝试拥有或发展一项

可销售的技能,

这将帮助您弄清楚如何

才能赚取额外的收入

不依赖位置

第二

要有耐心和热情 我们经常

忘记我们真正喜欢做的事情或

我们热衷的事情

当我们忙于

为自己建立生活时,

拥有一些东西非常重要

你真正充满热情,

因为这绝对可以帮助你保持

动力,

无论你在做什么,如果你

不能做你现在喜欢做的事情,

你将来会做,所以想办法让你坚持下去

实现它并朝着它努力的艺术

为自己保留小目标

和你想要实现

这些目标的时间表,并开始朝着

这些目标努力

第三个开始优先考虑你的

生活 2019 年对我来说

是自我保健 101,因为我把我的

工作当作我的工作来欺骗

并非常努力地不混淆

我的个人

生活和工作生活,同时我努力

为自己建立事业

让我们开始优先考虑自己

,最后

我知道这会有点俗气,

但如果你足够纯粹地热爱某件事,那么

事情肯定会落实到位,

你需要做的

就是充满热情并准备好

为自己承担风险,

因为谢谢大家

听我的演讲

希望我能够激励你

建立自己的

道路充满热情去冒险而不是

追求正常 l 生活

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